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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Roger Williams, 63, born on July 28, 1950 and passed away on August 26, 2013. We will remember him forever.  He was my best friend and life companion.  I will love him forever.

Roger was born in 1950 in Webster City, Iowa. After he completed High School, he enlisted in the US Navy and was stationed in Vietnam and The Philippines.  He enjoyed telling stories, family vacations, loved to travel and looked forward to sand dune season, playing in the Imperial Sand Dunes, CA. He was an active member of Love of Christ Lutheran Church where he both worshiped and had worked as their Facilities Manager until he retired in 2010. He will long be remembered for his larger-than-life personality, kind heart, big smile and infectious laugh.

He is survived by his wife, Ginny of Mesa, AZ; his daughter, Jennifer and four grandchildren of Stafford, VA; his brother, Terry of Sacramento, CA and many good friends and family.

A celebration of Roger's life and a reception to follow will be held on September 14th at 10:30 am at Love of Christ Lutheran Church, 1525 N Power Rd, Mesa, AZ 85205. An online memorial can be found at forevermissed.com.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Disabled American Veterans, PO Box 14301, Cincinnati, OH 45250; National Law Enforcement Officers Memorial Fund, 901 E Street, NW, Ste 100, Washington, DC 20004 or Love of Christ Lutheran Church, Roger Williams Memorial Fund.

August 27, 2022
August 27, 2022
Hi dad, I can't believe it’s been 9 years since you went away. I still miss you very much and wish you were here! You have always been my rock when I didn’t even think I needed one. You are still not only my rock but my angel watching over me guiding me, protecting me, and teaching me and my children, and now your great-granddaughter, Charlotte! Oh dad she looks just like Markie it’s unreal! I know you see all the drama unfolding in that household so just please keep protecting and guiding Markie and Charlotte in the right direction! We all need you still and will forever. Ginny has met a wonderful man and if you had anything to do with that you did great! He will never take your place but she is well loved and well taken care of and happy the way I see it and I know you would want that! His name is Ben, he has a lot of the same qualities and traits you do. He also loves and treats Wayne, me, and the children exceptionally well! We all love him and are glad they found each other! Desiree is going back to college tomorrow for her sophomore year. She is excited! You would be very proud of her for her schooling and basketball! The boys are doing well thus far in school. Dante is trying out for football Monday, fingers crossed . Derrick is playing soccer through the county. They are growing up very quickly too. Need some work with their attitudes and mouth but they will get it as their older siblings did as well! As far as Wayne and me you can see that for yourself and I also tell you almost every day my feelings, plans wants, and fears my anger and pains. One day at a time and I believe in you and God and more importantly, I am starting to work on believing in myself and loving myself once again, not only for me but for my children and now my granddaughter! Till we talk again, daddy! I love you to the heavens and beyond! XXXXXXOOOOOO
“Your one in a Million”
August 26, 2022
August 26, 2022
Hey Willy, it's been 9 years since you left us to join all our friends and family that went before you. We still miss you. You were such an important part of our lives. Keep watching over Jennifer, Wayne and the kids. Desi is great, she got her heart broken with her first love; however, she's young, beautiful, talented and smart. She'll find that forever woman to share her life. Mark is a father, he is so enthralled with our little Charlie. You would be amazed at how much she looks like him. She is for sure a Williams. However, I believe he has more challenges ahead, custody and such. Watch out for him. He has a great faith in God and Jesus, he prays regularly and is doing a couple daily devotions. The little guys need a bit of life lessons to straighten out their attitudes, but it will come. Jenn and Wayne are working on what their future looks like. Ben and I are trying to keep in touch regularly. Well I better sign off. I love you and will see you when God calls me home. Happy heavenly anniversary my love. Clem. Xxoo
July 29, 2022
July 29, 2022
Well Roger, this is the first year since I met you that I missed wishing you a happy birthday .
Huge storm up here in Pinetop ended with a mess that kept me distracted from the date. Jenn, Wayne and the Roy grandchildren were here for 10 days. It was fun having them here. We all miss you and believe you are watching over us. Happy Birthday love. Xxoo. Clem
July 28, 2021
July 28, 2021
Happy birthday Rog. I hope you and dad are sailing in the heavenly seas today. Desi graduated last month and the day and weekend vacation was a blast. Desi carried you with her all day. You would be so proud of her, she is an amazing young woman. Know that you are missed every day, especially on your birthday. I love you. 
July 28, 2021
July 28, 2021
8/26/20 tribute never posted.
7 years Willy. It doesn,t seem that long and yet, it seems as if you were but a dream. I will remember that weekend that seemed like it lasted a lifetime. I have so many regrets about that Friday and Saturday before you slipped into a coma. I miss you and am sorry for all the events you have missed with the grandchildren. They are all super kiddos. Mark is on a good path with God in his heart. Desi is getting along, but I believe will need some pushing this Senior year for her. 
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
Happy Birthday, daddy! I hope you have had a great day! Enjoyed the water, family, friends and of course cake and ice cream. Today is always a bitter sweet day for me/us.  Dante is celebrating his big 11th out with his siblings and friends. They are at Top Golf and having dinner there. He’s had a very good birthday. Well 2020 hasn’t been the best of years, with the coronavirus, protest, political issues, I shattered my left ankle and still in recovery. It’s been a hot mess and many are sick of the way the world is going. We tell each other it’s in Gods hands and to believe. That’s what we are doing but dad, it is hard sometimes to keep the faith. I know you hear me talk, scream and cry to you and ask for your guidance and to help me continue to push and be strong just like you always were. I know you are always with us and that we hold on to tightly. I have so much I could say and to tell you but you see it all yourself watching us all. You laugh, cry, shake your head and of course smile. Daddy please continue to watch over us all Like you have been doing and help guide us and keep us safe. I love you very much and think of you all the time and when I do see you again I’m going to hug you and never let go. I love you. Happy Birthday, from your “one in a million!”
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
Happy birthday my love. I hope you and Daddy were out sailing the blue Horizons in heaven. It was a very stressful day, remembering today would have been your 70th birthday. And they started tearing off the old roof on the house and putting on the new roof. And of course nothing could be easy with this house. It's been a tough year not just with everything that's going on in the world and our nation, but also realizing that soon I will be starting a new chapter in my life. Away from this house, on my own. You would be proud of Mark at least most of the time. He's excited about moving in with his three other Buddies back in Virginia, but he still wants to complete the same goals and course in life that he's been talking about for a long time. And if option one doesn't work out it does have an option to he's been thinking about as well. I'm not so sure I want him in the military with the way the the world is going. Every once in awhile he talks about being a chaplain in the Navy, you know Pastor T once told you that it's possible that that little guy in there that's now well over 6 foot would be a minister someday. He does have the compassionate side and thankfully his faith is growing back again. I think he finally understands that God is not a master and doesn't interfere in our ability to make choices on our own.

I miss you everyday and wish that you were still here to be able to enjoy our golden years together. We'll be together again some day.

Keep watching out over all of us. I need all the help I can get. What a mess, what a mess I have become.
Your Clem forever. XXOO
February 26, 2020
February 26, 2020
Hey Willy, Ash Wednesday today. It was bittersweet, it reminded me that we were heading to Holy Week and Good Friday. I miss you Rog. I hope you and Mom and Dad and Nan have a wonderful lent and Easter season. Clem
December 31, 2019
December 31, 2019
Well it's finally here it's 2020. It's hard to believe that we have reached the year 2020.

2019 was a big year Mark turned 21, Desi turned 17.

Missing you this New Year's Eve. Bitter sweet memories of New Year's Eves past.
November 2, 2019
November 2, 2019
34 years ago I married my best friend. Now I celebrate with you in my heart and my mind. Missing you on our anniversary.   I love you Rog. Your Clem
August 26, 2019
August 26, 2019
Willy, happy anniversary of your heavenly birthday. I miss you. You are never far from my heart or my mind. Sometimes it still feels like you should be walking through the door any minute. Mark is doing great. I know you would be proud of him. Jenn, Desi, Dante and Derrick are all doing well. It's a beautiful day today, not the monsoon weather we had 6 years ago. I love you Rog. 
November 14, 2018
November 14, 2018
Hey Willy. I thought I would like to get you caught up on what's going on. Mark is almost done with his first semester of college. I'm so proud of him. You would be so proud of him. It hurts that nobody in Virginia has any faith in that young man. He is so very special and has so much to offer the world. I miss you Rog. There are times when I think I've come so far from that horrible day that you passed away from this Earth, but then there are days like this that I feel so lonely. I know it's just that the holidays are coming and I miss Mom and Dad and you so much because all of you loved these holidays.
August 26, 2018
August 26, 2018
Hey Willie it's been 5 years, you've missed quite a bit, especially with the kids. Derrick is starting first grade Desi is playing basketball and is amazing student. Shes getting her learners permit soon. Mark started college. He's doing ok, just needs guidance. He will get there, I know it. I am getting ready to finish fixing the house when it gets a bit cooler. I hope to sell it next spring. I love you and think of you all the time. Many of us on earth are missing you. Yours always, Clem
xxoo
July 28, 2018
July 28, 2018
Happy Birthday Willy. Know that you are missed every day. There is so much going on with the kids. You would be so proud of Mark, he is turning into a fine young man. He has your infectious sense of humor. It has been a pleasure having him back in Arizona. I look forward to watch him continue to grow. Talk to you later. Love Clem.
August 26, 2017
August 26, 2017
Willy, I can't believe that it has been 4 years since Amy and Char kept vigil with me as you lay in that hospital bed. I visited with Steve and Jackie yesterday. It was a very nice visit. I miss you every day. Your voice, your laughter, you smiling eyes. Save a place in heaven for me. I love you always. Your Clem.
July 28, 2017
July 28, 2017
Happy Birthday Willy. 67 today. Now you would be 7 years older than me. I miss you. Hope you are out playing in the ocean, zipping around the dunes, sailing with dad or maybe learning how to play golf. Dante will eat a piece of cake for you. I love you!
July 9, 2017
July 9, 2017
VBS this week Willy. It should be a good week. The folks at LOC still talk about you and miss you. I love you honey and miss you.
November 20, 2016
November 20, 2016
Hey Willy. Well Desi turned 14 yesterday. She is turning into a beautiful young lady. You would be so excited, she actually had her hair cut. It's short and curly. No more straightening, she is going natural. She is still playing soccer and added basketball again this year. I will add a picture on your photo wall. I love you and miss you so much.
November 11, 2016
November 11, 2016
Hey Willy, Today is Markie's 18th Birthday. I wish you were really here to celebrate with him. He is such a fine young man. You went to heaven just a couple weeks before he started High School. He is a Senior this year and will graduate in June. He misses you sweetheart. You were always his role model. Let him know that you are still with him, no matter that you are in heaven now. I miss you every day and look forward to the day when we will be reunited in heaven. xxoo
August 27, 2016
August 27, 2016
Three years since we have seen that big smile of yours. So many times we will be somewhere or see something, look at each other, and know we are both thinking the same thing...it reminds us of you! Was it you who sent the penny yesterday? We are so looking forward to the birth of our granddaughter and experiencing the joy of being grandparents that you did.
August 26, 2016
August 26, 2016
Thank you Roger and God for my gift, my little Lucky Dog. He is 3 years old today.
August 26, 2016
August 26, 2016
It's hard to believe that it has been three years since you passed from this world into heaven. Sometimes it feels like yesterday and sometimes it feels like forever ago that I saw that laughing, smiling face. Willy, I miss you every day. I love you. And as Carrie Underwood’s “See you Again”… “Sometimes I feel my heart is breaking. But I stay strong and I hold on 'cause I know, I will see you again, oh. This is not where it ends, I will carry you with me, yeah yeah…”
August 27, 2015
August 27, 2015
Miss you and think of you so often! Hope you heard our shout out at the dunes last week on our way to San Diego. So happy to be included in the fun at Glow Putt....I'm sure we had you laughing!
August 26, 2015
August 26, 2015
It's been 2 years since you joined everyone in heaven. Desi, Markie and I are going to have lunch at Red Robin and then play 18 holes of glow putt miniature golf in Scottsdale. It's indoors and has black lights for the glow affect. It should be fun, I know you would have enjoyed it. We always looked for a mini golf place whenever we went on vacations with Jenn. Maybe if God doesn't have you too busy with other tasks today you can join us.  I miss you Willy. Love, Your Clem.
August 26, 2015
August 26, 2015
Dad it's been 2 yrs since you went to heaven. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think of you. Some days are harder than others. I know you are always with me and the children in your own special way! I just want you to know that today and always we love and miss you very much, daddy/papa.
July 28, 2015
July 28, 2015
Hey Willy! Happy 65th Birthday. Dante is 6 today. Jennifer took him to Kings Dominion for his big day. Seems a great place for the two of them to spend his special day that he shares with you knowing how much you loved working at the park. I wonder if the scrambler was their first ride. I love you Rog. xx00
July 28, 2015
July 28, 2015
Happy Birthday Roger!! I still see your face everywhere!! You are missed!! I could sure use a beer and chat with you!!
July 28, 2015
July 28, 2015
We are thinking of you on your birthday, dear friend. I can just hear you celebrating and laughing with the angels! We all miss you....until we meet again ~
August 27, 2014
August 27, 2014
Hi Rog. It's hard to believe that you have been gone for a year already. Sometimes it seems like yesterday that we were laughing a goofing around. It's been a pretty tough 12 months. Thank you for sending me my little "Lucky" dog. He is the new love of my life. He makes me laugh and makes me frustrated. Huh... just like you. I put flowers on the alter for you on Sunday, including roses. Since Markie and I were leaving for California, I had Dianne take them home to enjoy their beauty. There are many folks that still miss you. That means a lot to me, you were a man loved by many. Keep my seat warm. I'll see you soon. Yours forever, Clem. xxoo
July 29, 2014
July 29, 2014
Hey Willy, Markie is embarking on his first solo flight today. He is flying out to spend a month with me. He is going to take care of some of your "honey do" items around the house. It will be great fun having him here. I hope you get the chance to check in on us in Arizona. He sure would be making you proud. Clem
July 29, 2014
July 29, 2014
Hi Rog - it was a pretty bad day yesterday. It seemed like everything reminded me of you. There aren't enough words for me to express how much I miss you. I hope you and dad got to the causeway. The sky looked like smooth sailing to me. I love you. G
July 28, 2014
July 28, 2014
Happy Birthday Roger!! I miss you!! I know you are going to have an amazing day!! I can hear you laughing!!

Jefg
September 28, 2013
September 28, 2013
AZ Central Tribute: September 02, 2013
Ginny, I am so sorry about Roger's passing. I always enjoyed talking to Roger. He always made me feel so welcome. He was a very good person. Take Care Ginny. Craig W.
September 28, 2013
September 28, 2013
AZ Central tribute: September 02, 2013
To one of the best cousins.
~
Cindy Ewing,
Sac City, Iowa
September 14, 2013
September 14, 2013
Hello my love. Well the Celebration service of your life was a huge success. I know you were there with us to enjoy every minute. I am so proud to have been able to share your life for over 28 years. You meant so much to everyone you met. You were an amazing man, a gift from God himself to me and all those you touched. Ginny
September 13, 2013
September 13, 2013
That luau was so much fun- he was so proud driving that pig into the CoC. Michael- talking about the golden chair reminded me of how we gave him a golden plunger-he got such a kick out of it. He was always so much fun to be around. Even when things were not good, we would find something to laugh about. I've been thinking a lot about those days, they were good times. Such a good man.
September 13, 2013
September 13, 2013
Roger was a dear friend who always will be remembered for his hearty laugh, his ability to love people and his great love for his family, his church and his Lord. I remember the first Luau we did at Love of Christ. Roger helped dig the pit for the pig and had even greater joy driving the golf cart to present our Luau main course. Roger was a blessing to all of us!
September 13, 2013
September 13, 2013
Roger, You were a shining example to me of how to take the journey with faith, strength, courage, and yes, even humor! Thank you for that gift and for your friendship.
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
Roger, I just remembered something else.... You are finally getting your reward! Remember?...."The golden chair!" How we used to laugh and talk about this in the midst of your never-ending "chair setup days" at LOC.... We said that you'd be rewarded in heaven for setting up those 700 chairs every single week with a Golden Chair from God. :) Enjoy it! You've earned it!
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
Hey Roger! I soon as I heard you passed I could hear your laugh! You and Ginny were always to so good to me! You gotta help me out with something.. my memory is not the best these days, but I remember going to the dunes and something happened to you, and we laughed our asses off, you gotta help me remember! You are missed! Laughter is the best medicine!! Lots of laughter!!
September 6, 2013
September 6, 2013
You know that Beth and I loved Roger, and are very sorry that you must go through this.
Yes, Roger will be sorely missed by a lot of people.
I know he has an express ticket through the gates and a celebration of his arrival is happening…..

Our best wishes and prayers go to you and Jennifer.
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I remember when I met Roger & Ginny at LOC years ago. I always thought he was a great guy, who always made you feel welcome. Roger loved to have fun & laugh no matter what he was doing. I remember when Frank & I went bowling with he & Ginny, we had a blast & I never laughted so hard. To know Roger was to love him!! Rog you will be missed & I will remember you always <3
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
With my sincere condolences, my prayers go out to the family and Roger's dear wife Ginny. I know Roger was truly loved. Words cannot express the loss a wife feels over the passing of her husband. May you find peace in the midst of these trying times. Always with Love, Pekitta
September 3, 2013
September 3, 2013
What a great guy. I will always remember Roger as a jolly guy who had a love of people and a love for life in general. The years we worked together at Love of Christ will be remembered fondly. Roger--you will be missed and I thank you for the friendship and laughter we shared all those years!
September 2, 2013
September 2, 2013
I knew Roger from KD and I remember him as being that “cool” “older” guy who was calm at all times and just fit well in an “odd gang” of characters..I guess that Keith Richards deep laugh is the one thing I recall to this day..I love reading his back story, Vietnam and other things I didn’t know about Roger..Rest in Piece Dear sir..
September 2, 2013
September 2, 2013
Roger was one of the most honest and down to Earth people I have ever known. Always quick to laugh, lend a hand, or commiserate when it got tough. He will be remembered by many, and I will personally always be grateful for the generosity he and Ginny extended to John and I when we first landed in Phoenix. Roger...you were a great friend and you will be missed!!
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August 27, 2022
August 27, 2022
Hi dad, I can't believe it’s been 9 years since you went away. I still miss you very much and wish you were here! You have always been my rock when I didn’t even think I needed one. You are still not only my rock but my angel watching over me guiding me, protecting me, and teaching me and my children, and now your great-granddaughter, Charlotte! Oh dad she looks just like Markie it’s unreal! I know you see all the drama unfolding in that household so just please keep protecting and guiding Markie and Charlotte in the right direction! We all need you still and will forever. Ginny has met a wonderful man and if you had anything to do with that you did great! He will never take your place but she is well loved and well taken care of and happy the way I see it and I know you would want that! His name is Ben, he has a lot of the same qualities and traits you do. He also loves and treats Wayne, me, and the children exceptionally well! We all love him and are glad they found each other! Desiree is going back to college tomorrow for her sophomore year. She is excited! You would be very proud of her for her schooling and basketball! The boys are doing well thus far in school. Dante is trying out for football Monday, fingers crossed . Derrick is playing soccer through the county. They are growing up very quickly too. Need some work with their attitudes and mouth but they will get it as their older siblings did as well! As far as Wayne and me you can see that for yourself and I also tell you almost every day my feelings, plans wants, and fears my anger and pains. One day at a time and I believe in you and God and more importantly, I am starting to work on believing in myself and loving myself once again, not only for me but for my children and now my granddaughter! Till we talk again, daddy! I love you to the heavens and beyond! XXXXXXOOOOOO
“Your one in a Million”
August 26, 2022
August 26, 2022
Hey Willy, it's been 9 years since you left us to join all our friends and family that went before you. We still miss you. You were such an important part of our lives. Keep watching over Jennifer, Wayne and the kids. Desi is great, she got her heart broken with her first love; however, she's young, beautiful, talented and smart. She'll find that forever woman to share her life. Mark is a father, he is so enthralled with our little Charlie. You would be amazed at how much she looks like him. She is for sure a Williams. However, I believe he has more challenges ahead, custody and such. Watch out for him. He has a great faith in God and Jesus, he prays regularly and is doing a couple daily devotions. The little guys need a bit of life lessons to straighten out their attitudes, but it will come. Jenn and Wayne are working on what their future looks like. Ben and I are trying to keep in touch regularly. Well I better sign off. I love you and will see you when God calls me home. Happy heavenly anniversary my love. Clem. Xxoo
July 29, 2022
July 29, 2022
Well Roger, this is the first year since I met you that I missed wishing you a happy birthday .
Huge storm up here in Pinetop ended with a mess that kept me distracted from the date. Jenn, Wayne and the Roy grandchildren were here for 10 days. It was fun having them here. We all miss you and believe you are watching over us. Happy Birthday love. Xxoo. Clem
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August 26, 2020
7 years Willy.  It doesn't seem that long and yet, it seems as if you were but a dream.  I will remember that weekend,  that seemed like it lasted a lifetime, each day of my life.  I have so many regrets about that Friday and Saturday before you slipped into a coma.  I miss you and am sorry for all the events you have missed with the grandchildren.  They are all super kiddos.  Mark is on a good path with God in his heart.  Desi is getting along, but I believe will need some pushing this Senior year for her. The little guys are so fun to talk to, they are growing up so fast.  I miss them and hope I can see them next year.  Jennifer is going to school and getting her future on track.  I'll see you when I'm called to my heavenly home.  I love you.  Your Clem.  xxoo
July 28, 2019
Happy Birthday, daddy! I’m sure you have had a great day sailing with papa and enjoying your cake and ice cream with everyone in the beautiful heavens above! Dante turned 10 years old today! He’s growing up to be such a handsome smart big hearted young man! You would be proud of him. You would be proud of us all! We have been doing well. I’m in my 4th semester in school and I’m doing very good. Derrick and Desiree are doing very good too! Growing like weeds and growing up to be beautiful and smart as well. Markie you know is in Arizona with Ginny. He is doing very well! You would be very proud of him as I know I am very proud of the young man he wasand man he’s turning out to be!! I miss him very much but I know he did the right thing moving!! Wayne is doing well. Working as a boss at his job and taking care of the family so I can stay home a little longer.  We miss you and think of you so often and speak of you all the time. It hasn’t been the same since you left and never will be but we always know you are with us and watching over us all everyday. I love you daddy and your grandchildren love their papa yesterday, today, tomorrow and forever!!! Forever missed but NEVER forgotten!

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