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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Victoria Nene Udoh.We will remember her forever.

"Gone Too Soon"

Like A Comet
Blazing 'Cross The Evening Sky
Gone Too Soon

Like A Rainbow
Fading In The Twinkling Of An Eye
Gone Too Soon

Shiny And Sparkly
And Splendidly Bright
Here One Day
Gone One Night

Like The Loss Of Sunlight
On A Cloudy Afternoon
Gone Too Soon

Like A Castle
Built Upon A Sandy Beach
Gone Too Soon

Like A Perfect Flower
That Is Just Beyond Your Reach
Gone Too Soon

Born To Amuse, To Inspire, To Delight
Here One Day
Gone One Night

Like A Sunset
Dying With The Rising Of The Moon
Gone Too Soon

Gone Too Soon

 

June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
BY Okey & Azuka Okeke
Dear Mazi,
We heard the very sad news of the passing away unto glory of your dear wife Elder Mrs. Victoria Nnenna Udoh, as early as 6:30am on Monday 17th April, 2017. At first I thought it was one of those bad dreams and I quickly called my wife for prayers. But calls kept coming in until I had to call you personally to confirm this very ugly incident that no one thought could ever come at this time.
Aunty was like a Mother, Big Sister and all we can use to qualify a very caring senior. She was very kind, compassionate loving, humble, patient, soft spoken and lived an exemplary Christian life.
We thank God for the faithful life she spent on earth though short but we are console that she is resting in the bosom of the Lord our God.
We pray God to give you, the children and the entire family the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen.
BY Okey & Azuka Okeke
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
By Mrs Amaka Oti

NIGHTFALL AT NOON
Dear sister Nnenna,
My spirit has not accepted, the sudden news of your untimely death that gave me a rude shock and food for thought over the nothingness of this transitory world that I may never See or hear from you again. .why did death come knocking at your door at the prime of your life ? Why? Why? Why?. Dear sister we have uncountable questions to ask about your sudden painful exit, when you are yet to reap the fruit of your labour and your earthly assignment. Our faith is in God Almighty and only him knows what happened . Our river of tears has not provided us with answer of what happened , only God knows. May Almighty God Grant your peaceful soul eternal repose in His kingdom in Jesus name Amen.
Ngwa,Aunty Nnenna, Ijeoma ka Chi boo!


Mrs Amaka Oti
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
By Elder& Elder Mrs Kalu Okereke and family

WOMAN OF FAITH

We looked forward to celebrating with you and your family in August and so when the sad news came, we were like it could not be true. It is still like a bad dream waiting for someone to say "wake up, it is just a dream", but we pray God to give us the grace to accept its reality. You were a seasoned teacher, assistant director of education, a leader per excellence, you led in Ikeja Presbyterian Church Women's guild, you led at the Presbytery, you led at the Synod and you led at Ututu Girls Secondary School, a prayer warrior and a woman of faith.
  You have fought the fight, you ran the race and we are hopeful that your crown of glory awaits you. We love you but God loves you more. May God give your family the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss and may your gentle soul rest in peace.
Farewell beloved sister!
Farewell woman of faith!
Farewell ma elder!

Elder& Elder Mrs Kalu Okereke and family
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June 2, 2017
June 2, 2017
The news of your demise came as a shock to my entire family, i still remember how we were in Ututu Girls Sec Sch where you are the Senior Perfect and I was the House Perfect of Holy Child.You were such a sweet soul, A virtuous woman,you embraced every one who came around you with warmth.I know you are in heaven, Rest well in the bosom of your creator.It is well with your family.Sleep well.
May 31, 2017
It hurts, it really hurts.
These whole thing of your burial preparations seems like a dream but alas, it is reality.
Your dear husband and darling children seem to be coping well and are trusting in GOD with joyful hearts just like you would love them to but I feel there pain. There backbone, and mother hen has gone the final way of all mortals albeit untimely and without reaping the fruits of her labour of love.
My family and I would miss your calm and welcoming mien and disposition, always looking unfazed and unflustered.
Our loss is heaven's gain.
Go in peace, woman of peace to that place where there is no strife, nor envy. Where joy, peace and and love abounds...
May 30, 2017
May 30, 2017
The Family of Mazi Nnamdi Udoh                30th May, 2017.

                    CONDOLENCE MESSAGE

With a deep sense of sympathy, we the entire members of Women in Aviation Nigeria Chapter extend our sincere condolences to our first male member Mazi Nnamdi Udoh and the entire family, on the death of his beloved wife Elder Mrs Victoria Nnenna Udoh.

We received the news of your wife’s demise with shock.

Nene we know was a devoted Christian. Please take solace in knowing that she lived a fulfilled life and our believe is that we should not mourn like those without faith.

We identify with you at this moment of loss and we pray that the good lord will give the entire family the fortitude to bear this loss.

Accept our heartfelt condolence.

Rejoice Ndudinachi
President
May 25, 2017
May 25, 2017
Aunty Nene, the news of your death came with a big shock. Just like that, The Lord took you.
You were so cool, calm, and calculated. A vitreous woman, worthy of emulation. You were so God fearing and know your bible so well as you will always give me some bible verses and prayer lines to pray with.
The last I saw you was in March this year when I came to treat your mom, never knew it will be my last.
Aunty I will miss a lot about you, giving me thumps up, your smiles and a nod encouraging me that I'm carrying on well. You were too friendly that you will never go for any function without a friend. That I noticed about you.
Sleep on sweet soul. I know The Lord has accepted your sweet soul.
"Blessed are the righteous for they shall see the kingdom of God. And I'm sure that is where you are.
Parry on in heaven as you have made it.
You are sorely missed but God loves you most.
Goodnight aunty till that resurrection morning.
May 24, 2017
May 24, 2017
There’s no doubt you touched many lives - at home, at Church and at work with your trademark generosity.
Elder Nene, you served God as an enlightened and a dedicated wife, a wonderful and kind mother of four brilliant young diamonds and one of heaven’s beautiful daughters given to the great people of Arochukwu. Just last December, you hosted us in your usual warm, homely manner. Today as we mourn your loss along with the Udohs, heaven celebrates its gain!
Nene, just shine like the stars of heaven!
May 24, 2017
May 24, 2017
I have known Nene most of my adult life, though some might say we are as alike as chalk and cheese.
However, I found her to be a kind and generous woman who shared with me the greatest treasure of all: her children.This was our common ground. Over time, we developed a quiet bond that was built on this foundation of love for our children - mine and hers.
For many years, we joked that on Gini's wedding day, we would both jostle each other for space in pride of place, and every March 7th we noted with delight the passing birthdays of our respective Son and Daughter: Bijoux and Ngozi aka Mama.
I am bereft for the family at her passing and only wish that they find space to reflect and heal in peace.It is still such a shock to think that she is not here. She will be greatly missed , and alas she has indeed gone too soon.
May 24, 2017
May 24, 2017
Nene

Who would have thought when I visited Nigeria this January, when you graciously hosted me and mommy, when you took me under your wing and took me to a wonderful church service, showed me your school where you worked, took me to where you bought material for your amazing outfits that fitted you so well and when you shared your thoughts with me, that within a few short weeks we would not see again. 

What a life! such precious times we have and how little we cherish them until too soon parted, not knowing they could be the last. As Tobe says ' tomorrow is not promised' and we'' ll remember to appreciate each other every day and not wait for a passing to do that. 

I thank God for your ministry of sharing, one you did very well and for your life.  If it wasn't for Jesus we wouldn't know where you are. but we know you called upon the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ of Nazareth and He saved you and so we know you have been received by Him. 

Rest in Him Nene.
May 23, 2017
May 23, 2017
Our paths never crossed unfortunately! But my family and I are completely broken and devastated by the news of your demise. We will take solace in the multitude of legacies that you left behind.. We are told 'You were a virtuous woman, a woman well reputed, a woman of valor, a woman worthy of emulation, a caregiver, and above all, a woman who lived her daily life according to the dictate of the Holy Bible'...Indeed, I have no doubt in my mind that you are already resting in the bosom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ..And to the family you left behind, I pray that God will continue to give them the Fortitude to bear this colossal loss..Continue to Rest In Peace until we finally meet at the fullness of God's time
May 21, 2017
May 21, 2017
Adieu Aunty Nene

The news of your demise came as a shock to my entire family . We spoke on Easter Sunday and still discussed about Gini’s traditional marriage but God knows His purpose for your life. You were a peacemaker, a confidant, and a prayer warrior. My consolation is that you have gone to be with the Father in Heaven. You brought light, inspiration and smiles and so much love. You have touched so many lives with your kindness.  The twins are still in shock. You are an unforgettable!!!. Our joy is the knowledge that you are resting in peace in the kingdom of our creator. Adieu Aunty Nene till we meet in God’s Kingdom.
May 21, 2017
May 21, 2017
Nene, we celebrated your birthday on Wednesday, You cut your cake with everyone that was around you. We were to plan about your daughter's traditional wedding the evening of the morning you departed. What a painful exit. Your departure thought mea life listen. Nobody knows tomorrow. Rest In Peace "Still Water".
May 18, 2017
May 18, 2017
It's been one month already my mor mor and It's still real
May 18, 2017
May 18, 2017
You can shed tears that she is gone,
Or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left.
Your heart can be empty, because you can't see her,
Or you can be full of the love that she has shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her and only that she is gone,
Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back.


Or you can do that which Aunty would have wanted; Smile, Open Your Eyes, Love and Go on.

Till we meet Again Aunty Nene ❤️❤️❤️
May 17, 2017
May 17, 2017
Dear mummy it's still hard to come to terms than you left us in this cold world Soo soon and at a time where we your children and family needed you the most. We love you but God loves you more I guess he needed an extra Angel in heaven. Eventhough you might be gone I know I will see you again where we shall meet to part no more. For now I say good night and sleep well
May 16, 2017
May 16, 2017
Rest In Peace Aunty. Although I met you in person just once . You were such a sweet soul. And Joe always talks about how you are the best mother he could ever wish for and such a strong pillar for the family. You will surely be missed
May 16, 2017
May 16, 2017
Hmmm, words fail me at such a time as this. You were a beautiful woman in and out, a dutiful wife all round to your husband, a sweet mom to your children, a wonderful daughter and sister to your mom and siblings, a friendly friend and most of all a daughter of Zion. You were a peaceful peaceful person no wonder you chose your exit this way. God has the answer to everything but we will not question Him. Sleep on, beautiful one, until we meet to part no more.
May 16, 2017
May 16, 2017
Tribute to a good mother
We were all together 10 days before your death, that was on the 7th of April at wake keeping of late Mazi Emma Okoro.
You played a motherly role, you cooked and served everybody at the event.
Today you are not here with us but with the God, your good deeds are already speaking, my prayer is for God to take care of your family in your absence the way you took care of others during your life time.
Rest in peace.
May 16, 2017
May 16, 2017
Hhhhh, it is well with your soul. Sleep well my queen in the blossom of our Lord Jesus Chris.
May 16, 2017
May 16, 2017
YOU ARE A MOTHER HEN

Ezinye, I heard a lot about your kindness and my chance meeting with you was all I needed to get hooked and thereafter every meeting I had with you always leave me with a sweet memory, from your demeanor, your touch, and smiles, you were a role model in motherhood.

A virtuous woman. We shall miss you.

GOD loves you most , rest in the bosom of the lord till we meet on resurrection day, Amen.

Good Night my angel.
May 16, 2017
May 16, 2017
Aunty, words can't explain my reaction when I heard such devastating news of your passing. A God-fearing mother, wife, aunt, teacher, and leader is what I will always remember you as. I'm thankful to God that in all of this, we know you're in a better place and in due time we will all be together again. You're dearly missed and will never be forgotten. Love you Aunty ❤ and Rest In Peace

""Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."
- ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭5:4‬ ‭ESV‬‬
May 16, 2017
May 16, 2017
It hurts me Soo bad that you left us too soon. I still remember the first day I met you. And the gift you gave me is still in my house. I can never forget how worried you were when my previous company was having trouble.... we met again in December and I promised to pay a visit this year, Mummy u were a mother to all the young pilots...mummy we truly miss u, but we know as we fly everyday in the skies we are closer to u bcos we know you're resting on the right side of the LORD JESUS CHRIST. but unfortunately God had his own plans for you... I will always keep making you proud till we meet again rest well mumm
May 16, 2017
Sweet aunty, I know you are resting in perfect peace. Thank you for taking me into your home at Christmas and looking after me like one of your own, always making sure that I was comfortable. Sweet, gracious, kind - always smiling and laughing - you were truly an angel on earth. You have brought up amazing children who share your peaceful spirit. Aunty you are gone too soon, but your legacy lives on. My love xXx
May 16, 2017
May 16, 2017
I remember when I and Chi were in primary school all through secondary school, you were like my second mother. You always believed in us both as friends and as Future leaders. Sometimes urge us both to read, you called me Head Boy. And when Chi went to University and my visits became not so frequent to the house, you always told me I could always come. Banana and Groundnuts you loved to give on my visits. Everyone who knew you was always left with a smile on their face. I am sad but proud, proud that I had a chance to encounter you in this life. And as the lord Tarries and we remain in his grace, we will meet in the next life.

Rest in the Bossom of the Lord Mummy. Till we meet again.
May 15, 2017
May 15, 2017
My dearest Ogbom, My sweet sister in law, my ever gentle lady, my adorable wife, your demise came as a big shock and till now, still can't believe that you are gone. You were indeed an epitome of a virtuous woman, You were kind, a loving wife and mother. My happiness is that your Husband, Nnamdi Udoh loved and cared for you even till death. You embraced everyone who came around you with warmth, regardless of whom he or she was. You were too gentle to a fault and I admired you for that. I will miss you so much. May your gentle soul rest in peace and may God Almighty give those you left behind, especially your beloved husband and children the fortitude to hear this irreplaceable loss. It is well. You will surely be missed. Ga na Udoh Nwanyioma.
May 15, 2017
May 15, 2017
I am still so shocked and in denial and so very angry that this thing has happened that we cannot undo. You're always so warm and such a beautiful person, so kind to everyone and wanting nothing in return. I always admired your calm grace, evident in the way you spoke and handled situations, your hospitality... You are and will always be a rare gem. You are a perfect epitome of what a wife, mother and a woman should be... Your kids are amazing ma, they are so strong ma, they are making you proud, I always complimented you on the great job you did with them... You are so very loved and will be terribly missed... So very heartbroken... Still can't believe this...
May 13, 2017
May 13, 2017
Oh mummy, words fail me. Waking up to see the news on mama's instagram page, i was shocked and still in shock. I remember those secondary school days, we would all come to your house leaving the whole place scattered and up side down, you won't mind instead u will feed us all and play with us. I remember you, i remember everything about you, i remember you always welcoming and treating all Ginika's friends like yours, i remember everything. Mummy your memory lives on, this memories are all we have held on to and we console ourselves that you are in a better place, we miss you mummy and we love you.
Thank you for everything!!! Continue to rest in peace mummy!! Love always.
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
Our angel indeed we will miss you. I thank you for being a wonderful mother and in the little way i did,I am glad to have experienced you. You had a big loving heart. Now you are in Heaven, Rest Well In Perfect Peace ❤️
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
Still like a dream but it's true. Don't have much to say again and for sure you are in a safe hands. Aunty, you were a motivator as you changed the lives of many. I am proud to have a feel of it. Rest on onye nkem and the entire Nnadozie''s family will forever miss you.
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
Mummy of life ❤️❤️Spoke to you on Sunday night probably a few hours before the Lord called you back home with our usual banter Lool. I was being called by people to tell me about the news and I was calling you to complain Lool if only heaven had a hot line, I would have made it bling. Actually I do, the Holy Spirit. Hallelujah for that. Thank you for teaching me to trust the Lord. I am so grateful for that now. I am happy I enjoyed you how I did and this can only be accredited to God. Sweet mor mor. You will be missed but the Holy Spirit is already comforting me and our other loved ones. Ada Jesus. Thank you that even in your transitioning to Heaven, you are still making sure us your children are close to this God who holds us. Hallelujah . Hold it down for us up there too oh . Because we know you are happy and just chilling with Jesus, we are happy as well. You taught me well and I will continue to hold you in very high esteem. Love you mum. You were an exceptional woman
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
From all I heard about you from Ngozi and the lady you have brought her up to be, indeed you were a great and wonderful woman. You would forever be loved and remembered by everyone. We believe you're in a better place. RIP
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
I can not thank you enough for giving me a friend and a sister, i know you are happy in heaven and i know you're still our mummy, except now you're closer to Christ than you have ever been. psalm 145:17
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
I can not thank you enough for giving me a friend and a sister, i know you are happy in heaven and i know you're still our mummy, except now you're closer to Christ than you have ever been. psalm 145:17
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
I remember meeting her once, in secondary school at the house in FAAN quarters. She had the warmest spirit, urging me to eat even when I declined and she didn't take no for an answer. Mama, I'm sure she's resting well and looking down on you and the family. Bless her heart ❤️❤️
May 11, 2017
May 11, 2017
Ngwa nu mummy....... I always tried to learn some words in igbo, so i know what to say when you call mama and talk to us. my last words to you mummy was ngwa nu as it seems that was the only words i knew how to pronounce well. I know God has taken you to a better place, you always be in my heart. Your legacy would continue to linger on. You left us beautiful memories. Love you mummy.
May 10, 2017
May 10, 2017
FOR YOUR FAITH
By Ernie Onwumere

*FOR THOUGH I AM ABSENT IN BODY
On 17 April 2017, you passed peacefully in the hands of your greatest companion, ND. Seeing you sleep gracefully gave us a feeling that at the break of dawn you will wake up. How heartbroken we were when you failed to wake up. It was then that it dawned on us that you are absent in the body.

YET I AM WITH YOU IN SPIRIT
We are consoled that of all the day you chose to embark on the life journey was the resurrection morning. Though you have parted with us,  We can feel your presence in spirit.

REJOICING TO SEE YOUR GOOD ORDER 
All your loved ones cried, it was a very painful exit. But they are not mourning like unbelievers. we know we shall meet on the resurrection day. The kids are in control, they have grown overnight and have fallen into good order.

AND THE FIRMNESS OF YOUR FAITH IN CHRIST.
We can attest that you kept the faith in JESUS and held on till the end, for when you choked, all you wanted was the anointed oil. Rest in peace for your loved ones are strong and your transition will make them firm in Christ.

*Colossians 2:5
May 10, 2017
May 10, 2017
Those special memories of you will always bring a smile. God's garden must be beautiful he only takes the best. Rest in peace Aunty Nne. You will be missed greatly.
May 10, 2017
May 10, 2017
I never had the chance to interact with you face to face but from what I heard from Joe you were a wonderful person and a loving mother. You will be forever missed. Rest In Peace
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Night of Prayers

June 15, 2017

NIGHT OF PRAYERS

Venue:  Hugh Goldie Theology College, Arochukwu

Date : 9th June, 2017

Time : 7pm

ORDER OF PROGRAMMES

OPENING PRAYER

PRAISE AND WORSHIP

1ST HYMN "  WHEN PEACE LIKE A RIVER, ATTENDETH MY WAY"

BIBLE READING -   FAMILY

TESTIMONIES

2ND HYMN "IAM THINE, O LORD "

1ST PRAYER

MUSIC

SERMON

3RD HYMN " WHEN THE TRUMPET ..."

2ND PRAYER

SONGS

3RD PRAYER

TRIBUTES

MUSIC " GONE TOO SOON"

CLOSING HYMN " ROCK OF AGES "

ANNOUNCEMENT

VOTE OF THANKS

BENEDICTION

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HYMNS

 

WHEN PEACE LIKE A RIVER, ATTENDETH MY WAY

When peace like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

Refrain:
It is well, (it is well),
With my soul, (with my soul)
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest assurance control,
That Christ has regarded my helpless estate,
And hath shed His own blood for my soul.

 

My sin, oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!
My sin, not in part but the whole,
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!

 

For me, be it Christ, be it Christ hence to live:
If Jordan above me shall roll,
No pang shall be mine, for in death as in life,
Thou wilt whisper Thy peace to my soul.

 

But Lord, 'tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait,
The sky, not the grave, is our goal;
Oh, trump of the angel! Oh, voice of the Lord!
Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul.

 

And Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,

Even so, it is well with my soul

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IAM THINE , O LORD

I am Thine, O Lord, I have heard Thy voice,
And it told Thy love to me;
But I long to rise in the arms of faith
And be closer drawn to Thee.

Refrain

Draw me nearer, nearer blessèd Lord,
To the cross where Thou hast died.
Draw me nearer, nearer, nearer blessèd Lord,
To Thy precious, bleeding side.

Consecrate me now to Thy service, Lord,
By the power of grace divine;
Let my soul look up with a steadfast hope,
And my will be lost in Thine.

 

O the pure delight of a single hour
That before Thy throne I spend,
When I kneel in prayer, and with Thee, my God
I commune as friend with friend!

 

There are depths of love that I cannot know
Till I cross the narrow sea;
There are heights of joy that I may not reach
Till I rest in peace with Thee.

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WHEN THE TRUMPET OF THE LORD SHALL SOUND

When the trumpet of the Lord shall sound, and time shall be no more,
And the morning breaks, eternal, bright and fair;
When the saved of earth shall gather over on the other shore,
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there.

 

When the roll is called up yonder,
When the roll is called up yonder,
When the roll is called up yonder,
When the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there.

On that bright and cloudless morning when the dead in Christ shall rise,
And the glory of his resurrection share;
When his chosen ones shall gather to their home beyond the skies,
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there.

 

Let us labor for the Master from the dawn till setting sun,
Let us talk of all his wondrous love and care;
Then when all of life is over, and our work on earth is done,
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there.

 

 

 

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ROCK OF AGES, CLEFT FOR ME

1

Rock of Ages, cleft for me,
Let me hide myself in Thee;
Let the water and the blood,
From Thy riven side which flowed,
Be of sin the double cure,
Save me from its guilt and power.

2

Not the labor of my hands
Can fulfill Thy law’s demands;
Could my zeal no respite know,
Could my tears forever flow,
All could never sin erase,
Thou must save, and save by grace.

3

Nothing in my hands I bring,
Simply to Thy cross I cling;
Naked, come to Thee for dress,
Helpless, look to Thee for grace:
Foul, I to the fountain fly,
Wash me, Savior, or I die.

4

While I draw this fleeting breath,
When mine eyes shall close in death,
When I soar to worlds unknown,
See Thee on Thy judgment throne,
Rock of Ages, cleft for me,
Let me hide myself in Thee.

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