In 1976, he and his family moved again, to Westfield, New Jersey, so Robert could work for the Board of Homeland Ministries of the UCC in the health and welfare division. He cut his teeth there on the JP Stevens boycott, and he spent those years advocating for the poor and for fair labor practices across the country. In 1988, he was appointed as the Association Minister for the Western Reserve Association of the UCC’s Ohio Conference and re-located to Lakewood, Ohio. For the next 12 years until he retired, he oversaw the running of the association, and with other leaders started new churches for new communities of faith and founded the first LGBT church in the conference’s history.
After his retirement in the year 2000, he continued to be active in social justice causes, with a particular passion for fairness in labor practices and equality for LGBT people everywhere. He served as co-chair of the Cleveland branch of Jobs with Justice, fighting for a living wage for workers, and he and his wife, Joyce, were a constant fixture at any protest, hearing, or event where equality for gays and lesbians and transgendered individuals was being promoted.
Throughout his life his family was always just as important as seeing justice done for everyone. He and his wife were a devoted couple for the entirety of their marriage. He was also a loving and supportive father and grandfather, with a great sense of humor. He was an omnivorous reader and was proud to be called an intellectual. He was also an avid and loyal Pittsburgh Steelers fan and supported the team no matter where he lived; being a fair man, he would also support the local team, unless they were playing the Steelers. His gentle and wise manner earned him many friends and admirers over the years. He will be greatly missed by many, but most particularly by his wife, children, and grandchildren. Sadly, his beloved wife Joyce, passed in August 2017, two years after Bob, and his daughter Beth in May 2018 of cancer. He is currently survived by his children Erik, Gayle, and Ingrid, and three grandchildren, Matthew, Melissa, and Jennifer.
Donations in Robert's memory can be made in his name to one of the causes he cherished and fought for in his life: The United Church of Christ Open and Affirming Coalition, the Southern Poverty Law Center, and/or Planned Parenthood.
Tributes
Leave a tributeI am so sorry to hear the news of Bob's passing. I am so deeply
saddened but at the same time I celebrate Bob's life and am so
thankful and joyful because I had the honor and privilege of knowing
Bob Strommen.
This world is a better place because of his life. He inspired us through
his faith, commitment to social justice and family.
Once you got to know Bob and Joyce you were a part of their family.
I remember the love and respect the Strommen family showed my
Aunt Edna and Uncle Ted. Words can't express the bond of love that
grew between them over the years.
Recently I was trying to scale down one more time ( Joyce does that sound
familiar ) and came across pictures of vacations you took together.
Wonderful times and special memories.
One of my favorite memories was going with Bob and Joyce to march
in Washington D.C. for Social Justice.
His laughter was contagious, he told interesting stories and loved a good
joke. He was always interested in what others had to say and made each
person feel special. Bob lived his Faith with kindness and shared God's
Love with so many people. A life well lived serving others is a Blessing
to all who knew him and a Thank you to our Creator.
Joyce I miss you and our long talks. Maybe some day we can talk.
Our prayers are with all of you .
I have just spent the last week at the National Gathering of the Open and Affirming Coalition of the UCC and the General Synod of the UCC-- two spaces that were beloved of Bob. I am so glad to be able to have been in that space as Bob's death is so fresh. We've been able to pray and cry and laugh and remember together.
I give thanks for Bob Strommen and for ALL his faithful life and ministry. I know he has been received into God's loving arms with "well done, thou good and faithful servant."
Rest in power and peace.
With love and gratitude,
Rebecca Voelkel
We send our love to you at this time of Bob's transition. Bob was truly a pastor to all he met. Bob mentored me through the process of transferring into the UCC. I am deeply appreciative of the support you both provided to me as well as to the entire congregation of Liberation UCC. It made a huge difference in the life of this congregation, and clearly, of all of the congregations you have touched. Over the years you both became good friends to Linda and me. I will always remember the easy way you welcomed us into your home for a chat or to discuss a heartfelt matter. May God's peace surround you all at this time.
These were the years when Bob worked with the UCC Board of Homeland Ministries. We were not aware of his leadership and legacy on the forefront of racial and gender liberty. We knew Bob and his family more on the local level -- potluck suppers, Frost Valley weekends, and one memorable children's story where he appeared in the role of Moses and upstaged the minister. Reading all of the memorials above has really shown a light on his life.
Steve Cagan, Cleveland Heights, OH
He was a key advocate for social justice issues in the U.C.C. denomination, as well as a dedicated worker on national and community issues. Bob understood solidarity- that is, he took sides while loving our enemies. The world is a better place because of him. Dale Lindsey, Archwood UCC, Cleveland, OH
Several years later, my future husband and I returned to Ohio so that I could show John the places I'd been and some of the people who were dear to me. Bob and Joyce were certainly on that list. John and I both recall the afternoon we spent together. We had tickets to Jacobs Field but the clouds were thickening and the game was delayed. I called Bob and Joyce: "Sure, come on over", they said. After our visit, John said that he'd never before felt so welcomed as a gay man (and himself, too, a pastor).
Our deepest sympathies to Joyce for, indeed, the two were a team and a blessing in so many lives, my own included.
We have lovely Deering memories of your parents and also ones of the years we co-chaired UCC Parents of LGBT Children. Our love and prayers are with the Strommen children but especially with dear Joyce.
Thank you Bob! --now go on into bliss with your God.
Edie Rasell, Cleveland, OH
Edie Rasell
Your parents were so wonderful to me over 40 years ago when I came as a recent graduate from seminary to Philadelphia. They made sure I got ordained and created a support system for me. They were a great team. I am forever grateful to them.
I am so sorry to hear this. Bob was the first person to welcome me to Ohio into my first parish ministry position and remained a true friend and mentor all the years he was here. Joyce and he would worship at Liberation UCC with us from time to time.
We are all grieving this loss and celebrating his life and ministry. We will also be holding you and Joyce and your family in our prayers.
Please know that our thoughts are with you and your family. I so valued the relationship I had with both your Dad and Mom. A great voice for social justice has been silenced.
On Behalf of SEIU Local 1, I send our condolences from members and staff. Your father was a great man, who was a beacon for social justice and we in the labor movement greatly appreciate his support.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
As I went through a depression, it was Joyce who gave me a great deal of support and comfort. I am grateful for having known the Strommens and deeply sorry for their loss of this remarkable man, husband and father.
I'd welcome contact info for Joyce,
You are in my heart.
I am so sorry to learn of the loss of your dear Bob. I've known you both for at least 16 years, and what a great couple you have been to the entire Greater Cleveland area. His work for the UCC, both of your deep involvement with PFLAG, and your support and love for the community have touched hundreds - probably thousands - of us.
You and Bob were lifted up in this week-end's North Coast Men's Chorus concerts, and so many of us, on stage and in the audience, were touched.
We've missed you very much right here in our community, but the "communion of saints" still means that we've been together, even through the miles. Now it extends even further with Bob, but he is still very much a part of us. And you, of course, are too, Joyce. I've loved your friendship and support through the years, and I'll be keeping you in my prayers at this time of loss, and well beyond.
Love,
Don King
I'm so so sorry for your father's passing.
He was a wonderful man in every way possible.
My prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time.
Please tell your mother that I am thinking of her, praying for her and your family.
I can only imagine what she is going through after a lifetime with the death of
her very beloved husband.
Much love to all of you.
On Friday, the Rev. Robert Strommen passed away at the age of 80 after a long siege with heart and kidney and other ailments. Bob and his wife of 57 years, Joyce, lived in Philadelphia in the late '60's to mid-'70's, when he served as the Conference's Minister of Metropolitan Ministry, in which capacity he was involved in a wide variety of social justice issues, especially economic and racial justice. They were members of Tabernacle United Church, and Bob's office was at Old First. Their home in West Philadelphia was open to many stray folks who wandered through town. They were supportive of all kinds of causes and the people involved in them.
Bob then worked for a time in the NYC office of the UCC, then moved to Cleveland to become Association Minister of the Western Reserve Association, where they welcomed all the national staff as they moved to Cleveland, and where they were very involved in justice issues again.
Joyce has credited their knowing me in their Philadelphia years with helping them accept two of their four children when they came out. In later years, Bob and Joyce became the face of the UCC Parents of LGBT Children group, and they attended every General Synod and Coalition event they could. I recall attending a meeting of the United Church Board for Homeland Ministries Board in Cleveland one year that coincided with Cleveland Pride. There were Bob and Joyce riding in the lead car as the parade marshals!
Their door was always open and their house was a second home to me for many years. "Dad' and "Mom" Strommen were always kind and warm and I will never forget the years during which they must have wondered if I was ever going to go home.
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you now and I hope you find comfort in your many happy memories.
You loved me from the day I came home. You will forever be in my memory and my heart Pop-Pop. I am so incredibly blessed to be a part of our family. The rest of us live on to carry out your legacy. Know that I will carry on the Strommen name with pride. You are in a better place now, but you will be deeply missed. I love you Grandpa. Rest in peace.
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Happy birthday Daddy.
Tribute from PFLAG Cleveland
I just received the news about your dad. Please accept our sincere condolences on the loss of your father and please extend our thoughts and prayers to your mother and the rest of your family.
Your mom and dad were loyal and longtime members of PFLAG Cleveland. Their warm and caring attitude extended to everyone wherever they went. Bob will be sorely missed and my heart aches for Joyce.
I will pass along the news to our members many of whom benefitted from your dad's wise counsel.
Warmly
Sharon
Sharon Groh-Wargo
President, PFLAG Cleveland