This memorial website was created in memory of Sue Le Blond, 62, born on June 14, 1951 and passed away on December 7, 2013. A wonderfully warm, creative and spirited character, she will be greatly missed by her family and many friends. We hope you will use this space to celebrate her life and share happy memories of her.
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Pat and Rob xx
Sally xxxx
I drove through BoA last night and was given a sharp reminder that there will be no more visits to Sue and seeing her face light up with pleasure when I came through the door. My abiding memory will be her smile and laughter and of course the spontaneous recitation of tracts of literature. Random words in conversation would instantly elicit extracts from Dickens, Jane Austen or her beloved Coleridge. She never failed to amaze me. I first met Sue in the Dandy in BoA where a bunch of us would meet on Saturday mornings for sparkling wit and chat - it was a lot of fun. Sue then departed for The Lakes and Ulverston to be with dear Michael, the gentle giant. What inspiring drives we had in that stunning scenery. Sue exhibited her paintings in an exhibition at Brantwood, home of John Ruskin, where she also received the visitors and happily regaled them with Ruskin stories.
Sadly, despite two exhilarating years in Ulverston, things didn't work out and she returned to BoA where she picked up on her friendships and worked hard at writing, reviewing theatre events and even giving lectures on Jane Austen. She put most of us to shame with her industry. Lovely memories are of her Beach Party, (if you can't get to Swanage, bring it to BoA), whizzing her up and down the corridors of Chippenham hospital in her wheelchair - and the nursing staff turning a blind eye, meeting the three delightful Kenyan carers and the fish and chip steam train trip to Minehead with Michael, always fun and laughter when Sue was around.
I feel bereft that she has gone, but she is at peace now and her huge personality will never be forgotten.
With love from
Sally
To me – and to many of you – Mum seemed to be most enjoying life when plucking some quote from a limitless store of allusions to great English literature or pop culture. Possessing as she did an encyclopedic mind for what she held dear, she could conjure a line to fit any occasion. On bad days she would cheer herself with the hammed-up cry of Hamlet's lament “O my offense is rank.” On others, she would rally hope with the brylcreemed sincerity she found in fifties crooner Jim Reeves' line that “I love you cos the future's brighter.”
And from my earliest memories of Mum onwards it was always a case of “welcome to my world, won't you come on in.” The fabric of her world, the world I grew up in, was weaved by a rich imagination in which even the most mundane inanimate objects could be assigned a character. For many years “Joe” was the name she gave her trusty green Volvo car, after Joe Gargery, the lowly, honest blacksmith in Dickens Great Expectations. Later, she even brought the depressing apparatus of immobility to life, dubbing her two reclining chairs “Buddy” and “Eddie” after the doomed rock and rollers Buddy Holly and Eddie Cochran. Even her spindly wheelchair became Nigel, after the delicate, emotionally-vulnerable TV chef Nigel Slater.
For Mum, who thought nothing of christening a wheelchair, naming us kids when we came along was an act of significant symbolism. After long discussions with Dad, Simon was named after the spiritual, sensitive child in William Golding's Lord of the Flies, who risks everything to tell the other boys his enlightened truth. As for me, I was to be Josephine March of Louisa Alcot's Little Women, all willfull, passionate, untidy and restless.
When I was little, Mum would delight my friends and I by putting on a faux New England accent, getting us to call her “Marmy” and pretending we were all one of the March sisters. I was brave Jo of course, flying like the seagull as she always said, while the others took turns as responsible Meg, skittish Amy, or weak, not-long-for-this-world Beth, meekly resigning herself to lie in her sick bed and watch the sparrows come and go on the windowsill. When she died Mum had been writing about Beth. I think recently she had begun to see the character as less of a wet blanket, and more as a courageous soul facing death. (Maybe Beth was braver than Jo after all eh, Mum?)
Many of you knew Mum as a talented novellist, poet and playwright, others as a teacher, a director or an actress. To all these pursuits she brought her love of life, drama and most importantly, a good laugh. To me certainly, growing up, she was simply a lot of fun. Before nursery we would skip around the living room together pretending to be goblins to the final movement of Belioz's Symphony Fantastique. With Mum, it was any excuse for a lark.
I think she got a lot of it from her Dad, my Grandpa Tom, who was always larking about. When they got together there was guaranteed hilarity. On visits to our grandparents Mum and Grandpa would invariably do the dishes to a rousing chorus of On Ilkla Moor Baht 'at in exaggerated Yorkshire accents. If we were lucky, afterwards they'd announce a game of lurgy, which would always send Grandma scurrying off to shut herself up in the safety of the front room. The rules of Lurgy, or
Sock Lurgy, if there were any, were sketchy at best. The main aim was to chuck socks at each other in the dark. First we'd collect the contents of Grandpa's sock draw and ball them up into a arsenal of soft missiles. Then we'd split into two teams and take up positions up or downstairs. Finally all the lights would go off and, in total darkness, the four of us, Simon, Mum, Grandpa and I, would spend a happy hour battling over the no-mans land of the stairwell, with both teams trying to invade the other's territory using our sock stockpiles.
But undoubtedly Mum developed her star turn over the years of holidays in a small village in Pembrokeshire in South Wales. Every autumn half-term, we'd stay with family friends in a humble block of pebble-dashed coastal holiday flats. To Mum, it was a stage. After dinner a mischievous look would come into her eye. She'd don a long, burnt-orange jacket, flip up the oversized, fur-lined hood and announce that “Monk Woman” was abroad.
This was our signal for an outdoor game of night-time hide-and-seek. Again, we didn't bother with rules. The goal was simply not to let Monk Woman get you. Cowering on the dark hillside together with the other kids, I'd listen with a mixture of thrill and terror to Mum's “mad woman in the attic” impression of Mrs Rochester from Jane Eyre. The laugh started low and quiet, rising into a cackle out of the shadows. Whenever it all got too much for me, the youngest, I'd run over to her silhouette. She'd take down her hood, scoop me up in her arms, remind me it was all a game and let me be on “her side.”
But it wasn't all fun and games. Our heartfelt thanks goes out to all of you who supported Mum through the hard times. You know who you are. As we all found as we strove to help her, Mum's nerves were often strained in recent years. We must put it down to the side-effects of medication, and to the MS, which she always said stood for “Miserable Sod.” But this is a celebration, so let's celebrate Mum's life by remembering her laughing. Despite all that life threw at her, she kept laughing, and making others laugh. After all, life's a beach, right? This is how I'll remember her, with pride. My strong mother who battled misfortune with rich fantasy and indomitable humour.
Dear all
I have so many memories of Sue. We go back a long way, back to school days. Five of us have kept up through all the years - Sue, Jacq, Frances, Liz and me. Quite an achievement in the days before mobiles, email and Facebook.
We were in the same year at Enfield County School, our, not very good at preparing us for life, all girls' grammar school. But we were fortunate in having an inspirational English teacher - we were Miss Cox's girls. Sue went on to be an inspirational teacher herself, with the added ability of bringing drama and colour to every subject.
After that, university. I visited Sue at Sheffield and she came down to Leicester. Then we all went out into the world of work, marriage, children.
Children. Simon and Josie were the love of Sue's life. It has been a privilege to see them growing up into the warmhearted, impressive young adults they are today. Sue was so, so proud of them.
Sue loved Christmas and, although she didn't quite make this one, she had a lot of pleasure in planning it. We did the cards and the presents together a few weeks ago and were looking forward to what had lately become our traditional Christmas lunch of a large baked salmon, tasty salads and mulled wine beforehand. It was always a pleasure to cook for Sue. She took such delight in getting family and friends round for a meal.
Other memories are of notable holidays - Cornwall (three times), the Lake District, even a drama-filled visit, Sue in wheelchair, to see Josie in Berlin. She was determined to get there and she did. Determination was very much part of Sue's makeup. I was in awe at the strength of her willpower, which carried her through experiences which would have defeated most people.
And there was Cumbria, visiting Sue in Ulverston with its memories of dear Michael, and the buddhist community at Conishead Priory.
One of the things which sustained her through dark times was her love of literature - her dear friends Austen, Dickens and Hardy. And also her own writing. Above all else, she felt writing defined her. I am so glad she got to publish her final book, the Music Memoir. It sums up everything about Sue that we know and love. It's available on Amazon for those who haven't read it. (She would like me to give it one last plug!)
Over the years, I have always looked forward to coming down to see Sue in Bradford-on-Avon. What a beautiful part of the countryside. And what a rich life she led there with her church at Bearfield, the choir, her Martha and Mary and Scribblers groups, her courses at the Music Centre, and her open door to her many, many friends.
I will miss Sue very much.
Dx
I remember several delightful holidays spent at my cousin’s farmhouse in Cumnor, when we would be out on bicycles all day, exploring the countryside, coming back to hearty meals, reading by the log fire if it was winter, and enormous spiders scuttling out of the woodwork (Sue had a good scream on her – and I wasn’t far behind!). And then we’d spend hours in stitches over games of illustrated ‘consequences’. If anyone has played this with Sue, they’ll know how funny it was.
When we both lived in London, there wasn’t a week that passed without our visiting each other’s homes – for tea, supper, to share books, play music, re-enact the past, or to just talk. When we went away to College and University and embarked on our separate careers, we saw less of each other. But when my parents moved to Cricklade in Wiltshire, the ‘country visits’ began again. Eventually, of course, Sue herself moved to Wiltshire, which enabled us to keep in touch more readily. And she was such a source of inspiration for my novel, published in 1996.
Latterly, we drifted - new interests in life, new circles of friends. But I saw her again during the last couple of months of her life, for which I am eternally grateful. As ever, she inspired with her faith, her strength and her joyousness – the old mischievous twinkle never left her eye!.
So many memories – too many to set down here.
Sue taught me about English Literature, and if next year I achieve my degree with the OU, it will be in some part because she showed me how to enjoy the subject, bringing the characters alive with her acting talents. She has been a wonderful friend, and I wish we could have seen each other again.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal.
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the passing away of a loved on Sue.
Sue was somebody so special that can never be forgotten.
Sue was an amazing lovely person and I often think about all the tines we spent together.
Sue was such a pleasure to have around and I have learned so much from her and I will remember her always.
I had a blessed opportunity of knowing her, she treated me with respect and she made me feel loved.
Sue was open and always corrected me amicably whenever there was a problem.
I have learned life long lesson through her kindness and her memory lives in me forever.
Sue was an example for me to follow the way, she embraced life and consciously lived in her own motto “learning and doing something new everyday”
She lived a courageous life, doing things which most people in her condition could not do and she did it too well.
Today I am enriched by the way she touched my life.
The greatest compliment to someone who has passed is to live your life and keep their memory alive.
For me, Sue’s memory lives in me forever and I know Heaven just received one of the special Angels.
I am thinking of you, the family of Sue, I am wishing you hope in the midst of sorrow and comfort in the midst of pain.
Remember that I love you and care about you.
You are always in my thoughts.
You are in my prayers at this trying time.
Be strong, God loves you all.
With love
Ruth.
Gill in October 1969. We always had lots to say to each other and we regularly used to eat lunch together in the Union. I remember the daily routine of salad followed by a shared Custard slice. I don't appear in Momma Told Me not to Come, but recognise most of the characters that do. I appear in her diaries, which she let me read the last time we met. She calls me Jane (Austen, of course, or is it Jane Bennett!) Sue had great sensitivity and creativity, and I used to love looking at her university notes illustrated with witty drawings. I enjoyed her wry humour and we laughed a lot. I was delighted when she moved to Bradford on Avon as it was within visiting distance of Bristol. At 50 she told me 'I wouldn't have done anything differently.' I was touched. And envious - a bit. I loved her passion for Victorian Literature and she got me excited about Hilary Mantel. Discussing the film An Education recently was such a pleasure as it felt we were on the same page.
What really impresses me was her extraordinary ability to accept with grace all the tough things that happened to her and to be so positive about each day and so appreciative of friendship.
I have her books in which she very kindly wrote some lovely messages to me, and I will always cherish these and the memories of our journeys together. May you rest in peace Sue and hope you find Jane where you are!
She was an inspiration. She was a fighter, she was determined not to give in to the medical conditions that invaded her body. She proved medical prognosis wrong over and over again. She was feisty. She was also great fun to be with, with no shortage of comic or theatrical characters to bring into play as we talked.
Sue’s faith was rock-solid. She looked for and found God in the midst of what she had to endure; and her ability to praise Him in those situations was quite inspirational.
She is now in a better place. She isn’t sick any more, she has no more pain, she has a new and perfect body – a resurrection body. She is in heaven with our Lord Jesus. She often said with a chuckle of anticipation, ‘the best is yet to come’.
And flights of angels sing thee to they rest!
We will miss you very much, but your courage, humour and words will live on.
Leave a Tribute
Ten years has gone by very fast! We miss you.
You have a grandchild on the way! I have all the more respect for what you did for us to bring us into the world. Thank you!
Here’s another poem I thought you might like, you may already know it…
Love Simon xxxx
GEORGE HERBERT
Love
LOVE bade me welcome; yet my soul drew back,
Guilty of dust and sin.
But quick-eyed Love, observing me grow slack
From my first entrance in,
Drew nearer to me, sweetly questioning
If I lack’d anything.
‘A guest,’ I answer’d, ‘worthy to be here:’
Love said, ‘You shall be he.’
‘I, the unkind, ungrateful? Ah, my dear,
I cannot look on Thee.’
Love took my hand and smiling did reply,
‘Who made the eyes but I?’
‘Truth, Lord; but I have marr’d them: let my shame
Go where it doth deserve.’
‘And know you not,’ says Love, ‘Who bore the blame?’
‘My dear, then I will serve.’
‘You must sit down,’ says Love, ‘and taste my meat.’
So I did sit and eat.
Ten years on, it doesn't get easier.
I know many people will be remembering your passing today with sadness.
We also remember our dear friend, Dot, who left us earlier this year.
Simon and I will never forget her kindness to you, and to us all, during your illness.
May you both rest in peace.
Leaving a poem here that I know was one of your favourites.
All my love,
Josie
xxx
Arbolé, Arbolé . . .
Federico García Lorca
1898 – 1936
Tree, tree
dry and green.
The girl with the pretty face
is out picking olives.
The wind, playboy of towers,
grabs her around the waist.
Four riders passed by
on Andalusian ponies,
with blue and green jackets
and big, dark capes.
“Come to Cordoba, muchacha.”
The girl won’t listen to them.
Three young bullfighters passed,
slender in the waist,
with jackets the color of oranges
and swords of ancient silver.
“Come to Sevilla, muchacha.”
The girl won’t listen to them.
When the afternoon had turned
dark brown, with scattered light,
a young man passed by, wearing
roses and myrtle of the moon.
“Come to Granada, muchacha.”
And the girl won’t listen to him.
The girl with the pretty face
keeps on picking olives
with the grey arm of the wind
wrapped around her waist.
Tree, tree
dry and green.
Arbolé, Arbolé...
Arbolé, arbolé,
seco y verdí.
La niña del bello rostro
está cogiendo aceituna.
El viento, galán de torres,
la prende por la cintura.
Pasaron cuatro jinetes
sobre jacas andaluzas,
con trajes de azul y verde,
con largas capas oscuras.
“Vente a Córdoba, muchacha.”
La niña no los escucha.
Pasaron tres torerillos
delgaditos de cintura,
con trajes color naranja
y espadas de plata antigua.
“Vente a Sevilla, muchacha.”
La niña no los escucha.
Cuando la tarde se puso
morada, con lux difusa,
pasó un joven que llevaba
rosas y mirtos de luna.
"Vente a Granada, muchacha."
Y la niña no lo escucha.
La niña del bello rostro
sigue cogiendo aceituna,
con el brazo gris del viento
ceñido por la cintura.
Arbolé, arbolé.
Seco y verdé.
From The Selected Poems of Federico García Lorca, translated by William Bryant Logan. Published by New Directions, 1955. Used with permission.
I drove through BoA last night and was given a sharp reminder that there will be no more visits to Sue and seeing her face light up with pleasure when I came through the door. My abiding memory will be her smile and laughter and of course the spontaneous recitation of tracts of literature. Random words in conversation would instantly elicit extracts from Dickens, Jane Austen or her beloved Coleridge. She never failed to amaze me. I first met Sue in the Dandy in BoA where a bunch of us would meet on Saturday mornings for sparkling wit and chat - it was a lot of fun. Sue then departed for The Lakes and Ulverston to be with dear Michael, the gentle giant. What inspiring drives we had in that stunning scenery. Sue exhibited her paintings in an exhibition at Brantwood, home of John Ruskin, where she also received the visitors and happily regaled them with Ruskin stories.
Sadly, despite two exhilarating years in Ulverston, things didn't work out and she returned to BoA where she picked up on her friendships and worked hard at writing, reviewing theatre events and even giving lectures on Jane Austen. She put most of us to shame with her industry. Lovely memories are of her Beach Party, (if you can't get to Swanage, bring it to BoA), whizzing her up and down the corridors of Chippenham hospital in her wheelchair - and the nursing staff turning a blind eye, meeting the three delightful Kenyan carers and the fish and chip steam train trip to Minehead with Michael, always fun and laughter when Sue was around.
I feel bereft that she has gone, but she is at peace now and her huge personality will never be forgotten.
With love from
Sally