"Hello Earl getting dinner  ready  easy dinner  tonight. hot dogs fries and baked beans.Early bed for me  tonight still feeling under the weather.Cloudy here getting ready for rain.Well Earl closing for now know that I love and miss you.Your favorite sister Joyce..."

"Good morning Earl on this cool crisp spring day sometimes I just set and wonder does heaven have four seasons like we have or is it warm and sunny everyday?Well one day when  i finally leave this earthly body Earl I hope God let’s you walk me into heaven only if I leave before my husband.Earl we truly live in a awesome world but it is so full of evil God is coming back soon I believe we are in end times so many souls will be lost because they are not right with our Lord.I pray everyday that our love ones fine peace and comfort in our Lord and Savior.Setting drinking my morning coffee I can’t help remembering our childhood remember when the adults were talking we went outside to play also remember giving up your chair to and older person that was called RESPECT and never ever did we talk back to a grown up Dad would have handed us our asses period.Well Earl parents now give rewards and time outs for disrespect and bad behavior,SO THANK You DAD FOR TEACHING US RESPECT. Earl give Mom & Dad and Colt all of my love you to big guy.Love always your favorite sister Joyce........"

"Good morning Earl stopping by to talk wish you were still here but  I realize you are in a much better place walking with our Lord.John and Mary stopped by yesterday they look good most important they looked happy.They were stopping by to visit you ,Monk and Mary’s sister.Me Earl getting tired.Getting  ready to visit Rhonda & Shane and our grandchildren.Joe and I are facing some hard decisions very soon not sure what to do so we have been praying a lot on this but still unsure.Butch has to have some surgery praying for him as well wouldn’t know what to do if I lost another brother so put a word into God please all prayers help.Butch is very blessed he has Beth one beautiful soul and a strong woman.But you should hear him talk about his grandson One proud grandfather there.Save the best for last Tater is well working hard saving his money bought a new car and a Harley and just moved to s new apartment.See God is good he heard my prayers.Our daughters Rhonda and Kristian and families are all well too.Joe well you know he works very hard everyday.I truly love this man he has my heart.Now Earl we have a dear friend in need of lots of prayers not putting his name out here but you were good friends with him as well he needs the Lord to touch him and give him comfort and place his healing grace on him.So Earl please watch over him.I love  you Earl and happy that you were and still are my big brother. Love always Joyce....."

"As I sit here my memories go back to my parents and it has taken me along time to realize why they were strict.Four children three boys and a daughter wow.As parents we are not perfect we make mistakes oh have I been there.So my wish for our children and grandchildren is to grow closer to God without God we are truly lost.I wish I could have a few minutes more with my parents I miss them so much mom you were a good mother and dad you were tough but I get it now didn't then but I do understand why you made the choices you made.So please if you are lucky enough to still have one or both parents tell them what they mean while they are still with you a cemetery is a sad place to visit.Love you Mom and Dad and you both knew how I loved you"

"Hello Earl been mia for awhile been a little under the weather so now just stopping to let you know you sir are missed greatly by your little Sis.Love you Earl..."

"Earl this photo is Samuel’s second Easter you would have loved this little guy into everything he is.I will add more photos later getting Joe off to work then a busy day for me clean laundry dinner though dinner is iffy.Love you...Joyce"

"Hello Earl just got home from Lyle and Kristian’s going to bed tired for sure.Miising you Earl wish you were here.Got a busy week planned getting my hair done on Wednesday cleaning the rest of the week my house is a mess.Our grandson celebrated his second Easter he sure was cute.Well Earl saying goodnight and I love you.Joyce..."

"Happy Easter Earl just got done with church and breakfast with Joe and Leonard two of my favorite fellas.Came back up to  Lyle and Kristian’s taking care of my grand puppies.Life is good Earl I truly have and amazing husband.Love you and miss you big guy. Joyce....."

"Hello Earl just got home from dinner my amazing husband worked all day and came home and  toke me out to dinner and ice cream.Married my one true love.Going to church in the morning sure hope my knee feels a little better pain is and understatement.Wishing you were here to celebrate the Easter holiday with us but you are with our Risen Lord can’t get better than that.Give all our love.Happy Easter brother.Love Joyce......."

"Good morning Earl getting ready for Easter God has risen and we are blessed to have him as our Lord and Savior.So wishing all in heaven a Happy  Easter.Love from your sister Joyce"

"Just stopping by to say hello well Earl  I know you know what’s happening medically with me i’ll be fine a little sore.Life is like a box of chocolates you don’t know what you’ll getting.Butch is good talked to him yesterday getting ready for his baby grandson to be baptized yes you heard me correctly.Joe leaving for work  me getting ready for another trip not sure which though cruise or Mexico?Life is short enjoying it now.Love you Earl and I will talk to you later love from your sister Joyce."

"Earl didn’t make it to visit you this weekend so sorry but it is to wet and muddy I will come next weekend God willing.Earl you seeing all this crazy stuff going on down here?Only God can save us I truly believe he is with our President.Makes me sick  to watch the corrupt news media.Kids marching people destroyed stuff and making threats to our President.Obama and Hillary were two murdering and traitorous people to ever run  our nation and they are walking free maybe on earth but one day they will answer to God.Well Earl closing for now will talk to you later.Love from your baby sister Joyce....."

"The brother I remember big funny kind and he would always help me with my homework.Earl loved our mother he truly was her favorite how do I know this she would always make his favorite foods.Apple pie ,chili without beans and tomato sandwiches with chocolate milk.Earl had a grin that would make everything better and if he didn’t like you you knew it but if he was your friend it was for life.Earl if I could have one more  hug or one more smile or one more I love you just one more time.I love you and think about you everyday Earl always in my heart always in my thoughts.Love your sister Joyce........."

"Missing you Earl Rest In Peace.Love Joyce"

"Forty five years ago Earl you were taken to soon seems like yesterday I got the phone call from Dad.Heart broken then and now truly miss you as much.God is good Earl.Got flowers for your grave and Aunt Wendy’s too.See you soon Earl.Love and miss you.Your sister Joyce."

"Hello Earl well we went to Samuel’s first birthday wow is all I can say he is so precious wish you could have met him.His mom got rear ended on her way home from work she is okay car totaled.Earl we have a mutual friend who is ill praying here.Life sometimes doesn’t seem fair.Our grandson finished boot camp and now is in school seems like yesterday he was a baby..Going to Israel Earl yes me have too pinch myself just can’t believe it.Well closing for now will post pictures of my trip.Love you big guy. Joyce"

"Hello Earl getting ready to get my nails done thought I would stop by and talk.Getting ready to go to Ohio for Samuel’s first Birthday he is growing so fast.Then when we get back from Ohio I will be going to Israel for two weeks who would have thunk it little girl from West Baltimore going to Israel.I owe it all to God he is putting me where he wants me to go.Earl we have family and friends who need our prayers don’t have to name names you already know who they are please put in a good word to God for them as for me I am praying.Closing for now brother but you know kind sir you are missed and loved by many.Love Joyce."

"Merry Christmas Earl."

"Merry Christmas Earl wish you were still here so many memories to share.Love you brother give Mom and Dad a hug from me and play ball with Colt and tell him Nana and Poppop love him.So Merry Christmas in heaven,.,Love Joyce"

"Added some photos Earl of your great nephew Samuel Earl he is so precious.Getting ready for Christmas have a lot to do.John is here sleeping.We have been sick both Joe and I. Miss you Earl wish you were here .Love you brother..."

"Happy Thanksgiving Earl lots of news Lawson has left for the Army already in boot camp. I’ve have been at Rhonda’s for almost a month soon time to go home how Can I leave this sweet little boy my heart is breaking.Earl Rhonda needs a guardian angel down here so I hope its you.Please be with her protect her and keep her safe I do know God has this covered Earl but I also believe in angels so be here with Rhonda..Love and miss you wishing you were here still.Love Joyce"

"Happy Birthday Earl. Sure wish I could say it to your face. Love ya bro. Now talk to Johnnie and straighten him out. lol"

"Happy Birthday Earl wow 66 years young today in heaven.Love you Earl and miss you as well."

"Hello Earl been awhile nothing new here dental work for Joe.Our oldest grandson has joined the army so please be his guardian angel and keep him safe.Missing you Earl. Butch and John are okay as for me still kicking it getting ready to celebrate the big 62 WOW 62 is just a number I just wish someone would tell that to my back knees and shoulder.Wish that you could be here to celebrate with me.Added some photos.Love you big guy❤️❤️"

"Sorry Earl been mia for a while just got back from NC it is beautiful there.Laying here Earl with mom on my mind I really really miss her please give her a hug for me.Stopped by your grave yesterday just doesn't seem real sometimes still want to pick the phone up and call you.Ilove you Earl and miss you still"

"Well Earl I posted some photos of your great nephew Samuel and today we we're blessed with a brand new baby nephew Gunner Louis and all looks well,as soon as possible I will post pictures of Gunner.Earl I miss you and truly wish you were still here to share all this happiness with.But I do know you are watching from heaven.Earl we finally got to meet our newest grandson he is so darn cute we didn't want to leave him or Rhonda I cried all the way home we stopped to eat and I couldn't stop crying even the waitress ask me if I was alright.Well closing for now but know I love you.Joyce❤️❤️"

"Earl sorry I have been Mia for awhile but we have been busy getting ready to do a lot of fun things.I will share all of this later with you.Earl I wish you were still here you would love all of your nieces they are a hoot.Arbogast and their bloodline really speaks.Closing for now be back later love you big guy"

"Went to the cemetery today to visit mom and dad had a nice talk I really miss them as well to Earl so please give them a hug and kiss from me.Earl your great nephew that isn't born yet needs a guardian angel so please help keep him safe his name is Gunner Louis.Butch and Beth's grandson I really wish you could see Butch he is done excited he is they will be great grandparents.Do please know we love and miss you big guy.Love always your sister Joyce ♥️"

"Hello Earl feeling blessed today good news I received but you already knew that.God is good now for him to remove it but I don't question God he has been taking care of me for 61 years.God is great and I praise his name.Earl I never will understand why God called you home so young but I realize now you are in a much better place.So taking a nap and will talk to you later.Love you Earl ♥️♥️♥️"

"Hello Earl dreary rainy day here.Been cleaning the living room getting ready to put my lasagna together for dinner tomorrow.Thinking about mom and dad so please give them a hug and kiss from me.Going for Earl love you big guy.♥️"

"Earl waiting  on John to stop by been up all night with my baby girl Trixie.She had a tummy ache.Joe just left for work so today I will be cleaning.Earl not much happening right now.I love you Earl.Joyce"

"Hello Earl sorry that I have been mia been kinda busy getting ready to go to Ohio for Lawson's graduation he is nineteen.Joseph is fifteen and Samuel will be two months on Monday.I've been very tired lately not feeling well but nothing I can do about give it all to God.John and Skye   Went to visit your grave the other day.Missing you Earl wish that I could see you but that won't be to I leave this earth.Love you ♥️"

"Happy Easter Earl"

"Posted some photos Earl I hope you can see them from heaven.They are of Mom and Dad and the nieces you never got to meet.Good night Earl.Love J...."

"Love you and thinking a lot about you this week."

"Earl today 44 years we laid you to rest I still remember it like it was yesterday.The one thing I remember the most was the pain in our mother's eyes.One of her last words on her death bed was to me please take of Earl's grave.She carried you Earl in her heart forever.A mothers love never dies.The day of your funeral was surreal I couldn't believe that you were really gone it felt like I was walking in quicksand my feet wouldn't move.It was a beautiful spring day the wind was blowing  and the sun was shining what a day to lay your brother into the ground.I remember the riding in the limousine with mom and I cannot remember who else was there it was all like a bad dream waiting for someone to wake me up.Earl I even remember the outfit I wore a green velvet suit I never wore that suit again it was laid to rest that day as well.Love you Earl and will never forget how you died and I will keep you in my heart forever you see a sister's love never dies.Love Joyce"

"Sad day today in a few hours you will have been dead for 44 years the pain and heart ache is still so very real.Why did you have to die?"

"Rest in peace Lemuel Earl Arbogast.3-20-73 gone but forever missed and loved.Your sister Joyce"

"Hello Earl can't believe tomorrow you will be gone 44 years I still can hear Dad telling me you were gone, it hurts just as much today as it did then.We will be coming to visit you this weekend.I love you big guy until we meet again.Love Joyce"

"Hello Earl  this day is done  dinner done  dishes  done now planning  tomorrow's activities,peanut butter  fudge and pineapple  upside cupcakes and the making spaghetti  and meatballs and last chicken  barbecue.Tomorrow will be busy.Went to church today and bible study tomorrow  night.God is good and he loves me.I love you Earl and miss you coming out on 3-20-17 to place flowers and visit with you.Butch and John are doing okay and you are going to be a great Uncle  once more any day now.I've not been feeling well you know blood pressure  to high to low and a rapid heart beat.It is weird  when I wake up and my heart is beating out of my chest.Earl I'm  ready when God is ready he is in control not me.I miss and love  you Earl."

"Hello Earl  yes I am up pain does that to a body.Earl any day we will welcome  a third grandson into our world Samuel  Elijah  think I spelled that correctly.Life is getting  strange here Earl we live in a world  of lazy entitled  people  that want it for free,and because  they're  not getting  their way they want  to  riot and destroy things I say let them destroy  it but do not rebuild  let them live in their own mess and confusion. You might say that I am fed up. Wonder what mom and dad would think of their conservative  daughter,yes Earl I voted  for  Donald  J.Trump  and proud to say it we need a strong God fearing leader.Well enough  political  talk for now.Sitting here missing you wondering  what life would be  if you  were still here.Well going for now  but know that hold you close to my heart  and alway's  in my thoughts Love you Earl."

"Hello Earl  well not much change here Joe is working and Rhonda ' s baby is do anytime now getting excited another grandchild.Butch and John are well me I am tired pain is a little to much but we all can't  be cry babies  suck  it up and move on.We all have that one family member that wants to be a victim and uses you for money and favors but that stops no more freebies pay me back and then we can talk oops that right your a victim man up and grow up I owe you nothing.Well rant over Earl sorry you had to hear that.The weather here is 70 degrees like summer time no snow what so ever.Got flowers for your grave missing you big guy and I love you with all of my heart.Going for now talk to you later.Love Joyce"

"Hello Earl sorry that I've  been  Mia for awhile  but I am here now.Sick with a horrible  sore  throat  and shoulder pain from hell nothing has eased this pain and I do mean  nothing.So this is medicine  and bed for me.We purchased flowers for your grave and Sissy bought some for her mom's  grave as well.We will be coming out between  March 20th  and the 23rd  you see Earl those  dates are tattooed on my heart.Still remember  the phone from Dad telling me you were gone wow I was 17 and heart  broken I hit the floor praying to God that Dad was wrong but we called the hospital  and they confirmed  that you were there all that I heard was that you were there then I knew it was true,my big strong  brother was gone no longer here no more talking to you no longer would we see your face.Closing for no Earl my heart hurts and the tears flow missing you  big guy always  your little sister Joyce I LOVE YOU EARL."

"Hello Earl  another  painful day I do have choices  pain medication  but I really hate taking drug so my choice is to give it to God please Lord hear my prayer this day in the name of your son my Lord  and  Savior  Jesus  Christ  Amen.Well Earl  we had a little bit of snow nothing worth  talking about,it is cold though.John stopped by and he looked tired he goes on not much sleep.Doing some laundry  the steps are killing me today not as young as I use to be bones hurting me more lately.Wish that you could  be here in my heart you always  will be.Love and miss you as well.Love Joyce ......"

"Hello Earl  yes I am up can you guess why if you guessed pain you are so right.Left shoulder and right knee.Well Earl it has gotten  really  cold and windy here maybe winter has finally  arrived.Earl I sure wish heaven had a phone  would love to hear your  voice  one more time.I love you  and  miss  you  Earl."

"Hello brother  getting ready to start dinner and yes I HATE COOKING and I don't  know why.Sure wish you were here missing you more and more lately feeling  blue today.Well closing for now but know that I love you big guy.Joyce..."

"Hello Earl tired today and the weather sucks.Both doggies are laying on me right now but I love them both.Talked to John today he is well Butch also well.Sissy is coming next Wednesday for a visit.Did I say I would like a BLIZZARD.Depressed right now so I will be going for now.Love you Earl...."

"Hello Earl tired today and the weather sucks.Both doggies are laying on me right now but I love them both.Talked to John today he is well Butch also well.Sissy is coming next Wednesday for a visit.Did I say I would like a BLIZZARD.Depressed right now so I will be going for now.Love you Earl...."

"Hello Earl tired today and the weather sucks.Both doggies are laying on me right now but I love them both.Talked to John today he is well Butch also well.Sissy is coming next Wednesday for a visit.Did I say I would like a BLIZZARD.Depressed right now so I will be going for now.Love you Earl...."

"Hello Earl crappie day out rainy and  dreary .Want snow BLIZZARDS would be nice.Earl thinking about taking my maiden name back dropping  Collier  altogether have already told Joe and really he is the only one that matters,born and Arbogast will die and Arbogast.Never should have given  it up when I got married.Not one of my smart choices need to see what it it will take to have my name changed back.Earl I told you that your grave was repaired they did and okay job.Would like to thank the crackhead that stole your brass vase and ring in the first place sad they truly are lost.Not much happening  here same shit different  day.Well going for now will talk to you later big guy . Love  Joyce....."

"HAPPY NEW  YEAR  EARL SENDING THIS MESSAGE ALL THE WAY TO HEAVEN"

"Hello Earl it is New Years Eve 2016 getting ready to ring in the New Year of 2017 not going out staying in having a very quiet New Years.We have so much to be thankful for this year for me my journey with God is my greatest blessing next is my family Joe,the girls  our grandson's  and our son-in-law's,and let's  not forget our furry children.Our brothers and families ,niece's  and nephew's we are blessed.I cannot forget our church family  and our pastor.Earl I truly wish your were here to share these memories  but you are not so writing this to you and it will have to do.I give you all of my love this New Years and I hope that you can hear and see me to know that you are remembered  and missed and love.Love from your sister Joyce."

"Earl I have some  sad news Beth Butch ' s wife loss her sister today to young 59 years young so please greet her if you can tell her that her family  here on this earthly plain grieves her loss.Earl their are know words you can share with someone at times like this to ease their pain and heartache.I know because we also suffered the loss of you at the young age of 21 years,the pain is gut wrenching.So sad.Well Earl coming out this am to check on the repairs of your grave hoping it is repaired up to my standards you do hear me up there when I get upset,I made a promise  to our mother but Earl please understand  that it will die with me.Earl I know you know about the good news I won't  share on here but it is fantastic  news.So closing for now  God willing and my sins forgiven I will walk into heaven one day and give you a hug love you brother your baby sister Joyce....."

"Hello Earl have been in a lot of pain got a cortisone  injection  into my left ankle  yesterday  at 4 pm so ice and resting it for now.John came by this morning he looks tired worried about him working to much on to little sleep.Praying for him.Earl the man from the cemetery  called your grave has been repaired vase and ring have been replaced at no cost very nice man his name was George.Well closing for now brother I love you and miss you.Love Joyce..."

"Sorry Earl haven't  been  able to talk having  a lot of pain going to the doctors  in the am.Not going out for New  Years maybe dinner and then home maybe  this I will stay awake for the ball drop in New York,as you can tell we are not party animal's  lol.Well closing for now brother love and miss you Earl talk to you llater.Love Joyce ........."

"Good morning  Earl  well it is Christmas  Monday  and the rush is through thank god boy am I tired.Have some news great news Butch and Beth are going to be grandparents a new baby grandson what a blessing wonderful news more news but it is private so I cannot share but I know that you already  know Earl great news as well  what a wonderful  blessing at Christmas   time.GOD IS GREAT AND HEARS OUR PRAYERS THANK YOU JESUS AMEN. Earl we had a wonderful  Christmas  went to dinner. Christmas  eve service and the to church on Christmas  morning  what a blessing to share the story of our Savior's  birth  never ever get tired of hearing it the greatest gift of all the baby in the manger  baby Jesus .Blessed  we are truly blessed.I know heaven is glorious can only imagine  the beauty and grace.Earl we are resting today taking it easy for sure,we saw John and Butch,Beth and Tyler and Josh on Christmas  eve I think Josh favors his mother and Tyler is the spitting image  of Butch when he was younger but for sure both good looking young men and welll grounded I know they get that from Beth no Butch and  Beth are good parents and going to be great  grandparents  as well.Earl hope you liked your flowers we placed on your grave  it sometimes  seems surreal that you have been gone forty three years  gone longer than you lived."

"Merry Christmas  Earl love you ..."

"Hello Earl six pounds of fudge done and one pumkin roll almost done boy I am tired.No mess in the kitchen it is cleaned up as well.Sent some fudge home with John making some for Butch and Beth.Tired I am.Going for now Earl will talk to you later.I love you and miss you as well.Merry Christmas Earl"

"Hello Earl me again up and getting ready to make some more fudge,went and saw the christmas  lights  at hampden  last night a little disappointed one thing parking was a nightmare  and so many people with that  being  said  the lights were pretty.Earl I know you remember  how dad would decorate it reminded of his style  of decorating lights with more lights.Going to be a little busy today have to make my cakes and tomorrow  the deviled  eggs.Earl spoke to Rhonda yesterday  she sounded very tired not much longer  before grandson number four arrives Samuel  Elijah  is going to be his name.I Know i know I told her that Earl was a nice name.lol.The house is so quiet I do believe  you could hear a pin drop I like the quiet the Christmas  lights  sparkling just me and my thoughts.I talk to God a lot Earl and pray and give him thanks I thank him for giving  you as a big brother and for Butch and John as well.God has truly blessed me my husband is one of the good guys  out here I met him in a gas station  Earl I was eighteen at that time he had just turned twenty  one,babies we were babies now forty  two years later here we are and he is truly my one true love.So much to share Earl.Going for now Big Guy but will be back later miss you and love you your little sister  Joyce...Merry  Christmas  Earl..."

"Hello Earl hope you like your flowers also we went to Aunt Wendy's grave as well.Going to see the Christmas lights with Lyle and Kristian.Making some more fudge later.It is cold here Earl freezing my behind off.Love you Earl and I will talk to you later.Love  Joyce...."

"Hello Earl hope you like your flowers also we went to Aunt Wendy's grave as well.Going to see the Christmas lights with Lyle and Kristian.Making some more fudge later.It is cold here Earl freezing my behind off.Love you Earl and I will talk to you later.Love  Joyce...."

"Hello Earl hope you like your flowers also we went to Aunt Wendy's grave as well.Going to see the Christmas lights with Lyle and Kristian.Making some more fudge later.It is cold here Earl freezing my behind off.Love you Earl and I will talk to you later.Love  Joyce...."

"Hello Earl it's  me again why am I up you ask PAIN now with that being said let me share my day with you.Cleaning done now I have to bake a few cakes pumpkin rolls and one pineapple  upside down cake by request,and deviled  eggs also by request.Christmas is near pondering  still on the birth of Jesus  I am amazed  at the wonder of it all he was born to teach us and then die so our sins would  be  forgiven.Thank you Lord for the greatest gift of all your son our Lord  and  Savior.Earl we will be coming  to  visit you and Aunt Wendy by Friday .Just so you know Earl it still hurts each time I visit your grave I do know that you are not there but it hurts just the same.Oh oh for the news Joe and I are going to have another  grandson Samuel that makes four we are happy and guess who is going to be a grandfather again come on guess Butch yes I said Butch and he says he is not excited but you can hear it in his voice  he is very excited when his grandchild arrives stick a fork in him he will be done.John is coming by this morning  to sleep he sounds tired I worry about him no brothers to spare Lord  please take care of the ones I have.Going out tonight  to see the christmas  lights  with Lyle and Kristian  hampden I think.Joe is off work today and tomorrow  we might go see the new Star Wars movie  and lunch I told you I hate cooking.lol well good night Earl  and know that  I  love  you .Joyce"

"Hello Earl here  to share my thoughts  with you sitting here pondering on the birth of Jesus just think about what Mary went  though not married but going to marry Joseph and Joseph not married to Mary yet but she is pregnant,wow God is truly amazing for the gift of our Lord and  Savior  his only begotten son Jesus Christ.Earl it took me along time to be on this journey  with Christ as you know our religious  upbringing  was lacking thank god for Julia Bennett  she toke all the neighborhood  children to church.I was lost without  Christ and now  through  Christ I am found and I praise him everyday.So this week Earl I will ponder on the birth of my Lord and  Savior  Jesus  Christ and know that is not about the presents   underneath the tree but the baby in the manger...Happy birthday  Jesus....I love you Earl Merry  Christmas.Joyce..."

"Hello Earl up with a banger of a headache  I really dislike having them .It is cold here now really would like a little SNOW just a little.Goodnight for now and I will talk to you later.Love Joyce........"

"Hello Earl just finished  dinner and now taking a break. Earl I truly dislike cooking why I don't  have a clue.The dogs got Arby's  roast  beef  they are SPOILED.LOL.Made a peach pie now I am full also made peanut butter fudge.If I remember  you liked meatloaf and chili without beans and tomatoe sandwiches.You like just about anything mom would make.Earl you were  her favorite  and that is okay she missed you every  day  of the rest of her life. I will be coming out to visit you and Aunt Wendy this week Joe is taking  off a couple of days.Got a good husband he helps with the house work and really anything I need.Earl if I could have five minutes  I would tell you how much you mean to me and give you the BIGGEST HUG EVER.MERRY CHRISTMAS  EARL and I do remember  the memories  you made with me.donuts at Westside shopping center  and not the cake kind.lol...Talk to you later. Love Joyce"

"Thinking about you Earl. Talked to Johnnie a few times this week, he's a mess. hahaha! Joyce sent me a Christmas card and it was sweet of her to do so. That makes a total of 2 of em so far. Guess I'm lucky and blessed to get that many. People done forgot the old traditions and the way we done things. Dadburn technology. You wouldn't recognize the way things are done nowadays. Nobody talks to anyone anymore. Damn shame too, cause its hurting us as a whole. No personalization these days. I guess I got lucky and made it this far in life and I really don't know how I did it? Thought I'd be gone in my thirties. I'm not and so I am fortunate to be able to call your family "friends" ! Not many of them around either. Ok, thanks for listening Earl, I'm gonna go for now. However this gets to you, Merry Christmas FRIEND.
Dave"

"Earl Kristian and I went and saw the Russian Nutcracker Ballet last night it was awesome they really perform a wonderful show,the costumes were amazinng.I Really do wish you were here to share this with.But I guess talking to you like this will have to do for now.Almost  done shopping for Christmas  a couple  of small things left and food to get going to make some peanut butter fudge I don't  like chocolate  fudge,thinking about making mom's potatoe candy though.Mom could cook and bake.John is coming this morning to get some sleep and I spoke to Butch the other day and you know the rest we all have that one unhappy family member  hope they get their act together  soon because of their actions they will be alone at Christmas  and believe me this is their choice.God knows I have tried praying for them but moving on with my life.Toxic people  will drain you and no more I have nothing left to give to this person so I will continue  to  pray for them .Earl I love and miss you every day  so for now talk at ya later.MERRY CHRISTMAS ...Love Joyce..."

"Good morning Earl it has been a long night now getting ready for the doctors and injection they are always from yay me.Really really wish I could just give  you a hug,know that I miss you  Earl"

"Hello brother it is 11:57 pm here and yes pain has got me up.Earl i went and got a cortisone  shot in  my ankle  can you say OUCH I did hurt oh my did it hurt.Looking at surgery  maybe trying some other treatments  first.As you know Earl we made cookies over the weekend  boy did we make some cookies and yes they were delicious now just trying to get everything  together  for  Christmas,shopping just about done now shopping for Christmas  dinner Kristian is cooking and I will be making side dishes and desserts this year and yes she can cook and bake from scratch.You would love both of your niece's and they would have loved you.Earl you would have had a blast with these young ladies sorry you didn't  get the pleasure  to meet them.I talk about you a lot to them so your memory stays alive yes Earl gone but never  forgotten.Merry Christmas  Earl and I love you."

"Well Earl back again news this time is letting go of the toxic people  in my life the people that want to be victims and hold no part in their circumstances  and then want to call and bitch me out because they are afraid  to stand up to anyone.Done I am over this crap grow up no one is going to continue  to have you in their life when all you bring to it is drama.I am not your mama so back off and if you cannot respect  me then lose my number.Wow Earl thanks for listening  I have told this to this person  and they don't  want to hear  the truth.Earl you know I respect  people and I love my family  but I have had enough time to let them go.Sorry for the rant but I needed to vent.Love you Earl now and forever your baby sister Joyce"

"Hello Earl stopping by to talk in bed can't sleep headache went away the shoulder stayed.Had lunch with today with Brent and Joann five guys burgers pretty good.l then went grocery shopping after came home and Joe work outside on the christmas decorations.Earl you would love Joe he is a gear head just like you were and he is a good man.Going to start to try and get some order to house for Christmas but you know  the older you get the harder it gets to do things.Wish you were here to celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ the reason for the season.Earl I truly am very happy because I have Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and one good husband two beautiful daughters and handsome grandsons and let's not forget my son-in-laws blessed truly blessed thank you Lord for the gifts of my family.I love you Earl along with Butch and John and their families they have both been blessed with beautiful wives Beth and Mary.Well Earl time to say good night and I miss you and will always hold you in my heart.Love J❤"

"Hello Earl stopping by to talk in bed can't sleep headache went away the shoulder stayed.Had lunch with today with Brent and Joann five guys burgers pretty good.l then went grocery shopping after came home and Joe work outside on the chritmas decorations.Earl you would love Joe he is a gear head just like you were and he is a good man.Going to start to try and get some order to house for Christmas but you know  the older you get the harder it gets to do things.Wish you were here to celebrate the birth of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ the reason for the season.Earl I truly am very happy because I have Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior and one good husband two beautiful daughters and handsome grandsons and let's not forget my son-in-laws blessed truly blessed thank you Lord for the gifts of my family.I love you Earl along with Butch and John and their families they have both been blessed with beautiful wives Beth and Mary.Well Earl time to say good night and I miss you and will always hold you in my heart.Love J❤"

"Went Christmas  shopping today a couple of things left to get then I am done mailed out money cards for Rhonda,Shane and the grandsons.Orderd Joe a Bose stereo system  online he loves music.Earl wish you were here I would hug you and never let you go that's how much I truly miss you.Merry Christmas  in heaven Earl,tell mom and dad Merry  Christmas  too and our grandson Colt.Give everyone there a hug from me.Well i know that you know we finally  got a decent president  Donald  Trump  thank god never killary  Clinton.She thought she had the election  in the bag well let me tell you the joke was on her she lost big time she couldn't  steal this election we the people  voted and God had his hand in this election  for sure.Making cookies next Friday and Saturday  maybe into Sunday  not sure just yet my best friend is polish so you know we will be making some good cookies.Merry Christmas  one more time brother until we meet  again in heaven  I love you."

"Hello Earl yes I am awake pain does that.Thinking about you tonight while I was at bible study mostly about forgiveness how to forgive and yes this is something to think about.Earl I truly must forgive those who toke part in your death I love you Earl and believe that you are in heaven.So with that being said I will work on forgiving
Please Lord help me to find the peace and  understanding that as human beings we don't understand.Earl I love you and miss you but I believe you are with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.Forgiveness and Peace will be in my heart and on my mind in prayer this day.Love you big guy always your little sister J.❤"

"Sitting here missing you Earl I know that the hurt and pain should ease but for me it has not.Now that Christmas  is near it hits hard that you won't  be here to share  it with us.Sorry Earl I have to close this for now to upset to talk.I LOVE BIG GUY KNOW THAT IF YOU KNOW NOTHING ELSE THAT YOUR LITTLE SISTER LOVES YOU EARL.LOVE J"

"HAPPY THANKSGIVING EARL.......LOVE FROM ME YOUR BABY SISTER❤"

"Good morning Earl and Happy Thanksgiving  in heaven . Sixty  one thanksgiving 's a lot that I have been blessed with God is  good.Got to start making potatoe salad soon and then deviled eggs for dinner going out this year to Kristian and Lyles home you would like him Earl nice young man.I bet you would have been something else with all your niece's.lol I miss you Earl"

"Hello Earl one day away from Thanksgiving  busy busy that is me.Turkey,stuffing  sweet potatoes ,mashed potatoes  sauerkraut  green beans,gravy cranberry sauce,Cole slaw,deviled eggs,pickled eggs.Now dessert pumpkin  pie,apple pie with whipped cream and lemon pie,baked rolls.Say it Earl just like mom not as good as she was though.Earl I wish that you could be here to enjoy thanksgiving  and Christmas.Missing you and I love  you  big guy.Love J."

"Hello Earl didn't  get  to  your grave this weekend  could  not find flowers that I liked Try again this weekend.Earl please keep and eye on our brother you know whom I am talking about like I stated before I have no spares.Crazy weekend for sure.Listening to Christmas  music right now and missing you brother.Just got my new license left the other one and polling  place when I went to vote I know they threw it away am a Republican  and most of them are democrats oh well got a new one and karma is a bitch.Waiting for Joe to get home the bible study he has a choice of left overs sausages with peppers and onions or fried chicken  with mashed potatoes,gravy and green beans.I love left overs don't  have  to  cook.Joe put our Christmas   tree up last night now to decorate   it.Wish you were  here to celebrate  with us.Closing for now will talk to you later love and miss you big guy.Love J."

"Happy birthday Earl would have turned 64 today wow sorry that I've been mia but been a little sick better now so one more  time HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU ALL THE WAY TO HEAVEN LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU BIG GUY.Getting ready for thanksgiving down here and we are truly blessed. Life is crazy just had the presidential election and Donald Trump won and the leftist Looney toons are going nuts and they are suppose to be the peaceful side.I know that you know I voted for Trump now we need to pray that everyone comes together as One Nation Under God help President Donald Trump Fix and heal our nation.Earl I wish that I  could give you a hug one more time I had a memorial necklace made so I could feel like you are close to me Will post picture when I get a new phone.Earl I need your help you know how families get inside bickering well we have as well so please help me to open the hearts and minds and bring peace home.I told someone I have no spare brothers when you lose one the hurt is forever again missing you.Please tell mom and dad that I love them our grandson Colt as well Earl Claudette is with you now and I know she is singing and praising God's holy name tell her that I love her and had so much respect for the beautiful woman she was and that she touched my life  more then she will ever have known.Tell everyone that is in heaven they are truly loved and missed
Going to visit your and Aunt Wendy's graves tomorrow and place flowers there.Love J❤"

"Stopping by to say you are in my thoughts and to tell you that I love you big guy.I Truly miss you Earl.LOVE J.❤"

"Well Earl coming to you with some sad news Claudette died tonight in a tragic car accident no words can explain how I feel right now,she was such a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul.Claudette was so soft spoken never ever heard her raise her voice in anger.Earl my heart is breaking for her family Bill,Alex and Warren also her daughter-in-law and her grandchildren.Earl I can't talk anymore tonight just lost for words and I can't stop crying.I love Earl and miss you as well.Love J."

"Hey Earl not been on here for awhile sorry Joe has had pneumonia and I broke the big toe on my left foot OUCH. Joe is doing better it was a fight to get him to see the Dr.Earl Mary's mother Ms.Rose passed away and is now with you in heaven please tell her to take care of her daughter Mary to be her guardian angel here on earth.Tell mom and dad that I love and miss them and please give our grandson Colt hugs and kisses from his Nana and Poppop hugs for you too big guy I truly do miss you I know stop crying but I can't help it sometimes the tears just roll.Stopping am stopping.Earl know you are forever in my heart and always in my prayers.Earl you are in a much better place I know that you know our world is truly messed up please be my guardian angel Earl.Just got a picture of our youngest grandson Joseph and Earl this young man is your twin the spitting image of you it is unreal like am looking at you genetics will come though.Earl I just got my necklace a memorial to you a letter a E and the birthstone of November that I wear close to my heart so you will always be with me.Earl closing for now but know you are always with me I love you until next time.Love J.❤❤"

"Hey Earl not been on here for awhile sorry Joe has had pneumonia and I broke the big toe on my left foot OUCH. Joe is doing better it was a fight to get him to see the Dr.Earl Mary's mother Ms.Rose passed away and is now with you in heaven please tell her to take care of her daughter Mary to be her guardian angel here on earth.Tell mom and dad that I love and miss them and please give our grandson Colt hugs and kisses from his Nana and Poppop hugs for you too big guy I truly do miss you I know stop crying but I can't help it sometimes the tears just roll.Stopping am stopping.Earl know you are forever in my heart and always in my prayers.Earl you are in a much better place I know that you know our world is truly messed up please be my guardian angel Earl.Just got a picture of our youngest grandson Joseph and Earl this young man is your twin the spitting image of you it is unreal like am looking at you genetics will come though.Earl I just got my necklace a memorial to you a letter a E and the birthstone of November that I wear close to my heart so you will always be with me.Earl closing for now but know you are always with me I love you until next time.Love J.❤❤"

"Hey Earl not been on here for awhile sorry Joe has had pneumonia and I broke the big toe on my left foot OUCH. Joe is doing better it was a fight to get him to see the Dr.Earl Mary's mother Ms.Rose passed away and is now with you in heaven please tell her to take care of her daughter Mary to be her guardian angel here on earth.Tell mom and dad that I love and miss them and please give our grandson Colt hugs and kisses from his Nana and Poppop hugs for you too big guy I truly do miss you I know stop crying but I can't help it sometimes the tears just roll.Stopping am stopping.Earl know you are forever in my heart and always in my prayers.Earl you are in a much better place I know that you know our world is truly messed up please be my guardian angel Earl.Just got a picture of our youngest grandson Joseph and Earl this young man is your twin the spitting image of you it is unreal like am looking at you genetics will come though.Earl I just got my necklace a memorial to you a letter a E and the birthstone of November that I wear close to my heart so you will always be with me.Earl closing for now but know you are always with me I love you until next time.Love J.❤❤"

"Hello Earl sorry I've been gone for a while went to Ohio to see Rhonda and the boys I say boys but wow Lawson is over six feet tall and Joseph is 5'9 at 14.Lawson is turned into one handsome young man that wants to join the FBI we are so proud of him.Joseph he wants to,move to New York and become a writer who would have thunk it,yes I did say thunk.Joseph looks a lot like you Earl almost like looking at you,and Lawson has the Arbogast height but looks a lot like his pop Joe.Handsome grandsons for sure.We love our grandsons wish they could have known their Great Uncle Earl.Well I have bronchitis not doing great but I don't sweat the small stuff.I love you Earl and miss so much closing for now tired but I will be back.Love J.❤"

"Good morning Earl went to a jewelry  party last and I created a necklace  in your memory  it has a charm with the letter E  and a birthstone of November  for your birthday so I can take you with me.Gone Earl but never forgotten .Going for now but know you are loved and missed.Love J."

"Sorry Earl I've been m.i.a for the past couple of days been in a lot of pain  couldn't  walk it hurt so bad,like to say am better but am not.So keep and  eye out for me please.Another long night the worst part is I really don't liket crying me crying but like I said the pain is that bad from the back to the hip  down my leg to the knee which looks like a basketball  down the calf to my foot.Enough said about me.I love you and miss you Earl every minute  of every  day.Just wish I could see you again when I look at Butch and John I wonder who you look more like but I see you in Tator,but our grandson Joseph is built like you and looks like you as well.So you do live on your nephew's.Good night Earl love you now and forever."

"Good night  Big Guy."

"Well Earl it's  here my birthday 61 years young today and the only thing to make it more special   would be for you  to  be here  to celebrate  with.Earl I really miss having you here.Life is not the same with you gone.My heart is truly broken I love you big guy.Rhonda just called to wish me  a Happy  birthday  scared the crap out of me is what she did the phone ringing in the middle of the night but Earl I love my girls God blessed me with two.God sent them to me in march he knew.He is wiser then us all.Earl I saw a beautiful  butterfly  today that Dad sent you see after he passed I had dream and about him and in the dream he told me he would send me butterflies  to know he was okay in heaven and to give my heart peace.Earl please give mom,dad and colt a hug and a kiss for me and if you should see a beautiful  black cat that's  my Sabrina give her a pet for me.Earl until I see you in heaven please know you sir are loved and missed.Always J."

"LOVE YOU LEMUEL  EARL ARBOGAST"

"Good morning  Earl  not been here for a while been under the weather  a little that's  life I guess.It has been a busy year puff and it is gone,in a couple  of days I will be turning  61 years young wow the years are floating  by. This year you would be turning 64 I get really really sad when I realize all that you have missed all the niece's  and nephew's  that you never got to meet and believe you have a few.Earl I was blessed to have you as my big brother and I have never forgotten the loved you showed your little  sister and I do pray every day that  the good Lord in heaven will let us meet again and when my day comes to leave this earthy body that you are the one that leads me home.I love you Big Guy then and now."

"Sorry Earl not been here for a couple of days got busy with cleaning the house what I use to be able to do in a day now takes me a week, getting old sucks but it is better to be over the hill then under it sorry Earl no disrespect.I love you and I miss you so very much.Thinking about what your life would have been like today kids maybe grandkids?So much you had to miss in life Earl all about choices what if you could have made better ones but that comes with a support system,I wish I could have been their more for you.Life for me is pretty good blessed with a great husband  and two beautiful  daughters  and three grandson's  and two wonderful  son-in-law's.Closing for now love you Big guy...J."

"Good morning Earl awake early lots to do laundry  done yesterday  now bedrooms today and grocery  shopping today,need more time in the day.It has been really hot here lately  me am ready for fall or a blizzard oh no I remember you liked the snow remember  the donuts at Westside shopping center punk lol.I really thought you were going for donuts not to do them in he parking lot.Thanks for the memory.Well closing for now I love you Earl please keep watch over me until later.Love J."

"Hello Earl we just got back from seeing Hillary ' s America one evil woman that's  for  sure. Earl I hope you like the flowers and  they are ordering you a new vase sorry that some Crack head stole your vase,but know God saw what they did.Earl had a nice day church breakfast  with Joe and Lenoard and then a movie and dinner with Joe.Rain storms came through but I believe they are done.I talked to Butch he is well you know Butch is Butch he alway's  lands on his  feet.I love all three of my brothers  I have none to spare.Earl I wish that I could tell that I don't    cry over you being  gone but that would be a lie my heart is still broken to hear you're  voice just one more time...Closing for now Big Guy I love and miss you still...J."

"Earl I just won 500.00 on a 2.00 scratch off can you say lucky.God is good.Coming out to visit you in the a.m.tomorrow  sorry I couldn't   make it sooner.Earl I was crying tonight I was talking about you to Joe and I just became overwhelmed with missing you so much we have missed so many memories   we couldn't share so I hope you are watching from heaven and know that you big guy are more than a memory to me you Earl will alway's   be my big brother.I love and miss you so much.Closing for now Earl see you later.Joyce Sand and I know you remember."

"Received   my license  today Earl good for another eight years god willing.I will make it out to see you this weekend.So dang hot here.Closing go now Earl will talk to you later.Love Joyce"

"Got the flowers for your  grave and Aunt Wendy's  to,not making it today though feeling under the weather.I love and miss you Earl..."

"Good morning  Earl  busy day ahead might try and visit your grave tomorrow  and Aunt Wendy's  too.Love you big guy."

"Posting pictures of your family Earl a lot of family you never got to meet but I will keep your memory alive as long as i have breath in my body,you Earl will alway's   be my big brother.Love you."

"Goodnight Earl tired and in pain.Love and miss you"

"Well my license   is done for another eight years Earl now they mail them to you in and out in 30 minutes,Joe stood in line for me another 30 minutes  I have  a great husband I think that you and Joe would have liked each other he is crazy like you were  he has to be look who he married  almost 42 years he is truly my best friend.He takes good care of your   little sister that's for sure.Earl you were always my protector I knew that I was safe with you.I can't   say it enough how much I love and miss you Earl.Please tell mom and dad I love them too and please hold our grandson Colt for us and give him some kisses from his Nana and Poppop.Until later big guy I love you.❤"

"Good morning Earl I'm up early no sleep last night due to pain,getting ready to go for my license  renewed  can you believe I've been driving for 40 years ,getting old Earl getting old in a few weeks I will be 61 years young wow.Earl I truly wish that you could have a do over but we both  know that will never happen  god had other  plans for you and me.Well closing for now but I will be back love you to the moon and back Earl.❤"

"Well Earl it is 1:10 am and I can't  sleep pain can sure keep you awake.So many unanswered  questions Earl your last thoughts were you scared were you betrayed by the people you called friends these were the questions mom and dad lived with everyday and me also.The phone call from dad telling me you were gone is the one thing I will never forget the pain is the same today as it was then.The shock of you being gone forever I have never seen our mother so distraught  the pain in our hearts is at times unbearable .The one promise I made to our mom was that I would always take care of your grave so I really hope you like the flowers I leave.I love you Earl and miss you every minute  of   every day.Good night Earl.❤"

"Well Earl John made it he is sleeping now.Him and Butch remind me of you.lol Watch over us please until we see you again.love you ❤"

"Good morning Earl all is well on the home front,Joe is getting ready for work me I'm having coffee playing with my furry children.John might stop by so I'm waiting on him.Earl i really hope that your spirit  can hear me because I truly miss having you here.The world we live in today is not the world we grew up in it is really screwed up.I wonder if you were here right now what would you think I think I know but I can't  use that language  here.Well closing for now big guy but please know I miss and love you every day.❤"

"Sitting here Earl thinking about everything you have missed you have many nieces and nephews.My grandsons Lawson will be 18 on Sunday and Joseph will be 15 on 10-13-16,they know all the good things about you Earl their uncle.They love hearing about you and I love telling them about their Uncle Earl.So for now I will be happy with my memories of the short time we had in this life together.P.S. thank you for helping me with my homework sorry about the needle though.Lol.Love you big guy❤"

"It is beautiful day here Earl but I bet it is more beautiful where you are at.Hope one day we can be together again miss you and love you Earl.❤"

"Earl...ya left us too soon bro. Why'd ya hafta go away before I could say "see ya later bro"? You were one of the best friends a person coulda asked for. You just make sure St. Peter is awake and has his keys to those gates brother. Ill see ya when I get there. I know if you made it there, I will. LOVE YA BRO!!"

"Forever missed loved you then and I love you now.❤"