PAUL JEFFREY BRISLEE, (1956 - 2010) - ForeverMissed.com Online Memorials

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54 years old
Born on May 28, 1956
Passed away on July 26, 2010

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, PAUL BRISLEE, 54 years old, born on May 28, 1956, and passed away on July 26, 2010. We will remember him forever.

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August 19, 2013

hi sweetie, i know,i know not been on here for a while, i kept getting depressed when on here. well i,m back an the good news is my appeal for the job centre i won (yeah) so got some money not much, but it helps, also i,ve got a new car an it,s a kia venga, nice but it really hurts my right leg,seeing its a auto, so have to rest the next day.

August 19, 2013

pt 2 it really hurts an hardly can,t walk the next day, so not sure what i can do, some say that i can change the car, not too sure about that, anyway i know your with me, cos outside the st barts hospital i never had any money, so i just parked up an went in to get my blood done, when back in the car, i found a £1 coin in front of me, spooked me lol

April 22, 2013

Special grandad!
It broke my heart to lose you but you did not go alone a big part of me went with you I will never forgot our wonderful memory's together there is not a day that goes by when I'm not thinking of you I miss you more everyday I love you so much grandad I wish you was still here!

February 14, 2013

hi sweetie,well i,m waiting for my D.L.A.hope i,m not waiting too long, need to get above all my proplems, an hopefully get me out of this depression an lift my spirit, i,m really fed up with life at the moment, everything seems to go wrong,an nothing seems to go right,so fingers crossed it soon changes,i know this would have never happened if

February 14, 2013

part2 you was still here with me,you were my strengh an dealed with all the problems head on, i can,t seem to do it, with little money i have don,t seem to go anywhere, an i,m having to rely on kelly all the time,an it,s not fair on her,always helping me out. i do really miss you not being here with me. i,ll never stop loving you,till we meet again xxxx.

February 7, 2013

hi sweetie,well it,s all go for getting my D.L.A.just got to wait now to see if i get it.i,m hopeful as i,m not 1 of those cheats who do it just to get money for drugs, i,m in a lot of pain all the time, as you know, you have to listen to me moaning that i,m in pain lol.well as you know that i,ve put in for a move,lets hope it come,s soonar than later.

February 7, 2013

part 2 anyway i will be better for me,an then i don,t have to climb these stairs anymore, i never thought that you leaving me in such a way, would affect me in such a way that, when i see or hear something that reminds me of you i have to have it on my wall, then i know that it,s there an will not go away. I DO REALLY MISS YOU SO MUCH.XXXX

February 5, 2013

hi sweetie,well all D.L.A.forms have been sent,so now gotta wait,i hope they see that i,m not one of those cheats,an that my disability,s are real,an that i,m in so much pain now, they say if i don,t get any results from having the steriod injections,i,m going to have a spine operation,which has 50/50 chance of walking. i know that i go on-line

February 5, 2013

part 2,to talk to you about my ups an downs,it,s the only way i know i can say about all my problems to you,an you can see what i,m up to,which is nothing much,as can,t walk that far now,too much pain.i,ve put in for my move,so hopefully it won,t be long,an then no more stairs, i,ll be taking you with me, i,m not letting you go, not yet.xxxx

January 26, 2013

hi sweetie, nothing much has happened, been to the hospital an they say that my knee is crumbling,so a knee op is on the cards,an as for my back, he want to start giving me the strongest steriod injection to see if that works,if not it,s the last result is an op with 50/50 chance of walking,so abit worring at the moment,so stay with me,as i know u r x

January 16, 2013

hi sweetie, just a few words today as nothing has happened, kelly is helping me again with money as the stupid job centre has made a mistake,an now are dealing with it, as for Aaron i just don,t know why i don,t see him, it,s a month or longer, an if i don,t get in touch i don,t think i would see him at all, i,m not sure if he or kelly have grieved over you yet. part 2 coming

January 16, 2013

it would be nice to see Aaron more often,even if it was every fortnight, i know that both kelly an aaron have thier own lives to live, still it would be nice thou.xxxx

January 14, 2013

hi sweetie i,m bak again, well it,s trying to snow here, so i,ll be staying in, don,t like the snow, pretty in cornwall, but here it,s a big no,no,waiting to hear from either my doctor or proffesser about my M.R.I.scan, just want to know what is causing all this pain from lungs to knee,s. i,m praying it,s not the big C.i want to see either all the girls settled with marrage.

January 14, 2013

or living happily with someone,i don,t think they would not like me going just yet, an i know i keep saying an will keep saying that i miss you like crazy an would love to be with you again, an i know i will be someday, but not just yet, that is my main goal to see all the grandkids,an stepkids all grown up first, then i,ll come to be with you.x

January 2, 2013

Hello dad happy new year I no abit late I'm sure u wud giv me sum wise crack about it like u always did lol still not rite u not bin er still can't get use 2 it yet , girls still think about u loads n talk about u n Tyler z wen he's older he's cumin up 2 heaven 2 get u n Brin u bk down er wit us bless him n as 4 Dylan he Neva got the chance 2 meet he's wonderfull grandad R.I.P dad xxxxxx

January 2, 2013

But don't worry dad Dylan knows all about u n wen he sees ur picture he says grandad pointing at it , well every1 still missin u loads dad it's just not the same without u now it's gonna take a very long time 2 get use 2 it xxx love u loads dad missin u loads DAD R.I.P DAD xxxxxx

January 1, 2013

hi sweetie, well it,s 2013 an time is flying by, to me thats good because it means that i,m getting closer to see you again, an yet it,s not because i want to see the girls all grown up an married, an as for your 2 grandsons, you would have loved them,an they would have loved you, you could have taken them to play football in the park.

January 1, 2013

part 2, well i had a quite 1, just me an the cat,an now she,s ill, i,m hoping to take her to the vets soon, i don,t want to lose her yet, but i will someday because she has cancer just like you, 2 people who i love i,m gonna lose all over again, so my pain is not gonna go away yet again, i don,t know how i will cope. xxxx

December 25, 2012

hi hunnie, it,s xmas again an i still can,t do happy people,s, when your not here, with your wise cracks,which use to make me laugh, well the wise cracks are gone an so is the laughter,so much has happened since you left me,too much to say on here, but 1 thing i do know is that i,m missing you so much, till we meet again,i love you.xxxx

December 24, 2012

Merry Xmas dad we still miss u loads ur Neva b 4 gotten dad we still think about u every day n we love u lots dad R.I.P DAD xxxxxx

December 23, 2012

hi hunnie, well it,s xmas time again,an i,m gonna be on my own, just me an the cat, it,s not xmas anymore without you,can,t do happy people, when i,m not happy. i,m hoping an prayin that when i get my results that it,s not what i,ve got in my head,an tryin so hard not to let kelly an aaron know that i,m worried sick.

December 23, 2012

part 2, i know that i keep sayin that i can,t wait to be with you,i am ,but not yet, i wanna see the grandkids grow up,an hopefully see shelby married with kids lol. so on the 25th january i want you to be with me when i get the results, brian will be with me, an i can see that he,s worried about me bless him,cos i,m the only one left.speak soon. xxxx

December 23, 2012

Hello dad yet again it's another Xmas wit out u n we r all missin u loads n love u lots dad xxxxxx

December 16, 2012

2 yrs already. Crazy. You were always good to me and the lads. If we were skint, you'd help us out and take us to work and hit us with quick witted banter all day long. You are by far the most funny, quick witted bloke I ever met. The only other person I know as sarcastic as you is Aaron. I have fond memories that still make me laugh.
RIP

December 13, 2012

hi sweetie, nothing much has been going on, it,s getting near to xmas, so i,m not going anywhere, it,s not the same now that your not with me, so i don,t celebrate it anymore, it,s just me an the cat, watching tv, an that,s how i like it. i will be my 3rd xmas without you, i know that your near me,cos of the angel move,s,i suppose it,s better then nothing. i miss you so,so much,

December 13, 2012

part 2, hunnie,that time is going so slowly, i don,t want anybody else, not intrested, the only person i want is the person i,ve had since 1973, but i can,t have, because your not with me in person. i do sence you are with me, as so many things have happened, only you an i know,i,ll keep on saying that i love you,an miss you,till we are together again.x

December 4, 2012

hi sweetie, i know it,s been a long time,since i was on here, but nothing has happened, you know how much i miss you, you know how much i want you back here with me, an you know how lonely i get with you not being here with me,seeing it,s xmas soon, you know that i always talk to you,when i,m up stairs in the bedroom,

December 4, 2012

part 2, i tell people that i,m fine, but only you really know how i feel,it will be my 3rd xmas without you, an it don,t get any better, i think it gets worst as the years go by, i can,t do happy at xmas, i,m not happy, i won,t be happy till i,m with you again, an by the way i,m feeling, it,s not going to be that long now,then i,m with you again.xxxx

October 31, 2012

hi hunnie,so sorry for not coming on here for a while, been trying to see how to get some pennies for xmas, yes it,s that time again, my 3rd without you,an it don,t come easy. i do miss your tacky joke,s an how you make me laugh, i,ve not laughed like that since you left me alone, i wish it was 1973 again when we first met,an have our lift again.xxxx

October 25, 2012

hi sweetie, i,m here with shelby watching justin bieber( don,t ask ) she is growing up so fast, she will be 16 yrs soon, where does the time go,like you where does the time go, just over two year,s now, at least the time is going so fast, so i can be with you soon, an soon it,s xmas,an as you know i don,t like xmas any more,

October 22, 2012

hi hunnie, sorry for not bein here,i,ve not done much,that does,nt mean that i,ve not stopped thinking about you. all i keep doing is thinking about my car for some reason,hope that means something,prob not,i,m not that lucky.i do so wish that you were here in person.you would know what to do.I MISS YOU SO MUCH.xxxx

September 18, 2012

hi hunnie,i,m here i,m sorry for not getting back for a while, so i,ve been to the doctor,s to see what,s causing the pain behind my knee, dr farghar told me what,s wrong an knowing me i was getting confussed with what she was saying. all the pain i,m having is due to the back of my knee an not my hip,so got to see the doctor on the 25th at 2.20,so will let you know next week ok love you

September 8, 2012

hi hunnie, me again, well what can i say, my problems are getting out of hand, my head hurts with all of this, the problems don,t seem to want to go away. the thought of me joining you is getting more,an more the best idea. i can,t seem to make things ok. my head hurts from it all. i so miss you,an if i had 1 wish, i would have you back again, to make things better,an to make me smile.xxxx

September 5, 2012

i cried when you passed away,i still cry today,although i loved you dearly,i couldn,t make you stay,your golden heart stopped beating,hard working hands at rest,god broke my heart to prove to me, he only takes the best.

September 5, 2012

whenever you feel alone,whenever you feel low,remember i,m always here for you, an i,ll never let you go, although you cannot see me,i,m always by your side,i,ve only slipped beyound the veil,please know i never died, i,ll want for you until the time, is right for you to come, for our souls entwinned forever, and our hearts they beat as one.

August 22, 2012

hi hunnie, sorry for not saying anything on your anniversary, i had a virus in my computer,aaron came yesterday an sorted it out. you know how i miss you so very much,it,s not that i miss you,it,s that i want to be with you,i need you with me. i never knew how much losing you this way would made me think of being with you, it only kelly an aaron are stopping me, being with you.

August 15, 2012

hi hunnie, it,s me again,just to let you know that i,m totally give up on everything, nothing going right for me an i can,t do it anymore,there,s no more energy left,to fight. so there will be no car for me right now,thou i would love 1 right now. i keep imagining that i,m driving my car, thats it an if i see 1 it makes me wanna fight for the car,like i had. i love an miss you loads xxxx

August 13, 2012

hi hunnie, i,m here,sorry for not getting back to you since weds,i lost my appeal an i,ve been sooo down since then, not got dressed,as you know i don,t like anything like that. so here i am, nothing much to tell you, as you know that i,m missing you like crazy, i want you here,to put your big arms around me,to tell me everything is gonna be ok,to reasure me,just to tell me, you love me x

August 4, 2012

hi hunnie, me again, well it,s saturday,weather nice, not been out for 10 days now, whats the point,when i,m not going out anywhere, you know me, i use love going out,now "nope" it,s been going on an off since you left me in 2010. just got passed your passing, an now got to get throu your cremation on august 20th. they suppose to say times an healer, " yeah rite " the pain of losing you .

August 4, 2012

part 2 con,t..the pain of losing you shall never go away,because i don,t want it too,if it does go, then i know it,s finale,it,s over. as you know i,ve still got your ashes,an there,s no way on this earth i,m letting go of them,i want my ashes to be mixed in with your,s an hopefully aaron an kelly will put us together under a nice tree, so we will be together again. if only you knew.x

August 3, 2012

hi hunnie i,m back,well what shall we talk about today? the weather is nice an sunny,an as usual i,m not dressed, i know, i know that you don,t like me, like this, it,s just that i don,t want to,at the moment, i should be out in my car,well you an everybody else must be getting so fed up about it all, but it,s the only thing that,s on my mind at the moment, i sleep,eat an think car.

August 3, 2012

part 2 con,t...the car is on my mind 24/7, i,m thinking what to say when i,m in court,will they see the real me,who is disabled an not ripping them off. i do hope that my little piece of you coming with me to bring me some luck, like you did on both my theroy an driving tests,if only you were here with me in person, but i know that your not, but i do know that your with me in my heart,xxxx

August 3, 2012

hi again, just had a letter from the court , they have sent me a letter which is being sent to all that is involed with my case, an the said that the doctor who came an saw me was a trained doctor, but i know that when i saw him, he told me that he was a trainie doctor an was hoping to become a trained doctor very soon, now i,m getting scared that he will be there,an start telling lies.

August 3, 2012

hi hunnie, just had a phone from from brian an he,s swearing like mad, as usual,lesley has been on his back about doing some decorating, an as you know brian does not like decorating, so he,s sending you this message from me to tell you, he needs you to do the decorating, so there you are brian needs you, not like me, i need you like there,s no tomorrow,i need you to cuddle me.

August 3, 2012

part 2 con,t...i need you to say everything will be ok,i,ll be with you no matter what, i love you no matter what, i,ll always look after you no matter...i know that i,m on here every day, telling you all my worries,but who else can i talk too.at least i know you, you can,t argue with me lol, i do miss you,i do miss your cuddles,your silly jokes, but most of all I MISS YOU, I LOVE YOU XXX

August 1, 2012

hi hunnie,yes it,s me again,i feel as if i can ease my problems when i talk to you, i feel as if i can only talk about my problems, while i,m here, it doesn,t make them go away thou, i,ve got the court date 8th august at 2pm, so it,s all fingers crossed,i will be taking you with me, just for divine support,just like when i took you with me when i had to do the theroy test.

August 1, 2012

part 2 cont...which i passed,an then i took you to pass my driving test,which i did. i feel very alone,very insecure,an very,very down,all i ever wanted was to do your dying wish,an i feel as if i,ve let you down,i just want to get my car back an to take you for a ride in my new car. i,m hoping an praying that i can still do that this time.

August 1, 2012

part 3 cont..if i don,t win i,m gonna be so upset that i don,t know if i will be able to cope any more, if i say that i,m below par then i would be in the mood to do something, that i,ve already thought about, when you left me 2yrs ago,i need my independance back, i need it back,or i don,t know what i,d do.i so wish you were here to help me....xxxx

July 31, 2012

hi hunnie, i,m back again,problems are getting me down an down, don,t know away out of all this at the moment,i feel like the world is against me an weighing me down, so no-one to talk to,so i,m getting to the stage where i can,t be bothered to get dressed or to going out again. what with everything on my mind, i,m not sleeping,or eating,my leg is getting worse. part 1

July 31, 2012

part 2 cont...it,s constant pain,pain, the cyst is getting bigger, so another problem added to the other,s i,ve got.i keep looking at you,an like always the tears start. as usual, i know that it,s only been 2yrs,bur to me it,s a lifetime,it feels like i,ve been punished for something, i don,t like to keep asking aaron an kelly for things, but what can i do starve,they need to get on with.

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December 25, 2015

hi sweetheart, merry xmas, it,s not the same xmas without you, i know i keep repeating myself about missing you an wanting to be with you i know i will be with you one day, i have my 2 cats to keep me company but it,s not the same as you being here, one cat named Bailey keeps following me around he,s a proper mummys boy an loves his cuddles the other Maisie she,s deaf she was a handfull but she,s coming round she lets me stroke her an she does eat treats out of my hand now but she still wont let me pick her up to give her a cuddle,there,s not much else to say as always i love an miss you an can,t wait to be with you again merry xmas xxxx

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July 31, 2012

paul was born at royal tunbridge wells on may 28th 1956,an is the younger brother to jill an louise, an have an elder brother chris, was bought up in maidstone, then he moved to ashford an that,s when i meet him,he loved the outdoors an had a job as a builder,which he loved,he felt that he wasn,t getting to where he wanted to be, so he an a friend named peter stone got together an started there own bisiness,(stone & sons)which got of to a very good start.after around 5yrs they parted an paul went on his own for a while, then aaron started with his dad,that lasted 5yrs an then the business stared to go down, that lasted till he got cancer,infact he was doing what he loved best right up to when he had his operation to removed from his kidney,which was still working with this mass of cancer around it.after you came home that,s when i saw the smile from your face,an the worring came on your face, i could tell when you was thinking about it.our holiday in cornwall wasn,t the enjoyable as it use to be, i had to take that photo which i don,t like,but it,s the last ever photo i,ve got,an i always kiss it goodnight.it would be better if i could kiss you in person,but i,m not going to kiss you till i meet you at those pearley gates....

when i first met paul.

July 30, 2012

when i first met paul i was working at factory, an it was in the dinner hour that we first saw each other, he was playing table tennis,an i was walking passed him an he missed the ball lol. it was near xmas an i was a little drunk,so they put me upstairs, me an a few friends started talking about him an his mates, one of his mates came over an spoke to me an told me that when he first saw me he wanted to go out with me, i already knew he was 2yrs younger than me, but was a number.we arrange to meet at a pub called the swan pub, he says that i did,t turn up an ive been saying that he didn,t, after xmas when i got back to work,we had a laugh about it,an again made arrangments to meet up, an this time he did,an went to the pictures a watch a film. it happened to be a horror film, he didn,t know that i don,t like horror movies,we use to go to folkstone to a disco called stones, he didn,t like it cause i love dancing an he could,nt,so the boys use to come an dance with me. one sat down at stones we went to the beach an pauls friends went for a dip in the sea without any clothes on, one lost his watch an the other lost his pants. when i got told that paul loved me i was over the moon,i,d been waiting for a few weeks for him to say it, so when paul,s friends took us on a pub crawl,to cut a long story short, that pub crawl led me to being pregnant with kelly, so on april 19th we got married, in october 5th i held my baby girl after having 3 days of labour,i always knew i was having a girl, two years later i held my baby son named aaron with him i had 8hrs of sheer agony an had a massive briuse on the top of my leg. now how the time flys both have grown up an with thier partners, it,s so nice to see them grown into adults, the only thing i would change is for you to see your grandchildren, an how they are growing, i never dreamed that you would be taken so early,an leaving me alone.the only thing left is for you to come an get me an help me through those pearly gates, an then we can hold hands again. i miss you so,so much,i,m tired of playing the happy person,when i,m not, i just want to be with you one more time,but it looks like i,m gonna have to wait......

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