A golden heart stopped beating, hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us, He only takes the best

We miss you

It is a year already. Nothing has changed (lockdowns, people impacted) - yet the entire world has changed for us. Fighting hard each day - to live by your principles of - think and do good for everyone (no matter how inconvenient it may be); appreciate the simple things in life; be content with what you have (not worry about what you dont) - and above all - keep smiling!!

I am trying ... its difficult - but will do so.

Love you Dad!

It one year today Papa, but for us the time has stopped. It stopped on this dreaded day.... If I could do anything to get you back just once I would do it. No time no patience nothing changes your void or thr way we feel. Your misses every moment infact your not forgotten even for a second. I miss our talks papa, I miss you advice, your one smile that it will all be fine. Just so hard now, I know nothing will be fine. I know nothing is same will never be the same.... Love u so much, miss you more than ever.

Yours Megha and Megha

Who would have thought that you would leave us so early. Life has become so lackluster after your departure. Nothing excites me and nothing makes me smile as you did. My father's death was sudden I wish I could have told him goodbye but I love and wait for the day I can tell him HELLO. My lovely father your absence bites me a lot and with each passing day, I crave more and more for your affection and love. Why did you leave us so early. Your daughter needs you a lot I love you, papa. It's been a year today but since you have gone I still believe you are here with me and guiding me all the time. Not a single day passes when I don't remember you in my prayers and wishes. You were the cornerstone of this family and the pain we got because of your departure will never go away. As a person, you are the smartest I have ever known and you had an insatiable thirst for knowledge. I know my papa is having fun in heaven. He always enjoyed new adventures. Papa, I miss you every day and love you forever.

They say there is a reason,
They say that time will heal,
But neither time nor reason,
Will change the way we feel,
For no-one knows the heartache,
That lies behind our smiles,
No-one knows how many times,
We have broken down and cried,
We want to tell you something,
So there won't be any doubt,
You're so wonderful to think of,
But so hard to be without.

Miss you nanaji

It’s hard to wake up every morning knowing that you are not with us anymore. Our world is incomplete without you. I miss you so much, PAPA

If you are looking at me from up in heaven, I want you to know that I’m not okay without you. It’s been quite a while now since you are gone but I still keep can’t help myself missing you so much.

Yours Mihika n Megha

You’re still so alive in our hearts that sometimes we forget that you have left this earth.

Miss you
Love you

Papa, I’m so thankful for all the memories we shared together. I only wish you were here to make more.
Miss you so much
Megha n Mihika

You did so many things for us,
Your heart was kind and true,
And when we needed someone,
We could always count on you.

We love you, nanaji
Miss you.

You were a remarkable man,
Dependable, loving and caring.
You were the centre of our world,
You were one in a million to us,
You made us laugh, you made us smile,
You were a wonderful person from beginning to end.

We miss you

Days become weeks, weeks become months, but nothing changes your void. Miss u papa n nanu, miss your presence your love your care, your support. Nothing will ever be same without u papa. Wish you could come back!!!!
Yours Mihika n Megha

Time slips by and life goes on,
But from our hearts,
You are never gone.

We think about you always
we talk about you too,
We have so many memories
But we wish, we still had YOU !!

Miss you mausaji.

You were the guiding light in my life, and today especially I’m reminded how lucky I was to have you for as long as I did.

You may not be with me any more, but my love for you will never die. I miss you, Dad.

Love u Nanu n Papa. We miss you so much.

7 months Papa... your absence is felt every moment. I miss my guiding hand. Mihika says it everyday - Mummy sab kuch hai bus ek cheez missing hai woh hai mere Nanu. Woh kyun mujhe chod ke chale gaye.... Nothing can answer this ever.
Yours Mihika n Megha

It broke our hearts to lose you,
You did not go alone,
For a part of us went with you.

You left us peaceful memories,
Your love is still our guide,
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side

Miss you, mausaji.

If tears could build a stairway and memories a lane,
We’d walk right up to heaven and bring you home again.

Miss you, nanaji

Happy Birthday Nanu, Happy Birthday Papa, your missed each moment.... Actually we don't forget you.... Love u always
Yours Mihika n Megha

It's 6months today but feels as if had heard the bad news just 6 seconds before, can't stop missing you papa.

Love you papa!!!

Days will pass and turn into years but I will forever remember you with silent tears.

6 months have passed and not a day goes by without missing you. You will always have a place in our hearts.

Miss you, mausaji
- Anu

6 months Papa.... They say time heals but the pain only increases. How much ever I wish it will never be the same. I miss our talks I miss your advice, I miss that smiling face which set everything right... it's very lonely without you papa. Nothing can ever express what you are to me.... Mihika also misses her Nanu every single day. Her preparations for her Nanu never ends....
Miss u dad - yours mihika n megha

You are missed each and every day, for you were someone so special who meant more than words can say.

Miss you nanaji.
Can’t believe it’s been six months today. You will always remain in our hearts. Love you

5 months Papa, nothing has changed yet nothing is same. Your void only increases. I feel privileged to be called your daughter, just wish a miracle to happen and you come back. How much I wish this wish could be granted, Mihika also keeps wishing the same, keeps setting up her toys for her Nanu to come and see, but it's a dark reality now. A pain which is part of us now. Just want to say your missed each moment. Your loved even more.Just wish I could steal some more time, just bring you back somehow.

Love u papa,
Love u Nanu,
Megha n Mihika

In life, we loved you dearly,
In death, we love you still.
In our hearts, you hold a place,
no one will ever fill.

Miss you

No farewell words were spoken, no time to say good bye, you were gone before we knew it and only god knows why. Our hearts still ache in sadness and secret tears still flow, what is meant to loose you no one will ever know.

If I had one more chance to have you hear with me today papa, I would do things differently. Every day I would tell you how much you meant to me.

I miss you so much!!!!!!!!!!

they say time will heal. Neither time nor reason will change the way i feel. Gone are the days we used to share but in my heart u r always there the gates of memories will never close luv u n miss u everyday till we meet again someday. Papa i really wish i cud c u once again, if i had one more chance i wud do anything to have u with me here today. Everyday i wud tell u how much u mean to me i really really cant stop missing u papa.

The world changes from year to year, our lives from day to day, but the love and memory of you, shall never pass away.

- Anu

This date pains a lot Papa. Mihika's prayers still continue to bring you back. So difficult to explain her Nanu is far far away...Wish we could get you back just somehow. Nothing gets better, nothing will ever get better. Nothing is the same without you. It's so lonely. I miss your guidance, I miss you each moment. Please come back....
Lots of Love to my Nanu

Mihika & Megha

3 months Papa, this date has left us all with a pain that will never fade never go away..... Mihika still prays to Morya to send her Nanu back. Wish you were here, wish we could hold you a little more. Just some more.

Nothing is same, will never ever be the same. Love u so much Papa. Love you the world's best Nanu and Mihika's most treasured person in this world

:(
Megha n Mihika

एक आह भरी होगी
हमने ना सुनी होगी
जाते जाते तुमने
आवाज़ तो दी होगी
हर वक़्त यही है गम
उस वक़्त कहाँ थे हम
कहाँ तुम चले गए

There's a special kind of feeling when i think about you, Dad. It's a pleasure to remember all the happy times we've had. There's a special kind of caring that is meant for u alone.There's a place somewhere within my heart that only u can own.

Every day without you has been hard, but on this day especially I can't help but think how much i wish you were here with me.

I love you to the moon and back.Can't stop missing you!!!!!!!

Those we love don’t go away,
They walk beside us everyday
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved and still missed and very dear.

-Anu

This day will always sting but your memory will always be with your little girl who is not little anymore. I wish you were here, daddy.

I am what I am only for your good parenting and hard work. You were the best dad one could have, and I am very proud of being your daughter. I miss you so much dad.

I believe my dad’s guiding hand will remain on my shoulder forever even though he has left us. Love you Daddy.

Through thick and thin, you supported your children and left an undying legacy for us. On your death anniversary, we are remembering your love and thanking you for being there for us always.

I never thought that losing you would make me feel so blue. Without you, living becomes a burden and it never gets easy. Why I have to live on just in your loving memories? My heart misses you, daddy.

A daughter’s biggest nightmare is losing her dad. I have lost mine. And I’m in such pain that no one can feel. I miss you dad.

Love you papa!!!!!

2 months papa..... You taught us everything except teaching us how to live without you. Miss you every moment. NANU your missed by your princess a lot. Wish we could hold you a little longer

Mihika & Megha

You meant so much to all of us
You were special and that’s no lie
You brightened up the darkest day
And the cloudiest sky.

Your smile alone warmed hearts
Your laugh was like music to hear
We would give absolutely anything
To have you well and standing near.

- Anu Jain

We thought of you today.
But that is nothing new.
We thought about you yesterday.
And days before that too.

We think of you in silence.
We often speak your name.
Now all we have memories.
And your picture in a frame.

Your memory is our keepsake.
With which we’ll never part.
God has you in his keeping.
We have you in our hearts.

Miss you, nanaji. 

Papa it's been a month today without you being present with us, but I am still
not able to accept the fact that when i come to Bombay , I will not be able to see u in person. Papa i have so many questions in my mind and heart to ask you,so many things to tell you, so much discuss to with you but when how can i talk to you.It's just not fair you can't just go like this all of a sudden.We were all so dependent on you for every discussion so u cant just go away.Papa i hate Sundays now-The day u went to hospital.How do i remove the Sundays from weeks so that i don't have to relive it again and again and miss u so much.

Papa memories unki likh sakte hai jiske sath hum memories count kar sakte hai,but you were present in every second in our lives.You were the best Father, Nana and Father-in-law.Your Son-in-law says that he cant imagine Bombay without u.Each place,lane,shop that we shall visit in future has your imprint on it.

God is very unfair he cant do this to us.We love you and miss u uncontrollably papa.Even if i close my eyes for a minute I can visualize you around the house your voice echoes in my ears.Is it really true that I shall never hear your good morning call again??

Kaash ki hum kuch chize rok sakte.
 
Love u and will never stop missing you papa!!!!!!!!!

Deepali

He was a man who had smiles to brighten your days,
Who always made you feel good with his warm words of praise.
And what’s more he knew what to do to make wishes come true.
He was someone who always had good stories to tell,
But just as importantly he knew how to be a good listener as well.
He was patient and kind and the very best friend you could ever hope to find,
He was no ordinary man.

Miss you, Nanaji

For someone who meant so much
And loved by all he knew,
Who left behind a trail of tears
and precious memories, too.

We loved the sunshine in his smile
And kindness in his heart,
But heaven saw that he was tired
Which meant we had to part.

He was someone wonderful
And words just can’t convey,
How much we wish he was here
once more, with all of us today.

-Anu Jain

Papa,
You have always treated me like your own son and I feel so grateful for that,
I am very lucky to have not one but world's two best fathers in my life. One being my own father and another being my father-in-law, which is you.

Thank you for being my light in my darkest moments, my hope throughout my worse times and my courage when fear takes over. Thank you for everything you are.

You are more than just a father to me; you are my icon, my teacher, my inspiration. Thank you for giving me profusely every part of yourself.

You are the best father-in-law in the world because you never let the words ‘in-law’ get in-between our relationship.

I can never stop missing u!!
Love u papa!

Vikas

Dear Papa,

I have been scrambling to hold on to every memory I can remember - about the times (right from childhood through last month) I have had the good fortune of creating with you.

The more I strain myself to remember ... the more it appears to slip away ... just like holding sand in my fist ever so tightly.

I know you have attained eternal peace and happiness ....

These lines keep ringing into my ears!

न जाने क्यों, होता है ये ज़िन्दगी के साथ
अचानक ये मन, किसी के जाने के बाद
करे फिर उसकी याद, छोटी-छोटी सी बात
न जाने क्यों ...

वो ही है डगर, वो ही है सफ़र
है नहीं, साथ मेरे मगर
अब मेरा हमसफ़र
इधर-उधर ढूंढें नज़र, वो ही है डगर
कहाँ गयी शामें, मदभरी
वो मेरे, मेरे वो दिन गए किधर
न जाने क्यों ...

I know you are watching and smiling upon us with your blessings - wherever you are ...

Miss you!

Love and remember you always,
Nitish

The fragrance of a flower spreads only in the direction of the wind but the goodness of a person spreads in all directions.

We miss you so much, nanaji
We love you

Jai Jinendra,
Please accept my condolences on sad demise of Uncle ji, my god give peace to divine soul and strength to entire family.
In life we met several persons but only few persons to whom you admire and remember whole life,
Uncle ji is one of them.

Regards,
Manoj Kumar Jain

Late Mr. Shiam Lalji was my brother in law, elder to me and though I was not familiar to him but my husband Panchul praised him a lot about his personality & what a gem of a person he was. I am sharing my views on what ever I have heard about him. I met him twice or thrice only. He is without a doubt the most observant, attractive & cheerful man I have ever met. Humble personality with a contagious smile. A photographic memory which will be praised by everyone. I strongly believe that jiyaji was such a person blessed with one. We all will always remember him & miss him as it was unbelievable and shocking news for us to believe such a sudden demise of him. He will always be with us & last in our memory lane forever.

By Nimisha Jain

ब्रिटिश काल मे जिला मेरठ के ग्राम किरठल में ला0 उग्रसेन जैन जी के परिवार में जन्में कृष्णा देवी,चंद्र सैन एवं मुरारी लाल जैन जी का समय बहुत संघर्ष के साथ बीता।

कृष्णा देवी खतौली,चंद्र सैन जी गढ़ी राजपूत एवं मुरारी लाल जी का विवाह ग्राम राठौड़ा जिला मेरठ में सम्पन्न हुआ अल्प आयु में ही मात पिता का देहांत होने के कारण किसी भी प्राणी की शिक्षा नही हो सकी और बहुत गरीबी में ही जीवन बिताया।

कालांतर पश्चात ला0 मुरारी लाल जी एवं उनकी धर्मपत्नी लीलावती को 17-5-1947 में पुत्र रत्न की प्राप्ति हुई जिसका नाम श्याम लाल जैन रखा गया तत्पश्चात 3 वर्ष बाद दूसरा पुत्र राजपाल जैन तथा तीसरे पुत्र वकील चंद जैन हुए। ग्राम किरठल में चौथे पुत्र के रूप में मेरा अर्थात जयचंद जैन का जन्म (1-10-1956) होने के बाद सब की निगाहों में लीलावती 4 पुत्रो को जन्म देने पर अन्य लोगो की नजरों में खटकना स्वाभाविक था।

इसी बीच में अलग तरह की घटना जिस का सम्बंध श्याम लाल जैन जी की life से हैं खतौली में कृष्णा देवी को केवल 1 संतान सरला जैन ही हुई, कृष्णा देवी एवं ला0 अतर सैन जी को सरधना निवासी जय प्रकाश जी अपनी पुत्री सरला जैन के लिए योग्य वर नजर आए लेकिन जय प्रकाश जी के पिता जी को यह बात तकलीफ दायक हो रही थी कि सरला के कोई भाई न होने के कारण हम यह रिश्ता स्वीकार नही कर पा रहे हैं।

रिश्ता सरधने का सब तरह से अनुकूल होने पर हाथ से निकलता देख कृष्णा देवी की निगाह तुरंत अपने छोटे भाई मुरारी लाल पर गई और दोनों पति पत्नी ने किरठल आकर ला0 मुरारी लाल एवं लीलावती को कारण बताकर एक पुत्र गोद लेने की स्वीकृति चाही की इसके बिना हमारा रिश्ता स्वीकार नही हो रहा है जो हमारे लिए उपयुक्त है।

ला0 अतर सैन एवं कृष्णा देवी की मनोकामना अनुसार प्रार्थना पर ला0 मुरारी लाल जैन और श्री मति लीलावती ने विचार पर अपना निर्णय दे दिया कि वे अपने एक पुत्र श्याम लाल जैन को उन्हें गोद देने को तैयार है तत्पश्चात दोनों पक्षों मे जो भी बात तय हुई हो और वे श्याम लाल को लेकर खतौली आ गए।

तब सरला देवी का विवाह सम्पन्न होने के पश्चात श्याम लाल जी की माता को श्याम लाल का विरह बहुत सताने लगा, जबकि उस समय आना जाना आसान नही था लेकिन उनके इस दुःख को देख कर ला0 मुरारी लाल जी 1-2 महीने में उन्हें मिलाने के लिए खतौली ले आते थे लेकिन उनका मोह शांत नहीं हो पा रहा था घर वापस आकर लीलावती बहुत रोया करती थी जिसका वर्णन पत्रो द्वारा मुरारी लाल जी खतौली करते रहते थे।

इस पर अतर सैन जी एवं कृष्णा देवी ने बहुत ही उत्तम निर्णय लिया की क्यों न हम उनको अपने पास बुला लें यहाँ पर कारोवार भी ठीक चलेगा एवं उनको श्यामलाल हर समय अपने पास दिखता रहेगा क्यूंकि वो भी एक माँ का हृदय जानती थी तथा ऐसा दुःख समझती थी जो एक माँ का अपने पुत्र के विरह में हो सकता है।

यही प्रस्ताव लेकर दोनों प्राणी किरठल आये तथा सबको खतौली जाकर अपना जीवन बीताने का आग्रह किया काफी सोच विचार कर लाला मुरारी लाल जी सपरिवार खतौली आ गये तथा उन्ही के पास रहकर कारोबार में अतर सैन जी का हाथ बंटाने लगे।

खतौली आने के कुछ समय पश्चात वर्ष 1962 एवं 1963 में लगातार दो वर्षो अपने दो बेटो को खोने के पश्चात सभी का मन बहुत उदास हो गया। कहते हैं कि नज़र पत्थर को भी फोड़ देती है उस समय मे मियादी बुखार में ला0 मुरारीलाल जी के दूसरे पुत्र राजपाल एवं अगले वर्ष तीसरे पुत्र वकील चंद का अल्पायु में ही देहांत हो जाने से अब उनकी नज़र केवल श्याम लाल एवं जय चंद यानी मुझ पर ही रह गयी।
इसी बीच खतौली में जयचंद के बाद उषा पुत्री एवं जितेन्द्र पुत्र तथा रेखा पुत्री का जन्म हुआ और श्याम लल की पढाई 1970 में BE(HONS) पूर्ण हो गई

उस समय खतौली में हाई स्कूल, इंटर मीडिएट एवं पटियाला से BE(Hons) सब 1st क्लास पास किसी किसी के पास ही होती थी।

शिक्षा के तुरंत बाद खतौली में ही श्याम लाल त्रिवेणी इंजीनियरिंग में कार्यरत हो गये। जो सबके लिए बहुत सुखद प्रतीत हो रहा था।

कृष्णा देवी के संबंधी मेरठ तहसील पर रहते थे जहाँ उनका आना जाना था वहाँ पर श्याम लाल जी के रिश्ते की उनके संबंधी ने चर्चा की लेकिन उन्होंने यह कहकर मना कर दिया कि अभी उनकी अच्छी नौकरी नही लगी है अच्छी नौकरी लगने पर मैं रिश्ता कर लूँगी इस पर उनके संबंधियों ने श्याम लाल जी की अच्छी नौकरी का आश्वासन देकर रिश्ता श्रीमती सरिता जो श्री राजेन्द्र कुमार एवं किरण माला जी की एकमात्र पुत्री से तय कर दिया।

20 नवंबर वर्ष 1971 में विवाह संपन्न हुआ तथा श्याम लाल जी अपनी मेहनत और अपने मामा रामनिवास एवं अपने बहनोई जय प्रकाश जी सरधने वालो की मदद से अनेक ऊंचाईयो को छूते गए कुछ विशिष्ट कंपनी जो मुझे याद है-
*Saru smellting meerut*
*Sahu jain varanshi*
*Dunlop madras*
*Dabur India ghaziabad*
*Bombay paints delhi*
*Daurala sugar daurala*
जैसी और कौन कौन सी कंपनी के बाद अंत मे Philips India Mumbai में आकर उन्होंने अपने आप को मुम्बई में sattle करने का निर्णय लिया।

श्याम लाल जी ला0 जय प्रकाश जी सरधना का मार्गदर्शन भी हमेशा प्राप्त करते थे, हमारे पूरे परिवार में उनसे ज्यादा पढ़ने वाला कोई नही था पूरे परिवार को उन पर गर्व था कोई भी कार्य उनकी सहमति के बिना नही होता था चाहे वह विवाह संबंधित हो या घर गृहस्थी संबंधित ही क्यों न हो।

इस जीवन यात्रा में कौन कौन आया कौन कौन गया आप सब परिचित हैं और लिखने को तो एक आत्म कथा लिखी जा सकती है।

इस महापुरुष ने अपने परिवार को अपनी मेहनत से ऊंचाइयों पर पहुँचाया, कभी किसी भी प्राणी का बुरा नही सोचा और आज 19-5-20 को मुंबई मे अंतिम श्वास उस समय ली जब उनके पास कोई भी प्राणी नही था उनका पुत्र - पुत्री - दामाद - पत्नी सब वहाँ मौजूद होने पर भी किसी को भी उनके दर्शन नही हुए जबकि उनके परिवार में किसी का शव भी उनकी बिना मौजदूगी के नही उठता था ऐसे अनमोल रत्न का होना किसी भी परिवार के लिए बहुत सम्मान जनक बात है।

मेरी ऐसे प्रार्थना हैं कि भगवान ऐसे जीव को अपने चरणों में जगह दे।
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जय चंद जैन
खतौली

I remember the first time I met our Jija ji during summer of 1976 or 77 in Mussorie.Thereafter,from 1980 onwards we were in constant interaction/touch(depending upon my posting in Mumbai or elsewhere).
I am unaware of words to express my emotions/feelings for Jija ji . For us,Jija ji topped the list of our well wishers .We could depend for anything and everything. Jija ji ‘s gracious,cheerful nature and positivity in life would ensure resolution of any issue. In fact Alka had told me on number of occasions to take Jija ji ‘s help or we will mess up and without any exception Jija ji has done far far better than we or any one else would have done.
For us we have lost a hand that we could have looked at moments when everything else fails.
By
Pushp Jain

A Golden heart stopped beating,
Hardworking hands at rest.
God broke our hearts to prove us,
he only takes the best...

Loveena and Sunil

Very few people must be knowing that late Shri S L Jain and I were working in the same company “PHILIPS””. When in yr 2005 I was hunting a flat I had met Mr Jain. Though i was reluctant to buy the flat because on the 3rd flr w/o lift. Only because of our good relations I agreed. That was our friendship.

By
Arjun Jaisingh

An ode for Shaimu....our dear friend.

Always away from the limelight...
And yet shining bright.

A heart of gold...
Ever willing to help.

A gracious smile...
Never ever ...to fade.

Modesty and graciousness...
His biggest virtues.

Compassionate and caring..
To the core.

An ever charming person...
Putting others before self.

A devoted husband...
An ever caring father.

A wonderful family man..
Always at hand.

A treat to be with...
To laugh and to share.

Such a person comes once in a while...
But lives forever...in the hearts of all.

Fare you well, our friend..
In your new abode.

May God look after your family..
And bless them to remember your fond memories.

By Harmeet Singh

Mr Shyam Lal Bhaishab was more than a brother. His demise has created a vacuum. A person who was always a smiling face and always ready to help. A gentleman who will always be missed.
Regards
Rajni - S K Gupta

Papa it's just not possible to write a past tense for you. You have and will always be there for all of us. I still can't accept this reality has hit us. Feels like you will come and make it normal again as you always did. Each day each moment of my life is filled with you that I cannot mention any specific memory. You were ideal partner to Mihika, her NANU her best friend, I wish she could get some more time with you. Papa I love you and will continue to love you even more. Just keep your smiling hand on all of us always....
Miss you each moment, it's never ever going to be same without you.

Yours,
Megha