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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Laila Nilles, 91 years old, born on July 25, 1925, and passed away on August 22, 2016. We will remember her forever.
September 9, 2016
September 9, 2016
Beginning in 1984, Laila (The Mother of Telecommuting) has had and always will have the distinction being a major influence in our lives, including cocktail toasts with true matinees. As a beautifully gifted, intelligent and inspirational friend, she offered us exceptionally welcomed mentoring together with her beloved Jack. And, together they have synergistically made our world a better place. We are eternally grateful.
Laila continues living with us in our minds and hearts.
Fleming, LisTovaDavid …
p.s. See Laila's TeleConcertizing at: http://davidflemingltd.com/commentary/9901comLaila.htm
September 4, 2016
September 4, 2016
No candles needed. Lail's bright light will shine on in others. Tim and I were the beneficiaries of her passion for great music and life (surely the two were synonymous to Laila!). Since 1972 when Maggie stumbled into Jack and Lail's lives, we have shared music, food, raccoons, birthdays, Weimeraners, poodles, raccoons, yellow Volvos, visits (not frequent enough), and general hilarity. To say that we adored Laila is not adequate; she enriched our lives and made us all better people. There is a big hole in the universe with her passing, but if the Greeks were right and there really is music of the spheres (beyond mathematics) I suspect I hear the sound of a flute.
September 3, 2016
September 3, 2016
Laila Nilles, and Jack Nilles her loving husband...my late husband Michael and I have known them both since 1996. Laila and Jack are two individuals but one entity. They have always been an inspiration. I met Laila for the first time in 1996 at a recording session of a violinist i was accompanying at the piano. After that recording project was over, we became dear friends. Laila recorded me at the piano and on the violin. I always sought Laila's musical advice, when ever i had a concert or recording projects to prepare. She was an artist to the highest level, a concert flutist, had recordings to her own right. Laila had an acute high level of musical instincts and life's wisdoms. She was a true friend. Dearest Laila, you will always be with me in spirit where ever i am on my musical endeavors. You are the truth, love, compassion and devotion. I love you, Laila, for ever!
September 2, 2016
September 2, 2016
What a full and rich life Laila had and such a long, happy partnership with Jack. I loved learning more about it here and seeing the photos of so many good times. She will be greatly missed.
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August 22, 2023
August 22, 2023
Lail, you are still with me every day, piling up hugs yet to be given, stories yet to be told. I recently had several challenges where I thought to myself; "What would Lail do?" Well, you were right every time. I look forward to your presence today and every next day.
August 22, 2023
August 22, 2023
Not a day has gone by when i have not thought about Laila, about what her thoughts or opinions would have been if she had heard my performances either on the violin or piano. We love you and miss you Laila.
August 22, 2023
August 22, 2023
Seven years for you! Fifteen years for Boop. Forty-two for Stan. Forty-three for Nana. Forty-six for Papa. All are in my memories and my dreams.
Recent stories

Laila y Vaca

July 25, 2023
This was taken as we checked out a street exhibit in San José, Costa Rica. The subject of the exhibit was the human impact on the environment. The cow represents our impact on the environment, one of the major values of that beautiful and peaceful country.

Spunk

August 22, 2020
This photo of Laila gives a hint of her spunkiness, to me at least. She was always ardent in her beliefs and actions and I think it shows through here. She was a dedicated supporter of Hillary Clinton and, after surviving that election loss in 2016, would be equally behind Joe Biden in 2020. 

Joe Biden lost his wife shortly after he won his first Senate race. In his recent acceptance of the nomination to run for president he said, regarding that loss: “I know that deep black hole that opens in the middle of your chest and you feel like you're being sucked into it.” That's exactly how I still feel about Laila. Yet we all must go on to celebrate her existence by helping to make the world a better place. As she did to the very last.

Flute fun

August 22, 2019
After Laila graduated from Northwestern University she spent a summer studying composition with Nadia Boulanger in Fontainebleau, France. While there she lived in a dorm at the school. Down the street from the dorm was a military installation whose bugler played reveille every morning to wake everyone. Including the students. One morning Laila leaned out the dorm window and played the reveille along with the bugler -- except a quarter tone lower. This broke up her fellow students and subdued the bugler for at least a week.

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