January 28, 2017
January 28, 2017
Hi, Mom... I'm SO EXCITED!!! Things are FINALLY in the works where Jen will no longer be a problem in my life. I noticed an awful odor coming from her room yesterday. Well, this morning when I opened my bedroom door, it SLAPPED me across the face, it was so pungent. It smelled like rotten meat or death, it was so bad. I texted Sarah. I wasn't living with THAT. She hadn't even come out of the room to use the bathroom; and the PROOF of that was IN the room after she was taken to the hospital. She was using MY white bowl as a 'toilet' with a towel in it to absorb the urine. Yeah, THAT got thrown out. Sarah kept gagging; I felt so bad for her... Saw some other stuff in her room that was obviously stolen from ME, and I pointed them out to Sarah. It's ALL settled, THANK GOD. Sarah has a heart... We're not throwing her out onto the streets. Even when she gets back from the hospital, she'll be given a SPECIFIC amount of time to find another job and place to live. Sarah took my suggestion and we've already hired someone else for the position, which will give me FULL coverage for housekeeping AND maintenance. I'M THRILLED!!! NO MORE having to HIDE my laundry detergent and fabric softener; or keeping my toilet paper in my room... Locking up my supplies... The way I've HAD to live around here BECAUSE of her because they THOUGHT she cleaned a good toilet has been MISERABLE. This new arrangement will be a LOT more tolerable and livable. I can't WAIT until SHE'S COMPLETELY gone from here and I NEVER have to deal with her again. She's been more than a thorn in my side... Anyway, things ARE in motion.
I've been hearing this song, even when Ken and I were together, that I used to think to myself when I heard JUST certain parts, "Yeah... Man, do I wish THAT." You know the stages of break up, even when you KNOW that it's over and you don't want THAT person back; you go through 'emotions'. I don't really miss KEN; but I DO miss ALL that I HAD WITH him when things were good. So, I guess I DO miss him, too in ways I guess; because the memories 'surround' him. Anyway, this song is called "Better Man" by Little Big Town. I REALLY paid attention to the lyrics today to the point I had to pull it up on YouTube WITH the lyrics. I sat there and bawled... The lyrics couldn't have been MORE perfect.
Better Man
I know I'm probably better off on my own,
Than lovin' a man who didn't know what he had when he had it.
And I see the permanent damage you did to me;
Never again, I just wish I could forget when it was magic.
I wish it wasn't 4 am, standing in the mirror, saying to myself,
You know you had to do it.
I know the bravest thing I ever did was run.
Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I can feel you again.
But I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
And I know why we had to say goodbye,
Like the back of my hand.
And I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
A better man,
A Better man.
I know I'm probably better off all alone,
Than needing a man who could change his mind at any given minute.
And it's always on your terms.
I'm hanging on every careless word;
Hoping it might turn sweet again,
Like it was in the beginning.
But your jealousy, I can hear it now;
You're talking down to me like I'll always be around.
You push my love away like it's some kind of loaded gun;
Boy, you never thought I'd run.
Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I can feel you again.
But I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
And I know why we had to say goodbye,
Like the back of my hand.
And I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
A better man,
Better man.
I hold onto this pride, because these days it's all I have.
And I gave you my best and we both know, you can't say that.
You can't say that.
I wish you were a better man.
I wonder what we would've become,
If you were a better man.
We might still be in love,
If you were a better man.
You would've been the one,
If you were a better man.
Yeah, yeah
Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I can feel you again.
And I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
And I know why we had to say goodbye,
Like the back of my hand.
And I just miss you and I just wish you were a better man.
We might still be in love, if you were a better man.
Better man…
The words are SO fitting of how I feel. We'd still be happy and in love if HE were just a 'Better Man'; NOT 'Peter Pan'. He always admitted when he wasn't being a jerk that I WAS a good girlfriend. One of the things he always loved about me was that I was 'wifey'. I CAN'T be all those awful, horrible things he says when he's angry at me... Anyway. SOOOOO many songs to the 'Ken and Wylene Medley'... Hahahaha I should still put that together; what the heck. They're all good songs. I know this is a weird thought, and NOT even any of my business... But I just hope that Candy wasn't foolish enough to give it another shot with him. She seems 'gullible' enough. Lord knows, I was his fool, too... I REALLY fell in love with him. As I said throughout our entire relationship, "God help me". Hahaha But, I'M smart. Despite what he pulled or was doing... I knew; even though he denied it and thought he was getting away with it, and I guess BASICALLY, he did; because I repeatedly 'allowed' him to use and abuse me... Out of 'love'. God, we had such a SICK and TWISTED, so called 'relationship'... But we DID love each other; there's NO doubt about THAT. Anyway, Candy ISN'T 'smart' in the same way; she's not 'intuitive' like I am... A lot of people aren't. Pretty much one of the reasons MY life is SO difficult, and I need to LEARN to just SHUT the HELL up. Hahahaha I know what I KNOW, and perhaps OTHERS just don't need to be 'privey' to the information anymore. When the 'shit hits the fan', so to speak; I can sit back, PREPARED, while everyone ELSE scrambles. Hahahaha I'll include those that 'have the faith' in me, such as my boys. As for others... Too bad, SO sad. My actions over the years should have been MORE than enough proof; to include things I've said PRIOR to an occurrence that HAPPENED on MORE than several occasions... It's called 'Proof in the pudding'. ;-) I've even written stuff and been proven to be right AFTER the fact. It is what it is... People have a hard time believing in what they can't see or touch. I get that. But how MUCH do you have to prove yourself over how MUCH time? Anyway...
OK, Mom... I guess that's it for tonight. Things are moving along, thank God. So now, we need to work on a little something for me, personally. I'm bored... Hahaha I love and miss you EVERY DAY. Hugging you with my heart; Always, Forever and a Day... <3
I've been hearing this song, even when Ken and I were together, that I used to think to myself when I heard JUST certain parts, "Yeah... Man, do I wish THAT." You know the stages of break up, even when you KNOW that it's over and you don't want THAT person back; you go through 'emotions'. I don't really miss KEN; but I DO miss ALL that I HAD WITH him when things were good. So, I guess I DO miss him, too in ways I guess; because the memories 'surround' him. Anyway, this song is called "Better Man" by Little Big Town. I REALLY paid attention to the lyrics today to the point I had to pull it up on YouTube WITH the lyrics. I sat there and bawled... The lyrics couldn't have been MORE perfect.
Better Man
I know I'm probably better off on my own,
Than lovin' a man who didn't know what he had when he had it.
And I see the permanent damage you did to me;
Never again, I just wish I could forget when it was magic.
I wish it wasn't 4 am, standing in the mirror, saying to myself,
You know you had to do it.
I know the bravest thing I ever did was run.
Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I can feel you again.
But I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
And I know why we had to say goodbye,
Like the back of my hand.
And I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
A better man,
A Better man.
I know I'm probably better off all alone,
Than needing a man who could change his mind at any given minute.
And it's always on your terms.
I'm hanging on every careless word;
Hoping it might turn sweet again,
Like it was in the beginning.
But your jealousy, I can hear it now;
You're talking down to me like I'll always be around.
You push my love away like it's some kind of loaded gun;
Boy, you never thought I'd run.
Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I can feel you again.
But I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
And I know why we had to say goodbye,
Like the back of my hand.
And I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
A better man,
Better man.
I hold onto this pride, because these days it's all I have.
And I gave you my best and we both know, you can't say that.
You can't say that.
I wish you were a better man.
I wonder what we would've become,
If you were a better man.
We might still be in love,
If you were a better man.
You would've been the one,
If you were a better man.
Yeah, yeah
Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I can feel you again.
And I just miss you, and I just wish you were a better man.
And I know why we had to say goodbye,
Like the back of my hand.
And I just miss you and I just wish you were a better man.
We might still be in love, if you were a better man.
Better man…
The words are SO fitting of how I feel. We'd still be happy and in love if HE were just a 'Better Man'; NOT 'Peter Pan'. He always admitted when he wasn't being a jerk that I WAS a good girlfriend. One of the things he always loved about me was that I was 'wifey'. I CAN'T be all those awful, horrible things he says when he's angry at me... Anyway. SOOOOO many songs to the 'Ken and Wylene Medley'... Hahahaha I should still put that together; what the heck. They're all good songs. I know this is a weird thought, and NOT even any of my business... But I just hope that Candy wasn't foolish enough to give it another shot with him. She seems 'gullible' enough. Lord knows, I was his fool, too... I REALLY fell in love with him. As I said throughout our entire relationship, "God help me". Hahaha But, I'M smart. Despite what he pulled or was doing... I knew; even though he denied it and thought he was getting away with it, and I guess BASICALLY, he did; because I repeatedly 'allowed' him to use and abuse me... Out of 'love'. God, we had such a SICK and TWISTED, so called 'relationship'... But we DID love each other; there's NO doubt about THAT. Anyway, Candy ISN'T 'smart' in the same way; she's not 'intuitive' like I am... A lot of people aren't. Pretty much one of the reasons MY life is SO difficult, and I need to LEARN to just SHUT the HELL up. Hahahaha I know what I KNOW, and perhaps OTHERS just don't need to be 'privey' to the information anymore. When the 'shit hits the fan', so to speak; I can sit back, PREPARED, while everyone ELSE scrambles. Hahahaha I'll include those that 'have the faith' in me, such as my boys. As for others... Too bad, SO sad. My actions over the years should have been MORE than enough proof; to include things I've said PRIOR to an occurrence that HAPPENED on MORE than several occasions... It's called 'Proof in the pudding'. ;-) I've even written stuff and been proven to be right AFTER the fact. It is what it is... People have a hard time believing in what they can't see or touch. I get that. But how MUCH do you have to prove yourself over how MUCH time? Anyway...
OK, Mom... I guess that's it for tonight. Things are moving along, thank God. So now, we need to work on a little something for me, personally. I'm bored... Hahaha I love and miss you EVERY DAY. Hugging you with my heart; Always, Forever and a Day... <3