- 21 years old
- Date of birth: Nov 11, 1951
- Place of birth:
Cleveland, Ohio, United States - Date of passing: Mar 20, 1973
- Place of passing:
Baltimore, Maryland, United States
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Let the memory of Earl be with us forever.One good brother. | ![]() |
"Hello Earl getting dinner ready easy dinner tonight. hot dogs fries and baked beans.Early bed for me tonight still feeling under the weather.Cloudy here getting ready for rain.Well Earl closing for now know that I love and miss you.Your favorite sister Joyce..."
"Good morning Earl on this cool crisp spring day sometimes I just set and wonder does heaven have four seasons like we have or is it warm and sunny everyday?Well one day when i finally leave this earthly body Earl I hope God let’s you walk me into heaven only if I leave before my husband.Earl we truly live in a awesome world but it is so full of evil God is coming back soon I believe we are in end times so many souls will be lost because they are not right with our Lord.I pray everyday that our love ones fine peace and comfort in our Lord and Savior.Setting drinking my morning coffee I can’t help remembering our childhood remember when the adults were talking we went outside to play also remember giving up your chair to and older person that was called RESPECT and never ever did we talk back to a grown up Dad would have handed us our asses period.Well Earl parents now give rewards and time outs for disrespect and bad behavior,SO THANK You DAD FOR TEACHING US RESPECT. Earl give Mom & Dad and Colt all of my love you to big guy.Love always your favorite sister Joyce........"
"Good morning Earl stopping by to talk wish you were still here but I realize you are in a much better place walking with our Lord.John and Mary stopped by yesterday they look good most important they looked happy.They were stopping by to visit you ,Monk and Mary’s sister.Me Earl getting tired.Getting ready to visit Rhonda & Shane and our grandchildren.Joe and I are facing some hard decisions very soon not sure what to do so we have been praying a lot on this but still unsure.Butch has to have some surgery praying for him as well wouldn’t know what to do if I lost another brother so put a word into God please all prayers help.Butch is very blessed he has Beth one beautiful soul and a strong woman.But you should hear him talk about his grandson One proud grandfather there.Save the best for last Tater is well working hard saving his money bought a new car and a Harley and just moved to s new apartment.See God is good he heard my prayers.Our daughters Rhonda and Kristian and families are all well too.Joe well you know he works very hard everyday.I truly love this man he has my heart.Now Earl we have a dear friend in need of lots of prayers not putting his name out here but you were good friends with him as well he needs the Lord to touch him and give him comfort and place his healing grace on him.So Earl please watch over him.I love you Earl and happy that you were and still are my big brother. Love always Joyce....."
"As I sit here my memories go back to my parents and it has taken me along time to realize why they were strict.Four children three boys and a daughter wow.As parents we are not perfect we make mistakes oh have I been there.So my wish for our children and grandchildren is to grow closer to God without God we are truly lost.I wish I could have a few minutes more with my parents I miss them so much mom you were a good mother and dad you were tough but I get it now didn't then but I do understand why you made the choices you made.So please if you are lucky enough to still have one or both parents tell them what they mean while they are still with you a cemetery is a sad place to visit.Love you Mom and Dad and you both knew how I loved you"
"Hello Earl been mia for awhile been a little under the weather so now just stopping to let you know you sir are missed greatly by your little Sis.Love you Earl..."
"Earl this photo is Samuel’s second Easter you would have loved this little guy into everything he is.I will add more photos later getting Joe off to work then a busy day for me clean laundry dinner though dinner is iffy.Love you...Joyce"
"Hello Earl just got home from Lyle and Kristian’s going to bed tired for sure.Miising you Earl wish you were here.Got a busy week planned getting my hair done on Wednesday cleaning the rest of the week my house is a mess.Our grandson celebrated his second Easter he sure was cute.Well Earl saying goodnight and I love you.Joyce..."
"Happy Easter Earl just got done with church and breakfast with Joe and Leonard two of my favorite fellas.Came back up to Lyle and Kristian’s taking care of my grand puppies.Life is good Earl I truly have and amazing husband.Love you and miss you big guy. Joyce....."
"Hello Earl just got home from dinner my amazing husband worked all day and came home and toke me out to dinner and ice cream.Married my one true love.Going to church in the morning sure hope my knee feels a little better pain is and understatement.Wishing you were here to celebrate the Easter holiday with us but you are with our Risen Lord can’t get better than that.Give all our love.Happy Easter brother.Love Joyce......."
"Good morning Earl getting ready for Easter God has risen and we are blessed to have him as our Lord and Savior.So wishing all in heaven a Happy Easter.Love from your sister Joyce"
"Just stopping by to say hello well Earl I know you know what’s happening medically with me i’ll be fine a little sore.Life is like a box of chocolates you don’t know what you’ll getting.Butch is good talked to him yesterday getting ready for his baby grandson to be baptized yes you heard me correctly.Joe leaving for work me getting ready for another trip not sure which though cruise or Mexico?Life is short enjoying it now.Love you Earl and I will talk to you later love from your sister Joyce."
"Earl didn’t make it to visit you this weekend so sorry but it is to wet and muddy I will come next weekend God willing.Earl you seeing all this crazy stuff going on down here?Only God can save us I truly believe he is with our President.Makes me sick to watch the corrupt news media.Kids marching people destroyed stuff and making threats to our President.Obama and Hillary were two murdering and traitorous people to ever run our nation and they are walking free maybe on earth but one day they will answer to God.Well Earl closing for now will talk to you later.Love from your baby sister Joyce....."
"The brother I remember big funny kind and he would always help me with my homework.Earl loved our mother he truly was her favorite how do I know this she would always make his favorite foods.Apple pie ,chili without beans and tomato sandwiches with chocolate milk.Earl had a grin that would make everything better and if he didn’t like you you knew it but if he was your friend it was for life.Earl if I could have one more hug or one more smile or one more I love you just one more time.I love you and think about you everyday Earl always in my heart always in my thoughts.Love your sister Joyce........."
"Missing you Earl Rest In Peace.Love Joyce"
"Forty five years ago Earl you were taken to soon seems like yesterday I got the phone call from Dad.Heart broken then and now truly miss you as much.God is good Earl.Got flowers for your grave and Aunt Wendy’s too.See you soon Earl.Love and miss you.Your sister Joyce."
"Hello Earl well we went to Samuel’s first birthday wow is all I can say he is so precious wish you could have met him.His mom got rear ended on her way home from work she is okay car totaled.Earl we have a mutual friend who is ill praying here.Life sometimes doesn’t seem fair.Our grandson finished boot camp and now is in school seems like yesterday he was a baby..Going to Israel Earl yes me have too pinch myself just can’t believe it.Well closing for now will post pictures of my trip.Love you big guy. Joyce"
"Hello Earl getting ready to get my nails done thought I would stop by and talk.Getting ready to go to Ohio for Samuel’s first Birthday he is growing so fast.Then when we get back from Ohio I will be going to Israel for two weeks who would have thunk it little girl from West Baltimore going to Israel.I owe it all to God he is putting me where he wants me to go.Earl we have family and friends who need our prayers don’t have to name names you already know who they are please put in a good word to God for them as for me I am praying.Closing for now brother but you know kind sir you are missed and loved by many.Love Joyce."
"Merry Christmas Earl."
"Merry Christmas Earl wish you were still here so many memories to share.Love you brother give Mom and Dad a hug from me and play ball with Colt and tell him Nana and Poppop love him.So Merry Christmas in heaven,.,Love Joyce"
"Added some photos Earl of your great nephew Samuel Earl he is so precious.Getting ready for Christmas have a lot to do.John is here sleeping.We have been sick both Joe and I. Miss you Earl wish you were here .Love you brother..."
"Happy Thanksgiving Earl lots of news Lawson has left for the Army already in boot camp. I’ve have been at Rhonda’s for almost a month soon time to go home how Can I leave this sweet little boy my heart is breaking.Earl Rhonda needs a guardian angel down here so I hope its you.Please be with her protect her and keep her safe I do know God has this covered Earl but I also believe in angels so be here with Rhonda..Love and miss you wishing you were here still.Love Joyce"
"Happy Birthday Earl. Sure wish I could say it to your face. Love ya bro. Now talk to Johnnie and straighten him out. lol"
"Happy Birthday Earl wow 66 years young today in heaven.Love you Earl and miss you as well."
"Hello Earl been awhile nothing new here dental work for Joe.Our oldest grandson has joined the army so please be his guardian angel and keep him safe.Missing you Earl. Butch and John are okay as for me still kicking it getting ready to celebrate the big 62 WOW 62 is just a number I just wish someone would tell that to my back knees and shoulder.Wish that you could be here to celebrate with me.Added some photos.Love you big guy❤️❤️"
"Sorry Earl been mia for a while just got back from NC it is beautiful there.Laying here Earl with mom on my mind I really really miss her please give her a hug for me.Stopped by your grave yesterday just doesn't seem real sometimes still want to pick the phone up and call you.Ilove you Earl and miss you still"
"Well Earl I posted some photos of your great nephew Samuel and today we we're blessed with a brand new baby nephew Gunner Louis and all looks well,as soon as possible I will post pictures of Gunner.Earl I miss you and truly wish you were still here to share all this happiness with.But I do know you are watching from heaven.Earl we finally got to meet our newest grandson he is so darn cute we didn't want to leave him or Rhonda I cried all the way home we stopped to eat and I couldn't stop crying even the waitress ask me if I was alright.Well closing for now but know I love you.Joyce❤️❤️"
"Earl sorry I have been Mia for awhile but we have been busy getting ready to do a lot of fun things.I will share all of this later with you.Earl I wish you were still here you would love all of your nieces they are a hoot.Arbogast and their bloodline really speaks.Closing for now be back later love you big guy"
"Went to the cemetery today to visit mom and dad had a nice talk I really miss them as well to Earl so please give them a hug and kiss from me.Earl your great nephew that isn't born yet needs a guardian angel so please help keep him safe his name is Gunner Louis.Butch and Beth's grandson I really wish you could see Butch he is done excited he is they will be great grandparents.Do please know we love and miss you big guy.Love always your sister Joyce ♥️"
"Hello Earl feeling blessed today good news I received but you already knew that.God is good now for him to remove it but I don't question God he has been taking care of me for 61 years.God is great and I praise his name.Earl I never will understand why God called you home so young but I realize now you are in a much better place.So taking a nap and will talk to you later.Love you Earl ♥️♥️♥️"
"Hello Earl dreary rainy day here.Been cleaning the living room getting ready to put my lasagna together for dinner tomorrow.Thinking about mom and dad so please give them a hug and kiss from me.Going for Earl love you big guy.♥️"
"Earl waiting on John to stop by been up all night with my baby girl Trixie.She had a tummy ache.Joe just left for work so today I will be cleaning.Earl not much happening right now.I love you Earl.Joyce"
"Hello Earl sorry that I have been mia been kinda busy getting ready to go to Ohio for Lawson's graduation he is nineteen.Joseph is fifteen and Samuel will be two months on Monday.I've been very tired lately not feeling well but nothing I can do about give it all to God.John and Skye Went to visit your grave the other day.Missing you Earl wish that I could see you but that won't be to I leave this earth.Love you ♥️"
"Happy Easter Earl"
"Posted some photos Earl I hope you can see them from heaven.They are of Mom and Dad and the nieces you never got to meet.Good night Earl.Love J...."
"Love you and thinking a lot about you this week."
"Earl today 44 years we laid you to rest I still remember it like it was yesterday.The one thing I remember the most was the pain in our mother's eyes.One of her last words on her death bed was to me please take of Earl's grave.She carried you Earl in her heart forever.A mothers love never dies.The day of your funeral was surreal I couldn't believe that you were really gone it felt like I was walking in quicksand my feet wouldn't move.It was a beautiful spring day the wind was blowing and the sun was shining what a day to lay your brother into the ground.I remember the riding in the limousine with mom and I cannot remember who else was there it was all like a bad dream waiting for someone to wake me up.Earl I even remember the outfit I wore a green velvet suit I never wore that suit again it was laid to rest that day as well.Love you Earl and will never forget how you died and I will keep you in my heart forever you see a sister's love never dies.Love Joyce"
"Sad day today in a few hours you will have been dead for 44 years the pain and heart ache is still so very real.Why did you have to die?"
"Rest in peace Lemuel Earl Arbogast.3-20-73 gone but forever missed and loved.Your sister Joyce"
"Hello Earl can't believe tomorrow you will be gone 44 years I still can hear Dad telling me you were gone, it hurts just as much today as it did then.We will be coming to visit you this weekend.I love you big guy until we meet again.Love Joyce"
"Hello Earl this day is done dinner done dishes done now planning tomorrow's activities,peanut butter fudge and pineapple upside cupcakes and the making spaghetti and meatballs and last chicken barbecue.Tomorrow will be busy.Went to church today and bible study tomorrow night.God is good and he loves me.I love you Earl and miss you coming out on 3-20-17 to place flowers and visit with you.Butch and John are doing okay and you are going to be a great Uncle once more any day now.I've not been feeling well you know blood pressure to high to low and a rapid heart beat.It is weird when I wake up and my heart is beating out of my chest.Earl I'm ready when God is ready he is in control not me.I miss and love you Earl."
"Hello Earl yes I am up pain does that to a body.Earl any day we will welcome a third grandson into our world Samuel Elijah think I spelled that correctly.Life is getting strange here Earl we live in a world of lazy entitled people that want it for free,and because they're not getting their way they want to riot and destroy things I say let them destroy it but do not rebuild let them live in their own mess and confusion. You might say that I am fed up. Wonder what mom and dad would think of their conservative daughter,yes Earl I voted for Donald J.Trump and proud to say it we need a strong God fearing leader.Well enough political talk for now.Sitting here missing you wondering what life would be if you were still here.Well going for now but know that hold you close to my heart and alway's in my thoughts Love you Earl."
"Hello Earl well not much change here Joe is working and Rhonda ' s baby is do anytime now getting excited another grandchild.Butch and John are well me I am tired pain is a little to much but we all can't be cry babies suck it up and move on.We all have that one family member that wants to be a victim and uses you for money and favors but that stops no more freebies pay me back and then we can talk oops that right your a victim man up and grow up I owe you nothing.Well rant over Earl sorry you had to hear that.The weather here is 70 degrees like summer time no snow what so ever.Got flowers for your grave missing you big guy and I love you with all of my heart.Going for now talk to you later.Love Joyce"
"Hello Earl sorry that I've been Mia for awhile but I am here now.Sick with a horrible sore throat and shoulder pain from hell nothing has eased this pain and I do mean nothing.So this is medicine and bed for me.We purchased flowers for your grave and Sissy bought some for her mom's grave as well.We will be coming out between March 20th and the 23rd you see Earl those dates are tattooed on my heart.Still remember the phone from Dad telling me you were gone wow I was 17 and heart broken I hit the floor praying to God that Dad was wrong but we called the hospital and they confirmed that you were there all that I heard was that you were there then I knew it was true,my big strong brother was gone no longer here no more talking to you no longer would we see your face.Closing for no Earl my heart hurts and the tears flow missing you big guy always your little sister Joyce I LOVE YOU EARL."
"Hello Earl another painful day I do have choices pain medication but I really hate taking drug so my choice is to give it to God please Lord hear my prayer this day in the name of your son my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Amen.Well Earl we had a little bit of snow nothing worth talking about,it is cold though.John stopped by and he looked tired he goes on not much sleep.Doing some laundry the steps are killing me today not as young as I use to be bones hurting me more lately.Wish that you could be here in my heart you always will be.Love and miss you as well.Love Joyce ......"
"Hello Earl yes I am up can you guess why if you guessed pain you are so right.Left shoulder and right knee.Well Earl it has gotten really cold and windy here maybe winter has finally arrived.Earl I sure wish heaven had a phone would love to hear your voice one more time.I love you and miss you Earl."
"Hello brother getting ready to start dinner and yes I HATE COOKING and I don't know why.Sure wish you were here missing you more and more lately feeling blue today.Well closing for now but know that I love you big guy.Joyce..."
"Hello Earl tired today and the weather sucks.Both doggies are laying on me right now but I love them both.Talked to John today he is well Butch also well.Sissy is coming next Wednesday for a visit.Did I say I would like a BLIZZARD.Depressed right now so I will be going for now.Love you Earl...."
"Hello Earl tired today and the weather sucks.Both doggies are laying on me right now but I love them both.Talked to John today he is well Butch also well.Sissy is coming next Wednesday for a visit.Did I say I would like a BLIZZARD.Depressed right now so I will be going for now.Love you Earl...."
"Hello Earl tired today and the weather sucks.Both doggies are laying on me right now but I love them both.Talked to John today he is well Butch also well.Sissy is coming next Wednesday for a visit.Did I say I would like a BLIZZARD.Depressed right now so I will be going for now.Love you Earl...."
"Hello Earl crappie day out rainy and dreary .Want snow BLIZZARDS would be nice.Earl thinking about taking my maiden name back dropping Collier altogether have already told Joe and really he is the only one that matters,born and Arbogast will die and Arbogast.Never should have given it up when I got married.Not one of my smart choices need to see what it it will take to have my name changed back.Earl I told you that your grave was repaired they did and okay job.Would like to thank the crackhead that stole your brass vase and ring in the first place sad they truly are lost.Not much happening here same shit different day.Well going for now will talk to you later big guy . Love Joyce....."
"HAPPY NEW YEAR EARL SENDING THIS MESSAGE ALL THE WAY TO HEAVEN"
"Hello Earl it is New Years Eve 2016 getting ready to ring in the New Year of 2017 not going out staying in having a very quiet New Years.We have so much to be thankful for this year for me my journey with God is my greatest blessing next is my family Joe,the girls our grandson's and our son-in-law's,and let's not forget our furry children.Our brothers and families ,niece's and nephew's we are blessed.I cannot forget our church family and our pastor.Earl I truly wish your were here to share these memories but you are not so writing this to you and it will have to do.I give you all of my love this New Years and I hope that you can hear and see me to know that you are remembered and missed and love.Love from your sister Joyce."
"Earl I have some sad news Beth Butch ' s wife loss her sister today to young 59 years young so please greet her if you can tell her that her family here on this earthly plain grieves her loss.Earl their are know words you can share with someone at times like this to ease their pain and heartache.I know because we also suffered the loss of you at the young age of 21 years,the pain is gut wrenching.So sad.Well Earl coming out this am to check on the repairs of your grave hoping it is repaired up to my standards you do hear me up there when I get upset,I made a promise to our mother but Earl please understand that it will die with me.Earl I know you know about the good news I won't share on here but it is fantastic news.So closing for now God willing and my sins forgiven I will walk into heaven one day and give you a hug love you brother your baby sister Joyce....."
"Hello Earl have been in a lot of pain got a cortisone injection into my left ankle yesterday at 4 pm so ice and resting it for now.John came by this morning he looks tired worried about him working to much on to little sleep.Praying for him.Earl the man from the cemetery called your grave has been repaired vase and ring have been replaced at no cost very nice man his name was George.Well closing for now brother I love you and miss you.Love Joyce..."
"Sorry Earl haven't been able to talk having a lot of pain going to the doctors in the am.Not going out for New Years maybe dinner and then home maybe this I will stay awake for the ball drop in New York,as you can tell we are not party animal's lol.Well closing for now brother love and miss you Earl talk to you llater.Love Joyce ........."
"Good morning Earl well it is Christmas Monday and the rush is through thank god boy am I tired.Have some news great news Butch and Beth are going to be grandparents a new baby grandson what a blessing wonderful news more news but it is private so I cannot share but I know that you already know Earl great news as well what a wonderful blessing at Christmas time.GOD IS GREAT AND HEARS OUR PRAYERS THANK YOU JESUS AMEN. Earl we had a wonderful Christmas went to dinner. Christmas eve service and the to church on Christmas morning what a blessing to share the story of our Savior's birth never ever get tired of hearing it the greatest gift of all the baby in the manger baby Jesus .Blessed we are truly blessed.I know heaven is glorious can only imagine the beauty and grace.Earl we are resting today taking it easy for sure,we saw John and Butch,Beth and Tyler and Josh on Christmas eve I think Josh favors his mother and Tyler is the spitting image of Butch when he was younger but for sure both good looking young men and welll grounded I know they get that from Beth no Butch and Beth are good parents and going to be great grandparents as well.Earl hope you liked your flowers we placed on your grave it sometimes seems surreal that you have been gone forty three years gone longer than you lived."
"Merry Christmas Earl love you ..."
"Hello Earl six pounds of fudge done and one pumkin roll almost done boy I am tired.No mess in the kitchen it is cleaned up as well.Sent some fudge home with John making some for Butch and Beth.Tired I am.Going for now Earl will talk to you later.I love you and miss you as well.Merry Christmas Earl"
"Hello Earl me again up and getting ready to make some more fudge,went and saw the christmas lights at hampden last night a little disappointed one thing parking was a nightmare and so many people with that being said the lights were pretty.Earl I know you remember how dad would decorate it reminded of his style of decorating lights with more lights.Going to be a little busy today have to make my cakes and tomorrow the deviled eggs.Earl spoke to Rhonda yesterday she sounded very tired not much longer before grandson number four arrives Samuel Elijah is going to be his name.I Know i know I told her that Earl was a nice name.lol.The house is so quiet I do believe you could hear a pin drop I like the quiet the Christmas lights sparkling just me and my thoughts.I talk to God a lot Earl and pray and give him thanks I thank him for giving you as a big brother and for Butch and John as well.God has truly blessed me my husband is one of the good guys out here I met him in a gas station Earl I was eighteen at that time he had just turned twenty one,babies we were babies now forty two years later here we are and he is truly my one true love.So much to share Earl.Going for now Big Guy but will be back later miss you and love you your little sister Joyce...Merry Christmas Earl..."
"Hello Earl hope you like your flowers also we went to Aunt Wendy's grave as well.Going to see the Christmas lights with Lyle and Kristian.Making some more fudge later.It is cold here Earl freezing my behind off.Love you Earl and I will talk to you later.Love Joyce...."
"Hello Earl hope you like your flowers also we went to Aunt Wendy's grave as well.Going to see the Christmas lights with Lyle and Kristian.Making some more fudge later.It is cold here Earl freezing my behind off.Love you Earl and I will talk to you later.Love Joyce...."
"Hello Earl hope you like your flowers also we went to Aunt Wendy's grave as well.Going to see the Christmas lights with Lyle and Kristian.Making some more fudge later.It is cold here Earl freezing my behind off.Love you Earl and I will talk to you later.Love Joyce...."
"Hello Earl it's me again why am I up you ask PAIN now with that being said let me share my day with you.Cleaning done now I have to bake a few cakes pumpkin rolls and one pineapple upside down cake by request,and deviled eggs also by request.Christmas is near pondering still on the birth of Jesus I am amazed at the wonder of it all he was born to teach us and then die so our sins would be forgiven.Thank you Lord for the greatest gift of all your son our Lord and Savior.Earl we will be coming to visit you and Aunt Wendy by Friday .Just so you know Earl it still hurts each time I visit your grave I do know that you are not there but it hurts just the same.Oh oh for the news Joe and I are going to have another grandson Samuel that makes four we are happy and guess who is going to be a grandfather again come on guess Butch yes I said Butch and he says he is not excited but you can hear it in his voice he is very excited when his grandchild arrives stick a fork in him he will be done.John is coming by this morning to sleep he sounds tired I worry about him no brothers to spare Lord please take care of the ones I have.Going out tonight to see the christmas lights with Lyle and Kristian hampden I think.Joe is off work today and tomorrow we might go see the new Star Wars movie and lunch I told you I hate cooking.lol well good night Earl and know that I love you .Joyce"
"Hello Earl here to share my thoughts with you sitting here pondering on the birth of Jesus just think about what Mary went though not married but going to marry Joseph and Joseph not married to Mary yet but she is pregnant,wow God is truly amazing for the gift of our Lord and Savior his only begotten son Jesus Christ.Earl it took me along time to be on this journey with Christ as you know our religious upbringing was lacking thank god for Julia Bennett she toke all the neighborhood children to church.I was lost without Christ and now through Christ I am found and I praise him everyday.So this week Earl I will ponder on the birth of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and know that is not about the presents underneath the tree but the baby in the manger...Happy birthday Jesus....I love you Earl Merry Christmas.Joyce..."
"Hello Earl up with a banger of a headache I really dislike having them .It is cold here now really would like a little SNOW just a little.Goodnight for now and I will talk to you later.Love Joyce........"
"Hello Earl just finished dinner and now taking a break. Earl I truly dislike cooking why I don't have a clue.The dogs got Arby's roast beef they are SPOILED.LOL.Made a peach pie now I am full also made peanut butter fudge.If I remember you liked meatloaf and chili without beans and tomatoe sandwiches.You like just about anything mom would make.Earl you were her favorite and that is okay she missed you every day of the rest of her life. I will be coming out to visit you and Aunt Wendy this week Joe is taking off a couple of days.Got a good husband he helps with the house work and really anything I need.Earl if I could have five minutes I would tell you how much you mean to me and give you the BIGGEST HUG EVER.MERRY CHRISTMAS EARL and I do remember the memories you made with me.donuts at Westside shopping center and not the cake kind.lol...Talk to you later. Love Joyce"
"Thinking about you Earl. Talked to Johnnie a few times this week, he's a mess. hahaha! Joyce sent me a Christmas card and it was sweet of her to do so. That makes a total of 2 of em so far. Guess I'm lucky and blessed to get that many. People done forgot the old traditions and the way we done things. Dadburn technology. You wouldn't recognize the way things are done nowadays. Nobody talks to anyone anymore. Damn shame too, cause its hurting us as a whole. No personalization these days. I guess I got lucky and made it this far in life and I really don't know how I did it? Thought I'd be gone in my thirties. I'm not and so I am fortunate to be able to call your family "friends" ! Not many of them around either. Ok, thanks for listening Earl, I'm gonna go for now. However this gets to you, Merry Christmas FRIEND.
Dave"
"Earl Kristian and I went and saw the Russian Nutcracker Ballet last night it was awesome they really perform a wonderful show,the costumes were amazinng.I Really do wish you were here to share this with.But I guess talking to you like this will have to do for now.Almost done shopping for Christmas a couple of small things left and food to get going to make some peanut butter fudge I don't like chocolate fudge,thinking about making mom's potatoe candy though.Mom could cook and bake.John is coming this morning to get some sleep and I spoke to Butch the other day and you know the rest we all have that one unhappy family member hope they get their act together soon because of their actions they will be alone at Christmas and believe me this is their choice.God knows I have tried praying for them but moving on with my life.Toxic people will drain you and no more I have nothing left to give to this person so I will continue to pray for them .Earl I love and miss you every day so for now talk at ya later.MERRY CHRISTMAS ...Love Joyce..."
"Good morning Earl it has been a long night now getting ready for the doctors and injection they are always from yay me.Really really wish I could just give you a hug,know that I miss you Earl"
"Hello brother it is 11:57 pm here and yes pain has got me up.Earl i went and got a cortisone shot in my ankle can you say OUCH I did hurt oh my did it hurt.Looking at surgery maybe trying some other treatments first.As you know Earl we made cookies over the weekend boy did we make some cookies and yes they were delicious now just trying to get everything together for Christmas,shopping just about done now shopping for Christmas dinner Kristian is cooking and I will be making side dishes and desserts this year and yes she can cook and bake from scratch.You would love both of your niece's and they would have loved you.Earl you would have had a blast with these young ladies sorry you didn't get the pleasure to meet them.I talk about you a lot to them so your memory stays alive yes Earl gone but never forgotten.Merry Christmas Earl and I love you."
"Well Earl back again news this time is letting go of the toxic people in my life the people that want to be victims and hold no part in their circumstances and then want to call and bitch me out because they are afraid to stand up to anyone.Done I am over this crap grow up no one is going to continue to have you in their life when all you bring to it is drama.I am not your mama so back off and if you cannot respect me then lose my number.Wow Earl thanks for listening I have told this to this person and they don't want to hear the truth.Earl you know I respect people and I love my family but I have had enough time to let them go.Sorry for the rant but I needed to vent.Love you Earl now and forever your baby sister Joyce"
"Hello Earl stopping by to talk in bed can't sleep headache went away the shoulder stayed.Had lunch with today with Brent and Joann five guys burgers pretty good.l then went grocery shopping after came home and Joe work outside on the christmas decorations.Earl you would love Joe he is a gear head just like you were and he is a good man.Going to start to try and get some order to house for Christmas but you know the older you get the harder it gets to do things.Wish you were here to celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ the reason for the season.Earl I truly am very happy because I have Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and one good husband two beautiful daughters and handsome grandsons and let's not forget my son-in-laws blessed truly blessed thank you Lord for the gifts of my family.I love you Earl along with Butch and John and their families they have both been blessed with beautiful wives Beth and Mary.Well Earl time to say good night and I miss you and will always hold you in my heart.Love J❤"
"Hello Earl stopping by to talk in bed can't sleep headache went away the shoulder stayed.Had lunch with today with Brent and Joann five guys burgers pretty good.l then went grocery shopping after came home and Joe work outside on the chritmas decorations.Earl you would love Joe he is a gear head just like you were and he is a good man.Going to start to try and get some order to house for Christmas but you know the older you get the harder it gets to do things.Wish you were here to celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ the reason for the season.Earl I truly am very happy because I have Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and one good husband two beautiful daughters and handsome grandsons and let's not forget my son-in-laws blessed truly blessed thank you Lord for the gifts of my family.I love you Earl along with Butch and John and their families they have both been blessed with beautiful wives Beth and Mary.Well Earl time to say good night and I miss you and will always hold you in my heart.Love J❤"
"Went Christmas shopping today a couple of things left to get then I am done mailed out money cards for Rhonda,Shane and the grandsons.Orderd Joe a Bose stereo system online he loves music.Earl wish you were here I would hug you and never let you go that's how much I truly miss you.Merry Christmas in heaven Earl,tell mom and dad Merry Christmas too and our grandson Colt.Give everyone there a hug from me.Well i know that you know we finally got a decent president Donald Trump thank god never killary Clinton.She thought she had the election in the bag well let me tell you the joke was on her she lost big time she couldn't steal this election we the people voted and God had his hand in this election for sure.Making cookies next Friday and Saturday maybe into Sunday not sure just yet my best friend is polish so you know we will be making some good cookies.Merry Christmas one more time brother until we meet again in heaven I love you."
"Hello Earl yes I am awake pain does that.Thinking about you tonight while I was at bible study mostly about forgiveness how to forgive and yes this is something to think about.Earl I truly must forgive those who toke part in your death I love you Earl and believe that you are in heaven.So with that being said I will work on forgiving
Please Lord help me to find the peace and understanding that as human beings we don't understand.Earl I love you and miss you but I believe you are with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.Forgiveness and Peace will be in my heart and on my mind in prayer this day.Love you big guy always your little sister J.❤"
"Sitting here missing you Earl I know that the hurt and pain should ease but for me it has not.Now that Christmas is near it hits hard that you won't be here to share it with us.Sorry Earl I have to close this for now to upset to talk.I LOVE BIG GUY KNOW THAT IF YOU KNOW NOTHING ELSE THAT YOUR LITTLE SISTER LOVES YOU EARL.LOVE J"
"HAPPY THANKSGIVING EARL.......LOVE FROM ME YOUR BABY SISTER❤"
"Good morning Earl and Happy Thanksgiving in heaven . Sixty one thanksgiving 's a lot that I have been blessed with God is good.Got to start making potatoe salad soon and then deviled eggs for dinner going out this year to Kristian and Lyles home you would like him Earl nice young man.I bet you would have been something else with all your niece's.lol I miss you Earl"
"Hello Earl one day away from Thanksgiving busy busy that is me.Turkey,stuffing sweet potatoes ,mashed potatoes sauerkraut green beans,gravy cranberry sauce,Cole slaw,deviled eggs,pickled eggs.Now dessert pumpkin pie,apple pie with whipped cream and lemon pie,baked rolls.Say it Earl just like mom not as good as she was though.Earl I wish that you could be here to enjoy thanksgiving and Christmas.Missing you and I love you big guy.Love J."
"Hello Earl didn't get to your grave this weekend could not find flowers that I liked Try again this weekend.Earl please keep and eye on our brother you know whom I am talking about like I stated before I have no spares.Crazy weekend for sure.Listening to Christmas music right now and missing you brother.Just got my new license left the other one and polling place when I went to vote I know they threw it away am a Republican and most of them are democrats oh well got a new one and karma is a bitch.Waiting for Joe to get home the bible study he has a choice of left overs sausages with peppers and onions or fried chicken with mashed potatoes,gravy and green beans.I love left overs don't have to cook.Joe put our Christmas tree up last night now to decorate it.Wish you were here to celebrate with us.Closing for now will talk to you later love and miss you big guy.Love J."
"Happy birthday Earl would have turned 64 today wow sorry that I've been mia but been a little sick better now so one more time HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ALL THE WAY TO HEAVEN LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU BIG GUY.Getting ready for thanksgiving down here and we are truly blessed. Life is crazy just had the presidential election and Donald Trump won and the leftist Looney toons are going nuts and they are suppose to be the peaceful side.I know that you know I voted for Trump now we need to pray that everyone comes together as One Nation Under God help President Donald Trump Fix and heal our nation.Earl I wish that I could give you a hug one more time I had a memorial necklace made so I could feel like you are close to me Will post picture when I get a new phone.Earl I need your help you know how families get inside bickering well we have as well so please help me to open the hearts and minds and bring peace home.I told someone I have no spare brothers when you lose one the hurt is forever again missing you.Please tell mom and dad that I love them our grandson Colt as well Earl Claudette is with you now and I know she is singing and praising God's holy name tell her that I love her and had so much respect for the beautiful woman she was and that she touched my life more then she will ever have known.Tell everyone that is in heaven they are truly loved and missed
Going to visit your and Aunt Wendy's graves tomorrow and place flowers there.Love J❤"
"Stopping by to say you are in my thoughts and to tell you that I love you big guy.I Truly miss you Earl.LOVE J.❤"
"Well Earl coming to you with some sad news Claudette died tonight in a tragic car accident no words can explain how I feel right now,she was such a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul.Claudette was so soft spoken never ever heard her raise her voice in anger.Earl my heart is breaking for her family Bill,Alex and Warren also her daughter-in-law and her grandchildren.Earl I can't talk anymore tonight just lost for words and I can't stop crying.I love Earl and miss you as well.Love J."
"Hey Earl not been on here for awhile sorry Joe has had pneumonia and I broke the big toe on my left foot OUCH. Joe is doing better it was a fight to get him to see the Dr.Earl Mary's mother Ms.Rose passed away and is now with you in heaven please tell her to take care of her daughter Mary to be her guardian angel here on earth.Tell mom and dad that I love and miss them and please give our grandson Colt hugs and kisses from his Nana and Poppop hugs for you too big guy I truly do miss you I know stop crying but I can't help it sometimes the tears just roll.Stopping am stopping.Earl know you are forever in my heart and always in my prayers.Earl you are in a much better place I know that you know our world is truly messed up please be my guardian angel Earl.Just got a picture of our youngest grandson Joseph and Earl this young man is your twin the spitting image of you it is unreal like am looking at you genetics will come though.Earl I just got my necklace a memorial to you a letter a E and the birthstone of November that I wear close to my heart so you will always be with me.Earl closing for now but know you are always with me I love you until next time.Love J.❤❤"
"Hey Earl not been on here for awhile sorry Joe has had pneumonia and I broke the big toe on my left foot OUCH. Joe is doing better it was a fight to get him to see the Dr.Earl Mary's mother Ms.Rose passed away and is now with you in heaven please tell her to take care of her daughter Mary to be her guardian angel here on earth.Tell mom and dad that I love and miss them and please give our grandson Colt hugs and kisses from his Nana and Poppop hugs for you too big guy I truly do miss you I know stop crying but I can't help it sometimes the tears just roll.Stopping am stopping.Earl know you are forever in my heart and always in my prayers.Earl you are in a much better place I know that you know our world is truly messed up please be my guardian angel Earl.Just got a picture of our youngest grandson Joseph and Earl this young man is your twin the spitting image of you it is unreal like am looking at you genetics will come though.Earl I just got my necklace a memorial to you a letter a E and the birthstone of November that I wear close to my heart so you will always be with me.Earl closing for now but know you are always with me I love you until next time.Love J.❤❤"
"Hey Earl not been on here for awhile sorry Joe has had pneumonia and I broke the big toe on my left foot OUCH. Joe is doing better it was a fight to get him to see the Dr.Earl Mary's mother Ms.Rose passed away and is now with you in heaven please tell her to take care of her daughter Mary to be her guardian angel here on earth.Tell mom and dad that I love and miss them and please give our grandson Colt hugs and kisses from his Nana and Poppop hugs for you too big guy I truly do miss you I know stop crying but I can't help it sometimes the tears just roll.Stopping am stopping.Earl know you are forever in my heart and always in my prayers.Earl you are in a much better place I know that you know our world is truly messed up please be my guardian angel Earl.Just got a picture of our youngest grandson Joseph and Earl this young man is your twin the spitting image of you it is unreal like am looking at you genetics will come though.Earl I just got my necklace a memorial to you a letter a E and the birthstone of November that I wear close to my heart so you will always be with me.Earl closing for now but know you are always with me I love you until next time.Love J.❤❤"
"Hello Earl sorry I've been gone for a while went to Ohio to see Rhonda and the boys I say boys but wow Lawson is over six feet tall and Joseph is 5'9 at 14.Lawson is turned into one handsome young man that wants to join the FBI we are so proud of him.Joseph he wants to,move to New York and become a writer who would have thunk it,yes I did say thunk.Joseph looks a lot like you Earl almost like looking at you,and Lawson has the Arbogast height but looks a lot like his pop Joe.Handsome grandsons for sure.We love our grandsons wish they could have known their Great Uncle Earl.Well I have bronchitis not doing great but I don't sweat the small stuff.I love you Earl and miss so much closing for now tired but I will be back.Love J.❤"
"Good morning Earl went to a jewelry party last and I created a necklace in your memory it has a charm with the letter E and a birthstone of November for your birthday so I can take you with me.Gone Earl but never forgotten .Going for now but know you are loved and missed.Love J."
"Sorry Earl I've been m.i.a for the past couple of days been in a lot of pain couldn't walk it hurt so bad,like to say am better but am not.So keep and eye out for me please.Another long night the worst part is I really don't liket crying me crying but like I said the pain is that bad from the back to the hip down my leg to the knee which looks like a basketball down the calf to my foot.Enough said about me.I love you and miss you Earl every minute of every day.Just wish I could see you again when I look at Butch and John I wonder who you look more like but I see you in Tator,but our grandson Joseph is built like you and looks like you as well.So you do live on your nephew's.Good night Earl love you now and forever."
"Good night Big Guy."
"Well Earl it's here my birthday 61 years young today and the only thing to make it more special would be for you to be here to celebrate with.Earl I really miss having you here.Life is not the same with you gone.My heart is truly broken I love you big guy.Rhonda just called to wish me a Happy birthday scared the crap out of me is what she did the phone ringing in the middle of the night but Earl I love my girls God blessed me with two.God sent them to me in march he knew.He is wiser then us all.Earl I saw a beautiful butterfly today that Dad sent you see after he passed I had dream and about him and in the dream he told me he would send me butterflies to know he was okay in heaven and to give my heart peace.Earl please give mom,dad and colt a hug and a kiss for me and if you should see a beautiful black cat that's my Sabrina give her a pet for me.Earl until I see you in heaven please know you sir are loved and missed.Always J."
"LOVE YOU LEMUEL EARL ARBOGAST"
"Good morning Earl not been here for a while been under the weather a little that's life I guess.It has been a busy year puff and it is gone,in a couple of days I will be turning 61 years young wow the years are floating by. This year you would be turning 64 I get really really sad when I realize all that you have missed all the niece's and nephew's that you never got to meet and believe you have a few.Earl I was blessed to have you as my big brother and I have never forgotten the loved you showed your little sister and I do pray every day that the good Lord in heaven will let us meet again and when my day comes to leave this earthy body that you are the one that leads me home.I love you Big Guy then and now."
"Sorry Earl not been here for a couple of days got busy with cleaning the house what I use to be able to do in a day now takes me a week, getting old sucks but it is better to be over the hill then under it sorry Earl no disrespect.I love you and I miss you so very much.Thinking about what your life would have been like today kids maybe grandkids?So much you had to miss in life Earl all about choices what if you could have made better ones but that comes with a support system,I wish I could have been their more for you.Life for me is pretty good blessed with a great husband and two beautiful daughters and three grandson's and two wonderful son-in-law's.Closing for now love you Big guy...J."
"Good morning Earl awake early lots to do laundry done yesterday now bedrooms today and grocery shopping today,need more time in the day.It has been really hot here lately me am ready for fall or a blizzard oh no I remember you liked the snow remember the donuts at Westside shopping center punk lol.I really thought you were going for donuts not to do them in he parking lot.Thanks for the memory.Well closing for now I love you Earl please keep watch over me until later.Love J."
"Hello Earl we just got back from seeing Hillary ' s America one evil woman that's for sure. Earl I hope you like the flowers and they are ordering you a new vase sorry that some Crack head stole your vase,but know God saw what they did.Earl had a nice day church breakfast with Joe and Lenoard and then a movie and dinner with Joe.Rain storms came through but I believe they are done.I talked to Butch he is well you know Butch is Butch he alway's lands on his feet.I love all three of my brothers I have none to spare.Earl I wish that I could tell that I don't cry over you being gone but that would be a lie my heart is still broken to hear you're voice just one more time...Closing for now Big Guy I love and miss you still...J."
"Earl I just won 500.00 on a 2.00 scratch off can you say lucky.God is good.Coming out to visit you in the a.m.tomorrow sorry I couldn't make it sooner.Earl I was crying tonight I was talking about you to Joe and I just became overwhelmed with missing you so much we have missed so many memories we couldn't share so I hope you are watching from heaven and know that you big guy are more than a memory to me you Earl will alway's be my big brother.I love and miss you so much.Closing for now Earl see you later.Joyce Sand and I know you remember."
"Received my license today Earl good for another eight years god willing.I will make it out to see you this weekend.So dang hot here.Closing go now Earl will talk to you later.Love Joyce"
"Got the flowers for your grave and Aunt Wendy's to,not making it today though feeling under the weather.I love and miss you Earl..."
"Good morning Earl busy day ahead might try and visit your grave tomorrow and Aunt Wendy's too.Love you big guy."
"Posting pictures of your family Earl a lot of family you never got to meet but I will keep your memory alive as long as i have breath in my body,you Earl will alway's be my big brother.Love you."
"Goodnight Earl tired and in pain.Love and miss you"
"Well my license is done for another eight years Earl now they mail them to you in and out in 30 minutes,Joe stood in line for me another 30 minutes I have a great husband I think that you and Joe would have liked each other he is crazy like you were he has to be look who he married almost 42 years he is truly my best friend.He takes good care of your little sister that's for sure.Earl you were always my protector I knew that I was safe with you.I can't say it enough how much I love and miss you Earl.Please tell mom and dad I love them too and please hold our grandson Colt for us and give him some kisses from his Nana and Poppop.Until later big guy I love you.❤"
"Good morning Earl I'm up early no sleep last night due to pain,getting ready to go for my license renewed can you believe I've been driving for 40 years ,getting old Earl getting old in a few weeks I will be 61 years young wow.Earl I truly wish that you could have a do over but we both know that will never happen god had other plans for you and me.Well closing for now but I will be back love you to the moon and back Earl.❤"
"Well Earl it is 1:10 am and I can't sleep pain can sure keep you awake.So many unanswered questions Earl your last thoughts were you scared were you betrayed by the people you called friends these were the questions mom and dad lived with everyday and me also.The phone call from dad telling me you were gone is the one thing I will never forget the pain is the same today as it was then.The shock of you being gone forever I have never seen our mother so distraught the pain in our hearts is at times unbearable .The one promise I made to our mom was that I would always take care of your grave so I really hope you like the flowers I leave.I love you Earl and miss you every minute of every day.Good night Earl.❤"
"Well Earl John made it he is sleeping now.Him and Butch remind me of you.lol Watch over us please until we see you again.love you ❤"
"Good morning Earl all is well on the home front,Joe is getting ready for work me I'm having coffee playing with my furry children.John might stop by so I'm waiting on him.Earl i really hope that your spirit can hear me because I truly miss having you here.The world we live in today is not the world we grew up in it is really screwed up.I wonder if you were here right now what would you think I think I know but I can't use that language here.Well closing for now big guy but please know I miss and love you every day.❤"
"Sitting here Earl thinking about everything you have missed you have many nieces and nephews.My grandsons Lawson will be 18 on Sunday and Joseph will be 15 on 10-13-16,they know all the good things about you Earl their uncle.They love hearing about you and I love telling them about their Uncle Earl.So for now I will be happy with my memories of the short time we had in this life together.P.S. thank you for helping me with my homework sorry about the needle though.Lol.Love you big guy❤"
"It is beautiful day here Earl but I bet it is more beautiful where you are at.Hope one day we can be together again miss you and love you Earl.❤"
"Earl...ya left us too soon bro. Why'd ya hafta go away before I could say "see ya later bro"? You were one of the best friends a person coulda asked for. You just make sure St. Peter is awake and has his keys to those gates brother. Ill see ya when I get there. I know if you made it there, I will. LOVE YA BRO!!"
"Forever missed loved you then and I love you now.❤"
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