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This memorial website was created in memory of our loving daughter, wife, mum, sister, in-law, friend and colleague - Ngozika Ikwunma Onyekwelu-Onyike. She went home on May 3rd 2018.

Engie - we miss you so much....you live forever in our hearts.....

Funeral Arrangements:

Tribute Service- Sunday, June 3, 2018, 5:30pm @ RCCG Christ Church, Redemption Crescent, Off UPS Bus Stop, Gbagada-Apapa Expressway, Gbagada, Lagos

Funeral Service - Friday, June 8, 2018, 11am @ Onyike Family House, Umuebereaja, Eluama, Isuikwuato, Abia State.

(Interment follows immediately after the service)

December 10, 2023
December 10, 2023
Engee baby...you would have been 45 today...in all things we give God thanks.
You are sorely missed...however we have hope in Christ...
December 10, 2023
December 10, 2023
Happy posthumous birthday Ngo! I know you are celebrating with the angels and saints in heaven. Please continue to pray for us. We miss you dearly. Rest on my black beauty, Rest on
May 5, 2023
May 5, 2023
Engee babes..we missed you so much these past few days....Grateful to God for the beautiful moments he has given us as a family. ❤️ ❤️
May 4, 2023
May 4, 2023
Ngo dear. You were glaringly absent these last family gatherings. We miss you still
May 3, 2023
May 3, 2023
Nne... Kudos lit another candle for you...
Shine on, ore mí. You live!!
May 3, 2023
May 3, 2023
Engie, a lot of good things have happened lately...you were missed at those events...❤️❤️
December 10, 2022
December 10, 2022
My darling friend, I miss you dearly. I know you are with the Saints and Angels. Continue to intercede for us. Thank you for your sisterhood. I love you ❤️
Happy Heavenly Birthday Ngoringo
December 10, 2022
December 10, 2022
Engee..... I still wonder why..and sometimes can't believe this is it.
Today we would have called to say Happy Birthday to you...I guess you are having a blast with the heavenly host.

You are missed...
May 7, 2022
May 7, 2022
I miss you so much, my friend. When times are happy, when times are hard…I miss sharing those times with you.
4 years is so long, yet not long enough…you are missed
May 6, 2022
Can't believe it is 4 years already you left us Sister D.I recall the last meeting we had in 2017 during FECA Nsukka Reunion,truly you left an indelible mark in my life as a young man serving with you in the fellowship,you dedication and commitment was very infectious and worthy of emulation..Only God knows why you left so early but made deep impact.. Continue to rest on Big Sis...
May 5, 2022
May 5, 2022
My darling Sister, it's been 4 years already.
My Angel Engee! Continue to rest with the Lord. I really miss you my wise friend, my smiling black beauty.
Forever in our hearts
May 4, 2022
May 4, 2022
4 years already! We remember you just like yesterday. You will be forevermissed, my dear. May God continue to bless your memory and all your loved ones. Amen.
May 3, 2022
May 3, 2022
Time may never erase the footprints of an angel...
Sleep on, Engie dearie.
May 3, 2022
May 3, 2022
Engie baby....hmmm, it's been 4 years...unbelievable!

You are sorely missed my dear sis...
May 3, 2022
May 3, 2022
Engie,

Its been 4 years, but it still feels like yesterday. You will always be remembered.
December 12, 2021
December 12, 2021
Happy Posthumous birthday darling! Continue to sing joyfully with the angels, till we meet to part no more. I miss you my darling sister ❤
December 10, 2021
December 10, 2021
Engee babe.....it's your birthday! Sure you are singing away in heaven!! Still miss you so much....keep on resting ezigbo.
May 4, 2021
May 4, 2021
My darling Sister! My Angel Engie! Continue to rest with the Lord. I really miss you my wise friend, but I know you are in the best place. Pray for us, sleep well my smiling black beauty.
May 3, 2021
May 3, 2021
Engie, 3 years gone, but you are not forgotten. Keep resting, dear girl.
May 3, 2021
May 3, 2021
Engie dearieee... Forever in our hearts - today, tomorrow, always. Keep resting, sis m.

May 3, 2021
May 3, 2021
Engie baby........still sorely missed.

We can't forget.....nwanne mmadu rest on
May 3, 2021
May 3, 2021
Ngo, one with a heart of gold like yours will never be forgotten. No doubt you are smiling down at us here. Continue to rest peacefully in our Lord’s bosom.
December 11, 2020
December 11, 2020
Engie dearie... Forever in our hearts!! Ka sun re, ore mì
December 11, 2020
December 11, 2020
My darling Ngoringo! You are forever in my heart. You ARE a rare gem, and yes 'ARE" because I know you are risen with the Lord. I miss your laughter, gist and advices. You were the Big Sister I never had but prayed for. Rest till we meet again.
December 10, 2020
December 10, 2020
Happy birthday, Engie. Keep resting in the Lord...
December 10, 2020
December 10, 2020
It still hurts to think about all the times we could all have shared, and all the things you’ve missed in all our lives.
We miss you. We love you. You will never be forgotten.
December 10, 2020
December 10, 2020
Engie baby...I still miss you so much.....the songs we would have enjoyed together...the family time...the gist....the recipes....it is well!!
Forever in our hearts ezigbo nwanne.
Sure you will celebrate this day singing with the angels...
May 5, 2020
May 5, 2020
Ngo, memories they say are forever. You were God’s perfect gift to humanity. How can one forget the amazing young lady you were? It is certainly not possible. You lived well and touched lives. There is no doubt your entrance into Heaven brought joy to the angels and saints. Sleep on beautiful one.
May 4, 2020
May 4, 2020
Engie baby....it's been two long years of not having you with us here on earth....you are still sorely missed and will always be....I still look at your pictures and find it unbelievable that you are truly gone....you look so alive and beautiful in the pictures......thoughts of you warm my heart because you loved and cared so much and so deeply. I miss you so much.....I miss sharing beautiful songs of worship with you.....I miss sharing my strides in baking with you and trying out your various tips and tricks to further improve my skills ....I miss your organizational skills especially when I make those trips to Lagos....thanks for being you....Nwanne eji eje mba keep on resting....I'm sure you are having a blast singing with the angels!!
love you plenty plenty :)
May 4, 2020
May 4, 2020
Keep resting Engie....still feels like a dream
May 3, 2020
May 3, 2020
Your memories? I don't have to look, let alone, far... They are just there! There's almost always something that brings you to life every time and for that, I am thankful. Most especially, Mariah Carey's "Hero," for Chuckd and I, screams E-N-G-I-E!! because you rendered it so beautifully with your flawless sopranos that night in Dec. 2014. Enough said, Engie dearie. Today or tomorrow, you will forever live in our hearts

Blue skies,
Kudos.
May 3, 2020
May 3, 2020
You'll forever be in our hearts. I'll never forget how kind you were to me without even knowing me. God is watching over your loved ones.
May 3, 2020
May 3, 2020
Engie, it's been 2 years, but you are still sorely missed. It still hurts, I still cry, but I bet you are enjoying being in heaven, signing with the angels in your heavenly voice :)
May 3, 2020
May 3, 2020
Another slow year has passed, and I still miss your strength, your words, your counsel. You would probably laugh at all the times I thought ‘what would ngozis do’ or more likely ‘what would ngozi say (since it would be hard to do what you did!). I wonder what you would have made of covid 19 for example.

It doesn’t feel like 2 years. I’m taking this moment today, to say thank you. I miss you. It gets better, but sometimes it feels worse.

Love always.
May 3, 2020
May 3, 2020
Still fresh on my mind, your soothing voice, your calming spirit, your wise advices, your infectious smile. I miss you my Ngoringo! I still secretly ask God why, but I know He knows best,and that you are watching over us. Continue to rest peacefully our Jumai, till we meet again. I love and miss you dearly my sister ❤
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Engee baby...you would have been 45 today...in all things we give God thanks.
You are sorely missed...however we have hope in Christ...
Her Life
May 23, 2018

Early Years

Ngozika Ikwunma Onyike (Nee Onyekwelu) was born on 10th December 1978 in Vom Christian Hospital, Plateau State as the first of four children to the Late Mr. Christopher Chukwujekwu Onyekwelu and Dr (Mrs) Nnennaya Adanma Onyekwelu (Nee Nkanginieme) of Eziakpaka, Nawfia in Njikoka LGA of Anambra State.

She was raised in a Christian home where values such as honesty, contentment, hospitality, hard work and respect for others were greatly emphasized. The family lived in the Federal Livestock Staff Quarters and did extensive agriculture due to the large expanse of land available in the quarters. Ngozi and her siblings were involved in the farming process of caring for animals, livestock and crops, learning the rudiments of success through hard work and imbibing the right attitude to work.

Ngozi was involved in the St Pyrians Anglican Church Youth Fellowship, which was the church attended by the family and her family enjoyed strong relationships with some other families in the Vom community.

Besides her immediate family she was part of a closely knit maternal and paternal extended family. Her high value for relationships and her warm disposition resulted in her enjoying close family-like ties with relations of her cousins who were not directly related to her. She regarded Prof. S.S.C. Onyekwelu as a second father and his children as siblings and that bond remained so strong in her life. She was also very strongly connected to her maternal aunties, uncles and cousins in the Nkanginieme family. Family was her strong support system.

Engie as she was fondly called, had her early education in National Vertinary Research Institute (NVRI) Staff Primary School in Vom, Plateau State. Thereafter, she attended the Command Secondary School in Jos where she made some of her lifelong friends. She distinguished herself in sporting activities especially athletics and high jump and was the Tiger House Captain in the school.

Higher Education

Ngozi was admitted to the University of Nigeria Nsukka in 1999 to study Pharmacy. She was an outstanding student who had several distinctions in various courses during her Pharmacy programme, finishing as the 2nd Best Graduating Student in 2004. During her time in UNN, she was an active member of the Federal Ex-Students’ Christian Association (FECA), serving as the Nsukka Chapter’s General Secretary. It was through FECA that she met Kelechi Onyike, her would be husband, who was a member of the FECA national leadership that visited various chapters from time to time. Upon completion of her Pharmacy programme, she had her internship at the University of Port-Harcourt Teaching Hospital UPTH (2005 – 2006) and her mandatory National Youth Service (NYSC) at the Nigeria National Petroleum Corporation (NNPC), Warri (2006-2007). On completion of her NYSC, she went to the King’s College, London for a Masters’ Degree in Bio-Pharmacy from where she graduated as the Best Graduating Student in the MSc programme in 2008.

Marriage

Engie returned to Nigeria after her Masters’ programme in the UK and got married to Kelechi Onyike on the 6th of December,2008. They have three lovely children-two girls and a boy, Kamnefechi, Ezindu and Chinekwu. Ngozi was very devoted to her husband and children and very generous with her show of love through gifts even when there was no special occasion. She loved to make an assortment of dishes, pastries and cakes to the delight of her household, friends and family. The future of her children was paramount to her and constantly made every necessary sacrifices to ensure the children will enjoy a great future.She integrated very well into the Onyike family and enjoyed a warm relationship with her in-laws.

Career

Ngozi was employed as a Production Pharmacist at Emzor Pharmaceutical Industries Limited in 2009.She was later appointed as the Production Procurement Manager in 2013. She was dedicated to her work and showed a high sense of responsibility to her duties. Her career at Emzor gave her ample opportunities for training, travel, friendships as well as offered a platform for her to impact the wider society. She enjoyed a close and warm relationship with the MD of Emzor, Dr. Stella Okoli, who showed her great kindness and generosity and whom she had very high regards for as a boss, mentor and a mother figure.

Values and Personality

Ngozi was hardworking, adept at multitasking, careful in planning and swift in execution. She liked to plan well in advance and to get things done early. She showed great commitment to any task that was entrusted to her and ensured prompt and timely delivery. She was highly dependable and demanded same of those who related with her, with little tolerance for mediocrity or substandard service. Her courage and passion for a cause always shone through and she was not one to hesitate to speak up against perceived wrongs. You could count on Engie’s selfless commitment to helping people within her sphere of influence.

Engie valued and cultivated friendships, she was a loyal friend to have and over the years, maintained close relationships with a number of friends from both high school and university. Those friends surely outdid themselves and stood with her through it all. The family is amazed at such loyalty and friendship and we can only say God bless and honor you all.

Ngozi spoke fluently in English, Igbo and Hausa and loved music.

Battle with Cancer

Ngozi received the devastating news of a breast cancer diagnoses in June 2015. The ensuing medical treatment was very rigorous, taking her away from her family for intervals but despite it all, she put her faith in God, stood strong and fought extremely hard. Despite the many challenges she faced in the journey, she maintained a positive attitude and continued to impact lives with her generosity and selflessness just as she has always done. When she was available in the country between therapies, she continued to run her home, stayed diligent in her work and remained committed to family activities. Admirably, her commitment to her husband and children was unrelenting and she embraced opportunities to create memories with her children.

Ngozi will be missed for her intense loyalty and commitment to family and friends, her dependability, brilliance, diligence, warmth, resourcefulness, generosity, passion, humour and hospitality. In the days before her passing she confirmed that she was at peace with God and was ready to go. She indicated that it was time, and said her goodbyes. This will remain a source of comfort to us all who mourn her death and a source of inspiration for us to celebrate her life and legacy.

Engie, you are sorely missed!!


Recent stories

5 years Ngooo

May 3, 2023
My  Ngoringoh! 5 years already? Still seems like yesterday. I feel you Praising daily amongst the the Heavenly hosts with your angelic voice. Hmmmm! NG, I miss you. I truly miss your wise advices and encouragements. Continue to watch over us

Sis Engie

June 4, 2018

You were one of the senior members that everyone heard about. Everyone spoke about, everyone emulated. Knowing you personally in the last two years, showed me exactly why everyone had so much to say. I can't still believe it even as I type this, but I know that His ways are not our ways. The testimonies that came from your life have moved me to do more. 

Rest on dear, till we meet again and rejoice eternally.

May 28, 2018
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Ngo babes....I've listened to you sing this song again and again....I remember that trip to spend a few days with you just after you started your treatment....it was tough for you but it did not take away your joy...you told me about the drama that was presented at the last 'Jawanu' you attended in Isuikwuato....it was all about worshipping God for who He is.....I loved the song so much that I said you should sing it again so I can have a recording of it....little did I know that someday that will be all I will have to listen to if I want to hear you sing......Engie dearie, the pain is still so raw...I pray God to help me 'see' through the pain so I don't mourn hopelessly....I know He knows all things and truly there is none like Him.

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