We both had humble beginnings
Born and raised in a small sleepy town
Everyone knew everyone in Calabar
It was a town that taught you real family values
I heard about you growing up but hadn't met you yet
You'd heard about me growing up but you hadn't met me yet
We eventually met in Ghana and the rest as they say, is history.
"There is a friend who sticks, closer than a brother"
We shared so much, goals, dreams, aspirations, inspirations!
Thoughts on life, philosophies on how life should be lived
You looked up to me in so many areas, "My Oga!", "Boss!" you'd fondly call me,
making me beg you, embarrassed every time, "I have a name bro, calm down, e don do!"
You were the one person who when I'd walk into a room would scream my traditional name like it's going out of fashion, "OFONIME!!!" screamed at the top of your lungs!
Peter and Paul they called us, ....Peter & Paul ... P-square ...
I've never been a big fan of P-square, I always hated it when the called us that
My brother, The brother I never had, The brother thicker than blood!
My brother in arms...
Our love for photography... Photo shoots, we did that, I attempted to show you the way...
You took that, and ran with it, achieving more than I could dream of.
Our shared love for aviation and flying... You asked for advise and I told you one thing, "Your degree doesn't matter! Every limit people may try to place on you is only real if you accept it! Follow your dreams with everything in you!"
You took that advise and did just that!!!
You went gung-ho, all out with our dream, you got your wings bro & you made me proud!
I decided to take a slightly different route, my love for flying never waning!
I still remember my first flight last year, and the words you said to me still clearly imprinted on my Instagram page "...Welcome to the real world!!! You will be changing your mind soon"
You looked up to me in so many things in life!
You were like my little brother!
Little did you know that the tables had eventually turned! I have been looking up to you in so many ways you didn't even know!!!
Dressing... Style... Let's not even go there, you beat me hands down there.. Me GQ!
My top snapchat contact --- forced me to use the app before I even knew how the darned thing worked!
Always snapchatting me the craziest things!
Miles apart but always always staying in touch... always reaching out... Always being the amazing friend you are.
Words with Friends... I played that game because of you! & somehow you always managed to beat me good in that as well!!!
If only we could 'rematch' that last game!
Those two crazy boys from Calabar... Those two insane dreamers that believed they could change the world... Those two who believed they could do anything!....
Those two.... Those two....
I'll get past the loneliness
I will
You're not gone! You're still with us... Your spirit lives on! In our hearts everyday.
As Tunji said, "You're not gone. You're just not talking to us right now, you're now a snob!"
Rest in piece wingman!
We'll meet again, and this time I'll have my wings too!
Your boy
Paulie (Planker)