Peter Michael Ders, Husband, Dad, Grandpa, Brother, Uncle, and Friend to many, died unexpectedly at age 69.
Peter Ders passed peacefully from our world on Friday, May 29, 2020 surrounded by the love of his family who were with him via FaceTime.
Peter was born on April 17, 1951 in Syracuse, New York to John and Isabel Barnes Ders. His father was a Grey Hound bus driver and his mother was a customer service manager at Sears Roebuck. Peter is the third of four children. His older sister Jackie, older brother John (lovingly known as Bob), and younger sister Corinne all survive him.
Peter graduated from Onondaga High School in 1969 where he played football and basketball and played saxophone in the band. He graduated with honors from Lemoyne College in Syracuse with a Bachelor of Science in Biology.
Once out of college, Peter joined IBM in north Jersey and excelled in sales throughout his career while working at R. Shriver & Associates, Beta Resources, AT&T, and Lucent Technologies. Peter traveled through the country and world serving customers and he received many awards and was proud to work with his many friends at all these companies.
Peter, who was given the moniker Petie-Pie by his nephew many years ago is known far and wide by this sweet name. Peter had many interests that made him happy including world travel, a lover of gadgets and toys, a good glass of wine, baking, cooking, and entertaining a full house. He loved the weather, maps, bird watching, music, cards, and was a prolific Sudoku player. He was a sun lover and enjoyed a beach and a pool. Peter was an avid fly fisherman and leaves behind way too many fishing rods. He is truly known for his corny but funny jokes and always had a story at the ready that he liked to regale people with.
Peter was a loving, kind, and compassionate person who cared for people and went out of his way to help. He lit up a room with his presence, wit, knowledge and humor.
Peter is survived by Peggy, the love of his life for 32 years. They traveled the globe and visited 64 countries together on six continents. They loved to visit their children, their parents, family, and their many friends.
Peter is also survived by his amazing children who he loved and was so proud of with all his heart, Kimberly Marie Ders-Petrallia and her husband Matthew, and Joshua Adam Ders and his wife Tara and his beloved grandchildren, Jayden Adam and Sophia Elizabeth, along with Kay Chapman Hannigan, his first wife of 13 years. Peter was a special brother, a fun uncle, nephew, and beloved cousin to many Barnes’, and a friend to countless people who he loved. You all know who you are.
He lit up a room with his smile, caring ways, had a joke and a story always at the ready. He would do anything for anyone and had a giving heart.
Sadly, during this time of pandemic we will not be holding a funeral. Please take a moment and offer up a prayer of peace and love for our dear Peter. We will celebrate his life as soon as we are able to gather, but also, please do so in every moment of simple pleasure.