This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Maurice Crane, father, husband, grandfather, great grandfather, teacher, leader, intellectual giant. and funny, funny man. We will remember him forever.
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Leave a tributeIt was always such fun being with you and Maury. Remember that wonderful, wacky summer of 1992 when Don and Maury taught the Humanities in London program? I have uploaded 5 photos from that amazing adventure. So many happy memories of all the connections we had.
With much love to you and all the family from Don and me,
Joan
I was 10 years old at the time and had just lost my father . The family was making plans to move from our wonderful Atlantic City NJ home and lay stakes in Harrisburg Pa. I guess , that I was pretty upset about the plan. Mush 's letter was a loving and kind Pep talk . He wrote that " Nobody likes to leave home and he added that the person who gets the biggest Bang Out of life is the one who finds happiness where he is instead of where he isnt '.'
He was telling my 10 year old crushed lil spirit that I could make it and he added , that he and the family believed I could make the adjustment .
Thank you Mush for taking the time to care about your kid sister in law .
He used to join a group of us in the Wilson grill after class. We'd talk, laugh, read the Peanuts comics in The State News and do a collective crossword puzzle. He became not only my professor, but my friend, and a few short years later Maury and Elayne graciously attended Bruce's and my wedding.
Over the years we have enjoyed re-connecting periodically, whether with the Geriatric 6 +1 or at a random garage sale or at the Vincent Voice Library or a social event, and he has always held a special place in my heart and mind. I did not know he was ill, and I was very saddened to read his obituary in today's paper. The tributes on this site have softened some of that sadness because they have made his wonderful spirit alive for anyone who reads them.
The best piece of advice he gave me when I was an undergrad was, "Choose something to do for a living that you would do anyway, even if you weren't getting paid for it." He will be missed -- and continue to be remembered and loved.
We offer our deepest condolences to you for your loss. Maury was such a very wonderful, bright man as so many people have attested to already. We in the Moss family are continually blessed by Jennifer, who carries the marvelous hallmarks of both her parents. I'm sorry that my wife and daughter did not get to meet Maury and I wasn't able to see him in the last few years. May the memories of this incredible man continue to shine bright for the family and world.
Love, Daniel, Ching Li, and Leah Mei
All those professors had a profound effect on general education at MSU and they were all a part of my growing up, like extra parents. There were no finer people than Maury and his colleagues.
When I was a child I thought my father was Maurice Sendak, because with childish thought they were both Maurice and the most amazing men and story tellers, when I grew up, and put away childish notions I still held on to my father being the most amazing man and story teller-and I love learning more of him from reading these tributes particularly learning what a fabulous grandfather he was to my unique and beloved nieces and nephews.
I am at:
3222 W. River Road, Olean, NY 14760
ken.crane@houghton.edu
716-244-0988
He will be missed.
Thanks for the memories, the laughs, and the great jazz! Keep swinging my friend!
Doug Collar
It’s probably too soon for me to wrap my head around his passing. I can say the trite things people say to make the grieving family feel better; He’s at peace now, he’s in a better place, my thoughts and prayers go out. It’s my bias that sort of thing it’s disrespectful albeit with good intention. I loved my father, I loved him for who he was not his accomplishments, or what he modeled for me as a boy and as a man. I loved him too for his flaws.
I will write a eulogy when I’m not feeling quite so raw. Today, less than 24 hours after his passing, I feel relief and I feel it in the profound sense that those trite saying mean to convey; he is at peace, he no longer suffers. I am grateful that his wishes were followed; it’s a question of respect. He was at peace and died in his sleep.
I still don’t understand Dementia but over the past few years peace was a rare commodity. I clung to the lucid moments, and the not so lucid moments that were filled with song. I don’t know if that was an expression of joy but I choose to think of it as one. It’s not death that that makes loved ones wince, but suffering. I believe he suffered very little, I believe he was able to accomplish through his life a sense of accomplishment, to make a mark on the world in the way he thought was most noble; encouraging young minds to embrace critical thought as a cornerstone and the inherent morality that critical thought carries.
These are raw impressions, a bit stilted, in time memory, sentiment, and the cold realization that I will not hear a joke, a lesson, a song from him again will sink in and I will add something more like a tribute. There is a sense of the unreal right now, though we had seen his decline over the years. I didn’t expect yesterday to be the day. I mark the day and gather wool. I believe the kindest and most effective tribute is to remember the man as he was and why I loved him. It took me a lifetime to know him as he was and to love him and I am ill prepared, today, to take twenty four hours to sum all that up. I loved him as much for his flaws as his virtues.
I never met any of my grandparents. I think my dad's parents died in Europe.
My mother's family was upper middle class. Her father owned a small department store in
the Black Sea port city of Odessa. Fleeing both radicals and anti-Semites in l902 they came
to the US, where they settled in Meridian, Mississippi. I think my Uncle Ban and Aunt Molly
were both born in Mississippi. There were four sisters (Molly, Mary, Celia, and my mother,
Luba). There were three brothers (Mike, Charley, and Ben). Mike and Charley were in the
Navy in World War I; Ben was just a boy. Sometime before World War I they moved up North.
My mother worked as a waitress and cashier in a retaurant whose name I never knew, but she
says that the composer Victor Herbert was a steady customer, so it must have been in
Manhattan. My fasther came from dirt poor farmers the area of Belitza. The closest city
to make it onto the map was Kovno, sometimes in Russia, but mostly in Poland. He and his
siblings came to the US one at a time in the first decade of the twentieth century. A sage
and a scholar and an extremely smart and good man, he found work as a plumber and helped
lay the sewer line of Hartford Connecticut at what was then the princely sum of a dollar a day,
six days a week.He put his kid brother. Bernard, through the University of Michigan medical school. Days after we entered the First World War he enlisted in the 101st machine gun battalion of the 26th (Yankee) Division, along with many othrerrash youngsters, many of trhem undergraduates
at Yale and Trinity College, Hartford. When these aristocratic guys came as middle aged physicians
and attorneys and businessmen to conventions in Atlantic City, they often visited Bill Crane, who had
honeymooned in AC, and when my mother compared it favorably to Paradise, pulled up stakes
in New England and moved there. It was a boomtown, and Freddy (born in '22), and I (born in '26)
and Bobby (born in '28) all graduated from ACHS, and went on to snappy schools like MIT and Princeton, although none of us were as sharp as our parents, who never finished high school. Your
mom's great aunt Harriet left her 10,000 dollars for college, which bought her a Bachelor's from Penn
and a Master's from Chicago, two good schools. I don't have a BA but I had a war and I earned an MA
at Chicago in '50 and a PhD at Illinois (where I started teaching college) in '53.Somewhere in
there I attended Villanova, which was the luckiest break of my life, because I ran into your Mother
on a bus going from Philly to AC. We have four marvelous children, whose names I forget, plus
five grandchildren and a couple of beautiful greatgrandchildren, all of them really nice people. In
March we'll celebrate Mom's 80th birthday and our 58th anniversary. We'll probably buy a couple
of Big Macs to help celebrate the fact that we have helped populate this earth with some genuinely admirable folks.
My Dad's brothers were Harry, Bernard, and Max. Harry's children were Herbert (Skippy), who welcomed you and Beth to the Great Northwest, Sidney (Smokey), Florences (Flossie) and Miriam (Mitzi). Herb was a combat infantryman in Europe, Sid flew bombers in the Pacific. You went to a party at Flossie's house in Margate. You don't know Mitzi at all. Herb does a lot with opera in Portland. Bernard had two daughters, Phyllis (whom you've met) is a court stenographer in Portland, Ruthie is a
concert pianist and author and ex-professor in San Antonio. Her husband, Sam Friedberg, taught
for years at Duke Medical School. He was a navy doctor in the Korean war. Their son Michael was
an attending physician in El Paso when I went to see my brother Bobby for the last time. He's
pretty sharp. Max had one son, Milton Crane, who taught at Harvard, Hunter, Wm&Mary, Chicago,
and George Washington. He wrote a lot of books; I read only three, "The Roosevelt Era", "The
Sins of New York", and "Shakespeare's Prose," which ALL doctoral candidates in English have
to read. Milton was section chief in the OSS during the war, and consulted with the CIA up until his death.You and Jon visited hgim in DC in '73. His son John blows oboe with the NYU Philharmonic. His son Peter, an attorney, lives near you. (Seattle, Maybe.) Milton's wife Sibylle was a holocaust survivor and a genuine linguistic genius..I went to U of C because Milton was there. Mom went because
I was there. Montel can't use any of this but I thought you'd like to know. If you need more send
me specific questions.
I’m sure I’ll have more to add, personal reflections. Call me superstitious but I find it unsettling to speak dead of the ill.
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Your memory is a blessing.
Pat Taksen
Remembering Maury
It’s been a true pleasure to read all these great memories from his family and friends.
As an undergrad in his Humanities class in 1967, it quickly became obvious to me that Maury was a great teacher and scholar who loved to make us all laugh as he immersed us in his worlds of history, literature and music. He knew I was a jazz drummer, and when I returned to MSU for a short stint with the Media Center’s film unit in 1975, he joined me and several others musicians for a free-form jam session - quite a stretch from Dixieland. It was cool…I still have the recording on cassette.
In the 80’s & 90’s, working as a documentary filmmaker with PBS stations, I called him several times at his Vincent Voice Library for some historical music and speeches. He always picked up his phone there saying, “Hello, this is the Voice Library…How can I make you happy?” And he always did.
In 1998 I sent him a VHS tape of an Emmy-nominated documentary I made on the Holocaust, and a few months later dropped by his office at the Library with my wife and daughter as we were heading to northern Michigan, seeing him for the last time. It was twenty-three years since I’d seen him. He was unchanged, and joked about being pleasantly surprised that I’d made such a fine film. I was glad my family had a chance to meet him.
How many hundreds, (or thousands) of us have only to think of him and smile? Remaining so alive in so many hearts is an achievement few can hope to have…an incredible man.
us in the park
The divinity
There are a few iconic tales, the sort of thing families pass down, and I’ll admit the one I’m about to tell is how I remember it; I, of, course, was not there.
My father was interviewing for an associate professorship with Holy Cross, a gig he wanted but not a school he wanted. He began the interview with “You know, I’m not so sure about that whole divinity of Christ thing.” Later in the interview, the part I remember best and the part I tell the most often;
“Mr. Crane, do you smoke or drink?”
“Not well enough to teach undergrads.”
Another family folklore thing I was around for but I still don’t remember. He said he had a gig the night I was born. His intro was something along the lines of “I have three kids now, my eldest daughter, Abby, she’s a cellist, Jon, a flautist (it doesn’t make sense, but bear with me) and my brand new son, Harry, he’s the pianist.”
I do have memories that aren’t funny, but I thought I’d fill the space where the missing F#*%ing Dis Custard joke went. A joke that made it all the more surprising when I stopped by his office once to find him bantering with Berry Gordy. He said he knew the guy but I thought he was making that up. Wish I could remember a profound quote from that conversation but it was mostly like two kids taunting one another on a street corner.