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Rinaldo Peter "Rex" Vian was born in Essex, Ontario, Canada on July 15, 1924. Rex was a star student at the Institute of Design, Illinois Institute of Technology. After graduation, Rex relocated to Columbus, Ohio, where he was a highly valued designer at Cardinal Industries. Rex was a devoted husband to Ruth for 25 years, and during their marriage, the two had five children: Kathleen, Toni, Mark, Corey, and Martin. After Rex's separation from Ruth, he discovered the love of his life in a co-worker, Camille Renouard, a woman he first met when she was only seven years old and the friend of his oldest daughter. True soulmates, Rex and Camille loved and adored each other and knew, later on, when their paths crossed again, that they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together. Rex proposed to Camille on their second date, which was 17 years after that first meeting, and gave her a beautiful antique Italian silver and diamond engagement ring. Of course, she said "yes" immediately because Rex and Camille shared a once-in-a-lifetime love. They never let a day go by without telling each other, and showing each other, how much the other was adored. The time they spent together was filled with adventure and joy, and they shared everything, no matter how intimate. They truly became one in spirit. It was no surprise, when, in 1972, Camille became pregnant. In 1973, Camille, with Rex by her side, gave birth to Rex's sixth and youngest child, Christian Peter Rex Vian. Christian and Camille were the center and light of Rex's life, and both parents were totally in love with baby Christian. He is the child most like Rex, and he shares, not only Rex's looks, but his sweetness, his ready smile, and his genuine charm as well. With a trip to Italy on the horizon, Rex and Camille were planning their wedding and celebrating their life together with their year-old son. But, sadly, Rex died on April 5, 1974. Rex was highly creative and intelligent, a man of sensitivity and passion, who felt a great responsibility to those he loved. He was liberal in politics, an advocate for women's rights, a firm believer in healthcare for all, and an environmentalist. Rex had an infectious laugh, a ready smile, and a real sense of fun. He was very proud of his Italian roots, something he passed along to all of his children, especially young Christian.  All who knew Rex loved and admired him, and none more so than Christian and Camille. Though they miss Rex's physical presence in their daily lives, his spirit lives in their hearts and fills each day with love and joy. They will love him forever, with the same deep and abiding passion with which he loved them. 

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Happy Birthday, Darling!

July 15, 2023
Happy Birthday, my dearest darling Rex! I think of you daily, and so does your youngest child, our Christian, and his son, Michael (he's a pharmacist!). Both Christian and Michael inherited your artistic talent, though they paint and sculpt as a hobby instead of using art as a working income. With Christian's birthday in January, all of your children have now lived longer than you my darling. Though I love and miss you every day, I know you'll be happy that your children are thriving. All six of them are. The Vian family has turned out to be a family of boys, so far. You had four boys, double your girls, and all of your boys (who had children) had boys. There's Elliot and Drew, and of course, two Christians, one belonging to Corey and our Christian, of course.

Happy Birthday, my darling. If you only know one thing, please let it be this: I love you and miss you every single day!

All my love forever and ever,

Camille

We Will Always Be Together

July 15, 2022
Dearest, darling Rex,

Here we go. It's time for you to celebrate another birthday. Although we aren't together physically and haven't been for many years, I'm always with you in spirit, my darling. You always live in my heart and in my soul. 

Your son has grown into the most wonderful man, darling Rex! And he's the child who looks most like you. He's also inherited all of your artistic talents as has his own son, who has the Vian features and coloring. You would be so proud of them both, my darling, and they would love you so! I am so sad you weren't here to see Christian grow up, but at least you got to celebrate his first birthday with him. What a wonderful day that was!

There's no one like you, my darling. There never has been and there never will be. You are the sweetest, most darling man I've ever met. When I think of you, all I can think of is love, compassion, kindness, responsibility, and joy. I wish we could have been one of those couples who were happily married for thirty, forty years, but given the difference in our ages, we knew that wasn't going to happen, but that was okay. I do have to admit that I feel some sadness that you departed this life before our wedding, my darling. How I would have loved to have been your wife, even for a short time, but I know I was greatly loved by you. Loved by you more than by anyone in the world. And I also know that you loved me above all others. Even above the children, Christian and his half-brothers and half-sisters. And that love is enough to sustain me for a lifetime, darling. It is more love than most people feel in a lifetime together.

Know I love you, my darling, and please know I think of you every day and every night, and I hold you close to my heart. I always will. Please watch over me, dearest Rex, and please watch over Christian and Michael, too. We will love you forever, and, God willing, we will all be together again.

Love,

Camille xoxoxox

Can't Believe It's Been So Long!

April 5, 2022
My darling Rex,

I can't believe you've been gone so many years! I've missed you every minute of every day. You were "the one," Rex, darling, the one big love of my life, the love that most people never get. We were so lucky, and I'm so blessed to have darling Christian in my life. He looks just like you, he speaks just like you, and he's so talented, just like you. He draws, he paints, he sculpts, he designs, he does it all. I wish you could have lived to see him grow up, especially because you're the reason he's here. You saved our little son's life that day in the hospital waiting room. I can never thank you enough for that, Rex darling. Without Christian, my life would be so impoverished. He is the best of both of us, darling, the very best.

Of course, I miss you, especially on this day, but I miss you every day. I think of you every day. I think of all the wonderful days we've had more than this day, the day that took you away from me. I remember our first real date when we sat side-by-side in the restaurant, and I was so nervous I ate nothing but French Onion soup. I remember the time you took Dana and me out for spaghetti, and we both laughed at how much such a little boy could eat. I remember the wonderful night you gave me my engagement ring, the ring set in antique Italian silver. I treasure it. I treasure you. I remember us laughing in bed, I remember us scared together when baby Christian was ill, and I remember the joy we felt when we brought him home, healthy and happy at last. We packed a lifetime of memories into two years, darling. And we'll be together again...someday. I know we will. Wait for me, my darling. Please. Wait for me.

I love you.

Camille

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