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In loving memory we say goodbye to Mary Greeno. 

She was a loving mother, a devoted partner, a caring sister, a wonderful friend, and a joyful grandmother.

We invite you to share your memories within this memorial site to celebrate Mary's life. 

The family hopes to hold an in-person celebration of life for Mary and Dean when health protocols permit. 

Thank you for being a loved one in Mary's life.

September 30, 2022
September 30, 2022
9/30/222
As Autumn is displaying the beauty of the earth, my thoughts turn to Mary and the beauty of her presence. Missing Mary is a constant and the edges of grief are beginning to grow a patina of colors reminiscent of the change of seasons. Today and always I celebrate my dear friend and send love and energy to her family.
October 1, 2021
October 1, 2021
As another sister and a brother fade away into the Alzheimer's fog, I realize how much Mary Catherine tied us all together. She would stop by or call and let us know what was going on with the family. Mary Catherine kept track of all the birthdays and anniversaries better than we kept track of our own. October is her birthday month, Happy Birthday sister!
September 30, 2021
September 30, 2021
The spirit of Mary is a continuous blessing to me as these days pass by. She is always present and I feel her energy as earth offers the world the turning colors of Autumn blessings. This is Mary's birthday month and I celebrate her life.
September 30, 2021
September 30, 2021
Still missing my aunt "Cotchie" so much. More than an aunt - actually, a second mother. She will remain in my heart forever, and I honor her on this day, one year from her passing. Hugs and much love to Mandee, Marnie, Darren and Mitch!
January 19, 2021
January 19, 2021
Darren, Mitchell, Mandee and Marney. I was so sorry to learn of your loss of Mary. It was my privilege to become a friend of Mary’s through our mutual friend, Marilyn. It was always a delight to be with Mary with her happy smile, her cheerful personality and kind, warm approach to all. She will live on in the hearts of so many.
November 29, 2020
November 29, 2020
Mary and I met the day our oldest sons started Kindergarten at Sunrise Elementary and that began 35 years of friendship. Through all the holidays together and serious years of emotions and love that keep a friendship in that special place knowing what 'forever and a day' means, I will always have Mary with me.
The precious time of having our children form friendships and the great love I have for Darren, Mitchell, Mandee, and Marney is a gift Mary has given me. My life is blessed for having had Mary with me and I will always cherish her special magic of being Mary.
November 21, 2020
November 21, 2020
I was so very sorry to hear of Mary’s death. I also flew for Northwest
airlines and am from Spokane.
We met while commuting from Seattle. I was flying for Republic airlines at the time. I have never forgotten
the incredible kindness she showed me during the merger of our airlines. She was gracious, friendly,
accepting and professional. I always
enjoyed running into her. She truly is a Lovely Lady. I hope her memory will always bring her family joy.
November 8, 2020
November 8, 2020
So it’s extremely sad to lose Aunt Cauchie. It is truly heartbreaking. I know she was a great mother, wife, friend. A good relative to always visit and the best aunt ever!! Aunt Jean is second. Lol. But she was always a sweetheart, and I will remember that quality always the most. I spent an entire summer in Spokane and it was a really amazing experience. I will never forget that. And I remember in the morning taking a shower and singing Guns and Roses at the top of my lungs, and Cauchie would later say that I sounded great. It’s that sweetness that will always be around. Much love and much rest. You are in a better place now. Love
November 3, 2020
November 3, 2020
I knew both Mary and Dean while I worked for Northwest Airlines. They both were exceptional human beings. They left their mark here on earth and will forever be in our hearts. I feel fortunate to have known Mary as well as Dean.
October 31, 2020
October 31, 2020
Mary had the easiest laughter, always tuned into the humorous side of life. She was also very sensitive and caring for everyone around her. We took for granted how easy she was for us to be with. Janice and I will miss her always, but we will remember her with so many great memories,
October 31, 2020
October 31, 2020
Mary was a very good friend to us. She was so pretty, thoughtful, and accomplished. She was, also, a fun lady and a terrific hostess.
We met Mary when she married Dean. We marveled how she flew, raised her family, and made time for her friends.
We already loved Marney and Mandee and we were happy when Darren and Mitchell came into their life.
Even with a growing family and keeping Northwest Airlines in business, we were lucky enough to spend many happy days with Mary and Dean.
We enjoyed wonderful times with them in their Spokane home and at Priest Lake. It was a perfect summer day when went out in their boat with their Dalmatian puppy on Priest Lake.
They enjoyed visiting us at our San Juan Island cabin and our Redmond home. When Mitchell was a baby, Darren a toddler, and Mandee young and with a cast on her leg they came to visit us in Redmond. We toured Seattle with Mandee hobbling but determined to keep up.
In later years we planned a couples’ vacation to Palm Springs. Dean booked a hotel that turned out to be a little “seedy”. Mary and Kathie took the matter in hand and booked two lovely casitas at La Quinta. Much better!
Just a few memories from a lifetime of fun and friendship thanks to our Mary.
Kathie and Loren DeShon
October 30, 2020
October 30, 2020
I met Mary in 1969 when we both just began flying for NWA. We flew together and hit it off immediately. We soon became roommates and always had so much fun and so many laughs together. We worked in a warehouse together during the BRAC strike, which we both hated, and she later became a cocktail waitress. I would pick her up from work, very late at night, and we would sit on the apartment floor (we had no furniture because we were dirt poor) and count out her tips. During the strike we drove to Antigo, Wisconsin and had a blast fishing and staying in her parents' beautiful farmhouse. We were always laughing! Mary was home the day I met and brought home my to-be husband and told her all about him and how I felt that "this was it". Her reply was, "Oh God, Dianne" while shaking her head in disbelief. Two years later she was my Maid of Honor at our wedding. I have so many wonderful memories about beautiful Mary Catherine with her gorgeous smile, terrific personality, and kind heart. She is now in heaven with Deano looking out for her 4 children (& grandchildren) whom she so dearly loved and cherished. Mary will be missed and remembered forever!
Dianne Lucas Best (& Paul)
October 26, 2020
October 26, 2020
So many wonderful memories of Mary and Dean. Glad you lost your wallet, think it was Darren's, that many years ago at Priest and finding it made us long time friends of Dean and Mary. Your Mom was a fantastic cook. Her ribs were the best ever. Many happy memories at Princeville and Priest. Sharing friends, meals, the Lord and many laughs together. Mary's warm humor and love of life will always be with us. She had a special gift of caring that few have. So glad you kept Priest in the family. Come and visit us when you are up there.
October 25, 2020
October 25, 2020
Darren, Mitchell, Mandee and Marney. Kib and I so loved your Mom and Dad! We became friends when your family moved in across the street from us in Lakeville. We have many, many wonderful memories of our families growing up together and, as you know, they were the reason we moved to Spokane. It is not often a friendship lasts so many years and we were so blessed to have them in our lives. Whenever Mary and I talked on the phone, she would always say, “it doesn’t matter how long it’s been since we last talked, you will always be my friend.” Lots of Love, Prayers and Hugs to all of you. “Momma” Pattie
October 24, 2020
October 24, 2020
Friendship is a priceless gift.  Thankyou for being a great friend Mary. Remembering so many fun times with you.  I miss you, love you,

Marilyn IDoug) Weaver
October 24, 2020
October 24, 2020
We will miss my fun and loving sister.
Her Iove to travel took us to see places and do things we would have never done on our own. It started with simple things like trips to the zoo or Meadowbrook. Then to the Mall of America and on to Washington and Oregon. From there it was Hawaii and Priest Lake. Then Italy and the Biltmore and Charleston. She took us to all of these places because she wanted to share them with us.
Mary Catherine loved kids, her own or anybody's. Nieces nephews grandkids and cats!!! She loved to celebrate birthdays and family events. Her visits tied our far-flung family together.
We will miss Mary Catherine. Her sense of humor, her thoughtfulness, her quick to have fun attitude, and mostly we'll miss her love.
Carol, Bob, Ryan and Erik
October 23, 2020
October 23, 2020
When I was a little girl of 3 years old, the story is I could not say "Mary Catherine" so my Dad taught me to say "Cotchie" which is Catherine in Czechoslovakian. From that moment forward, she has always been Cotchie - my brothers and I called her this for our entire lives. She was my mom's younger sister and not only was she my godmother, but the BEST aunt ever. I looked forward to her visits to our house - she was beautiful inside and out, kind and loving beyond words. My husband Dave & I visited her & Dean often in Spokane. She embraced my 3 boys as her own. There is a huge hole in my heart with her passing, but I will always have her memories locked there. I love you Cotchie. 
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
God bless my dear friend Mary. Friends since 1962 with many happy and humorous memories. She so loved her sons Darren and Mitch and daughters Marney and Mandee. Being a Grandma was such joy for Mary as she loved her grandchildren.
I loved Mary like a sister and will miss her
beautiful and kind spirit.
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
Mitch and Darren,
Know that your grief is shared by the many who loved your Mother and both of you. Deano brought Mary into our lives and she brought you. We are blessed. Jack was there to greet them both and I'm looking forward to joining them just all as soon as I turn 100!
Love to you both,
"Aunt Dona"
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
An amazing thing happened when Mary became the "other Mother". Not the "stepmother" but the other Mother for Marney and Mandee. Time brought us to share the role with a mutual admiration. We became friends and had a place of honor in our hearts for one another. I miss her and only the faith we shared brings me solace. We both believed that leaving this world brought us to that Place where it is all just beginning. Yes, she makes a most beautiful angel. Watch over us all Mary. We love you.
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
My cousin Mary Catherine was a wonderful woman and a good friend. We were about the same age and my memories are mostly of her from Bay City, MI, where we both grew up. Of all the Oesterreicher girls, Mary Catherine was very special. She was so kind and had a great sense of humor. We shared many laughs together. We kind of went our separate ways when I moved to Florida and she to Hawaii and Idaho, but we saw each other, from time to time, when we returned to Bay City. And she was always the same friendly, kind person that I shall always remember. Her passing is, indeed, sad and I send my heart felt condolences to all her family.
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
Ken and I miss Mary and Dean a lot. They were such wonderful family, travel companions, and overall wonderful and generous people. There kids and grandkids were loved so much and always came first. We know they are finally together in heaven and will be together always. Love to all the family.
Ken and Lynda Koch
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
My mom was a one of a kind person. She always put others needs before hers. I couldn’t have asked for a better mom growing up. She was always there to take me and pick me up from whatever I was doing. I looked up to my mom in so many ways. She was such a beautiful person. I consider myself the luckiest man on the planet to have had such an amazing mother. There is such a big hole in my heart now that she is gone. I know heaven is a better place now that she is in it.
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
Mary had so many gifts to share. I was lucky to have been her daughter for 42 years and to be able to be on the receiving side of those gifts. Her example taught me so many of the values that I implement in my and my family's life today. She was funny! We laughed a lot! She had more class in her raised pinky finger than most people had in total and she was an incredible hostess. Every holiday (especially Christmas) was presented with such care, elegance and sparked joy in everyone that was lucky enough to partake. She loved to entertain and her heart was full when everyone enjoyed it. She had an incredibly generous spirit. She was always giving beautiful gifts "just because" to everyone that she called friend. She had a huge loving heart. She would say to me that she wished that she had birthed me but she couldn't love me more even if she had. She was a very attentive Nana. She devoted such quality time with her grandkids. She was focused on them while they were together. On the floor playing with them, attending concerts and track meets. She loved them and they loved her! I am so blessed and appreciate all of the gifts Mom gave me... but the two gifts that I cherish the most are my brothers. Without her there would not be them and a piece of me would always be missing.
October 19, 2020
October 19, 2020
“We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside us something is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human spirit”

This quote by E.E. Cummings reminds me of everything wonderful about my mother. She provided the unwavering support that allowed me to believe in myself – and therefore to believe in others. Her ability to make those around her feel cherished was a gift that I will be forever grateful.
October 16, 2020
October 16, 2020
Mary was more than a mom to me, she was a friend. She taught me about style, how to create a beautiful home, how to cook gorgeous food, and how to make occasions special. Mom was such a warm person who loved her family and friends so very much. She listened and cared and would do anything for you. And she was really really funny!! I am so grateful for the 42 years I got to call her Mom and friend. 

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September 30, 2022
September 30, 2022
9/30/222
As Autumn is displaying the beauty of the earth, my thoughts turn to Mary and the beauty of her presence. Missing Mary is a constant and the edges of grief are beginning to grow a patina of colors reminiscent of the change of seasons. Today and always I celebrate my dear friend and send love and energy to her family.
October 1, 2021
October 1, 2021
As another sister and a brother fade away into the Alzheimer's fog, I realize how much Mary Catherine tied us all together. She would stop by or call and let us know what was going on with the family. Mary Catherine kept track of all the birthdays and anniversaries better than we kept track of our own. October is her birthday month, Happy Birthday sister!
September 30, 2021
September 30, 2021
The spirit of Mary is a continuous blessing to me as these days pass by. She is always present and I feel her energy as earth offers the world the turning colors of Autumn blessings. This is Mary's birthday month and I celebrate her life.
Her Life
October 16, 2020
Mary Catherine Greeno was born in Bay City, Michigan on October 13th, 1945 to Frank and Mary Ann (Frieders) Oesterreicher. Mary moved with her family to Antigo, Wisconsin, where she spent much of her childhood. After finishing high school in 1964, she moved to Oshkosh where she attended the University of Wisconsin and started a job at Wisconsin Telephone. Mary’s position at the telephone company led her to Minneapolis, where she became interested becoming a flight attendant – a career that in many ways defined her life, as she was able to travel the world and explore her love of art and culture. 

Mary’s career at Northwest Airlines began in 1969 and spanned 35 years. She took great pride in providing a safe and comfortable environment for people as they traveled domestically and internationally – but her career was highlighted by the many life-long friendships she developed. She routinely spoke of her colleagues as her extended family and loved being able to travel the world with the wonderful people she worked with.

While at Northwest, Mary also met her husband, Dean Greeno. They married in 1979 and moved from Minneapolis, Minnesota to Spokane, Washington in 1984. In Spokane, Mary balanced her career, raising her children, and taking part in an array of volunteer activities. She loved the arts and supported local theaters wherever she lived. She was also quick to volunteer at her children’s schools and in the community. 

Mary also loved Hawaii, where she and Dean spent many years after they retired. Ultimately, they returned to the Coeur d’Alene area to be closer to their grandchildren and to spend as much time as they could at Priest Lake, where they shared a cabin with friends and family for the last 30 years. 

Mary was a wonderful partner, sister, mother, grandmother, and friend. Her energy for life and ability to make people feel important and loved kept friends and family connected throughout her life. Mary had a gift for making spaces, occasions and life beautiful, special and fun.  

Mary passed away on September 30th after contracting COVID-19. She is preceded in death by her husband, Dean, her parents, Mary and Frank, and her brother, Charlie. She is survived by her sons Darren (Leah) Greeno and Mitchell Greeno, daughters Marney (Douglas) Zellers and Mandee (Kurt) Vigesaa, six grandchildren, brother Frank, and sisters Jeanne, Carol, and Jan.

In lieu of flowers, please donate to the Fisher Center for Alzheimer’s Research.

Recent stories

Knowing Mary

October 25, 2020
I was a ticket agent for NW airlines,used to see Dean and Mary all the time as they commuted,they were nothing but lovely,kind,and always a delight to attend to..I hope she is at peace and rolling that beverage cart down the aisles up above.
Dean you were so lucky to have her as a part of your life,as she was to have you..

I'm Too Young To Be a Godmother

October 24, 2020
I remember at her niece Stephanie's 25th Wedding Anniversary in Frankenmuth, MI, I reminded Mary Catherine that she and I were Stephie's godparents.  Jeanne, Stephie's mom (and Mary Catherine's older sister), had picked Mary Catherine and me to be the godparents at Stephie's baptism.  Mary Catherine acted surprised when we reminded her of this fact and said, without missing a beat,  "Oh no, I'm too young to be a Godmother".   (I should point out that Mary Catherine was about 14 months older than me.) But we all had a hearty laugh at that remark.  Mary Catherine always had a truly remarkable sense of humor and could come up with the darndest things to say, on the spur of the moment.

  

Kokomo

October 23, 2020
I just shared this story with my Aunt Carol (Cotchie's younger sister).  One summer, my husband and 2 sons and Carol, Bob and their two kids visited Dean & Cotchie and their kids in Spokane.  We spent a few days at their condo in Idaho.  One morning, we had the stereo playing while we were getting around.  "Kokomo" by the Beach Boys came on the radio.  As if on cue, Carol & Cotchie came from opposite sides of the living room and started doing a "kick line" to the words - Aruba, Jamaica, ooh I wanna take ya to Bermuda, Bahama come on pretty mama" -- it was hilarious!  Of course, I told them both not to quit their day jobs, but whenever that song comes on Sirius XM satellite radio, I think of my two aunts doing the chorus line in Idaho.  :)

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