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This memorial  was created in memory my precious mom, Sarah M. Lane Maxwell, age 73 (at time of death), of Northview Dorsey Street, Rutherfordton, NC.

She passed on Wednesday, July 13, 2011 at Hospice House in Forest City after fighting a long battle with COPD and a broken hip just a few days before her death..

Sarah was born on March 29, 1938 in Rutherford County, NC to the late Moody Daniel Lane and Bessie Leona Walker Lane. She worked in the restaurant business for most of her life: owning and operating Rutherford Cafeteria, Sunset Grill and Tri-City Fish Camp. She also worked for Stonecutter Mill for several years. She was a member of Harmon Street Baptist Church. Sarah enjoyed the beach, family gatherings, flowers, music and especially dancing. She loved her family dearly and was known as a lady who would give and sacrifice for others.

In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her second husband, Carey P. Maxwell.

Survivors include three daughters, Anita Chatham Buchanan and husband, Denver of Rutherfordton, Teresa Steppe and husband, Bruce of Rutherfordton,  Alica Cantrell and husband, Wayne of Spartanburg; and one son, Johnny Lee Marlowe and wife, Danielle of Forest City.

Survivors include one sister, Joyce Davis and husband, Ken of Chesnee, SC; one brother, Ivan Lane and wife, Billie (deceased) of Forest City; and her first husband, John G. Marlowe.

She is also survived by 11 grandchildren, Tonya Dee Chatham-Holland, Donna Christal Chatham, Melissa Dawn (Chatham) Humphries, John Joseph Marlowe, Ashley Marlowe, Madison Marlowe, Billy Steppe, Kristina Steppe Smith, Ellen Smith, Dustin McNeilly, Jonathan McNeilly; 14 great-grandchildren, Jaydon McKenzie Holland, Jeffrey Tyler Holland, Shelia Elizabeth Elliott, Christian Cheyenne Humphries, Cadence Sierra Humphries, Katerina Ruff Steppe, Wilhemina Mae Steppe, William Russell Smith, Christopher Stephan Smith, Kaley Smith, Megan Smith, Meredith McNeilly, Mason McNeilly and Murphy Marlowe McNeilly..



For every flower that we (your four children) place on your grave, We think of all those things you did to make our life as beautiful and as fragrant as a bed of flowers.

We miss you, Mom!!

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                                         A MOTHERS LOVE
A mother's love is a wonderful love packaged from heaven with special care.
A mother's love is like no other love that you can compare.
A mother's love is purified by angels and flows directly from her soul.
A mother's love is justified by God, and by his hands he created the mold.
This mold that was shaped and fashioned by God has endured the test of time.
This mold that was taped and recorded by women rang out like a heavenly chime.
A mother's love is unconditional, and from her heart this can be told.
A mother's love is nutritional; it is the fruit that feeds our soul.
A mother's love 'IS' true love, and from her heart she cannot lie.
A mother's love is eternal, the kind that won't ever die.
A mother's love is the tie that binds, and her bond can never be broken.
A mother's love is branded in our hearts, even when her words aren't spoken.
- © Leotha Brown II





July 13, 2021
July 13, 2021
Today marks ten years since you left us. I still miss and think of you everyday. I miss your smile, our long talks, and especially your hugs! I would do anything for just one more moment with you, With each day that passes I know I’ll see you again. Until then always know I love you with every ounce in me and please give pawpaw Shorty a big hug and kiss from me and tell him I miss him to pieces. I Love Y’all Always!! Krissy ❤️❤️
March 29, 2020
March 29, 2020
Happy Birthday Mom in Heaven. Mom there is not a day that passes that I don’t think of you. There is so much I wish I could say to you on this special day. I pray you are celebrating your Birthday with your mom and dad. Give them hugs from me. Mom you will be in my thoughts today and every day until I join you up there. Happy Birthday Mom always my love.
February 13, 2020
February 13, 2020
Tomorrow is Valentine's Day mom and I couldn't let that day pass without placing something special at your resting place.
Mom, someone chose to steal the big red heart that was placed there, but I knew you would say, "If they needed it that bad, let them have it,"
Your kindness and generosity to others are greatly missed, mom. Just like you. You are missed so much!!

Mom, it's been years now and I thought this would get easier, but on days like today and many others, it's hard not having you close by.

Happy Valentines Day in Heaven, Mom!

October 20, 2019
October 20, 2019
Mom, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about you.
Your laughter, your smile, your kindness to others, and that silly joke you told over and over-oh how I so wish I could see/hear them again.

Mom, dad is getting worse. I know it won't be long until one day you two will be together again. You would be so happy of him now. he stopped doing what we all wished for years and is now a good guy, but very sick and his memory is getting worse. It's dementia mom.

Mom, I'm sorry for having not spent every minute possible with you.
I can't go back in time, but I can promise you that I will do everything possible to keep your memory alive by sharing stories of you with your grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Mom one great-grandchild was born just days after your passing, she was named after you too.

We miss you, mom. We really do. Oh, how we all miss you and that precious smile of yours.

You loved dancing and music and I pray that you are dancing and singing in Heaven now.

We all love you and miss you so much.
I promise, mom. One day, we all will be together again.

Thanks for the memories.

~Anita~
March 29, 2018
March 29, 2018
Mom you would of turned 80 today so I wanted to take the time to say Happy Birthday. I pray you are rejoicing with the Angels. Mother I miss you so much and look forward to being with you again. Mom my thoughts will be on you today have a great Birthday in Heaven and know your kids are missing you dearly. Love you Mom
March 31, 2017
March 31, 2017
Mom it was your Birthday yesterday the 29th and I went to your grave to visit and to place balloons on the grave. Mom I miss you so much and even tho 6 years is coming upon us it still has not gotten easier. The pain is still here. Mom I hope you are dancing with the Angels and waiting on us four kids to join you. Mom we all love and miss you so much. Have a wonderful Birthday in Heaven.
July 14, 2016
July 14, 2016
Mom here it is 5 years later and I still miss you so much. It feels like you have been going for so long yet the pain is still so raw to my chest. Mom I can't wait to be with you in Heaven, I want to see you smile and sit and share everything with you. Mom please know I love you and miss you so much and I am waiting for the day to be by your side again. Tell grandma and grandpa to look after you until I get there. Love you and miss you. TJ
February 22, 2016
February 22, 2016
My precious Grandmother , It seems like yesterday we lost you and heaven gained an exquisite angel you were more like a mother to me than my grandmother there is not a day that passes by that I don't think about you and wish you were here with me. I know I will see you again soon tell pawpaw I said hello and I love you both more than words can ever describe Always and forever pawpaws girl and grandma's Angel Krissy .
July 29, 2014
July 29, 2014
Mom it has been 3 years since I seen your face or heard your soft spoken voice. Each year you are gone the harder it is for me. Mom I love you dearly and miss you so much. I look forward to seeing you again on the other side. Love you Mom.
May 3, 2013
May 3, 2013
Our mother was truly a gift from God. She was loving, caring, giving and so tender. She was always smiling and encouraging others, even when she was down.
Her life was hard, but never once did she complain.
We love you mom and miss you so much.
Thanks for being who you were and for helping us to be who we are.

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July 13, 2021
July 13, 2021
Today marks ten years since you left us. I still miss and think of you everyday. I miss your smile, our long talks, and especially your hugs! I would do anything for just one more moment with you, With each day that passes I know I’ll see you again. Until then always know I love you with every ounce in me and please give pawpaw Shorty a big hug and kiss from me and tell him I miss him to pieces. I Love Y’all Always!! Krissy ❤️❤️
March 29, 2020
March 29, 2020
Happy Birthday Mom in Heaven. Mom there is not a day that passes that I don’t think of you. There is so much I wish I could say to you on this special day. I pray you are celebrating your Birthday with your mom and dad. Give them hugs from me. Mom you will be in my thoughts today and every day until I join you up there. Happy Birthday Mom always my love.
February 13, 2020
February 13, 2020
Tomorrow is Valentine's Day mom and I couldn't let that day pass without placing something special at your resting place.
Mom, someone chose to steal the big red heart that was placed there, but I knew you would say, "If they needed it that bad, let them have it,"
Your kindness and generosity to others are greatly missed, mom. Just like you. You are missed so much!!

Mom, it's been years now and I thought this would get easier, but on days like today and many others, it's hard not having you close by.

Happy Valentines Day in Heaven, Mom!

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July 13, 2022
         Mom it’s been 11 years today that I had to say goodbye and you went to your Heavenly Home. I miss you so very much and I can’t wait to be with you again. Please watch over Bruce till I get there. Mom I love and miss you so very much.

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