I was a graduate student in Yale CS 1972-1975, when Kevin was an undergraduate. He all loved him, and no one was more dedicated. I clearly remember on several occasions showing up at the terminal room to find it empty except for Kevin sleeping with his head next to the keyboard because he had been working all night. He was friendly and engaging, which I still remember 50 years on.

Always smiling. Taking such good care of Margie when she had her surgery and then in rehab. SEnding us all updates. So caring. Margie - he adored you.
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Thinking of Kevin today. Remembering our lunch with Margie in the village the last time we saw him. Carrying cameras and lenses, taking pictures, adoring Margie, warm, engaging. A mensch.

I googled Kevin yesterday, just out of curiosity and of course not realizing what I was about to find. Kevin was at Yale when I was in eighth grade. I talked my way into getting access to the student computer at Yale, where I met Kevin. We became friends, and of course he helped me with various computer activities and questions during the year or more I hung out there after school. I saw him very rarely after that -- maybe once or twice around 1980 but I'm not sure -- but he's not someone I can ever forget. My condolences to his family and friends.

A few Kevinism's:
I'm in RTC mode (refuse to care, usually about where to go for lunch)
If I'm lyin' I'm dyin'
Oh, I'm just a good ol' country boy
Ya gotta come back to Brooklyn!

Kevin was a wonderful friend and colleague. I miss him terribly.

Hello friends of Kevin. I finally read all your beautiful stories and remembrances. Love them. I have so many to share! For now I just want to say I love Kevin forever. He is a blessing in my life. What a mighty good man! A mensch. My love. My partner. Forever grateful. Margie

I am sorry to learn of Kevin's passing. We worked together in 2014-2015 and I appreciated his "can do" attitude. We both shared in the delight of a meeting that would begin and end on time; despite the incredibly demanding schedule, Kevin had a smile and a kind word for his coworkers. He made the work a little easier and the workplace brighter for all.

I had to search awhile to find a photo of all of us because you were always BEHIND the camera, recording your whirlwind of a social life with Margie, then sharing the photos the day after. When Maya asked for a good camera before I thought she was old enough, you argued strenuously that her "photographer's eye" should be taken seriously and nurtured. When we finally got her a camera, you gave her a beautiful book of lessons and offered to go shooting with her sometime. Such kindness and generosity.

I will remember you happy, relaxed, easy in your own skin. You and Margie found each other against the odds and packed every day with love, joy, and adventure. You gave the rest of us a contact high! We will miss you greatly; rest in peace.

I was shocked to hear of Kevin's untimely death. The shock was soon replaced by a deep sadness and sense of loss. I met Kevin 25 years ago at Ovid Technologies where we were members of the same software development team. He was both a valued colleague and a close friend. We went through so much together: family crises, illnesses, death and divorce. Through it all, Kevin was always there for me, providing support and perspectives I may not have been aware of. Kevin had what the Irish call the gift of "gab." Given a subject, any subject, he could talk...extensively... about it. But he was also a very good listener and a wonderful friend. Kevin treated everyone with respect and compassion and lived his life with dignity and integrity. I still cannot believe he is gone, although he will live in my memories for as long as I live.
My heart goes out to Marjorie and the rest of Kevin's family. Rest in peace, my friend.

My heart is filled with love for my beloved friends, Margie and Kevin. Kevin, you were such a beautiful being. You touched me with your grace and love and generosity and good humor. Rest, my dear Kevin. Your love shines on in my heart.

To a special, funny, compassionate man who made our dear friend Margie happy. Our hearts are full. Sending love to his family and especially to Margie.

RIP Kevin Thomas. I am sad after hearing this news about his death. I met Kevin while working at Ovid. He was a well-respected intellectual with a great and joyful heart. My sincere condolence goes to his family and friends. He forever will be in your hearts.

Kevin was a real mensch. When i was President of CBID and MC'ing our annual dinner, Kevin was the DJ. It was always a challenge to get everyone seated for the program after the cocktail hour, but Kevin was so helpful and played the motion picture intro music so that everyone knew we wanted them to seat. That was 5 years ago probably now---i hadn't seen him much since except for various political functions. A couple months ago we ran into each other on the morning commute and chatted about politics like old friends. He was such a joyous and wonderful person - i truly mourn his sudden and untimely death and my deepest condolences go out to Marjorie Fine and his entire family.

You took over the leadership of DSG and became a shining light to those of us trying to move forward and leave our pain behind. I am saddened by your untimely passing, and leave heartfelt condolences to your family, friends and all who loved you. RIP Kevin and may you be an inspiration to all the lives you touched.

I met Kevin on several occasions at photography events. Always enjoyed the company of this gentleman.

I am so sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. He was a great man, and an esteemed colleague at Health Republic. We were honored to attend the Governor's Ball together with some colleagues in 2015, and Kevin took lots of pictures and we all had a great time. He will be missed.

Ann Gael

I'm SO sad for you and for Kevin. You so totally deserved the happiness of being together with him. He was aware of the magnificence and worthiness of you, as we discussed you together. Having lost the love of my life rather suddenly a year and a half ago, I feel I know a bit of what you're feeling. If you need anything from me, let me know. I know there's really nothing to do or say right now, but give hugs. I'm sending you one. Let me know when I can give you a real one.

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Maryse Pearce

I don't have any pictures of Kevin Thomas and me; most of our 16-year friendship existed before/ outside of social media. A typical Friday or Saturday night in high school would go like this: Party Club would be lounging around 438 12th St, eating Annie's mac & cheese, watching Popular or Sailor Moon. Kevin would come home late from work, kiss Lissie on the forehead, put on music, tell us about his day. In the morning, he would make turkey bacon, down it with pineapple juice (what was it with the pineapple juice?), be out the door before we were fully awake.

One time, he started calling me "Sue" and I started calling him "Dad" -- I don't remember the origins of those nicknames.

One time, he DJed our friend's bat mitzvah and it was soooooo weeeeird to have Lissie's dad as the DJ.

One time, I baked him a pineapple upside down cake to thank him for something (can't remember what) because I knew it was his favorite.

One time, I called him when I was scared to come out to my parents and he reassured me that in the grand scheme of parent problems, your kid being gay should be a non-issue.

One time, I asked him for help buying a new laptop and he gave me wayyyy more advice than I anticipated.

One time, when my brother died, he came over and took Zohar shopping for ingredients to make shakshuka so that we could all have breakfast.

He was a really good pretend dad to me, and an even better real dad to Lissie Thomas and Stephen Thomas. Thank you, Kevin.

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Kareen Facey·

Hey Kevin...I have a quick project related question...

Sure Kareen...but first let me ask when will you wise up and move to Brooklyn?

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Jay Brooks

Just learned about my cousin Kevin Thomas, passing. He was a wonderful, smart and warm person. The world is not a better place without him. I'm grateful for his visit earlier this year. We shared a lot of laughs that visit. Gonna miss you!

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Marsha Grant

Rest In Peace, dear Kevin. You shall be missed forever. You have touched so many lives in ways that no one but you could. How lucky I feel that you were such a big and powerful part of my life.

Shannon Pighee

Since hearing the news yesterday, I've been trying to find the words to express the deep sadness I feel over the loss of my former co-worker and friend Kevin Thomas and I am simply at a loss...

All I know is, I'm heartbroken, humbled and thankful to have had the opportunity to know him! Rest in Paradise my friend.

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Zoe Moffitt‎

That quick mind, that great smile and the warmth and the twinkle in his eye, and the great generosity and spirit he shared with so many- it is so hard to think that Kevin has gone on. It has been many years, but I will always be grateful for the times we all spent together and our conversations as parents and friends, as we were handling the challenges around us, being grateful for our children's growth and creating great celebrations with his wonderful music and dance and good spirit. He will be so missed - even his wit in Facebook. Prayers for Kevin's journey and for Lissie and Stephen to treasure all the good they experienced with Kevin and know these joys will be a part of them forever.

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Sally Charnow

Marjorie Fine, my heart weeps for you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Kevin, presente! Shabbat shalom.

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M Starita Boyce‎

Some people are blessed to have a love that last beyond a lifetime; that is Kevin and Marjorie. Thinking of you! — feeling heartbroken.

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I sang with Kevin in the Park Slope Singers. He was a kind, generous man and his voice and presence will be missed. I am deeply sorry for your sudden loss. It breaks my heart.

Devastated by the news of Kevin's passing. Margie and Kevin's love was a joy and a delight to everyone who was with them. Kevin was warm, funny, generous, kind to everyone he met. I will never forget his wearing a Santa Claus hat to my holiday party. That! Was Kevin. Margie, you are in my thoughts every minute and you have more than a village, you have a cosmos, of friends who will be with you every step of your way. Much love.

Most of you do not know me, but Kevin and I were roommates at Yale as undergraduates in the mid- to late-70's. We used to say we were "heaven sent" since we could not tolerate living with any one else, and loved living together in St. Elmo's, an outlier "annex" to the main residential College, Timothy Dwight (or "TD") where "misfits" like us could live and study in peace. He had already re-located there alone (and was a year, maybe two, ahead of me as I recall) and, when I had the opportunity to move out of my dorm room living with 3 other guys, I was delighted to meet my new roommate, Kevin Thomas. I was originally a Math & Physics Major, and he a Computer Science geek. We were a perfect fit, but he certainly brought more into my life than I imagine I did to his. Man, we used to play some great music, and we loved Earth, Wind, & Fire! I turned him on to Led Zeppelin and he turned me on to Chaka Khan; it was like that-- symbiosis, not just in music, but in everything. He ran speaker cables to the hallway bathrooms, and installed speakers there, so we could hear music when showering, etc. It was heaven to be so compatible, and to live with someone so creative, and a genuinely and profoundly nice guy! He showed me how to record on reel-to-reel tapes (the state-of-the-art back then) and made some killer mixed tapes that he would play at the many parties we attended at Yale. No surprise that, many years later when we again finally reunited at a Yale Reunion in 2003 (where I first met his ex-wife and children, all grown up like mine would soon be), I found out he was a part-time DJ and held an annual party called the Ruckus every Fall in Brooklyn, his home.

But back then, I was both shocked and pleased when he said he was leaving Yale to pursue a career in NYC in computer programming without the need for a degree (just yet). Kindred spirits that we were, and like him, I also left Yale to pursue other adventures, and also obtained my degree many years later (I might not have, if I had not needed it to go to Law School in my 40's, LOL). The decades passed, and we were out of touch until that fateful reunion in '03 in New Haven (fateful, in that I was living abroad and had been ambivalent about the expense of coming to a Yale reunion weekend all the way from Europe). We were ecstatic to see each other again after so many years! Well, we had finally reconnected and we now stayed in touch and saw each other again for our 2013 Yale Reunion (I have posted some photos on FB), and I spent some time with him in Brooklyn before and after the reunion, and since. I repeatedly invited him to visit me in Miami Beach but he never did.

After years of instigating me (and my life's activities not permitting it before), I finally got to go to a Ruckus and had a blast, of course! I met Margie and some of his friends and felt that we now had a chance to stay connected and see each other more often; I so looked forward to the next Ruckus and reunion. We now stayed in touch often, calling each other spontaneously, and for birthdays, etc. We commiserated when needed, and shared many things friends do. I gave him a custom-made t-shirt I had made for his next-to-last birthday that combined "BK" (for Brooklyn) with the image of double record players DJ's used to use into an abstract skull shape; I also have one like it. He loved it and sent me a photo of him wearing it. He was my best friend. I miss you terribly, Kevin! I know that Heaven is dancing and listening to some kick-ass music now!

M Dove Kent

Rest in power and in peace Kevin Thomas. We love you so dearly Marjorie Fine.

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I know I cannot say something that has not already been said, but I must add my voice to so many who note Kevin's uplifting way of being and his incredible intellect. We worked together at Ovid for many years and it was always a joy discussing a challenge, knowing Kevin would be earnest and fair and creative. In recent years, we went on to share FB posts, many about politics. I always looked forward to his posts, not knowing they would be his last.  Love to all.

I met Kevin when I first attended the DSG Meetup. I was going through a huge change in my life, and was only looking back. As I was sitting with another first-timer, he shared words of wisdom. He said you'd look forward a little bit, look back, slightly more forward again, look back again, and then the time to look forward and future will increase day by day. You may not believe but it will change. I was reflecting his words recently, as the time I look forward to my future has increased a bit lately, and I was not looking back.  It was with great sadness I heard the news.  Thank you for organizing the DSG Meetup. 
RIP.

I'm shocked and saddened to hear the sudden passing of Kevin. I just met him recently at the beginning of October through the Divorce Meetup group. He was very informative and supportive. I can tell from the brief times I'm seen him that he had a sense of humor also. Kevin will be missed.

We sang together in chorus. He had a strong, beautiful voice. He was friendly, kind and welcoming. He had a great smile. He spoke up and asked good questions. He had strong opinions and was vocal and articulate. He was generous with his time and many areas of expertise. I liked him more and more. I learned from his questions. I was inspired by his dedication to the chorus and to choral improvement. I enjoyed speaking with him in the breaks. I felt I was just getting to know him. We spoke at rehearsal just last Monday. It is shocking and deeply saddening that he is gone, so abruptly, from us. I extend my deep condolences to all who knew and loved him. His parting is a heartbreak.

I sang with Kevin in Park Slope Singers. I wish I had gotten to know him better. I am shocked and deeply saddened.

Sad to hear of Kevin's passing. In reading alI the tributes I am touched by the stories of the many loving family and friends in his life, his joy in singing, dancing, photography and his intellectual curiosity. I did not really know him other than singing with him at the Park Slope Singers. May your memories and love sustain all who were close to him 'til you meet again on the other side.

Marla was my best friend and Kevin was her big brother. I hope wherever they are, they are together. There are no words to express this unfathomable death. No parents should have to bury two children. My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Kevin universe, his family, his partner, his friends, co-workers, etc. It is clear how much he was loved and admired. I will always remember him as a warm, caring, and gentle soul - the big brother Marla was so proud of and loved. RIP Kevin!

Kevin was such a warm, witty, and lovely man. I am shocked and heartbroken at this enormous loss. Sending my deepest condolences to Kevin's family, Margie, and all who loved him.

I didn't know Kevin long, but he left a lasting impression. So surreal, praying God's comfort for the family and loved ones in this difficult time.

All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.
2 Corinthians 1:3-4

It has taken the last few days of sadness to flood my mind with how many impactful memories I have of Kevin, from my childhood friendship, meals and classes in his home, DJing my 16th birthday, and then the day I sat in a Park Slope restaurant over hearing Marjorie talking about this a amazing guy she'd just started dating (not know for a while of course I knew exactly who she spoke of), the beautiful wedding of Lindia and Kevin Jenkins, and the always poignant thoughts shared on Facebook. In this sadness, I am happy to think of the way our lives weaved together here and there throughout the years. Much love to Marjorie and the rest of his family.

Kevin was the best. If you knew him a minute or knew him for years, he was just the kind of person you instantly liked. Kevin traveled in many circles but in the corner of our world, The DSG Meetup, he was a cornerstone for all those to turn to when they needed help. He will be missed as a leader and also as a friend.

Andrea Lee

A lovely person. Kind, funny, smart, open minded, a good conversationalist. I didn't know you as well as I could have for sure, but I feel like we lost one of the great ones. All the wonderful things your friends and family have said make me want to be a better person tomorrow. We will all carry you forward in that way. Peace and love to your family and loved ones, Kevin Thomas.

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Bridget Almas

Kevin Thomas I hope wherever you are you have lots of packs of gum, crazy code to commune with, your sister to keep you company, pineapple juice to drink when cocktails are being had, music to dance to and to make others dance to. I know you will always have the love of all the people whose life you made better. You will be so sorely missed. Have an endless Ruckus in the sky for us.

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Limore Ricciardi

A friend died suddenly and without warning today. It reminds me that life is short, precious and to cherish every moment because you never know when it will end. For him it was too soon, too abrupt and life unfairly taken from him. You will be missed Kevin Thomas. You won't soon be forgotten. You touched many. I hope you are singing with the angels.

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Ian Brown

Today the world lost a fine human. Kevin Thomas went suddenly. I am at a loss for words. To know him was to love him. Gentle, kind, brilliant, funny, passionate...can't believe he's gone just like that. Take the time now hug the ones you love and tell them so.

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Kelly Gonzalez

My heart aches at the sudden loss of Kevin Thomas today. He was one of the finest programmers I've ever known and learned from. I always was very excited when I knew he would be coming to our offices or coming to a celebration. This man knew his stuff and had great taste in music and could chew a pack of gum like no one else. I'll be keeping Kevin's family in my thoughts and keeping Kevin's enthusiasm for life and the future in my heart and soul. Thank you Kevin.

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Elizabeth Hern Thomison

I can't really find the words right now to say what I want to about Kevin Thomas but he exuded love and positivity and I am a better friend, mother and wife for having known him.

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Sarah Ochsner Olson

The world lost an amazing man today. May you have an unlimited supply of gum and amazing company. Thank you for all that you taught me Kevin. Rest In Peace.

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Jennifer Robinson

A dear friend left us today. Kevin Thomas was a prince among men. 15 Years and 19 days ago I met Kevin, who I liked to sometimes call KT and the Sunshine band, mostly because he was almost always sunny, and partially because it seemed somehow quirkily appropriate to name him after a 70s dance band. In those early days he welcomed we with such openness and sincerity. He patiently explained the crazy inner workings of Ovid, and made me feel welcome in his team. And when, in one CCS triage meeting I finally understood what they meant when they were talking about THE CGI - I knew I had Kevin to thank.

Over the ensuing years we shared good times and bad. There was office drama, nights out, thai food lunches, Brooklyn lunches, shared rides back to Brooklyn, 12 bars, Ruckuses, and so many wonderful conversations. He was simply "good people". I am lucky to have known him. Truly.

My heart goes out to Marjorie who he loved so much and to his family who he cherished. Hopefully they can take a little solace in knowing he was truly admired, respected and loved. And when these tears dry a bit, and the utter shock and disbelief and sadness lessens a tad, I shall remember with a smile; the gum, the crazy inbox with tens of thousands of emails, the christmas vest, the matching Santa hat, that damn bell that he sometimes rang when Don Kauffman did not. His glossary. His laugh. The occasional Amaretto Sour. Pulling us out to dance during Ruckus. The picture taking. His love of music. HIs warmth and affection. RIP my friend. You will be missed. I will miss you.

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Joy Tumang

Thank you Kevin Thomas -- how lucky were we to have known you. You funny, bright, good soul! Damn.

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Letha Paul Fagan

My friend Kevin Thomas passed away earlier today. What a fine and upstanding man he was. Incredibly smart but humbled. Great family man and awesome friend, father, brother and son. His presence will be missed. Sleep well my friend, tell my son I say hello and I love him ❤❤❤

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