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Funeral Service Program for Saturday July 24, 2021 beginning at 11:30 am GMT.

Live Streaming: http://www.funeralstreaming.co.uk/viewing-room/124...

11:30 Arrival of hearse at family home
12:00 Arrival of friends and family at Mill Hill Country Club
13:00 to 15:00 Funeral Service
15:00 to 15:20 Hymns and Gospel Music
15:30 Departure to Hendon Cemetery for burial (Family Only)
15:30 to 17:20 Refreshments and Gospel Music
17:30 Prayers, hymns, tributes and traditional celebration

Reception Address
Mill Hill Country Club, BurtonHole Lane, Mill Hill
London NW7 1AS, UK

Transportation: 
Tube /British rail – Mill Hill East – Northern Line (Then bus 240)

Local Hotels:
Premier Inn Hotel:
London Edgware, 43 Burnt oak Broadway,
Edgware, HA8 & 7EE,
Tel: +44 333-321-1259

Holiday Inn Hendon (Hyde) Hyde House:
Rushgrove Avenue, London,
NW9 6LH 
Tel: +44 333-332-9324

Please note: There is still a degree of uncertainty surrounding the current pandemic; The health and safety of our friends and family is of utmost importance. Everyone attending our mother’s funeral is asked to please respect Government and Public Health England guidelines regarding Covid-19.
**We deeply appreciate your expression of sympathy and prayers.**
The Tataw Family

                                                  MAMA...

Mama was the quintessential Mother, Grandmother, friend and sister to all who were blessed to have known her. Loving Mama, peacemaker, cheerleader, unifier, nurturer, mentor, teacher, and philanthropist. She was the kindest, most understanding and forgiving Mother, a woman of God above all. Mama was an avid reader who travailed in prayer. She cherished time with her family, loved cooking for loved ones and treasured the many dinner conversations that followed. She particularly enjoyed counseling, playing scrabble, watching tennis, and traveling.

Mama, you are a beautiful spirit whose presence will be dearly missed. The blessings you gave us in this life are immeasurable, shaping in every way who we have become. We will continue caring for and helping others, making the world a better place in your memory. Your life was a blessing mama, your memory a treasure, you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure. We hold you close within our hearts and there you will remain, to walk and guide us through our lives, until we meet again.
June 27, 2021
June 27, 2021
Like the sun during the rain
She shines, radiating God's grace and beauty.
She is unlike any other,
Her grace unmatched and beauty beyond compare.
She is a prayer warrior, and a God fearing woman.
She is wise and strong.
She loves all her children unconditionally.
My greatest role model, my grandmother
Who would always put everyone else's needs before hers,
And even so love the one's who were never worthy of her love.
The strongest and wisest woman I know
who brought me up in the way of the Lord and taught me to be strong
and courageous.
No words can fully describe my grandmother, but extraordinary could come
close to it.
She is wonderful and never seizes to amaze others.
Like a bright light in the darkest times,
My grandmother would brighten up every room she'd walk into.
She'd pray for us day in and day out.
I love my grandmother more than anything and it pains me to write this,
but what I know is that she still lives..through us; as an angel watching over us.
Mind you, she is not dead, she is very much alive.
My dear grandmother, you taught me so much,
If anything, I am so glad to be your daughter.
I know that you live on in our hearts and I thank God for the amazing times we had together.
I know you're watching from heaven and I promise I won't disappoint you.
I love you so much grandma
-"TILL WE MEET AGAIN"

- You're granddaughter, Albert
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Mother of Nations, queen of queens, my cheerleader, my everything. Mama you where light in darkness, peace in chaos, love where there was hatred, strength in weakness, hope in despair, union where there was discord, faith in doubt, joy in sadness…

Mama you are and will always be an angel in the hearts of your children. You are proof that God has blessed us your children for when I am in doubt about how blessed we are, I remind myself of the mother I have. A praying mother, a mother that loves unconditionally, a mother that protected and cared for her loved ones every second of her life, thank you mama! Thank you for teaching us how to pray, for putting God first in every plan we had/have, thank you for teaching me the true values of a praying mother and what it takes to be a good mother. Thank you for teaching us to call on God in times of need and for thanking God in times of plenty, for that, we are able to call on God for comfort in such times when our hearts bleed.
I am grateful for the moments we shared, the bond we formed, our friendship and the unconditional love you showed my siblings and I.

I miss you so much mama, I can’t hug you anymore or hear your voice. I can’t pick up my phone and see mama as my caller ID. Who will call me my beautiful daughter? Who will I call my pretty mother? Who will I call my cheerleader, Chai!

Mama your favourite statement was 'It is well'. Yes, Mama it is well! Mama, may your kind, gentle, generous, humble and loving soul rest in peace. I pray that God gives me the strength to carry on.

I will forever miss you. I love you so much, mama.

Your daughter Daphne Tataw.

June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Mrs. Tataw may your heavenly family welcome you. May your gentle soul rest in peace with the Lord. Until we meet again. 
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Dear Mama,

It doesn't feel right that I am writing these words. Mama, we cannot get over losing a precious gem like you, a mother of all children, the most kind hearted and generous woman I have I seen. We can’t get over losing you. I don't even want to try, I will keep you in my heart. I learned so much from you, every child that came to your house was your child, you gave everything you had; your time, your love,your care. With your gentle loving ways, no verse, can say, the wonderful woman we lost.

Rest in Perfect peace Mama till we meet to part no more.

Delphine Tangem
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Dear Grandma,

Day after day I am not able to understand why you left us so soon. I thought I had many more years to hug and kiss you, but unfortunately it will never be again. Your love was so real and gentle you were that grandmother every child would wish to have. I thank God that I had the opportunity to love you and be loved back by you. I miss my dance with you. You were a great and wonderful grandmother. I thought that one day my children would be happy and see their beautiful great grandmother, but all I know is that in the next world you will still be my grandmother and we will make up for the things we didn't do in this world. Grandma I've already made a seat in my mind where you will sit and watch me play basketball, but I still thank God because he knows it better. GRANDMA I MISS YOU!!

Your grandson
Christian Rohi Tataw
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Dear Grandma,

Thank you for all the things you have done for me.
You were so lovely, because when I always talked to you, you put a smile on my face. Grandma you were so kind. When I heard that you were dead I was so sad because I loved you so much and I still love you.

Your granddaughter,
Lina Zoe Tataw
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove to us He only takes the best.

Even though I've only seen you in person once, I miss you and I noticed that something is missing.

Every weekend I sent you messages or talked to you on the phone, but now you are no longer here.

Grandma you always made sure that I didn't forget to pray, always sent me gospel songs and biblical passages.

You have not only distributed your beauty over your children and grandchildren, but also your blessings and respect for God.

WOW!! Grandma I love you and miss you and thank you for everything you did for me.

The sorrow we feel when we lose loved ones is the price we pay to have had them in our lives.

Your grandson
Samuel Nissi Faith Tataw
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Miami we love you but your creator loves you more
We are happy you are with father now and in a resting place.
We your sisters in UBL in London are missing you as you always gives us advice and words of Wisdom in the group.
Miami bye for now till we meet again.
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
To my beloved Mama Mercy Bessem Tataw 

Mama I have taken a long time to write my tribute because I have been in denial since I received that message from Vivian (your first seed) at 6.30am on 10.04.2021 that you are no more. I asked Vivian whether she was joking and she said it is true. I had told Alice when she asked of you on Friday 09/04 that I had plans to call you the next day Saturday  10/04.
I have been browsing my memories of my time with you and all I see is a picture of your beautiful eyes on your pretty face gazing at me with so much love.

As per usual, we spoke every few days and when you do not hear from me you called to check whether I was doing alright and ask why I have not called. My last conversation with you was on 04/04/2021, your voice was so full of energy compared to previous days when you just got to hospital. You narrated everything that happened and how the night you ended up in hospital you saw fear in Vivian's eyes and you prayed to God, telling Him if he decides to take you now, you do not deny, you were ready but you asked him to give Vivian peace. You want you children and loves ones to have peace when you go.

Mama, Vivian reminds me everyday of how you loved me so much. I tell her I knew, I felt it and saw it in your eyes. She said to me "so if you ever go away from me, I will not forgive you". Already she reaches out to me, if she doesn't hear from me in two to three days just like you did. You see Mama you planted that your philanthropical seed in her and your other children, so your legacy lives on.

My beautiful mbombo inside out,  you asked me to thank the Upper Banyang Dynamic Ladies for their prayers for you, that God answered their prayers and you were healed, stating that you are still in hospital because the doctors are doing a small observation. As usual you said you love me, and asked me to give your love to the UBD ladies.
Mama UBD Ladies are missing you. They talk of how you touched their lives individually and as a group in prayers, with words of wisdom and in kind. They remember your last teaching to the group in January 2021 was about "the power of forgiveness".

I still cannot believe you have gone so soon and I am struggling to understand what went wrong. Did you give up or did God decide it was truly time for you to go? Despite the hurt, I take consolation in the fact that you lived a good life. You sacrificed a lot for the sake of your children and family (including the large external family you embraced).
Mama to us all you have gone so soon and you are too precious to ever be forgotten. You will forever remain our guiding angel, light and star.
It is well like you would always say.
Rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord. Love you always.

Your embraced daughter Marge Bessem Ayok
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
Mama it is very had for me to believe I will never see you again or to believe that I will never be able to hear those soft comfortable words like Eli it is well, God is in control, keep praying he will make a way.  Mama u are my role model. Mama with the little u had, u didn't just give only to your children, you gave to your brothers, sisters, relatives, widow's and the needing. You were a mother full of love and affection,so intelligent, discipline, courageous, prayerful honest and a woman of faith. Mama my life is grounded today on the things you taught me since you met me in 2002 in Buea u let me to Chris, you taught me how to be prayerful, discipline and how to handle the issues of life.  Mama mama my angelic mother, mama mama mama I miss you, mama I love you. Rest well mama.      Daughter ma Elisa.
June 26, 2021
June 26, 2021
It is hard for me to think about bidding you farewell, my friend and my dear sister.
Your love and friendship was a blessing to us all and I will miss you so much. We shared so much; joy, sadness and if I may so many secrets!
You brightened up our lives and brought me so much happiness.

My sister, my friend, you were special; your charming smile, calm nature and kindness were to behold!
Although we lived in different countries and were separated physically, we remained close to the end.
I hold fond memories of our "famous meetings" most recently “abroad" where we spent many happy moments together.
You introduced me to the Upper Bayang UK Women's Group and it turned out to be a wonderful suggestion. I am wondering how I will be again in the company of those young vibrant women now that you are gone.

My dear sister, my dear friend, my fellow widow, I will truly miss you and particularly your trademark word (It is well)because you understood life for what it was.

I thank God for you and celebrate your life.
Rest in peace my darling sister ; till we meet again

Your sister, Maggie Etta
June 25, 2021
June 25, 2021
In death, there is only Love.

My Mama T, as I call my lovely mother, no words or actions can express my feelings. The pain of not being able to talk to you, hear from you and hug you is unbearable. It still feels like a dream. Mama T, you were my all. My strong tower. my best friend and my confidante. Not for a second have you not been there for me. The kindest woman I have ever known. Your tranquil presence always calmed my heart. Your dedication as a mother truly knows no bounds. My queen, my comfort zone. My story only began because of you. You were an angel mama. The word amazing can't even describe how wonderful you are. You called me your < pressure cooker>, Mama T, your pressure cooker is in so much pain. You left too soon mama, but we cannot question our maker who always has the final word. Mama T, we know you are in a better place with our maker, as your grandson Tiku reminded me when he saw me crying, he said "Mom why are you crying? don't you think Grandma is in a much better place than this world?" With tears running down my cheeks, I gave him a hug and replied, “Very true sweetheart but I will not be able to see and talk to her. It is so painful".

Mama T, no one on this earth can fill that gap, no one can take your place. You've gone too soon. Papa left us in his very young age. Then we knew our world had ended but seeing you gave us so much hope, now you have left us mama. Mama T, have you really left us?! Who will I call Mama T? Who will call me my ?! Who will tell me "Mabel it is well” when I complain? Who will sing for me on my birthday? Who do I lean on? Mama T, who will I sing and dance to?! Mama why?! I always sang and danced this song in pidgin to you " mama.... I too love you mama... my mama mama ..God e go bless you mama...all the suffer wey you suffer make I tanap ,na so..so better I go do for my mama..." what a joy I had in my heart as I sang this and saw you laughing with tears of joy rolling down your cheeks. I am in tears, I pray the almighty God gives you the opportunity to read this! I pray the almighty God gives me the strength to overcome this pain it is unbearable !

I sometimes wonder why you didn’t ask the lord to give you more time on earth? Mama T, the world is crying. Your children are crying, we are in so much pain. What consoles me is the fact that you instilled so much of you into each of us. I see a part of you in each of my siblings and your grandchildren. I am consoled because there is another life after this and we will one day meet again. Mama T, I thank and appreciate you for giving birth to me, for pushing me to be the very best, for tolerating all my phases in life, for the sacrifices you made and for your unconditional love. Mama T, your legacy will live on to inspire future generations.

I will Forever Love you and appreciate God for you Mama.

Your daughter Mabel Tataw.

June 25, 2021
June 25, 2021
        ɢᴏɴᴇ ᴛᴏᴏ ꜱᴏᴏɴ.             These words keep echoing over and over ,"Boh no fear no be covid" I was so convidence that all was going too be well. Imagine the shock that morning that I heard you were gone for ever .That I will not be able to be able to hear your soft comfortable words, ""it is well God is in control" . My dear sister , what pains me most is that you saved the the lives of other people who were sick by taking 100% care of their medical bills only to die. What will happen to all those needing people you were taking care of! I was a living witness to your generosity . Despiet your background your were such a quiete humbled girl
sincee we met in form one in Saker Baptist College Limbe   in the same dormitory in 1966.  Now you are gone forever and since we cannot question the will of God ,I believe that you are now resting peacefully in the Bossom of the Lord. Adieu my Síster.
June 24, 2021
June 24, 2021
My dearest Mama Tataw,why so soon?I still not believe you are no more.My adviser,prayer counselor, my comforter in times of marital stress,my best kitchen staff,a woman in charge of hygiene and sanitation,why so soon,?My only comfort is that we will one day meet to part no more, RIP my beautiful mother.
June 24, 2021
June 24, 2021
There's a saying that goes" you are you no matter how many yous there are" and now I cherish that meaning more than ever because the Tataw Mercy Bessem that has left me can never be replaced by another version of the Tataw Mercy Bessem that is cherished in My heart. SIster, you were a Woman of deep faith and devotion to God's words. Forgiveness and innerpeace you left with me to uphold in my life's journey until we meet again in paradise. My fondest best, the bond of love and loyalty which united you and your loved ones was obvious in all forms. You were generous, gentle, elegant and kind. It quikespring in my mind when I think of you. But lying just beneath was a wry sense of humour for those sharp enough to catch it. You always had that keen appreciation for simple things I said, like "chia sister I miss you"❤. Gone but not forgotten. My love for you can never fade. RIP in the lord's blossom where we shall meet again to part no more
June 24, 2021
June 24, 2021
Until we meet again Mama!

A place is vacant within our hearts which can not be filled. We miss that lovely voice of yours. You were a light that shone in my household. Your grand children are still in consternation. They miss the Mama that always told them how well dressed and good looking they are.

Mama, you have a special place in my heart. You were my energy booster, an angel that always smiles. I am happy our last words were “God Bless You”.

So, rest in peace Mama and thanks for all you have done to our lives.

We miss you now and always will.
June 24, 2021
June 24, 2021
Grandma Mercy,

You were a true gem. An especially strong willed woman with a breathtaking view on life. What a blessing you were to all those around you. You were a leader and shepherdess to God’s sheep. I aspire to be as open and loving as you were. Receiving your love and affection was always a treasured experience. For who can replicate the love of a grandmother? No one. I know that I will never find a love quite like yours. However, that space in my heart where you reside will forever be filled with the memories we created together. I am so grateful for you grandma Mercy, and for the precious time we had.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Mama...
Mama...
Mama...
My heart aches...plunged in deep pain...another pain...my life for the past six years has been interwoven with tears...just when I thought I was getting strong from the loss of my late husband, Angel Robert, your journeying home weakens me... MERCY LORD

Mama, Mama...I know you are reading me, WITH YOUR SPIRITUAL EYES WIDE OPEN AND NEVER BLINKING, KEEP DOING BEST WHAT YOU WERE GOOD AT...YOU WERE AN ANGEL EVEN BEFORE YOU OFFICIALLY BECAME ONE... YOU'VE ALWAYS BEEN AN ANGEL...
My memories of you are ENDLESS...you did for us ( my parents and siblings) what NO HUMAN HAS DONE...You and Papa lovingly and unconditionally embrassed us when every other person we thought would didn't or did in their own way...
I remember my ever first summer holidays out of my parent's home in Bafoussam was to you and Papa in Kumbo ( ...you personally visited and talked my father into allowing us grow the family way, with our cousins... the memories of this visit to Kumbo, I could write a book-"MY LOVING AND DISCIPLINED PAPA AND MAMA OF KUMBO"...

From the Kumbo visit to my Sweet Aunty/Mama, that's how I spent almost all of my summer breaks with My Loving Papa and Mama in Yaounde...another book I could title, "MY LOVING PAPA AND MAMA OF YAOUNDE"...( I remember how Papa will advice me on life matters and encourage me to stay disciplined and hard-working...then Mama will come in to add that I trust God verily verily...ever encouraging me that things will get in shape ( the pain of my sick dad was always eating me up...almost five years of sickness...My Loving Papa and Mama of Yaounde stepped in and showed my sibblings and I UNCONDITIONAL LOVE...not leaving out my mum...)
Mama taught me all a young lady should know and do...from body care to kitchen...she taught me how to cook "green", sweet eru like a bayangi child...

Then MY LOVING PAPA AND MAMA OF LIMBE...My Loving Papa, Greatest Disciplinarian of all times left the scene ...REST ON PAPA

Mama...
Mama...
Mama...
I grew up to a fine and confident woman
(Mama's teachings ever in mind...I treasure them all...PRICELESS...THANK YOU MAMA FOR BEING MY ROLE MODEL) ...
Mama was the Best Person to speak on my wedding cake cos she was My Model Mama, Our Sweetest Aunty, My Father's "Medicine"...
When I gave birth to my first child, "SECONDA ANGEL BESSEM KALIEU"...it was natural that she bares My Mama's name, *BESSEM*...for almost three days, Mama was in prayers with me while I was in labour...Mama, your "mbombo" is Sweet and Loving like you...she knows you, she knows your story...You remain their Grandma they pray for daily...YOU LIVE ON OUR LOVING MAMA

Mama...
Mama...
Mama...
Your relationship with our MUM, ANDIENSA MARY BUH EGBE, Your Wife... is a whole testimony on its own... it's another book... You were that Big Sister Our Mum never had, you were her Best Friend, you were an ANGEL to her... seriously, i feel sorry for her...with whom will she talk with so freely, pouring out herself...your discussions were endlesss...Mercy Lord

Mama...
Mama...
Mama...
We, The Mfor Egbe Charles Children had you as Our LOVING MAMA...You remain OUR LOVING MAMA...
WE WILL LOVE YOU FOREVER SWEET MAMA...we pray GOD ALMIGHTY to keep emulating you and Papa...

REST ON LOVING MAMA...I wish I could but you know my situation Loving Mama...just like you would say, I always say myself, "IT IS WELL"...cos I know My EXODUS 14:14 GOD is on every matter..
Jesus, I trust in You

We will never stop THANKING THE HEAVENS FOR YOUR RICH LIFE...FOR GIVING YOU TO US AS AUNTY AND MAMA...

Best regards to Angel Robert and Papa

WE LOVE YOU LOVING MAMA
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Mama I didn't know I would have to say goodbye to you so soon.
I am so numb and can't feel anymore in the real sense of the word. 
Praying I could wake up one morning and it was just a dream.
I have been wrestling with the Lord Jesus for a while wondering why
prayers from his prayer warriors weren't heard. But the nature of his victory
could not be understood by me. Just because he didn't answer my prayers my way, doesn't mean he didn't answer my prayer anyway.
But i recall your words God is sovreign. And I know his game plan is
bigger than any one player on his field. So I trust in the Lord with all my heart(Proverbs3:5).
I don't know what to say because there is way too much to write Mama. Who can I call when struggling to make those nice meals guided by you and having a laugh. Our endless conversations Mama.
I miss hearing you say my father, my husband, my son when I call. The phrase that immediately gives me that smile. And yes i am jealous of the angels.
What consoles me Mama is looking at Vivian,Mabel,Ethel,Daphne,Bessem,Mabi and Tiku. I see you so deep in them
in one way or the other and it puts a smile on my face. If i could summarize your life in one word it will be LOVE.
Even though I can no longer see you with my eyes or touch you with my hands,I will feel you in my heart forever.
A life that touches others,goes on forever.
Mama my sweet Mama we will continue in your path relentlessly. I am sure papa should be all smiles having you.
Its been a privilege having you as a mother and i thank God for giving me that opportunity. It was a great ride. I LOVE and MISS you.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Mama my beautiful mama. My blessed mama. My proverbs 31 mother. My treasure, my best friend.
Mama your love has always kept me going through good and bad times. You are a very special and kind hearted mother. Mama you did not even show me any sign that you were going forever. I miss the times in the mornings when I knock at your door to say good morning before I went to work. You will always answer me "Mami good morning, God bless you and may your day be blessed". Oh mama I missed my regular text messages you send to me in the office during my lunch time to ask if I enjoyed my lunch. I miss the times when I stay too long in the office and you will text me to find out if everything is OK. Oh mama your grand children miss you so much. They talk about you everyday. They miss all the food you made for them. They miss the times you bake bread with them. Mama you brought so much unity amongst us. You had a special way of making everyone comfortable and happy. You have shown my children the way of the Lord as you did to us and I know that it will never depart from them when they get old. That is the best gift you gave them. You brought so much joy in my marriage and taught me how to make a happy marriage. We loved and honoured you so much as if we knew you had only 68 years on earth. I thank God for all the videos we made, the birthdays we celebrated together, the times we prayed together, the times we all travelled on holidays. I will miss you all my life.
I always told you mama that your prayer bank in heaven was full and that you have sent all your prayers ahead of you and you will laugh.
I know I can never bring you back but a piece of me has gone with you.
I thank God for blessing us with a mother like you.
It is Well mama as you always say.
God needed an angel in heaven so he called you.
Love you always as you rest in heaven.
Your first fruit
Vivian Tataw (Mambo)
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
4 months ago I visited a place which I described to your daughters as a place of peace. The immaculate whiteness & silence of the environment reminded me of a monastery - a place for prayer. During my visit I had a good conversation with the Caretaker - a fine and calm Gentleman. This gentleman told me he was anxiously waiting for your return sometime within this year to this place of peace. I could see the joy and hope in his eyes. He told me that Mama's home coming will add a lot of value to his life.

Mama Dear, the hope of this fine gentleman like that of your progenies, & other children have all been dashed away. We all awaited your triumphant return to the Place of peace but here we are mourning your absence from the flesh.

Nevertheless, we are consoled in that the Angels and Saints are celebrating your glorious entry into an everlasting and more reassuring place of Greater peace called Heaven. Dear Mama intercede for us so The Lord on his throne will continue watching over your descendants and all your other children.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
My dear Grandma,
                I am blessed to have you as my grandma. I will always treasure the time I spent with you no matter how little it was. One day we will meet in heaven and there will be no more sadness or crying for you. I am thankful for the times I got to hear your voice on the phone. I praise God for you, Grandma.

                                  Your granddaughter,
                                               Lyla
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Grandma,

I am very proud to be your grandson and am blessed that you are my grandmother. Your kind and generous heart knew no bounds. I remember when you visited my family & I in Texas. I am so thankful for that chance to see you. I am glad knowing that I will see you for eternity one day. I will carry all those inspirational videos and prayers you sent me in my heart. I am grateful that God is my peace in the midst of the storm, as mentioned in one of the songs you sent me. You left a beautiful path behind on the train of life, and I will strive to leave a beautiful path as well.

Love,
Your grandson, Brayan
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Mama, even though you are no longer with us I can still see your smile, hear your laugh and feel your warm hugs. You were supportive in difficult times and celebrated my achievements. The shocking blow of your passing is only softened by the knowledge that so many of us will always carry the gift of knowing you. May you rest in perfect peace.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Grandma,

When I was 8 years old, before we went for that stroll, I asked you, "Grandma, please I don't ever want you to die or leave me alone and you will see my childrens children and you will drive the limousin I promised to buy for you in the future." You promised you would never leave me grandma, you made that promise to me. Moments came where I reminded you of the promise or you will remind me, if I did something that wasn´t right.

Up till today, I still cry for you day and night grandma. Everyone knew how important you were to me, even my friends at school. I will talk about you and tell them everytime about the wonderful grandma I have and all I want is to make her proud. You often told me how proud I make you, even if I didn´t do anything.

It´s one thing to say everything is going to be alright, when talking about someone you didn´t really know and it´s another thing to understand that saying, when you know you won´t be able to see that person physically. Now, I understand how it feels.

We were a great team grandma. You always fought my fights and I was always by your side. I never left your side. You even started calling me your "handbag" and I always told you that, grandpa gave me orders to always take care of you.

Grandma, if I had just one wish in this world which would be my first and last, I would wish for you to come back. Nothing is the same since you went grandma, eventhough I know you are watching over us.

I still hope you are very happy being beside our heavenly father grandma.

Grandma, I made all those promises and I will never break them. I´m sorry I disappointed you this time grandma, but you know me, right grandma? Things will be fine, everything we wanted to do together, I´ll still do it for you. I will get there and I know you´ll smile down on me. I might not be able to deal with certain things right now, but I know with time it will be fine.
You always told me to mind my temper when I get upset and sad, you were always there to consult me and make me understand that I´m still that star, "your star" and I should make my bible my bestfriend.

I will shine the way you always wanted me to grandma and I will make you proud. I am so blessed to have had a grandma like you. Such a wonderful, beautiful, gorgeous, amazing, marvellous, precious, God-fearing, loving, caring and outstanding grandma like you. One day, I might be able to deal with it and heal from the pain I feel, but for now, I´ll still keep on missing you grandma. I love you indescribably much. Thank you grandma for your impact in my life and may GOD keep on being by your side.
May your beautiful soul keep resting well.
I love you grandma.

Your grandmother,
Rapha Takem
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Mama as I will call you. I will miss your calls and messages of strength/ encouragement/Faith. Your light still shines even in your physical absence. It was never and still is difficult to not notice and I realised that when I met you again in 2018 after so many years . Though I didn't spend too much time with you, in just two days, you made me realize just how everything is possible with GOD. Few things I learned from you was your 265 days of positive energy, your Bible study ethics and prayerful life. Your journey to the heavenly home is peaceful departure because God gained an Additional angel. I will miss your voice and notes. Say hi to Mom and Dad for me. Adieu Mama
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
When I first met mama, I was overwhelmed by the strong, soothing feeling of a mother-figure being present. Perhaps it was due to her kindness and care that I immediately took to her as if she was my own mother.

Mama, since the first day, has always been someone who consoles me when life has treated me horribly and backed me into a corner, never failed to make me feel better or help me make correct decisions and actions. I believe that mama knows of the great appreciation and love that I have for her as I treated her as though she was own mother.

The love that mama gives has always been something that I cherish and will always cherish, for she showed love for my child as if she was of her own descent; always asked how my daughter was and treated her with great hospitality whenever she visited.

It hurts me to know that she is no longer with us on Earth, however, I know that she will always be watching over the people she cared dearly about as she did when she was alive.

It's a shame that she left before showing me how to make jollof rice as promised.

Forever a beautiful soul.
R.I.P

From: Angella Parker-Beaumont and Olivia Beaumont.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Mama, it seems like you were yesterday and today you are no more. As christians we are thought not to question why but we believe God knows why. Your work on earth is done and may you find peace and rest in the bosom of our Lord. Until we meet again! Rest In Peace Mama.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Gone too soon but never forgotten Mama.
You fought a good fight and are resting in the Lord, till we meet again.
Forever in our hearts!
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
C est avec les larmes aux yeux que je peux écrire ces quelques mots, MES SINCERES CONDOLÉANCES À TOUTE LA FAMILLE TATAW.

Je participe à cette douleur pour vous dire "Dieu a donné et Dieu a repris sa servante". Les quelques temps que j'ai connu maman TATAW qui nous laisse dans la tristesse , m'amènent à témoigner que c'était une femme de paix, qui connaissait la valeur d'un humain. Et son affection à mon égard laisse d'elle l' image d'une femme idéale.

Je suis dépassée par ce coup auquel on ne s'attendait pas. Ma prière pour le reste de la famille est que seul Dieu soit votre force dans cette épreuve et qu'il puisse essuyer vos larmes.

COURAGE!!

Madame Veronique
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
To the world you are a mother but to your family, you are the world. It says it all. “My husband” as she fondly called me created a bond beyond comprehension. Mama, you always advocated for love, prayer and good example. It would take a lot to forget the times we spent talking endlessly at Uncle Sam’s and on the phone(which always ended with “God bless you”). Those were priceless!
“My wife” always had love and concern for all. I join all and sundry to celebrate her life this day, looking forward to reunite with her for there will sure be one more advice she will have for me.
Mama...”my wife”...you will truly be FOREVER MISSED!!!
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
MAMA, the Mama.                         
We miss you,but you will always be in our thoughts, dear in our hearts. You are the book called LIFE. You taught us a lot.                                         
                           Your lessons on Patience,Empathy,Sympathy,Generosity, and Forgiveness are timeless. I thank GOD for gifting you to us.                                 Rest peacefully MAMA, the Mama.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Aunty Mercy..

Your gently spirit left us too soon. You were my kind aunt, forgiving and understanding. I will remember that reassuring outlook you had of life and the attitude to take it all in stride. Your legacy shines bright in all of your children you left behind. For that, your mission here was complete.

We will miss you so dearly Aunty Mercy.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Mama...
Though i never had the opportunity to know you, the vibes of who you are has its rippling effects on your children.
As a colleague and "sister" to your daughter Mabel, i had the opportunity to taste who you were what u gave your children: warmth, love, empathy and compassion, charity and kindness.
A mother succeeds when her children relate perfectly with each other. I saw that in Mabel and her siblings. Your Legacy lives on mama.

Gone too soon? I dare say no. No one could have added another day to the beautiful life of mama. It was that appointed time for you mama. The call that must be answered by you alone.
You fought a good fight and had finished your race! So mama, may Perpetual ligh shine on you as you journey to rest forever in the bosom of your maker.
Painful? Yes. It hurts so so bad! but do not worry mama, the Holy Spirit will comfort your children, their spouses and grandchildren. So rest on...
Forever missed!!
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Dear Mama, I still can’t believe I am writing this farewell note. Knowing that you are not with us any longer still feel unreal. I have so many loving memories of you but , I resume all of that to one word..LOVE. You were the mother that every human being would love to have. You showed so much love, kindness and compassion not just to me but even to people you did not know. Being around you and talking to you was so easy and, you were always so understanding. I will be forever grateful to have been privileged to know you, live with you and learn from you.
I love you and miss you deeply mama.
May the guardian angels take you safely to your final destination.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Mama ,you were an angel and A gatherer, we will miss you and i know you're in the heavenly father's house .May your Soul Rest in Perfect Peace and love you MAMA

Mathew Enow AGBOR
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Mama, Momistic!
Rest Mom, rest! You fought a good fight, and passed on the mantle ... Words cannot describe the passion for Christ that you displayed for us to follow. Granted, I know you fulfilled your purpose here on earth. You are forever loved and missed! Your gentleness, kind words, soft and forgiving heart is with our creator. It hurts to know that you are no more with us, but I know it is for a just cause. You were a mother for many of us. I know you are right above us watching and continuing your mission with Our Father. Miss you always Momistic!
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Oh glorious you mama, now a Saint , enjoy the reward of your love and faithfulness to our Lord and neighbors. Through the wonderful children you raised I can boss of knowing you personally, though I never had that privilege. Am so glad that you are so much alive in Ms Mabel and the others.
My heartfelt condolences dear Ms Mabel Arrey and to the entire family. Rest in peace mama and rise in glory.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Mama like we always called you. Samuel Johnson said “It matters not how a man dies but how he lives. The act of dying is not of importance it last so short a time”. Though you have died, your thoughts and ideas must live on. Mama from the time I knew you through my best Friend Vi your daughter, you taught us so many things in life how to be disciplined, humble, hardworking, neat, caring, welcoming ,outgoing and above all how to be good house wives. Mama you touched the hearts of not only your family members but those of complete strangers. I could never count the number of children you always had in your home. You and Papa Tataw opened your doors to any child in need. Indeed, Mama you were an epitome of goodness with a kind and open heart. Mama will never let you out of her home without offering you something to eat and drink.
Mama Mercy I will miss your fun stories, and life advice. You were a rare Sawa gem of a mother. Adieu Mama until we meet again.
Your daughter
Yaah Anna Ntasin Alias (Annuu)
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
My dearest Mom, my prayer partner, my only mother; I know God loves good things, and i don't blame Him for loving you so much. Mama we will meet on that big day rejoicing and singing Hallelujah to Yeshua. Mama you made it , and now you are waiting for your crown. I will always love you. Mama, Mama, Mama dearest.
June 21, 2021
I want to use this portal though as painful as it is, to give glory to our Lord and Savior JESUS CHRIST for the short period our dear Mama spent on earth. Mama I know that you agreed to leave us unexpectedly and so early with the agreement of the Almighty God for obvious reasons that are beyond our understanding.
Although it is painful to those of us you mentored and loved but we submit totally to the WILL of GOD our Creator. There are two ways we can relate with God in this difficult moment. The first is corporation and the second is submission. As believers and children of God, we have decided to choose the later (SUBMISSION). We totally SUBMIT to the will of God for your early exit but one thing is sure, that you are right now rejoicing in glory at the bossom of our Lord JESUS CHRIST.

Mama, you left us behind but your love , good counselling, legacy, good works, prayers, will continue to remain ever-green with us. We are happy that where you are is better than this tempting world.

Mama I can not end this tribute without saying a prayer for those of us you left behind.

To this end, I decree in the Name of JESUS CHRIST and according to the covenant of God in the book of Nahum 1:9, That this kind of affliction will not succeed to rise up a second time in the family of TATAW. Unless JESUS tarry, everyone in the family of TATAW will live according to the promises of God in Genesis 6:3, Psalms 91:16, Psalms 118:17, in JESUS TRIUMPHANT MATCHLESS DEPENDABLE MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.
Mama, rest peacefully in the Bossom of OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR JESUS CHRIST. Amen. We love you but Jesus loves you more.

June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Is with a heavy heart I write today.if tears could bring you back then I will cry until you come back Mama.i stop been your nephew and became a son to you in 2002,since then my life changed for good.i always felt save when you were around or when I talked to you over the phone,who is going to give me those encouraging words and backed with prayers?you loved everybody unconditionally.I know you are in a better place now.i love you MAMA but God loves you more.GOD IS ON THE THROWN as you always say.
 Will for ever miss you MAMA.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
"My Mama", what honor to have known you. You meant a lot to me, my heart is broken. You were my world. You showed me and everyone that crossed your path so much love. Your kind heart, your prayers, the meals you cooked, the stories and the lessons I learnt from you will never depart from me. You had a heart of a baby, nothing meant anything to you, you calmed down everything that came as storm, forgiving and loving Mama, Thank you "Mama the Mama". A queen of hearts. You were special, you were everything in one person. Your memories will stay in me forever. Thank you for impacting lives, thank you for the children you brought up in a special way. I am privileged I am a part of your family. Queen Mama, Mother of Nations, we miss you. Rest well Mama
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Mama, Beautiful Mama. Your daughter calls you "My Mama", "My beautiful Mama". Words can't describe how much you were loved. Spiritually great Mama, you were all about love. You made sure everyone stuck together, kind hearted, loving, and most of all, forgiving. You saw beauty in everyone, a mother to everyone, I spoke to you while you were on the hospital bed, you were bold and fearless, you told me all God does is good and beautiful. You kept every conversation with me alive and full of laughter. Thank you Mama. We miss you. Sleep on now and take your rest. Mathew 26:45
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Beloved Mama Mercy, I never had the opportunity to meet you in this life but knowing your anointed and highly favored daughter Vivian, I believe with all my heart that you are a great mother!

May you continue to rest in the glorious presence of God! Through you, God has blessed the world with a special gift called Vivian Eneke! May you be rewarded mightily for raising her to know God, love God, and love others!

Mama you have left behind an incredible legacy in your children and grandchildren! To God be all the glory! It is well!
Rest In Peace beloved Mama Mercy!
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Personally,
I never had an encounter with Mama but with one of her daughter, Mabel Tataw who welcomed me in the company we are currently working for as a mother, a mentor, a coach few years back.
Closely studying her I understood she was from a very good, clever and lovely mother.
Moreover, going through this website with such a tribut’s contain for Mama, I definitely have the confirmation that this woman was the the kind I thought of. She was a blessed one, a daughter of Sion.

May the Lord God wipe your tears family and give you strength not only to continue her good works but to forever serve HIM in Jesus Christ’s name.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
My mama my all ohh mama i love and miss you. where do i start? what can i say? too much but tears cannot let me do that now. I love you mama.

June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Oh my Mama, Mama my Heart, Mama my World, Mama on eagles wings. Is there anything I can say here that will ease our pain? My words are empty, It feels like a dream we want to wake up from. How we miss you our Angel Mama, It hasn't been the same and its never going to be the same without you my Mama. Heaven is now your home. You fought your fight, you finished your race. You told us, "we have prayed and God has answered". Woman of faith, you kept your faith, you were right. God has answered . Yes, HE has.

Though tears won't stop rolling down my face, I thank GOD who by His love, His Kindness, His infinite mercy and grace kept you for 68 beautiful years on earth.

Never shall we say goodbye to you My Mama. Your love and your peaceful memories we shall forever hold in our hearts.

To Papa, tell him he is unforgettable, engraved in our hearts. Thank you both and Love you forever
May 21, 2021
May 21, 2021
It broke our hearts to lose you mama but you did not go alone. A part of us went with you, the day God took you home.

If tears could build a stairway and heartaches make a lane, we'd walk our way to heaven, and bring you back again. 

In life we loved you dearly in death we love you still. In our hearts you hold a place, no one could ever fill.
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Forever in our hearts Mama.
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April 10, 2022
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I miss you so much Grandma,
Today marks a year without you, meals without you, calls without you, loses and wins without you, tears of joy and sadness without hearing your voice and seeing your face. Your presence has created a hole no one or thing can fill.. I miss you grandma so so so much you can’t begin to comprehend. Grandma i know you’re looking down on me from heaven, you’re in a better place dancing with grandpa and I pray to God someday, yes when the day comes I’ll see you again.. I love you grandma and I miss you.

-Lyna Albert
April 10, 2022
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Celebrating my Mama. I know you found peace and rest as it is written in the book of Isaiah 57:1-2. I know you are looking down now and smiling. Yes keep smiling, it keeps us going. Love you forever my Mama, till we meet again.
Her Life
April 24, 2021
A golden heart stopped beating after 68 loving years. Mercy Bessem Tataw nee Egbe “Entered into the joy of her Lord” (Mathew 25:21) on April 10th, 2021. Mrs. Tataw fondly called “Mama”, “Mama the Mama”, "Grand ma", Daughter of Mr. Martin Ashu-Egbe and Mrs. Agnes Mbengnchang Egbe, was born in 1952 in Mamfe, Cameroon.

Mama, grew up in Tiko and Kumba, where she attended elementary and secondary school, completing her education at Saker Baptist College in Limbe. Mama took pleasure in competing in a variety of sports including tennis, which was her favorite. After graduating in 1971, she married Mr. Albert Enow Bessong Tataw, a union blessed with six daughters and two sons. She also found success working for the Ministry of Finance for over 30 years which she found both professionally and personally rewarding.

Mamas main passion in life was ministering. With an open heart she lent a sympathetic ear, guiding and counseling others with her wisdom. Her lifelong dream was to establish an orphanage and care for disenfranchised children. She was not able to realize this vision, though she did achieve it in a broader sense by welcoming and offering her love, compassion and care to countless children. Mama will be remembered for her philanthropy, piety, caring heart and unwavering devotion to her family and loved ones. Mama will live on in the hearts of her 8 children and 19 grandchildren, family members and many beloved friends.




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July 23, 2021
As the word of the Lord says, we recognize a tree by its fruits. I did not personally know mama Mercy. But through Mabel, I see the work of a woman who could only be a strong, generous woman with a beautiful soul. the Lord gave and he took back. Glory to the Lord for this life which produced a beautiful fruits.
June 23, 2021
My brothers and sisters, friends and relatives, it is written, "weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning". Psalms 30:5 KJV

  I remember this day with Mama at home, chatting and me laughing really loud as usual. Then came Mamas friend (Aunty) knocking. 
 Aunty came knocking on the door earlier than expected calling, "Mercy na me oooh!!!", Instead of me rushing to open the door for our Aunt, I whispered to Mama "I no dey" picked up my slippers and rushed into the room. As calm and collected as Mama was, though shocked, walked to the door as though nothing had happened and welcomed her friend. While in the room, I could hear them talking.  Aunty asked about everyone then singled me out (Aunty had heard my voice no doubt). Aunty asked "So Mercy, where is Bessem?"  Hmmm!!!!!  Mama answered "make I cam".  Hearing that, I knew my plans had failed, Mama walked into the room and shut the door quietly behind her and said to me " Bessem, I beg you Mamie, cam salut  aunty". I whispered again "Mama I no dey". Mama was appalled and then said to me," so you mean all this while I have been chatting with a ghost". That made me laugh loud again and I immediately left the room to greet  Aunty as though nothing had happened.
   From that day on, in order to avoid embarrassing myself, before any of our Aunts came knocking, I would be outside waiting for them.  All they needed to do was to call and tell Mama the day and time they'd be visiting. 
My Angel Mama, I know you will be reading this, laughing as usual and saying "this Bessem, you too much". Who will I trouble again? Wah!!  Who will ask me again "who di tickle you"? The jokes, the laughter, you tolerated me so much like no one would. Your support Mama, I am thankful we all recognized and appreciated your love and tolerance while you were physically present.  Thank you so much my Mama. I miss you so bad. Heaven is now your home. I wish you peace my Mama, until we meet again. I LOVE YOU
  

 



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