JP Snijders
Ogugua Chioke was known to many people and by many names but to his immediate family he was a loving husband, a doting father and a caring brother. Ogugua was an oratorically gifted man who, in his impeccably attired style, left a lasting impact on everyone he met. His jovial, effervescent exuberance filled every room he entered and he never failed to impart some wisdom or advise at any encounter.
Ogugua is survived by his wife Modesta, his five children, three sisters, two brothers, two sisters-in-law, two brothers-in-law, one father-in-law, numerous cousins, nephews, nieces, uncles, aunties and many deep friendships, colleagues, acquaintances and relationships.
He was a devout Catholic who put God first in everything that he did. His sudden and untimely death is a shock to everyone. But he continues to live in our hearts and the memory of his generous spirit gives us the strength to deal with the colossal loss of such a unique individual.
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Leave a tributeJP Snijders
Your death leaves me in profound dilemma, to address you in the past tense, the continuous or in the present? Directly or indirectly? I chose the present and the direct; for your presence, carriage, insights, kindness and family endures and it is difficult to contemplate that you are no more – candle – like in the wind. You were my senior in secondary school, university and at the Bar, but you related to me, practically as one in those and with so much warmth and interest, the few times in long whiles, that we will meet or talk. And those your anecdotes? Those are for the present too! My heartfelt condolence goes to your lovely wife, wonderful children, larger family, friends and associate! You are missed. Have eternal rest.
REST IN PEACE OGA CHI!
When I heard, my breath left me. In the open office, I wept like a child. My colleagues were shocked. They commiserated but did not understand my loss. In my pain, yes in my selfish pain, I thought of his family. My heart broke for them. The most vital person I know. The ultimate Iroko had fallen. How do you reconcile that? For immediate family; how are they feeling when my pain is so much? I look to a future without Oga Chi’s counsel and it is bleak. Who will guide me? Who will present the alternative view point to my madness? I have lost my keel, my guide in times of doubt. I have lost my Oga Chi.
Modesta, Junior et al: if my pain is so sharp I shudder at yours. God in whom we trust; Christ whom he worshipped, will grant you the strength to bear this. Forgive me for my selfishness. Your grief is more. Your loss, profound. My heart is with you. Your pain, mine. God keep you. His Love sustain you; now and forever.
Your untimely departure is a brutal blow we are all yet to come to terms with. You have thrown a whole lot of us into untold agony, tears, pain and gloom. You have created a vacuum that may take our family a very long time to fill. Your exit is a challenge very difficult for us to handle.
You were diligent, visionary, pragmatic, wise, mature and brotherly. Your demise is difficult to accept, yet very true; very difficult to understand, yet very real. Your memories are now the only things we hold on to, firmly. They come to mind time and again, reminding us of your good deeds, your care and concern towards us and to all. They remind us of the transience of life, of our own inevitable mortality, and of the need to continue to touch the world positively, just like you did.
In my sojourn in life, so far, I must confess that writing this tribute about you my person, brother, cousin and friend, on behalf of my family, is the toughest job I have had to do. No one could have contemplated this. Life has happened too soon, yet we must continue to live. Faith allows us to grieve, but we must not grieve like those who have no hope.
Leader, Nwokeoma, thank you for being more than a brother. Thank you for being a confidant and a friend. Thank you for always been there for me. The pain that we all feel is indeed crushing. For me, personally, it is simply devastating. But we take solace in the fact that you have gone to be with the Father, your Creator, who loves you the most.
Bro, you meant different things to many different people. The accolades you have received these past few days show that you were indeed a great man. Some people have described you as a hallmark of integrity and honor, while yet others have described you as an embodiment of goodness. I describe you as a quintessential gentleman.
As the years roll by, and days turn to nights and depart, your memory shall grow even greener in our hearts. We shall be consoled, knowing that you have translated to higher realms, beyond the mundane glories of our present dimension and state. We shall continue to re-echo, with joy in our hearts, the fact that you have now joined the chorus of the saints, above.
Good Night, my mentor, benefactor, friend and leader.
OKOLI Chidi
What we can do is to live out our lives as best we can with purpose, love, and joy. We can use each day to show others how much we care about them, and treat them with the kindness and respect that we wish for ourselves. We can learn from our mistakes and grow from our failures. We can strive at all costs to leave the world better and richer than we inherited it, so that someday, if we are blessed with the chance to look back on our time, we know that we spent it well; that we made a difference; that our fleeting presence had a lasting impact on the lives of others.
This, Ogugua my friend, is your legacy.
Thank you for the father's day gift. I would not have opened it if I knew it was your parting gift.
I am honored and privileged to be your friend.
I pray that the good Lord will give your family and loved ones the fortitude to bear this great loss.
Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord; and let perpetual light shine upon him.
May the soul of Mr. Ogugua Chioke and the souls of all the faithful departed through the mercy of God ,Rest In Peace.
Sometimes that Tuesday seems like a bad dream, then I wake up and the first picture I remember is your body lying in that hospital bed. I also remember how before I let them put you in the body bag, I insisted I must kiss you. That kiss wasn’t a sad goodbye but a reminder that we’ll meet again when God decides. And one more thing... Nwachinemelu, after all my uncertainty about studying law, just know I finally decided and you’ll be so proud, as you watch from Heaven, your little Bubu become a lawyer and continue the legacy you left behind.
Daddy, you were blessed with a beautiful life and I’m so happy cuz I know you’re resting in eternal peace. Te amo ❤️❤️
My Mentor... My friend ..My Big Brother. ..
My goodness.. I can't believe you've gone to sleep never to wake up.. How on earth do I process this?
Our days at the 12.30 mass at the Divine Mercy Catholic Church in Lekki Lagos is still very fresh in my memory. What a devoted Christian you were.
who are we to question the Almighty God.. Death will remain a mystery to mankind and so shall it be till we all depart this world.
The Chiokes I've known all my life because our parents were best of friends. I saw you last at my brother in laws burial. I concluded that you won't be able to make it to his burial when you called me and said you missed your flight to Enugu but you immediately got another ticket to Owerri to make sure you stood by my side.
What a brother I had in you, if tears will bring you back to life. I'll cry you a river Chief Chioke!!
You will be dearly missed by your friends and close family. Only God knows how your wife MD and the kids feel.
May God give them the strength to bear the loss of such a great person.
Am sure you're in heaven dining with Angels and Saints. Until we meet again, in my heart you'll always be.
ADIEU CHIEF CHIOKE !!!
Rev Canon Shadrach Okonkwo & family
You affected people of all ages, you contributed in changing lives, you shared experiences and to me, you were an experience. The exit was so abrupt: what was the urgency? Nevertheless I know by His grace, the beam in the legacy you left will continue burning. Sleep on Sir, good night Sir - adieu Ogugua and find peace with God even as you sleep.
Still so sad, so difficult to assimilate this, you can’t imagine my shock! Austin Ogugua Chioke Snr, Gbogboshe, gone so soon?
Now, I can say something, it has sunk in; our dear friend, brother, husband and father is gone to become an “Angel”!!!!
Ogugua worked so hard for his family, I had mentioned his name to friends at Enugu a few hours before the devastating shocker.
He was there for them, I praised him for his devotion to his family, he flew Lagos - Abuja - Lagos always for his 5 brilliant children that all passed through Loyola Jesuit College, Abuja. I can’t estimate the total number years but not 5*6 years as they were in parallel and series, he was so happy and proud of them.
Ike, that photograph reminds me, I think in 1990, if you can ever recall, he brought you to my apartment at Ikoyi to advise and mentor you on your way to Oxford University, UK as I had just returned from Leeds University. He was so proud of his younger brother, 1st Class, Civil Engineering from Unife then.
That was him, always seeking the best for all his children, siblings and friends; that he did by giving his all with strict devotion.
He played the big brother role early.
I can write a book on him, though distance, commitments and struggle for survival seemed to come in.
Ogugua Snr was very kind, passionate, good guy with a very good large heart but sensitive too, who carried himself with panache, sagacity, confidence and always well draped right from his University, Law School, NYSC days at the late Chief Debo Akande, SAN, Chambers where I always visited him at Western House, Broad Street.
I can’t recall if we were able to afford lunches at Quo Vadis Restaurant upstairs then, Hahahaha.
I was a just civil servant on GL 08, then and he an NYSC boy.
As a law School Student at his Igboshere hostel I visited while he would come to visit me at my Wasimi Village, Maryland, Lagos where I squatted in 1983, later inherited.
We became friends right from UNN days through a common friend, they were School mates at CIC, he would visit most times from Enugu Campus to see and “protect” his kid sisters, Ada and Peps and of course party with us too if there were “eboos” around which we might gate crash in though we risked being bounced by some friends! Sometimes, if we manage to contribute to organise our own, he would be at the gate to check intruders, he was a black belt plus did building religiously, again we figured the Nsukka boys didn’t know him but we will end up with straying poachers from UNEC who were his friends as he dared stop them as some were his CIC Old Students or his seniors at UNEC, they knew. Some of them may be shaking their heads at this amidst our collective losses, pains and grief now.
did we care then, we were young boys nothing to loose!
So much to remember, oh death where is thy sting, just like a candle in the wind, oh like a meteor, Austin Ogugua Chioke Snr, gone just like that??
Life and death so near, so next to each other.
What can I, We say to Modester, his dear wife, and his young children.
Our deepest sympathy and condolences. Ndoo nuu oooh, May the good and all knowing God, comfort, console and support you all at this trying time and always.
His memories, life and legacies will comfort and guide you all, the Lord will provide the strongest strength and pillar, just keep the faith, the flag and flame he had lit up.
To his siblings, please recall, he was there for you all!
Austin was a good practicing Catholic, he was a family man to the core, he identified with his people early.
To his friends and associates, let’s help bury him but most importantly remember that he has a young family and siblings which he lived for, the best we can do in his memory is to support and not to forget them so early as most often.
Ogugua Snr, I knew for over 41 years would be there for his friends if he was to be around except if he changed lately, that I doubt.
Adieu my dear friend, good night, Austin, good bye Ogugua.
May your good, warm, kind friendly soul RIPP, Amen.
To his siblings, larger family, relatives and his community our sincere deepest condolences; let us savour and reminisce our good memories and legacies of his life and sojourn on earth.
Engr. (Dr) Johnny O Chukwu.
Your demise is shocking!
Modesta and the children will draw strength from the fact that they knew greatly that you LOVE(D) them but that God's LOVE is more.
Ogugua my friend...I cried when writing this tribute or whatever. My prayer is that GOD to have mercy on us the living and to receive His assurance for blessed eternity.
You have transited and remain blessed in the bossom of God's grace. Amen.
We beseech Almighty Allah to bless your soul and grant those left behind to mourn your exit the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
Adieu - Late President - AMP 18
Regards,
Osondu Chioke
Your guidance helped me so much as I transited from Banking to telecoms. Your insight into virtually every topic was so astounding I wondered if I would even acquire 5% of your experience and contacts. You were just you. The man with a passion and drive to achieve the most impossible tasks that remains unparalleled. If there was a problem, you made the solution so easy.
I miss you so much but we know God has called you to be with him and in a much better place too.
May the good Lord grant your perfect peace in his bosom and give your lovely family the strength to go through this difficult period. Amen
We really missed you from 9mobile.
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My world is dimmer because you are not in it!!
Continue to rest in the Lord!!!
Wherever you are
- Today, we are celebrating Mr Chioke's birthday, very unfortunately , without the celebrant. It's just like yesterday he left us to be with the Lord . We're certainly not rolling out the drums but we're quietly giving glory to God for the worthy life he lived and the wonderful family he left behind. May his soul continue to rest in peace.
Adieu
Such a painful exit. I met you only once when I delivered your drivers license from enugu to your office in Lagos. I can remember the long talk and advice you gave me before I left, you talked to me like a father. My condolences to your family and your younger brother.. I know you are in better place now.