well baby boy dads back in hosp. but you know that take care of him hes in icu. i love and miss you

this isnt a story this is an apoligy to my ronnie for not being on here. your dad is home with us again thank you thank god. i miss you so much mothers day was rough i was waiting for your phone call and it never came i love you and miss you love your momma

miss and love you dad back home another scarey time but you know that love momma

Van Morrison  - (everything I do)  "Reminds Me of You" 

We most often think of wealth as measured in terms of the amount of money a man accumulates during his life.

Of course money is a form of wealth but as the saying goes "you can't take it with you"

had kaylee over and austin and paige . i had to work but was able to visit alittle it was nice you would be proud of your 6 kids wow will right more

this funny and true . i dont remember what age ronnie was but he wanted to shave so he went into the bathroom after jeff got out and a few minutes later he came to jeff and said dad can i shave of course jeff said yes and without ronnie knowing it jeff took out the blade of the razor and told ronnie to wet his face and put the shaving cream on so ron did but he didnt want to be watched so jeff came out to the kitchen and we waited for ronnie to get done he came out of the bathroom face full of shaving cream and the electric razor ,cream all over it and said how are you suppose to shave with this thing dad ? the look on his face and jeffs just was priceless i laughed so hard after jeff took ronnie in the bathroom and handed him the other razor (without blade) and showed him how to shave.jeff tried cleaning the electric razor without laughing but didnt succeed ronnie came out of the bathroom so proud that he shaved and didnt cut himself. he had that ronnie looking face that is kids inherited. this is funny and true

you and god pulled your dad through another one! thank you you were there again. your dad is doing better. hes in a rehab to walk and get his strenghth back but you know that i love and miss you love momma

i keep asking why why my ronnie he had so much going for him the love of his wife kids friends like kevin rick kevin k angie dan and so many others beckeys family angies family marias family and so much love from me and his true of the word his dad jeff i was to go first not you i was to get you to heaven not you god ronnie i need you so much right now where are you love momma

"He Ain't Heavy He's My Brother" 

I found this quote on facebook from something Paige subscribes to.

Today I begin to understand what love must be, if it exists. When we are parted, we each feel the lack of the other half of ourselves. We are incomplete like a book in two volumes of which the first has been lost. That is what I imagine love to be: incompleteness in absence. 

I have lost a lot of people in my life. But losing you is right up there with my Mom and take my word for it that's way way up there. Matter of fact it don't get no higher. 

It hurts deep & bad, real deep & real bad! 

Whoever said "Love is Forever" probably didn't have you and me in mind. Nevertheless that statement is absolutely 100% true in this case.

"The Good Die Young" and "When God Made You He Broke The Mold" are also appropriate.

Even though I can't physically see you, I can feel you. I know your there.

I suppose this is what Brokenhearted feels like...... It Bites!...... I have never cried so hard & so much in my life.

Ronnie you were one very, very special guy. A once in a lifetime friend... I miss you so frickin much.... You are my brother & you always will be.

Kevin

if you knew ronnie then you knew how much he loved all of his kids. he loved being a daddy. his first born paige was the light of his life then kaylee how he wanted to give her the best and did, austin his pride and joy and randy his chance to make things right.he loved all his kids equally as we who knew him knew this to be true, i love you my son my pride and joy. love momma

ronnie came into jeffs life when he was i believe 11 yrs old. Ronnie looked at jeff then asked me if he could call him dad, well needless to say jeff shined like the sun and made him his son. jeff and i would make trips to pa w/a days notice to go to court to fight to get ronnie jeff never complained until almost a year going back and forth and the courts promising ron that he would be going home w/ us to oh then it wouldnt happen so jeff told the judge& atty that we were going to sue them for child abuse well needless to say we got ron within 2 wks. Jeff and ron were attached at the hip they went fishing& went to indians games and talked long talks.RONNIE GOT THE DAD HE LONGED FOR! I know ron is with Jeff and jeff knows it too.Im not ready to lose jeff to so ronnie i gave you jeff as a dad please give him back to me . i love and miss you my son love momma

ive always believed in spirits amoung us and well ronnie you are one of them now your dad knows you are there take care of him help me keep him with us here. you are our angel oh my our little devil is now our angel wow love you miss you oh yeah look over your wife beckey the boys her dad and family angie dan austin and family paige maria and family and kevin , rick kevin tony and all friends in oh and mn  big job for you but you can do it

when ronnie loved someone it was for keeps! when he said he loved you he meant it. ronnie i will always cheerish the words love you mamma! you rest in pease my son no one can hurt you any more i hope if joanne is there with you she begged you for forgiveness but i believe shes in hell for what she did i love miss and know i will see you soon

I miss my other half...He was a big part of everyday life from morning til night. I miss and charish family nights just playing with the kids, tag teaming dinner, homework, baths, sayin prayers, puttin the boys to bed then aww cuddlin up and relaxin to prep for the next day. All of it is so hard to do w out a huge piece of the puzzle. The boys would call it having "the boys party nite" when i had to work cause u would make sure ya'll had fun, then i would come home to them asleep and dinner for both of us on the table. I miss u so much it hurts baby and the kids do too. I know alot of poeple werent here and didnt see our lives, but alot of others did and know how hard we worked for everything we had and wanted for the kids. Both of our dreams had came true, but it was a journey and took alot of getting over passed issues to get there, but together we were strong enough to get threw anything and did. You were an amazing man with a heart that anybody would be blessed to have a piece of, I know we were...It's taking everything I have to stay strong and function and try to make myself care or feel again so i can protect our kids from everything u never wanted them to feel and i promise u with all my heart and soul that is my #1 mission in life, actually my only mission.  I have had to hear and deal with alot of things that i know ur up there even findin alittle crazy, but thats okay I know the truth and i dont need to share it thats why we were so close.....nothing else matters, its just drama, and theres bigger fish to fry.....like u would always say!!! You taught us alot and i hope and pray randy got those qualities from his daddy. U were an amazing man and now an angel, I look forward to the day we can spread our wings and fly together again...We love u and miss u sooo very much!!!! 

when ronnie paige and austin played monopoly ronnie made up the rules i think to shorten the game the kids still play it that way. he made a great impression on them and others

this is a funny but true event. ronnie and paige were here @ the house and ronnie said he heard a mouse in the wall, he told paige to get him a hammer so he can put a couple holes in the wall . paige told him no grammies will get mad ronnie just kept telling her to get it so he could catch the mouse and then i wouldnt get mad, paige said no way daddy we dont have a hammer. now does that not sound like ronnie. lol i love you ronnie

                                                                 love momma

if you knew ron you knew how he would use those words in the title. he loved strong,he lived to the fullest trying to get everything done in a day and he would forgive if you would hurt him, he may not have forgotten but he forgave. he loved his childen so much and loved all of us. his best friends kevin in ky kevin in mn and rick in mn plus those in oh. his main goal in life was to have a family he could call his own and he got it.ron you will always be with me i love you

                                                                                          love momma

when we moved in this house and finally came here we saw a eagle and we both love them ronnie said that is me and you ma  so now when i see an eagle soar i think of you and smile. if i hear a wolf howl i will remember you and cry for you are my son my baby and my friend no matter where you are where you soar you are in my heart forever more

                                                                 love and miss you mamma bear

I ask the Lord every night to bring you back. Not for me, but for Becky and your children who deserve the chance to know the wonderful person you are. Your memory lingers and sometimes I swear I can see you in a stranger passing by. Is this your way of telling us not to worry and that you are safe? You are keeping us safe until we meet again? I know you're in a better place and I am jealous Ron. I need your simple, yet eye opening pep talks. I fear I do not have the strength to pull Becky out of this darkness that has filled her since you passed. Becky is shattered and that shatters me. I try to smile when I think of all the good times but all I can do is cry because I want one more time to grab your ears and say "when you taken flight dumbo?" :P And wait for your clever come back. We had a lot of great times. I cannot wait until we meet again and have more great times harrassing each other. Help me protect Becky and your children. Give me the strength you had every day walking this Earth. Thank you for the sunshine Ron... I couldn't take another day of snow blustering through because it brings me back to driving to your home the day you left us. My heart breaks more and more every day. I have to turn the radio sometimes because songs remind me of you. Ron you are a wonderful friend. You made a huge imprint on my heart and I will never forget you. Love you!!! Miss you so much.

those of you who knew ronnie knew he could be a funny guy! when we lived on elm st in geneva oh ronnie and a couple of his friends dressed up like women for helloween and i must say ronnie was quite beautiful i mean handsome. you should of seen him walking in my heels and everytime he would twist his ankle he would look at me with that grin, god how i cheerish those moments. like he use to say hey cant we all get along thats my baby my son my life

                                                     love your momma

Justin Bieber "U Smile" 

Dear Kaylee,

Your Dad was a remarkable & wonderful guy. He was unlike any other person I have ever known, he had so much love to give. He loved and was extraordinarily proud of you, Paige & your brothers.

If your Dad loved someone then they were loved unconditionally, big time & I mean big time. He knew that you were safe in a good home with good parents. Being loved and cared for the way you deserved to be and he was unable to provide at the time. He spoke of you often.

It's easy to say those three words. "I love you"  People say it all the time. Your Dad didn't only say the words, he proved it over and over again. (actually for some people it's practically impossible to say.)

He wasn't afraid to say "I'm sorry" either and when he did say it, he meant it. As you get older you will find that some people can't seem to or just plain wont say those two words for anything. 

Loving your Dad was easy all anyone had to do was get to know him, it was simply that easy to love him.

Your Dad could put a smile on anyone's face, it's hard to explain how he did that. It wasn't so much about telling jokes as it was some quick witted comment he would make that would just make you smile.

For the people that your Dad cared about, if they had a problem he would always take the time to listen. He understood how to listen. He wasn't just some guy that you knew and called a friend. He was a real friend.

There was so much good in your Dad, more good than a whole lot of people will ever have that live twice as long. 

I will always keep him safe in my heart.  

But I will never get over losing him. He meant more to me than I know how to explain.

Though he is gone way to soon, he accomplished his mission. Your Dad left behind a big family for all of you kids. I know you are going to love your brothers when you get to meet them.  

This site is being added to mostly by adults for now. Hopefully some of those questions you have will get answered on here. Ultimately it belongs to you guys, Ronnie's kids.  Kaylee, Paige, Austin, Cody, Tyler & Randy.

Kevin Payne

We are having an ice storm and it's bringing back so many memories...I'm dying to here u say " come here sweetcheeks let's lay here and watch this" wether it was a rain, snow, or thunderstorm coming in, the sun comin up or goin down, or layin on the back porch no matter how cold or hot just to stare at the stars and talk....those were some of the greatest moments of my life and I never felt closer to anybody!!! Some of the guys would laugh and thought it was funny u wanted me to go hunting w u and i didnt understand it because u knew i wouldn't do the actual hunting part, but u said it would be bonding w eachother lol!!! I wish i would have, I wish we had had alot more time for everything. We loved camping, fishin, and fourwheelin and the boys are askin if we still will, I know I'm goin to have to still do those things and u will be there but it's going to be so hard, soooo hard. Your baby boy will be brought up doing the things his daddy loved and would be doing with him if u where here, he will know what a wonderful father u were and wanted to be...I will be lookin around watching for a sign to feel u there and knowing how protective u were i know nothing even death would keep u away from us, you,ll be out there with us.... I love u ronny, we all love you and cant wait to hear u and see u again, home doesnt feel like home w out you!!!!

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there are no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

...Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, you'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they’re bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you, all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

***Not sure who the author is but this poem brings a tear to my eye***

Ron and I became friends through Becky. From the start we were constantly cracking jokes and making fun of each other. I'd make fun of his ears and clumsiness and he would just think of something out of no where to make fun of me for. Either way we bonded and created a wonderful friendship. I am so thankful that Becky called and invited me over Dec 11th. Ron and I were able to harrass each other one last time. Our jokes exceeded the serious conversations by far but I remember when Ron asked to talk to me while he was away from home. For once we were serious no jokes in the conversation. Ron asked me to please take care of Becky and his boys and not to let anyone hurt them. Ron as your friend I keep that promise. All I ask of you is to please help me... guide me and let me know how to protect Becky and your boys from this heartache?! I need my friend. I could count on you for anything so please tell me how to help them. Come sit on my couch with me and harrass me. Let me trade you places so Becky can be happy again. I keep calling out to you and I know one day you will give me the answers. I miss ya Ron.

I was fortunate enough to work with Ron just about everyday last summer.We became very close in that short time,and shared alot. I miss him and think about him everyday.He was always willing to help and one of the hardest woking guys that I have met. Its tough sometimes,everywhere I go theres a place we worked together,but I stay positive because thats what Ron would have done.When Im sad,angry, or mad , I stay positive by knowing that Ron is at peace and that he is always with us.

Ron talked about family alot.He loved being part of a family.He loved spending time and being Mr. Mom for the boys,not to mention a bit of wrestling before bedtime. I know that Ron is always with his chidren,and loved ones,watching over and keeping everyone strong.

Austin was so excited to meet the boys, I still wish to this day it would have been on different circumstances. I really believe the boys being there really helped him go threw that hard time. I still do not think he would have went up to see his dad if the boys were not there. I think he needed to show them he is strong and could do it. They were such good boys there and in my truck. I just keep telling him his dad lives in him, Randy, Paige and Kaylee and that god had a plan for him and needed him. God I just wish they would have met years ago. But he does feel a bond with the boys like he knows them.....

if anyone  believes in guardian angels believe this ! jeff (ronnies) dad was taken into the er again and jeff was laying on the bed talking to what others thought to the curtain jeff kept saying ronnie was there with a grin only we know he has and jeff said what do you mean its not time time for what? dr. answered jeff and said time for xrays jeff laughed as he looked @ me and i knew ronnie was there.

thank you my son you still have you sense of humor love your momma

I'm not very good at telling jokes, so I rarely remember them. But here's one Ronnie told me that I never forgot.

Ronnie:   Knock Knock

Me:        Who's there?

Ronnie:   Etiquette

Me:         Etiquette who?

Ronnie:   Et a cat? Who et a cat? I didn't eat no cat.

It's one of those, you had to be there thing's, to hear Ronnie tell it.

I'll never forget the smile and exspression on Ron's face when I was pregnant and we went for the check up to find out the due date the doctor even told us Randy "bo's" conseption date, He said it was the night of his birthday And we both just looked at eachother and smiled. Thats one memory I will never forget, He was definitly made out of love and Ronny was such a proud daddy. Happy Birthday baby We will be together again someday and i will be so ready for that moment. I love You so much.                     Your Wife Always, Becky

well happy birthday my boy, you came into this world in a snow blizzard it was bad out and now there is one going on , on this day your birthday. i love you rest in peace i will see you on the other side

                                                                              love your one and only momma

to all of you who knew ronnie knows how much he loved to have peace in his life and i believe he found it. he was so much in love with his wife beckey and loved his children.i will miss him saying to me love ya momma. he was a funny loving and great friend and son, father and husband.his favorite saying to me was cant we all just get along or lets always be open and honest. i will see you on the other side my son

                                              love you momma

Story has been edited, by Kevin Payne

Original story submitted by Jason Tope

To anyone who takes the time to read this,

Ronnie and I became very good friends.

One thing about Ronnie was you could ALWAYS count on him to make everyone around him laugh. 

Ronnie was funny and pleasant to have around. Always with that goofy smile on his face it also became very apparent he was a friend you could count on. He would be there every time to have your back if he liked you. I hoped our friendship would continue.

Unfortunately i seem to have waited a few weeks too long to contact him again.

Thanks to all who put time into this memorial, and im sorry for the pain and loss all of his loved ones are going through.

I was fortunate enough to know him for a few years, and that was long enough to call him a friend.

A friend i felt i could trust with just about anything, and for me that is very rare in this world.

Thanks for taking the time to read my memories of Ron. I still dont even know what happened to him. If someone could fill me in i would greatly appreciate it !!!! Best wishes to all who mattered to Ronnie, and R.I.P. 

 Much Love and Respect

 Jason Tope

jsntope1@gmail.com

The first time Ronnie came to Kentucky, he arrived late at night. So he went straight to bed when he got here. 

The very first thing that next morning he wanted to know

"Where's the hillbilly's?"

I told him there aren't any hillbilly's around here. And that he was the closest thing to a hillbilly in town.

Needless to say he was disappointed, he thought for sure there had to be hillbilly's and he wanted to meet a few of them.

As you all know the words -- Ronnie, loveable and goof-ball, could all be used in the same sentence.

Kevin Payne

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The Star Beacon; Ashtabula, Ohio

December 15, 2010

GENEVA — Ronald A. Doll Jr., age 32, of Geneva, passed away Monday, Dec. 13, 2010.

Born Jan. 7, 1978, in Windber, Pa., the son of Diane (Stitt) and Ronald Doll Sr. He married Rebecca Brooks on Jan. 11, 2010, in Madison.

Ron worked as a landscaper for Complete Lawn Services in Geneva.

He enjoyed fishing, four-wheeling, football and cooking. Most of all, Ron loved to spend time with his family, especially his children.

He is survived by his wife, Rebecca; children, Paige, Austin and Randy Doll, Dakota and Tyler Hutchinson and Kylee Stone; his mother, Diane (Jeff) Rother; and brother, Earl Doll.

Ron was preceded in death by his father, Ronald A. Doll Sr.; grandparents, Dorothy and Leroy Stitt and Mary and Earl Doll.

Funeral Service will be held 11 a.m., Saturday, Dec. 18th, at THE BEHM FAMILY FUNERAL HOMES & CREMATORY, 175 S. Broadway, Geneva, Ohio. Burial will take place at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery in Geneva.

Family will receive friends from 2 to 4 and 7 to 9 p.m., Friday, Dec. 17th, at the Funeral Home.

Guest Book

Marilyn wrote:

Ronnie,You will be greatly missed.I can still hear your voice calling and saying 'Housekeeping,a mint for your pillow?' That always made me laugh.You are such a wonderful person.I wont say goodbye to you,I will only say 'until we meet again'.

December 19, 2010, 2:37 AMJerry wrote:

You will be missed tremendously my brother. Your memory wil provide an every lasting joy for many. Truly the most kind hearted person I have ever known. My only comfort in all of this is,knowing you are at peace. I love you and good by.

December 17, 2010, 9:25 PMJanice wrote:

Becky, I am so sorry to hear of your loss! My deepest sympathy to you and your children!

December 16, 2010, 9:44 PMCourtney wrote:

My thoughts and prayers are you with you and your family. Becky My deepest condolences to your and your children.

December 16, 2010, 12:24 PMBill wrote:

Real sorry for your loss...Remember Ronny is just sleeping awaiting his ressurection to paridise...(john 5:28,29) Now we have to stay faithful to the truth so we can meet him there...

December 16, 2010, 8:02 AMAng wrote:

Ronnie,
Austin and I are also numb like Kevin, just don't want to believe this is real. Mostly your son does not. But Austin, Paige and your mom did say Milo is waiting in heaven for you to get there so he can bite you..lol..
Just please watch over all of us, to make it to Ohio safe, and help me guide our son in the right direction. you were a good man and will be missed by many...
We love you Ronnie, goodnight, till me meet up again

December 15, 2010, 8:12 PMRebecca Sherlock Kutchko wrote:

I was surprised and saddened to see Ron's name in here. I was just a kid when I moved away from Geneva, so that is how I remember everyone...as kids..and Ron was such a sweet kid. My heart aches for you Becky, and your children...the loss of a husband and father..so young...so unfair. May Ron rest in peace, and watch over his family always and forever.

December 15, 2010, 7:49 PMNikki wrote:

Wow im still in shock..becky my heart goes out to you and your children..Ron you and i go way back i have alot of precious memories of you. im sorry that we didnt reconnect when you came back.. im glad that you and becky found eachother and you were happy.

December 15, 2010, 2:19 PMKevin Payne wrote:

I am still numb and feeling completely sad. You were one of a kind.

Unlike most people, you knew how to be a freind.

I loved you very much and still do. You will always live in my heart.

Kevin

December 15, 2010, 12:25 PMmomma wrote:

oh my baby boy,the love i feel for you and now the pain of losing you, i love and will miss you terribly
love momma

December 15, 2010, 11:26 AMAmy B Rother wrote:

May you rest in peace Ronnie. My thoughts ans prayers are with your family as they say goodbye. May good memories warm their hearts as they grieve your loss.

December 15, 2010, 11:12 AMJay V. wrote:

We knew each other for a short time, but I will remember you forever bud. 'Yep, you betcha!'

December 15, 2010, 11:08 AMBecky wrote:

I am so lost without you, we miss you so much it hurts. I promise I will always keep your memory alive threw the boys, you meant the world to them. you were my soul-mate and my life and i will always love you and miss you. please be my gardian angel im going to need u

               Each day we were apart we were still closer then anybody could be, the distance, the sercumstances, NOTHING could keep us apart. I knew that the wait would be more then worth it in the end and it so was. i think that actually even made us closer all we could do was talk and talk and just lean on eachother. I thought i missed u then and i thought that pain was over when u came home, now i just wish i could here your voice or atleast know that someday u will be coming home..........Home it doesnt feel like home anymore!!!