Oh Miriam! I came looking for her, after seeing her name in the Focusing Institute Members list, and wanting to meet other Focusers in the Northwest US. We began to connect in 2006, and by 2007 she and Len hosted the first Northwest Focusing Gathering at the Sou'wester. Opening the door to what comes in me all about Miriam, these qualities surface: warmth, welcome, personal connection, quirky humor, generosity, able to share vulnerability, creating inviting environments... and more.
I had a hard time paying for lodging at Sou'wester. I'd come to visit with my husband or my mom. Miriam and I would do some focusing and we'd eat a meal all together in their kitchen. I'd want to pay like any customer, and often Miriam and Len would say no, that we were guests this time.
After they moved to Portland Miriam and I would get together there to do focusing in person, but mostly we would meet on Skype, and type-chat our focusing sessions, to get around Miriam's hearing challenges. It worked very well. I feel blessed to have been a partner in inner exploration with this wonderful human being, Miriam Atkins.