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This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved husband, father, grandfather, and brother, Prince Roland Emmy Olalekan Olajide, born on October 23, 1949, and passed away on February 1, 2021. We will remember him forever.
February 10, 2021
February 10, 2021
Is this true or am I dreaming? What happened to Big Daddy? Is he really gone? What now happens to our regular Sunday calls, checking on me and the children, grandchildren, my mother and siblings? Big Daddy, you have left a big vacuum in me that will be quite difficult if not impossible to fill. What happens to all those beautiful conversations on the way forward with Nigeria? What happens to the words of encouragement “kò ní rẹ̀ ẹ́ o”; “Make sure you take your multivitamins regularly, okay?” And you would always conclude our conversation with the words “O ṣé o”. However, we cannot question God. But it is comforting to know that your legacy lives on. The beautiful memories, your trips to visit us in Canada, your regular words of encouragement, those beautiful gifts to the children and myself, and also celebrating landmark events together will be missed in no small way, but they are ingrained in our memories forever. Thank you Big Daddy. Enjoy your sweet rest in the bosom of the Lord. See you in the Morning!
February 10, 2021
February 10, 2021
My Brother! My Father! My Leader! This is not the way it should have been o. You did not give me any warning sign that you would leave so suddenly, or maybe you gave me subtle signs in your own way but I thought you were too invincible to die and would live for much longer. Now I know how so blindly wishful I was in that my assumption which was so unbecoming of me, a medical doctor! So much yet undone Broda, and so much left undiscussed! Death stole you from me so stealthily and so suddenly. But who am I to question God who allowed it? For I know He does only good and never evil. I have surrendered all to Him who knows all things. I thank God for the fruitful and fun times that we had together, and for the unequalled older sibling love and indulgence that you lavished on me. I thank God for your children, my wonderful nieces and nephew, for in them I know I will continue to see you and feel your presence always. Fare the well my great egbon! May light perpetual shine on you. I will surely miss you in unimaginable ways. But I look forward with unshakable faith to that glorious dawn of the resurrection of the saints, when our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ shall come again in glory to raise you up from your sleep and we shall meet once more to never part again. Until then, Big Bro, Sleep On and Sleep Well! Adieu!
February 10, 2021
February 10, 2021
Big Daddy I really miss you, never knew you would leave us so suddenly. You have left a big void in my heart , I wish i expressed how much i loved you when you were here with us. You were a good man, you advised me and checked up on me everyday with ur calls. I am saddened that death took you away. How I wish I could turn back the hand of time, but God said in all things we should give Him thanks. Your death left a big scar in our hearts but your legacy will stand in our life. I will never forget you and you will always remain my dearest Big daddy
Love from Ariyo Adebimpe ( Adedeji )
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
I cannot withstand missing you at this time my dear brother and our Olori-Ebi of Olajide Aboloyinjo Dynasty .
Your sudden demise has cost me your great affection , your time to time pieces of advice and your regular counsellings to me through our various telephone discussions .
The whole dynasty shall always miss your usual financial generosity , given to make sure that it (our dynasty) maintained its relevance .
Bye for now , sir , till we meet where we shall part no more .
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
Thanks for the fatherly care...I am so happy you were closer to God during the last few years and I know that is the most important big daddy...We promise to stay closer to God as a big family so we can see you at the resurrection morning. If you are reading this, please give your life to Jesus Christ because nobody knows the next minute...Love you Dad..Sleep on...
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
Huuuun, Iku Doro, Iku seka, Iku mu Egbon bi Baba lo laarin wa. D Olori Ebi of (Aboloyinjo Olajide descendant). You are forever missed Buoda mi, Baba mi. Roland Olalekan Olajide Omo Afolayanka. I will miss your calls, your love for me and my family. You took my husband as if he is your blood brother. Huuuun, I'm short of words. Omo Odu Ejiyan, Omo Alegbeleye, Omo osun han tegbetegbe, Omo abegbe sun bi omi. Omo Alaaye a mojo gidigidi soro. You left us just like dat. Sun re oh till dat glorious morning dat we meet and part no more.
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
My Father And My Brother. The Prince Himself. Your Passing Away To The Great Beyond Is a Shock To Me. A Man Of Great Integrity. Full Of Compassion, Kind Hearted, Loving, Caring And Well Understanding Man. A Good Supporter In Any Crisis Or In Any Storm Of Life. A Straight Forward Man With Great Humility. Your Passing Away Is So Painful To Me. Rest In Peace. You Have Played A Good Role As A FATHER. GOODNIGHT BROTHER. REST IN THE BOSOM OF THE ALMIGHTY GOD. TILL WE SHALL SEE AND PARTED NO MORE. ALL THE ENTIRE FAMILY MISS YOU. YOU WILL LIVE FOREVER IN OUR MEMORIES. GOODNIGHT SIR.
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
"For me to live is Christ and to die is gain" (Philippians 1:21)
Daddy , it's really a shock to me that you are no more. Your inspirational words, love and encouragement to me in my bleak years gave me the strength to forge ahead.
I will miss your calls and texts asking after the welfare of the children. Every milestone of achievement, you would send them gifts of money. Asking me" Iya BJ, send the pictures of my children that I may see them." Daddy, I will miss the prayers you always texted after seeing those pictures.
You always said, " when I see Tunde, I want to be able to give him good news."
Daddy, my heart bleeds, but I know you are now with your Saviour, the One you loved and adored.
Goodnight Daddy.

Aunty, the Lord will take care of you and He will uphold you.
It's a journey, the Lord will walk every inch of it with you. All the glory be unto Him.
Jesu wa nbe.
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
"The heavens themselves blaze forth the death of princes."
       ..... William Shakespeare.

You did not just live, you lived a fulfilled and purposeful life.

We are certain that you are now in a better place. For this, we are thankful to God.

You left a legacy of good character and humility. You lived like a prince that you were.

You will forever be in our hearts.

Sleep on till the resurrection morning.
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
The long journey for both of us now begins in different directions after 24 years of love, laughter and trials.
" I thank God for the mountains
I thank Him for the storms He brought us through. For if we'd never had a problem, We wouldn't know God could solve them. We'd never know what faith in God could do".
While wondering what to write, I heard that still small voice say "MISSION ACCOMPLISHED" "You brought him back home to me". What a glorious exit? No suffering, no pain .God hearkened to your heart's desires. Missing you already. Rest on daddy. Luvu.
February 9, 2021
February 9, 2021
To God be the glory, you finished the race well. You will be greatly missed.
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February 2
UP TILL NOW. IT LOOKS HAS IF I AM DREAMING. 3 YEARS HAS GONE BY AND IT LOOKS LIKE YESTERDAY. SLEEP WELL SIR IN THE BOSOM OF YOUR MAKER. EGBON DADA THAT PLAY A GOOD FATHER. I WILL CONTINUE APPRECIATING YOU UNTIL WE PART NO MORE. SEE YOU ON THE RESURRECTION MORNING.
February 1
February 1
My dear Baba ọkọ lukaluka,
3 years all like yesterday. We all miss you so much. Thankful for God’s faithfulness, grace and mercy in our lives. Till the getting up morning. Rest in peace.
His Life

Obituary

February 22, 2021
Roland was born on October 23, 1949 in Lagos, Nigeria. He was born into the Aboloyinjo Olajide Royal Dynasty of Ejiyan-Ekiti, Ekiti-State, Nigeria. He attended Ilesha Grammer School and Adventist Grammer School Ede, both in present-day Osun State, Nigeria. He worked briefly with the Nigerian Immigration Service before relocating to the US in search of greener pastures.

Roland attended Lewis University, Romeoville, Illinois, where he obtained both a Bachelor of Arts and a Master of Science degree in the fields of Criminal and Social justice. He worked in the Joliet Correctional Center in Illinois and later at Queen Anne’s County Correctional Center MD until he retired after about a total of 30 years of service in law enforcement. During his tenure of service in Queen Anne County, he received numerous awards for loyalty, diligence and outstanding performance.

He got married to his first wife, Kemi on July 29, 1978 and were both blessed with three beautiful children. On December 2, 1996 he got married to Sola, his wife and widow, with whom he spent the rest of his life.

Roland was a force of nature, determined to provide for his family and give them the life he felt they deserved. His family meant more to him than anything else in the world.

Anyone who knew Roland knew that he was the most loving husband father a family could ever ask for. He loved to be around his children and grandchildren, his stepchildren and step grandchildren, his siblings, his numerous cousin, nieces and nephews who also loved to spend time with him.

He was very sociable and friendly. He loved to go fishing with Grafton, his bosom friend who he met at Queen Anne and who stood by him during a most difficult time of his life and with whom he kept in contact till he was called to rest. Roland was a lover of almost any genre of music. He loved to dance and sing. He started to learn how to play the keyboard last year. He was quite a handy man and loved to fix things around the house. He loved sports, politics and traveling. Roland loved the Lord and was a baptized member of the Seventh Day Adventist church until he was called to rest. Roland is survived by his wife, his children, grandchildren, his step children and step grandchildren, his siblings and a host of cousins, nephews, nieces, extended family and friends.

We look forward to reuniting with Roland at the great resurrection of the saints. Until then, we bid our beloved Roland goodnight.



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February 12, 2021
Chief, Oloye, Prince Lekan Olajide, the angels may flap their wings a little more to usher you in with those your goggles that look so sporty and imposing on you, whether on native, suit or casual. Who taught the other? You to Shola or Shola to you? Rest in the Bossom of the Lord.
February 9, 2021
You showed us affections. Feel concerned by updating us with necessary things concerning health issues and social well being. A journey you started came to an end gloriously.
Although its painful to the family but you slept well. You came you saw and you conquard.

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