This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Valarie Blair-Sparman, 54, born on December 15, 1958 and passed away on July 24, 2013. We will remember her forever.
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Inserted by her son Orrett Khumo & her husband Orrett
God in His infinite wisdom had other plans. She was going to a heavenly home to be with her mother.
My dear wife was not only a wonderful wife and mother but she was a person who loved teaching, and did so for most of her life. She was a cheerful and friendly person and made many warm friends. She loved her church and was faithful to her allotted tasks.
I close this tribute with a feeling of humility and submission to Divine authority. I know many men have wonderful wives but no one has ever had a better one than me.. She was faithful, efficient, loyal and loving. She inspired me in ways I cannot explain. I have lost a worthy companion but I have nothing but happy memories of our years together. I sorrow now for my loved one but the burden has been lessened by the many kindnesses shown me and my Son. I mention no names lest someone inadvertently be missed. My desk is covered with cards and letters extending love and sympathy. I do want you all to know how grateful I am for all you have said or done. The tribute you paid touched us deeply. I fear I cannot thank all of you personally but be assured your kindness will never be forgotten.
May Her Soul Rest In Perfect Peace.
When I try to take a break and relax in my busy life my heart, it does ache and all I think is how I miss my wife
It hurts me so bad all this pain inside thinking of the love we had
and the tears I have cried
I think of the places that we went to how I love you with all my heart
and all the things we didn’t get to do
but most of all how we have been torn apart
I miss you so, and love you stil, If love sould have saved you, my dear, you would have never died. I did not want to let you go
but I tell myself it was Gods will.
Every day I see things you have done, it is lonely without you.
I try to be strong for our wonderful son, but all I can do is drink another beer, and wish you were here.
Computer crashed, her hard drive formatted,
Her operating system changed to “windows Heaven”
The woman (Valarie) we truly loved
who is now just a memory.
but a memory so precious
with Khumo & I will always stay.
It will never ease the sadness
or the pain we have come to know,
for no matter how much time
goes by,
We will always miss her,
R.I.P. Val.
"When peace like a river attendeth my way. .........Whatever my lot IT IS WELL, IT IS WELL WITH MY SOUL!!!!
The lives you have touched will forever be changed because you loved them! May your soul rest in peace!
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Inserted by her son Orrett Khumo & her husband Orrett
The brightest light went out on July 19th, efforts to fix it lasted until July 24th when it was finally revealed that that light will no longer be around to light up the lives of many including her son Orrett Jnr. Sisters, brothers, Nieces, nephews and myself Orrett Snr. She was my beloved wife Valarie Cleopatra. It was a terrible shock.
God in His infinite wisdom had other plans. She was going to a heavenly home to be with her mother. My dear wife was not only a wonderful wife and mother but she was a person who loved teaching, and did so for most of her life. She was a cheerful and friendly person and made many warm friends. She loved her church and was faithful to her allotted tasks.
I close this tribute with a feeling of humility and submission to Divine authority. I know many men have wonderful wives but no one has ever had a better one than me.. She was faithful, efficient, loyal and loving. She inspired me in ways I cannot explain. I have lost a worthy companion but I have nothing but happy memories of our years together. I sorrow now for my loved one but the burden has been lessened by the many kindnesses shown me and my Son. I mention no names lest someone inadvertently be missed. My desk is covered with cards and letters extending love and sympathy. I do want you all to know how grateful I am for all you have said or done. The tribute you paid touched us deeply. I fear I cannot thank all of you personally but be assured your kindness will never be forgotten.
May Her Soul Rest In Perfect Peace.
How lucky was I to have you here
I always smiled when you were near.
You blessed my life with love and joy
especially when you brought home our little boy.
I miss the laughs and all the fun
I still can't believe that it's all done.
I wish that you were here with me
I'd get you ice cream and rub your feet
I'd let you sit in my recliner seat!
You want me to be happy in this life
that’s not easy without you my wife.
But for every day that now goes by
you quietly remind me of what, where and why.
You taught me a lot about how to live
How to love and how to give.
Now I do it on my own
But you are with me, I'm not alone.
There was only one chance in my life
For you to be my beautiful wife.
You were so gracious and giving for all to see
I'm glad you chose to be with me.