Wendy will be forever in our hearts....
  • 42 years old
  • Born on August 6, 1972 in New York, New York, United States.
  • Passed away on November 5, 2014 in Flushing, New York, United States.

This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved, Wendy Wong, wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend.

Wendy was a beautiful woman and shared her love of family and life with all those who were around her.  We will miss her warm smile and giving heart. 

Please share your photos, anecdotes and tributes of Wendy on this memorial website to celebrate her life.  Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.

Love, Matt, Chloe and Kylie

In lieu of flowers and baskets, please consider making a donation to the family via PayPal to the following email address: matthew.moi@gmail.com

(Please make sure to select "sending money to family or friends") . 
Any questions, please email Matt: matthew,moi@gmail.com


Following are the funeral services for our beloved Wendy:

Sunday, Nov. 16 - 2pm to 6pm
Monday, Nov. 17 - 9am - 10am

Chun Fook Funeral Services, LLC
134-35 Northern Blvd.
Flushing, NY  11354

*Free meter street parking on Sundays*

Monday, Nov. 17 - immediately following the wake at Chun Fook Funeral Services, LLC.

St. Michael's Cemetery
7202 Astoria Blvd.
East Elmhurst, NY 11370
(718) 278-3240

Posted by Jenny Chu on 5th November 2018
Wendy, Side by side or miles apart. Sisters will always be connected by the Heart ❤️. Missing you each day, every day. With love, Jenny
Posted by Samantha Lee on 5th November 2018
Wendy, your two girls have grown so much. Max is being a wonderful father to them. He's doing his best. Watch over them. We all missed you.
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 5th November 2018
Four years without you and still missing you so much. Girls are growing up really fast. Daddy is doing a fantastic job. Keep watching over us and keeping all safe. We love you always. Big Sis
Posted by Robert Tran on 5th November 2017
Three years without you. Still missing you so much. Always thinking about. Love you Sis! I know you are watching over us. -Big Sis
Posted by Jenny Chu on 6th August 2017
Dear Sis, Happy Birthday to our beautiful sister!!! You are always in our hearts. Chloe and Kylie are growing up nicely and you should be proud. Always missing you, Jenny
Posted by Robert Tran on 6th August 2017
HAPPY BIRTHDAY SIS!! Missing you always everyday. Your beautiful girls are getting big and doing well. Daddy is doing a fabulous job! We were at AdventureLand and wished you rode the Merry-Go-Round with us. Chloe was on the Crocodile Run and got all wet. The girls were on the balloon ride and were up so high to say "hi" and "we love and miss you, Mommy!" It was just beautiful. We all miss you and love you! Love, Big Sis
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 6th November 2016
Two years without you. Missing you very much. Keep watching over us. Love you always!
Posted by An-Marie Jon on 5th November 2016
Our dear friend Wendy, today a beautiful sunny day, your rays of sunshine and your happy spirit shines on us. I can't believe it has been two years today that you left this world and journeyed to heaven. We miss you and especially missed you and thought of you at the garage sale at our house when you used to bring stuff to sell that you had a hand in branding yourself. You are talented, loving, creative and free spriited. We miss you and reminisce of the times we shared with you. Love, an, laura and anabelle
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 4th October 2016
Think about you everyday. Miss and love you very much! Watch over us.
Posted by An-Marie Jon on 6th August 2016
Happy Birthday Wendy.... we remember you and reminisce of all the wonderful moments we shared with you. You are forever with us and miss you whole-heartedly. Take care of each other, you and Bill. Even in spirit, we know you are watching over all of us...your girls are growing up to be beautiful girls...everytime I see them, I see a reflection of you. Matt is watching over them like a hawk, no surprise there ...you would be proud. We love you and continue to keep you in our hearts..xoxoxo an, laura and anabelle
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 5th November 2015
It was a year ago on a beautiful Wednesday morning you joined Heaven. It still hurts. It still feels unreal. We still miss you always. We love you always. We will never forget. You'll always be close and in our hearts. Watch over us (like a hawk). You are forever beautiful!
Posted by Louise Li on 5th November 2015
Hi Wendy, I was thinking about you since last year. I'll always miss you! Love, Louise
Posted by Susie Diaz on 5th November 2015
Aloha Wendy, It'll always be "aloha" from me to you. I can't believe it's been a year since you departed. I miss you so. At times I feel I'm in denial of your passing. Maybe it's because I never got the chance to talk to you one last time before you left. These days may have passed but time has kept you beautiful in my heart. I will always remember you. I wrote a short poem to describe how I felt since your passing. I hope you will forgive me for the time I missed talking to you. It’s been a year since your passing When I stop to think of the time missed I never thought I won’t see you again I’ll never forget I’ll see you again When the words I should have said Would come to haunt me again In my darkest hour I think of you I'll never forget I love you You never really left I know I'll see you again Smiling back at me
Posted by Jenny Chu on 4th November 2015
Dear Wendy, It has been a difficult year without you. I find comfort and peace knowing you are always around us. Thank you for listening to my constant nagging to watch, protect, and guide Matt and the girls. We depend on your love, strength, and fearlessness to ride through all the bumps on the road. Continue to show me your big bright smile. Loving you always- your sis, Jen
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 1st November 2015
Hi Sis. Miss you! Was that you today at Tanger? I know you were watching us. You were a beautiful hawk. We were at your favorite shopping place, The Christmas Tree Shops. Plenty of Nutcrackers and Christmas stuff. Baby Kylie is fine. Just a little boo boo. You are always with us. Love you! You keep us going!
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 5th August 2015
Happy Birthday Wendy! I know it's tomorrow but I couldn't wait. Missing you a lot. I keep wishing that you are on this great big long trip and that you will be back very soon. I think of you everyday. Thank you for watching us. You are the best! Love you always.
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 25th December 2014
Merry Christmas Sis. Missing you always. Thinking of you always. Loving you always.
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 5th December 2014
Dearest Wendy, My Beloved Sister, It's been a month and today we presented you to your final resting place. May you rest in beautiful peace. I think of you everyday and miss you very much. I love you and only wish that you are still here with us. I know that you will be watching and protecting us from where you are. Be free and know that you are forever alive in our hearts.
Posted by Jessica Rivera on 18th November 2014
Dear Matt, I know Danny and I don't know you well (only through Steve on that fateful day last winter). But we are truly stricken by your tragedy. We pray for you and your daughters. We are so sorry for your loss.
Posted by An-Marie Jon on 17th November 2014
Dear Matt, Chloe and Kylie, Though it rained today as we laid Wendy in her final resting place, it did not dampen our spirits and love that we have for our dear friend Wendy. Take each day one day at a time...there will be good days and challenging days but know that your friends and family will be with you every step of the way. Wendy's legacy lives in us all and we are all better people to have had her in our lives. Wendy lives in Chloe and Kylie as they have her warm smile, strength (a force to be wreckened with when they captain their own women's dragonboat team like their mom!), and love for all. We will all be here for all of you and only a car ride or phone call away...we are in this together...xoxoxo an, laura and anabelle
Posted by Pele Tran on 16th November 2014
Dear Matt, May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you today and tomorrow. Your beautiful wife, Wendy, will remain in our hearts forever.
Posted by Kelly Fujitsuka on 16th November 2014
Dear Wendy, Words cannot describe how it pains me so deeply to see you go A piece of me is lost without you As a big sister, you watched over me & took me under your wing Growing up, we didn’t have much except each other You made sure I did not become spoiled as the youngest of us 4 sisters You were extremely tough and never allowed me to feel entitled You always stood your ground and made it known who was boss You instilled in me strength and independence I am who I am because of you But underneath this tough veneer, belied a big softie with a huge heart Your toughness little by little melted away when you had children You became more nurturing and playful and lived life with no boundaries You always cared so much for everyone around you You were the loudest and most unfiltered among us four You brought levity to situations when times needed laughter I will miss you, big sis, forever and ever.... Your spirit surrounds me always, Loving you for all eternity, Kelly
Posted by Cindy Worms on 15th November 2014
Dear Wendy, I couldn't bring myself to write to you until today. Tomorrow is your wake, I am still in shock that you have left us so suddenly. It was only exactly 2 weeks ago that we had a play date, you played with the kids. You organized the bookcase for me in the basement. We were gossiping about a Dragon Boat girl that was sharing intimate things with you. We had sushi together for dinner. Rest in peace knowing that we will take good care of Matt, Chloe and Kylie for you. Wherever you are, Heaven or whatver the afterlife place, there must be in need of strong man and woman to help fighting its battles, thats why they took Bill and you. You were so strong. Violet and Connor miss you. We will always remember you. I will make sure that Chloe and Kylie never forget you. Matt, you are like a brother to me, I want you to feel free to come to me if you ever need anything. Xin Xin
Posted by Terrence Worms on 15th November 2014
Dear Wendy, I cannot begin to describe how heavy our hearts our with your sudden loss. You have touched our lives for so many years and have been such a presence in our children's lives. You were quick with a kind word and gift for everyone. The efforts that were made for birthdays, baby showers and wedding will be missed. No one was this irreplaceable. Countless vacations and playdates. Dragon boat races and birthday parties. Your kindness will be remembered through your husband and your daughters. Their lives, as well as our will never be the same. You were unquestionably family to us. We were watching our children grow up together and were so happy that they were as good as friends as we all were. We will look after your girls with Matt, knowing that you are smiling upon us all. The passing of such a young mother leaves the greatest kind of emptiness. We love you Wendy.
Posted by NANCY TRAN on 14th November 2014
My Dearest Sister Wendy, I really miss you. My heart is aching. It's really hard to put down in words the sorrow I'm feeling. I can't believe you are not here with us. I know you are watching over us with father, grandpa & grandma and of course, our first cat, Lucky. I will always be thinking of you and all the fun times we had together. This year, we were supposed to go apple picking and to the Long Island Fire Prevention Day fair (to get our yummy hot dogs & ice-cream and fire engine ride!). You were always the outgoing and loud one. You were not afraid of anything. You were so creative. You worked really hard on your art projects for school and I remember you got really mad at us for watching TV while you were working on your artist desk. You have grown up to be a beautiful, wonderful, loving wife and mother. Thank you for being my sister and a for being a cool and awesome aunt. Thank you for just being beautiful you! I'll always love you. You're in my heart, always. Big Sis Nancy
Posted by Eve Mangibin on 14th November 2014
Dear Matt, We are so sorry for your loss. May the beautiful memories of Wendy bring you some comfort during this difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Chloe, and Kylie. Love, Eve and Dell Mangibin
Posted by Naomi Kaphan on 13th November 2014
Dear Wendy, When I met you 16 years ago at MAD DB club, we're the first NY women national team to England/Notthingham, during the fit test, you performed 10-15 reps strict pull up without assits, I was so inspired by your performanced and your sportmentship to the team. Wendy, may you R.I.P...may an Angels look after you and your love of Matt, Chloe and Kylie. We will missed you dearly........ In deepest sympathy
Posted by Anna Weinstock on 12th November 2014
Dear Wendy, Even I don't know you but I am touched by the tribute that your family and your friend leave for you. May you rest in peace! Love, Weinstock family!
Posted by Chi Ma on 10th November 2014
A loving mother and wife, may you rest in peace. You were always the ambassador to life experiences-- thank you for the honest truth and being open about what you've seen. We will try our best to show your girls the world and will remind them of your unconditional love.
Posted by Jaime Yamashita on 10th November 2014
Wendy: Although dragon boat and babies have kept me away from NY for quite some time now, I have never forgotten the great times I had with you and Matt in NY. Thank you for always welcoming us Canadians with open arms and a warm smile. I will always remember being in awe of your athleticism, focus and leadership. Rest in peace Wendy, you will be missed dearly.
Posted by Ellen L-NJ on 10th November 2014
Hi Matt, Chloe, Katlie - I am so very sorry for your loss. I raced with your Mom in a dragon boat. She was a cool teammate. From the photos, I can see she was a cool and loving MOM too. I will miss her too.
Posted by Zi Zhang on 9th November 2014
Matt, i don't really know what to say or write. All i can say at this moment is that, we lost a bright spirit who had so much to give. We lost not just your wife, but a mother, a daughter, a friend and a sister to us all. i hope, in time all the good and loving memories will comfort you and your family. my heart goes out to you.
Posted by Lan Chen on 9th November 2014
Dear Wendy, I will always remember the way you took care of me when we were in London and I used the wrong eye drops. I will always remember the day Kylie's water broke and I was terrified and you were not. I will always remember how much you like Poppey's and Charlyes - maybe those were the only choices we had but you enjoyed them. You made the best of everything even when you were down. I will miss you terribly and my heart aches for your beautiful girls, and caring husband. I hope you are in a better place where the world is as you pictured it in your artwork - light, full of blooms, and happy.
Posted by Alex Yang on 9th November 2014
Matt, So very, sorry for your loss and I'm absolutely speechless at this moment. You and your family are in our prayers. Our deepest condolences to you and the girls...
Posted by Gil Diaz on 9th November 2014
Dear Matt, I've been struggling what to write to you and Wendy these past few days since Susie told me. Wendy has been in my life exactly as long as Susie and as such been like a sister to me, especially Susie. She'd tease me all the time about how I followed Susie when we first met just as I would tease her when she was all eyes for you. When you first appeared to the dragon boat meets you can see her glow every time you both were together. It was Wendy & Matt in the making. True love since the start :) Over the years I've enjoyed Wendy's company on our early meets to row. She was always upbeat, caring, thoughtful, loving, strong and striving to be the best she can be. Never spoke badly of anyone and would always encouraged others to aim high. We have not seen each other over the last few years which saddens me deeply because I would have loved to seen her with you and the girls. I am extremely saddened she has left us so soon and look forward to catching up with her in the next life. My deepest condolences to you, Chloe, Kylie and family. I look forward to seeing you and the girls shortly to celebrate the life of our beloved Wendy Love, Gil & Susie Diaz
Posted by Anna Woo-Chan on 8th November 2014
Wendy and my sister Carol have known each other since JHS. They have been great friends being there for each other thru life's ups and downs. I have seen my sister's friends come and go but their friendship stood the test of time. I did not have the pleasure to truly get to know Wendy in person but the adventures they went thru together were fun, crazy and hilarious enough for me to know my sister and Wendy were truly great buds. I have come to know Wendy as an adventurous, courageous, dedicated, caring and loving woman. She has left us way too soon and unexpected. But I am grateful for her presence while she was here because she has left an impact on the lives she has touched. It is comforting to know that true friendships are hard to come by but they do exist. She will be greatly missed but forever be in our hearts. My deepest sympathies to Matt, Chloe, Kylie and families.
Posted by Cin Phu on 8th November 2014
Dear Matt, I'm really shocked, saddened, and speechless to hear the sweetest Wendy had left us and this world so soon. So many sad news came within these couple years among our dragon boat friends and it's really upsetting. These were the young, active and most athletic friends that i knew. Why? How???? So much good memories we had together at "Rebels" and the day that you both met that i will never forget. So special, precious and there is no words that I can describe about our sweet Wendy. She was an amazing, truly remarkable person. Even though our friendship had drifted apart for so many years, but you both are always in my heart and mind. Wendy, with your graceful and beautiful heart and mind, you will be missed so dearly. Matt, stay strong and don't forget that we are all here for you if you ever need a shoulder to cry on. Take care Matt, Chloe and Kylie. With deepest condolences to you and family. Cindy & family
Posted by Ermy Susilo on 8th November 2014
Wendy Wong- we had been working together for a short 1 year, eventho its so short she made it so beautiful, fun, meaningful, and very much memorable. She was a great person with an amazing personality, tough and strong yet so caring and loving. She was very positive, never got angry, never took offense and always throw the best jokes. She always made everyone laughing so hard at our little corner. She made life at work so much easier to deal with. She always had so much to give. The effort she made to connect and bring people together was phenomenal. In such a short time i learnt so many valueable life lessons through you, Wendy Wong. Thank you for being part of mylife. I feel blessed to have known such a good person. I miss you alot. Much love to the the family she left behind, her husband, daughters, mother and sisters- we always heard amazing stories about you. Matt, Chloe & Kylie - your wife and your mother was really truly a wonderful woman. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. God bless her beautiful soul, Rest in Peace Wendy.
Posted by Li Lin on 8th November 2014
Wendy is the best person I ever met. She has a great heart always warm up people around her. Wendy is a remarkable woman, a great wife and mom. I will miss her forever. She always told me that family is the most important no matter what and taught me how to be a better mom. I believe her spirit will always be here with her family and guard two little kids. Matt, I am so sorry for this bad new. But I believe Wendy doesn't want to see your sadness. She will want you to move on and live well with the kids. She will always live in our hearts.
Posted by HK Yang on 7th November 2014
I will always remember Wendy as kind and so easy to be around. Never judging, just accepting you for who you were. Always encouraging. Matt, I use to run into Wendy around where we worked on 32nd Street and I remember she always had encouraging words for me when I use to complain about my work situation. Seeing a familiar, understanding face during a tough work week was such a rare treat. I am truly saddened by her passing. She will be so missed. My family and I keep you and yours in our prayers.
Posted by Jimmy Tran on 7th November 2014
Matt, Chloe and Kylie We are very sorry to hear about the loss of your wife, life long partner, Wendy. We can’t begin to imagine what you are feeling. Please accept our deepest heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Your family is surrounded by the love of many. My family extends to you our deepest sympathies, Jimmy and Katie”
Posted by Michael Demler on 7th November 2014
Wendy was an amazing person who always brought a smile to my face. A Happy positive soul who loved her Family dearly.
Posted by Adrienne Kilin on 7th November 2014
Dear Matt, My deepest condolences to you and your family.
Posted by Ann Huie on 7th November 2014
Matt, So completely shocked and saddened to hear about this. You and the girls are in our thoughts. Wendy's generous and lovely smile will be missed by all.
Posted by Amy Chen on 7th November 2014
Dear Matt, My deepest condolences to you and your loved ones. Sending you and your family positive thoughts and healing energy. RIP Wendy.
Posted by Helen Lue on 6th November 2014
Matt, I am so sorry for your loss. This is completely shocking and stunning news. Find solace and strength through your memories together. Chloe and Kylie will live vicariously through you in remembering Wendy. Wendy left us too soon. I am sad and speechless.
Posted by Linda Chiu on 6th November 2014
Dear Wendy, I did not know you that well though I counted you as a dear childhood friend and 'family' because we shared the same stomping grounds (Chinatown, elementary and JHS) and mutual friends. I remember you as a confident, strong individual (even as a child) with amazing artistic abilities. I also admire your physical abilities knowing your passion in the dragon boat races. It is with heavy heart that I hear of this news. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends. God be with you and rest in peace, Wendy. Always, Linda
Posted by Pele Tran on 6th November 2014
Chloe and Kylie, We were deeply saddened to hear of your mommy's passing. It was a shock to all of us. I think that the loss of one's mother is by far the saddest event of anyone's lifetime. We join in with everyone who knew your mom in wishing you both peace and comfort as you two face this very sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you both and your wonderful family. In Sympathy, Tru and Pele
Posted by Pat Worms on 6th November 2014
Posted by Pat Worms on 6th November 2014
So very sorry for your loss. Wendy , REST in the ARMS of God FORGIVE. Amen

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