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Leave a tributeRich was one of the most loving and caring teachers at LeyVa.
Gen & Rich Cava
MERILEE, a beautiful and understanding wife, so THANKFUL, we can call her friend. A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. My last communication with Rich was by FB, earlier this month, he sent me a reply to a invite for a suprise get together for Alan. He explained he would be in RUSSIA on vacation. He posted special words to share with Alan. Well this is our TRIBUTE TO OUR FRIEND RICHARD CLAVERIE. UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN WE WILL MISS YOU. ~ IRENE AND ALAN HAYDIS~
Richie Claverie was a special cousin of mine. He was one year older than me, one year younger than my sister, Laurie, and two years older than my brother, Butch. Unfortunately both my siblings passed away in their fifties. My memories of Rich are many, beginning when we were kids. We lived in Stockton and Rich was my “Big City” cousin. His family, including his aunts and uncles would visit Stockton to be with my grandmother and his aunt.
We spent vacations in Santa Cruz. One year, the family had a bad car accident there. Rich was the only one not hurt. He was young and he bounced real good. Anyway, we all went to Santa Cruz to help take care of his parents and my grandparents who were badly injured. Well, let me restate that, the kids had a blast that summer, while my parents and other aunts and uncles took care of the injured who were hospitalized for quite a while. Everyone survived, and we kids went to the boardwalk everyday for a month or so.
When I was about 16, Rich and the family were visiting Stockton and I had boyfriend who was annoying me to death by crying every time I would try to breakup with him. So, Rich said I should just ignore him and come visit him and his family in San Francisco for a few days. So, my parents said “ok” and that was the beginning of my training as a “Big City” girl. I learned how to sneak out of the house with Uncle Leon (Rich’s dad) sitting in the bay window and watching everything that went on outside. I learned how to go to a party and drink a beer with no parents home! I learned how to walk bravely down Market Street to go to the movies with my arm hooked through Rich’s for protection. I thought then and I still think so now that he was the “coolest” guy I had ever known.
I’m so deeply saddened to know of Rich’s passing. I know he was a great inspiration to his children, grandchildren and his students. I am sure it gives Merrilee, Todd, Kindra and the grandkids such pride to have called him husband, dad and grandfather and to all his students to call him “Coach”.
Somewhere in heaven you can hear a basketball swooshing through the hoops…..
Love you Richie,
Leslie
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How very sad and shocked ot learn of the passing of Rich. Our hearts go out to you Merilee and the family.
I remember when Rick started subbing at Quimby Oak in 1970. He did such a great job, that I recommended that he be hired when a position opened up. He & I worked together and for the next 5 years we put together one of the strongest athletic programs in the county.
When LeyVa opened in 1975, Rich left Quimby Oak to become their Athletic Director. He built on what he had learned and developed a strong program there.
When Chaboya opened in 1991, staff personel were moved around among the Middle Schools. At that time Rich asked me to coach with him at LeyVa. It was great to be able to work again with him for my final four years of my teaching career.
We have a lot of wonderful memories of get togethers with you and the family over the years. He was so proud f his children. Todd and Kendra. As the grandchildren were born they brought much joy to him and he was so proud of all of you. We know there will be a great void in your lives and only time can soothe the pain. Our deepest sympathy to the family. You are in our prayers.
John and Fay
Army Reserves
My Mentor
Rich Claverie was a great friend and a terrific mentor. He taught me everything I know about coaching. We had many great years coaching basketball together from the Big Game (LeyVa vs. Quimby) at Silver Creek to the Mayor’s Cup. I would just like to share a few experiences with Rich that help shape my career in Education and Coaching.
For a few years I taught P.E. with Rich, one day we were going to have the boy’s run the mile. On the way out to the track Rich called out to a young man that was very over weight and asked, “hey, Tommy, would you help me out and fill the long jump pit with sand. I have the wheel barrow out and there’s a shovel by the shed.” Each time we were running the mile, Rich had some job for Tommy to do as a “favor to Rich.” Obviously, Rich avoided Tommy being embarrassed and he taught me how important kindness is in dealing with the vulnerable. A few years later, Tommy went on and started on the Silver Creek football team.
Another lesson I learned from Rich was we had a student aide that we had taught and coached for several years. Jose’s responsibility was to fill the soda machine. One afternoon we walked into the locker room and saw Jose pass a soda to another student without paying for it. Rich called Jose into the office and reamed him about how we had trusted him with the keys to the machine that had the money as well as the sodas in it. Jose’s eyes welled up and admitted his mistake. When Jose left the office Rich turned to me and said, “Do you know what we do next?” I wasn’t sure and Rich said, “We tore him down and now we need to build him back up, first thing we do tomorrow is give him the keys and have him fill the machines.” At the beginning of class the following day, Rich called Jose over so everyone could hear and said, “here’s the key go fill the machine, please.” Jose’s face went from sullen to relief that he still had Coach Claverie's confidence. The message was clear that everyone screws up, now that’s over move on and do better.
The first year I coached with Rich he told me lesson number one is that after a game, “if we loose never talk to the team about the game. Nothing constructive comes out of it. The team already feels bad and they know what mistakes they made. Too many Coaches use that time to vent their frustration with them. Only say, "we’ll work on things next practice." The next practice ask them what we need to do better on and work on it.” Lesson number two was set attainable goals for the team, first we want to win the Section, then if we don’t make that then our goal is to win the league, if we can’t do that we need to win the big game against our rival. Some years when we were not very strong, our main goal, which Rich would hype to the team, was have a winning record. Every year our team achieved “our number one goal, whatever that was.
Everyone knows that Rich loved to win and was a fierce competitor. One year Rich said he wasn’t going to coach for that year. I knew why, because Todd was playing for our rival and he didn’t want to coach against his son again. The previous year when asked by a student who he wanted to win the “Big Game?” Rich responded with “I want LeyVa to win 49-48 and my son to score all 48 Quimby points.” We happened to have a dynamite team and won it all. I know Rich never regretted not coaching that year, his family always came first. I followed every step of Kindra’s acro-gymnastics and activities to every one of Todd’s sports accomplishments through Rich. Rich, myself and my son Chris, who was 11 at the time, went to one of Todd’s football games. Rich made sure Todd came over and said hi to Chris. All decked out in his uniform Chris was in awe. By the way Chris followed Todd to Mitty several years later.
Without a doubt Merilee was the world to Rich. He was so proud of all the love and support she provided. Merilee was a regular at the games Rich coached. I also had the privilege to get to know them both. You have all my love. I just wanted to jot down a few thoughts about what Rich meant to me. If you find any grammatical errors don’t blame me. Whenever I had something important to write, Rich would proof it for me. Being an English Major, many times his red ink was more than I had originally written.
Thanks Rich, for twenty great years. Your students, athletes and this coach will never forget you.
Marty McKeown
(by the way I changed the names of the students)