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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Spc Clay Farr, 21, born on February 19, 1985 and passed away on February 26, 2006. We will remember him forever.

 

Clay P Farr

BAKERSFIELD, CA, USA
U.S. Army
SPC, TROOP A, 1ST SQUADRON, 71ST CAVALRY, 1ST BCT, 10TH MTN DIV, (4ID), FORT DRUM, NY
BALAD, IRAQ 02/26/2006

Specialist Clay Farr, 21, of Bakersfield, Calif., died Sunday in Baghdad, according to the Defense Department.

The cavalry scout was assigned to the 1st Squadron, 71st Cavalry, 1st Brigade Combat Team, 10th Mountain Division. Clay joined the Army in January 2004 and deployed to Iraq in August, Fort Drum said in a statement.

Shortly after Farr enlisted, his 16-year-old fiancée was killed in a car accident. That didn’t stop him from delaying his training, his family said.

“He loved defending his country. He was very patriotic,” his father Patrick Farr told The Bakersfield Californian. “When the war first started, he was in high school. If I would have let him enlist at that age, and the Army would have taken him, he would have gone right then.”

Farr graduated in 2003 from Centennial High School in Bakersfield. Although he will be buried at Arlington National Cemetery, a casket of mementos will be buried next to his fiancee.

After completing basic training and then cavalry scout school, Clay was assigned to Fort Polk, LA, where he immediately volunteered for combat duty in Iraq.

However, the units at Fort Polk were not taking volunteers and Clay requested to be transferred to a base that was taking volunteers. He was then transferred to the 10th Mountain Division, Fort Drum, NY. Upon arrival there, Clay again volunteered for combat duty in Iraq. However, the 10th Mtn. Division was forming new units and Clay was not deployed to Iraq until August of 2005.

He was a fearless soldier. Clay’s goal after his service in the Army was to become a deputy in the Kern County Sheriff’s Department.

Clay was a member of the Kern County Sheriff’s Explorer’s Unit and had attained the rank of Senior Explorer while he was in High School. He loved to go on ride-along patrols with the Sheriff Deputies.

February 19
February 19
Today would have been your 39th birthday Son. yet in my mind, I still see your sweet face of a very youthful 21. Today I’m remembering the last time I felt you hug me… as we said goodbye before you went thru the gate at the airport when you deployed . I told you to keep yourself safe, and return to us. We said our ‘I love yous’ then you gave me one more squeeze and said ‘bye mom’. I’ll feel that last embrace forever ♥️
February 20, 2023
February 20, 2023
Missing you so much Son. You would have turned 38 yesterday, and I spent all night for the past two nights, with your visits in my dreams. On nights like that, I want to sleep and sleep … I pray you’ll be visiting Dad all this week, next Sunday will be the hardest day to get through… 17 years since God took you home, and it still hurts like it was yesterday.
I pray you can feel my love.

Love, Mom
February 19, 2021
February 19, 2021
You would have turned 36 today son, and I’ve been thinking how it would have gone, had you returned to us. The man you would have become, and the joy your father and I would have felt in witnessing your fulfillment in your life. Bittersweet ‘what if’s’ ...
Love you and miss you,
Mom

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February 19
February 19
Today would have been your 39th birthday Son. yet in my mind, I still see your sweet face of a very youthful 21. Today I’m remembering the last time I felt you hug me… as we said goodbye before you went thru the gate at the airport when you deployed . I told you to keep yourself safe, and return to us. We said our ‘I love yous’ then you gave me one more squeeze and said ‘bye mom’. I’ll feel that last embrace forever ♥️
February 20, 2023
February 20, 2023
Missing you so much Son. You would have turned 38 yesterday, and I spent all night for the past two nights, with your visits in my dreams. On nights like that, I want to sleep and sleep … I pray you’ll be visiting Dad all this week, next Sunday will be the hardest day to get through… 17 years since God took you home, and it still hurts like it was yesterday.
I pray you can feel my love.

Love, Mom
February 19, 2021
February 19, 2021
You would have turned 36 today son, and I’ve been thinking how it would have gone, had you returned to us. The man you would have become, and the joy your father and I would have felt in witnessing your fulfillment in your life. Bittersweet ‘what if’s’ ...
Love you and miss you,
Mom
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Before we left

February 19, 2019

Before we left on deployment, a group of us went looking for adventure and we were tooling around Drum and came across a nice spot along the black river that had a rumored cave that the river went through.  We went wading through the river and sure enough we found this cave.  It was awesome to crawl through and went back several hundred feet and we were forced to crawl on our hands and knees.  Afterwards we all drank beer and thought that after we came back we should come back to that spot.


What I remember is Clay was full of wonder and excitement at the thought of discovery.  I have thought about that day for over a decade off and on because it was good and pure.

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