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Dr. Obafemi Ayantuga B.Sc., D. Phil., MBBChir., SFHM,. FACP., MPH was the Medical Director of Hospitalist services at the Fairview Medical group in Minnesota, U.S.A.

He obtained his Bachelor of Science degree in Chemistry and Bio Chemistry from London University in 1986 and then proceeded to Oxford University to pursue his Ph.D in Organic Chemistry. At Oxford University, Dr. Ayantuga was able to complete his thesis in an impressive time period of just under 3 years and at a fairly young age of 23 years. During his research at Oxford, he developed a molecular cell and was awarded the coveted Bishop Frazer prize for Excellence in research in Organic Chemistry by the University of Oxford.

Obafemi Ayantuga’s quest for learning was not to end there. He decided to go on to medical school and graduated a few years later from Cambridge University with a MBBChir. in 1994. There, he received the John and Margaret Henderson memorial prize in Medicine.  He worked as a Senior house officer in a couple of UK hospitals before leaving for the U.S.A to continue his career where he was an Internal Medicine Resident at the University of Minnesota Medical school.

Dr. Ayantuga worked at the Kanabec hospital in Mora, Minnesota for a few years and at the time of his death, was working at the Fairview Southdale Hospital group, having been appointed Medical Director there in 2010.

He had many years of experience in Professional Medical leadership and has served on various committees ranging from Patient care, Pharmacy and Therapeutics, Medical Group Practice to Hospital Trauma care, to name but a few.

He belonged to several professional affiliations such as the American College of Physicians, The society of Hospital Medicine, The American college of Physician Executives and the American Public Health Association.

Dr. Ayantuga garnered a wealth of experience spanning over 20 years in the Medical and Research fields and became one of the 47 Senior Fellows in Hospital Medicine(SFHM) in the U.S.A in the elite class of 2014. He continued until his death, to demonstrate dedication to quality and process involvement, illustrating commitment to active engagement in lifelong learning. 

February 2, 2019
February 2, 2019
Happy Birthday dear Femi....I'll always cherish the beautiful childhood memories we shared and think of you fondly. Here's hoping you continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord and we love and miss you very much! xxx
February 2, 2019
February 2, 2019
We were all so looking forward to your 50th birthday bash... you left us too soon Femi -- there are things we just cannot explain. Happy Birthday dear friend... continue to rest in peace. Amen
December 23, 2018
December 23, 2018
Dear Femi,
Another Christmas coming up without hearing from you!
You are resting in Peace in a much better place. Keep resting my beloved one and only brother. We will meet again by God’s Grace . Amen.
I love and miss your wisdom and counsel very much.
Xxx God bless
July 31, 2018
July 31, 2018
We miss you and will continue to miss you. Rest in perfect peace
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
Another year, my brother. You remain within our hearts and within those of many others who loved you and as close as a beautiful memory. Continue to rest in peace.
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
Dear Femi,
May you continue to rest in peace. Amen.May time continue to heal the searing pain still felt by your sisters and those closest to you.
July 24, 2018
July 24, 2018
For every life you touched while here on earth , YOUR memories are UNFORGETABLE !..... Keep resting with the LORD until JESUS comes for that gloriously awesome reunion of all believers.
July 23, 2018
July 23, 2018
Dearest Femi
Its so painful coming to this page always. I have avoided it all day. You have been on my mind every minute. Songs that remind me of you popping up on the radio... memories. sweet and cherished memories. You are missed by so many people. You are loved Femi. Beloved Femi. Be at peace; laugh the way you used to always. I thought that time would heal quickly but it really hasn't. The course just changed and you aren't there. 3 years today. I have no words to describe the void. Rest in peace my beloved brother. Rest in perfect peace xox
July 23, 2018
July 23, 2018
Gone too soon! Gone too soon! Gone too soon!
Dearest Femi -- I think of you often. My daughter has never seen me cry until the day I heard you had passed. I still cannot believe you have gone even though I was at your funeral. Continue to rest in peace dear friend. Continue to rest in peace. Amen #ForeverMissed
July 23, 2018
July 23, 2018
Wow, I can’t believe it’s been three years. I was thinking about Femi yesterday -thinking about how unknowable our futures are. Femi, you are missed. Rest in peace.
July 23, 2018
July 23, 2018
Obafemi my dear bro. I miss and think about you everyday. I still can't get my head around it. 3 Years !!!!! But I know that Our Lord remains the Alhpa and Omega. So bro, I know you are in a much better place, continue to rest in eternal peace in Jesus Name, Amen.
February 5, 2018
February 5, 2018
Obafemi, still gone too soon, still missed, still remembered. Happy belated birthday, dear brother. Playing a song for you today. Continue to rest in peace. Amen.
February 2, 2018
February 2, 2018
Dear femi, another birth year today! I miss you so very much,it’s still unbelievable. But I know you are in a better place.I love you. Rest in Peace my treasured brother, rest in Perfect Peace. Amen?
February 2, 2018
February 2, 2018
Dear Femi, we miss you. My biggest regret was that I never came to see you in Minnesota before you left us. Rest in peace!
February 2, 2018
February 2, 2018
Eternal rest grant to Femi, O Lord. Rest in Peace. Amen.
February 2, 2018
February 2, 2018
Happy Birthday Femi! Un-forgettable, sweet Femi. May you continue to rest in the arm of our Lord.
February 2, 2018
February 2, 2018
Dear Femi,may you continue to rest in peace.May your sisters and family be comforted on a day like this that will bring memories of birthdays past. Amen.
February 2, 2018
February 2, 2018
Wishing you a wonderful birthday in heaven, dear Femi....it's still hard to take in, but I'm thankful for the beautiful memories. May your gentle soul continue to rest in peace. You're always fondly remembered. xxx
February 1, 2018
February 1, 2018
My beloved Femi
Today you would have turned 52. I would have called you at midnight so I am writing to you to wish you peace. To tell you how so much I miss you. That a day doesn't pass where I don't think about you. That I get scared to come to this site because of its reality.
But today I must come and tell you there is forever a special place for you in my heart.
Sleep well Femi. God loves you xox
October 13, 2017
October 13, 2017
Dear Femi, I have just come across your memorial site. It was by happenstance.We were in class 1c together in Igbobi college in 1976.You left after the first year.It was the last time I saw you but I still remember you as being very personable.My very deepest sympathy goes to your sisters. I never met them but reading their tributes shows how raw the pain still is. I Pray for God who is our comforter and healer to comfort your sisters,family,friends and all the people whose lives you impacted in one way or the other.Rest in peace and may the lord bless you forever.Amen.
September 3, 2017
September 3, 2017
My dear Bro, just woke up. 3.30am 4th Sept .dreaming about you. AGAIN. It happens quite often with you. So i want to just write it. The dreams are mostly about your laughter and good cheer Femi. Just like at school, you trying to make me ignore the tossers in Chapel, Nothing more my bro. Very odd...you cross my mind daily...for the better thank God, but its odd because we lost touch when you went to America. Guess its all childhood memories and fondness. You are an angel Femi..always were----but a naughty Angel. Lol. Rest in Eternal Peace my dear brother. Yep..I have changed my life. I know you know!!!!!!!!!!!!
July 29, 2017
July 29, 2017
I often think about you especially when I walk the hallways of Fairview. Your smile, your positive attitude and your great friendship. You encourage me to have surgeries when I was so scared. You gave me confidence and support . I really miss you, my friend. You are gone but never forgotten.
July 25, 2017
July 25, 2017
Dr Obafemi Ayantuga.......Unforgetable that's what you are !
July 25, 2017
July 25, 2017
Still gone...never forgotten! Rest well, Femi. And well done!
July 24, 2017
July 24, 2017
Femi. The days go by but surely, does not heal the wound. The pain and the suffering in no way gets less. Pray for your loved ones you have left behind that they will find peace and understanding of your leaving them. Truly you will be forever missed
July 24, 2017
July 24, 2017
Continue to rest in peace dear Femi. Your memory and legacy lives on.
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
Dearest Femi - I still can't believe you are gone. I remember you today. 2 years on. Continue to rest in peace my dear sweet friend. Jesus is Lord.
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
Femi with the saints. The wound you left is still so fresh and deep. Only God knows why and Ka bi o osi. We glorify and praise God in all things. God please send down your blessings from heaven on all Femi's loved ones in Jesus name we pray.
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
my dearest brother,
its always so painful coming to this site because it reminds me of the reality....such a painful reality still.
Femi I miss you everyday. I have thought about that day 2 years ago over and over in my head.
Life has changed forever. It can never be complete. one half missing. I miss you Femi. I miss you so much.
continue to rest in peace Femi. Forever in the most special place in my heart. I love you xox
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
How can it be? Obafemi! We lost your beautiful smile and gentle counsel. There is a raw hole in my heart . But you have gone on to better climes is my consolation if ever there can be one! Rest in peace my beloved one and forever only brother. Sun re oh.
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
Dearest Femi, still so painful, gone far far too soon. Miss you. Rest in perfect peace. Amen.
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
Dear Obafemi,
Your memory is of a truth - blessed!
Remain rested in the bosom of your God and Creator…
And may the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, the love of God and the sweet fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with Bolajoko, Busola, Lola, their families and with all who knew you… Amen.
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
Dear Femi, your departure still remains surreal two years later. My memories of you always leave a smile on my face - my graduation ball, watching Wimbledon, talking about career choices, listening to music, your dry wit and even telling me off - there was never a dull moment. Rest well xx
July 23, 2017
July 23, 2017
HHHmmmm..another year gone. Its bizarre because i visit this site every week Femi, trying to understand why you were taken to be with the Angels. Much to my shame, i couldn't show up last year because I was terrified I would break down if I saw Bola and Busola, so I turned back at VGC. I am sure you laughed---that boisterous laughter/giggle..looking at me that Rotimi--you fool. Love you Femi. Your passing changed my life for the better. Your life taught me more than i knew i could become. Rest In eternal Peace my dear friend. Saw my mum last week, told her about my trepidation. about this anniversary. but she just reminisced about your wonderful parents who were her "aburos" kind, selfless, generous of spirit both of them....those were her words. She misses them and misses you through my missing you. Am sad, But I know your name is in THE BOOK..of that am sure. Rest well bro. Until we meet again in Jesus Name. Amen.
February 9, 2017
February 9, 2017
I kept on thinking it was February 11th and thought I would write a note then. Got the dates mixed up. Cant believe you are gone. I still have mini conversations with you when I bump into a rude Croatian or see Oxford pop up on the departure board at Paddington. I will always have good memories of you Femi. You were a dear dear friend. May you continue to rest in peace. Much love, Toyin
February 3, 2017
February 3, 2017
You are truly missed. Continue to rest in perfect peace.
Amen
February 3, 2017
February 3, 2017
Precious Femi,
The Lord loves you more. Amen. Keep resting xxx
February 2, 2017
February 2, 2017
May your beautiful and gentle soul continue to rest in peace Femi .You are sorely missed over here however we all take solace in the factual belief heaven is a blissfully better abode than this wicked world.
February 2, 2017
February 2, 2017
Femi,
Beloved Femi. I wish you were here today, but you are not. The only consolation is that you are in a more beautiful place. At peace. No pain, no grief, no sorrow. Just resting in peace.
I miss you too much my dearest brother. You are irreplaceable.
Continue to rest in God's bosom.
You are so loved.
February 2, 2017
February 2, 2017
Femi, Forever missed... continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord
January 14, 2017
January 14, 2017
It is indeed a great loss, I have never met the ayantuga but my Dad speaks so highly of them, femi God loves you more , am in tears after reading all the beautiful things said by everyone. Sis lola, sis bukola and sis bola accept my condolences from the juwara.
January 1, 2017
January 1, 2017
Femi,

2016 marked the first full year without you. It felt empty, its very difficult to describe. As we enter another year, it becomes more apparent that you are not coming back.

I wish you peace where you are. I wish you God's eternal love this year and through eternity. I feel that you are happy. It is us who still mourn. I know you don't wish to cause us pain or heart ache, I will make more of an effort this year is what I promise.

I have so much I would like to share with you. I miss you more than my heart could ever imagine.

Be at peace my beloved brother. I will love you forever.
December 26, 2016
December 26, 2016
Dearest Femi, how I miss you more than ever. Christmas yes,but!!!!
You are resting,and may our Lord's light continue to shine on you,daddy and nonny. Amen.
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May 5
May 5
Hello Femi
Your beautiful daughter Ajoke is one today. What a blessing she is to us all and for your legacy. A really smart and kind, loving little girl full of character. She smiles like you and is ever so inquisitive. I know you are smiling down from heaven watching over her. You live on in our hearts and thank you so much for ensuring you left your legacy. Your daughter will live up to your name and will know all about her father with pride. God bless you my beloved brother.
I love you forever.
BJ xo
February 3
February 3
Obafemi, Papa Ajoke..happy birthday. Always on my mind. Spent a great part of yesterday reflecting and staring at pictures of your adorable daughter. She is growing up fast, lovely smile and temperament. We give glory to God that he sent her to us. Continue to rest in eternal peace my dear friend and brother. Miss you loads but Ajoke brings me much cheer. We shall meet on the day of Our Lord in Jesus Name. Amen

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August 6, 2015

To a fellow kingsman, I leave a tribute even though i am much younger than you and did not not meet you in KC and never met you in this life.  I have been amazed by your academic profile and initmidating CV.  You make us all feel like mere mortals.  I am sure you carried yourself with humility and dignity going by the tributes I have read.  You have left this world to early.  At a time Nigeria needs men like you of sound intelligence and dignity.  You are one of the the best and the brightest and I weep in anguish that your working experience hadn't impacted in Nigeria at this opportune time.  By taking a last degree in Public Health maybe you were anticipating a return to Nigeria to advise government!  Ah Ah sun re O omoluabi.  We love you but Jesus loves you more. 

Femi I can't believe you are not with us anymore

August 3, 2015

Femi I find it difficult to embrace the news.

I remember nearly 40 years ago in sunny fields when you & I excelled soo much in maths. You will come first mostly, I  mostly 2nd & there was 1 more person, whom I tacked with. We were so young. You were also so handsome & gentle. And we also lived next to each other & your sisters were lovely .Lola used to be my school mother in MG. How could you leave your so sudden without no notice. Sun re o. You will be greatly remembered o. Your legacy of excelling & hard work will live on. Lola, Busola, Bola & the rest of the family sorry o.May God uphold strengthen & sustain you all

July 31, 2015

I remember the summer, 2013, when i sat in your living room in Lagos as I prepared to leave for the US to do my MPH. Although it was the first and only meeting with you through Pamela, I felt comfortable sharing my concerns about relocating and you listened patiently. Thank you once again. You even shared that you would like to do an MPH despite your other degrees. I am glad you finally completed your MPH as you desired.

On the 29th of July, as I planned to call you to say, 'Doc, I'm rounding up my MPH and also passed my board exams', a call came from Pamela about your transition......
May your transition open new chapters in the lives of all that came across you especially your family.
I hope to meet you in heaven someday.


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