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New Update 2016-11-30

Burial Service was held as planned.

 

New Update 2016-11-29

Funeral Service was held as planned.
     

New Update 2016-11-28

Funeral Service Flyer is Posted

      Please see His Life tab on this site for the funeral service flyer.

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 New Update 2016-11-21

Services dates changed

      The dates for memorial service and burial service have changed. Below is finaled information:

Memorial service and burial service information

Memorial service

      Fremont Memorial Chapel: 3723 Peralta Blvd, Fremont, CA 94536
      Tuesday Nov,29, Viewing will start at 9:30 followed by the memorial service at 11:30 am. It will end at about 1 pm. For those will attend memorial service, please arrive prior to 11:15 am for sign in processing. The memorial service will start at 11:30am on time.

Burial service:

      Oak Hill Cemetery: 300 Curtner Avenue, San Jose, CA 95125    
      Wednesday Nov.30 11:30am.

All friends are welcome to attend the events, and share your expeince and memory of Tony on the memorial service in any format: speak, singing. Optionally you can send us the speech summary in advance to allenliu2000@gmail.com.

Also welcome volunteers for the events. Need help on usherings, photographings, etc.

Please visit this website regualarly to get updated information.

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小平不幸在11月12日因病离世,我们全班同学深感震惊和悲伤,最近见过他的同学都觉得他的状态很好,看不出任何问题。大家很难接受这个事实。

各位朋友和同学(不限于高一同学),请在此分享对小平的追思和回忆,以及过去的照片视频等。也可以将照片文档发给 allenliu2000@gmail.com ,管理员会把照片文档上传。任何问题也请联系这个邮件地址。

November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
怀念小平

听到噩耗,先是震惊,再是悲伤,一夜未眠。离校二十余年,我们竟不再相逢。清华同窗十二栽,小平的音容笑貌,历历在目。小平,我们怀念你!

小平,你是一位智慧的良师。那年,我们在十饭厅的婚礼,就是你手拿圣经主持的。虽然当时是演戏,却预示着未来。多少次,我们的婚姻几乎进入绝境,每一次,都是圣经的话语,引领我们回到自己当初的誓言。

小平,你是一位难得的益友。我们经历高峰,低谷,在学习上,在生活中,你总是相伴左右。没有太多的话,却给人温暖,鼓励。

小平,你是一位铮铮铁汉。记得那场暴乱,动乱,风波,在最关键的时候,你默默的身影,是大家的定心丸。后续过程中,你的沉默与平和,给大家莫大的安慰。

小平,你是一位坚定的战友。在许多人饱受导师刁难,苦不勘言时,你的忍耐,坚韧,是大家学习的榜样。

小平,你是一位不倒的酒友。在十五宿舍,多少次聚会,人们纷纷醉倒,口吐狂言,你却总是坚持到底,从不失态。一定有什么秘密武器,可惜现在发掘不到了。

小平,你是一位勇敢的男高音。你的嗓音,班上第一。你的勇敢,更让人钦佩!当我们顾及面子,不敢上前时,你的沉着稳定,是我们的顶梁柱。当然,你个子也比大家高。

小平,你是一位风趣的牌友。无论是麻将,桥牌,还是“三仙”,你偶而的着急红脸,甚至口吃,给大家带来亲切,快乐!

小平,你是一位和平的使者。每天中午,大家从食堂飞奔回宿舍,抢占牌桌时,长腿的你总能占据一席。但是每次看到旁边有人手痒难奈时,你总能欣然让出你的宝座。

小平,你是一位热心的兄弟。每天深夜,大家从实验室回到一号楼,当“三缺三”,“四缺二”,“五缺一”的呼声在楼道响起,即使已经进被窝的你,也会爬起来,披挂上阵,让大家心里暖和和的。

小平,你给大伙留下的美好记忆,实在太多太多。我们会永远怀念你!

想跟嫂子和孩子们说,你们失去亲人的悲痛,我们深深理解,因为我们也有同样的感受。

小平,神现在接你去,因为你已经打完那美好的仗,完成了地上的工,可以安息了。

我们尚存留在世的,看着遍地的庄稼熟了,神在呼唤:“我的工人在哪里?”,我们应该挺身而出:“我在这里!”

有一首诗歌“亲爱主,牵我手”是我常常哼唱,也希望在我的追思礼拜上播放的,现在献给你,我们的小平!

亲爱主,牵我手:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMoFwAz6I58
亲爱主,牵我手,建立我,领我走,我疲倦,我软弱,我苦楚,
经风暴,过黑夜,求领我,进光明,亲爱主,牵我手,到天庭。
我道路,虽凄凉,主临近,慰忧伤,我在世,快打完,美好仗,
听我求,听我祷,拉我手。防跌倒,亲爱主,牵我手,常引导。

刘可
2016年11月16日
加拿大,伦敦市
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
小平,真没想到你走的这么早!痛伤心之最!虽然多年没联系,你的身影却依然如旧。大学时纯真纯朴的我们,亲切的感情永远不会忘记和磨灭!好走,安息……
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
小平一路走好。真没想到再也见不到你了,上学时候的高大帅气的形象还在脑海里。记得98年前后在硅谷见过一面,我手表电池没电了,你带我去沃尔玛换电池,发现买一块手表很合算,就买了一块便宜表,解决了我的大问题。本来今年春节在硅谷能见你一面,结果聚会时间改来改去没见成,当时通了电话,感觉好好的,希望不久后还有机会见面。没想到成了终身遗憾。小平安息,我们都非常想你。
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
小平离开我们四天了,从开始的震惊,到后来的悲伤,心里始终不能平静,难以接受这个事实。两个月前劳工节,还一起聚会喝酒;两个星期前,还互通电话,没有感到任何异样。我与小平同级同乡,从本科相识到现在,三十多年,交往频繁。小平性格成稳平和,为人忠厚善良,相处受益良多。

小平,一路走好
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
我和tony是在两年半前他加入公司认识的,tony为人和蔼可亲,遇到问题从来都是耐心解决,他是技术大牛但却非常谦虚。听到tony过世的消息我真的不敢相信,所有的同事都很震惊,tony的口碑非常好,工作认真努力,总是解决最难的问题,也乐于助人,热心帮助其他同事,解答同事的问题,大家对他的印象都很好。从tony身上我学到很多,他的离去真的是太可惜了,tony 一路走好!
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
代孙保民上传

小平,2016年11月16号的中午时分估计会是铭刻我终生的时刻!因给孩子搬家,我刚到出八高上北五环的收费站,缴费前我不知怎么就鬼使神差的将手机从裤兜里掏了出来,出收费站不到一分钟,就接到阿潮打来的电话告知我这惊人的消息!我震惊的不知所以!尽管忙碌了一天,我却失眠了,你的音容笑貌总是在我眼前浮现!我们在一起的点点滴滴又那么清晰的出现在了我的眼前!
可记得:在十五宿舍楼下那简易的羽毛球场我们练的不惧4、5级风,练的个个眼睛里都有了红外线!可记得:晚上敲三家钻桌子因你个大又要纵向钻,你每次都准备上一盆水,手脚着地地钻完需洗手后才能接着打。可记得:博士几年每天的中晚餐大家多聚到我的宿舍,那时每天大家两次聚餐!可记得:你的新婚大喜,是咱们这帮哥们、姐们给你操办,新房就是我那简陋的宿舍,虽简但却热闹非凡!可记得:你、我、云柯咱们仨人聊天,我说你本质是个内向的人,云柯大;笑说小平要是内向那这世上就没外向的人了,你却很认同我的观点。小平你善良有余,豁达却有些不足。你的英年早逝,与你这一点可能也不无相关。可记得:你每次回国都要和我联系,我召集这帮哥们咱们共话当年!(也是咱们有缘,前些年你回国很勤,我也正是项目多的时候,全国各地到处跑,可你每次回来,我都正好在京)可记得:每年大年三十十二点,我的手机都会准时响起,不管显示的什么号码,但传来的每次都是你小平给我拜年的声音! 我不能再这么多的记得,我的身心都已经不能承受......


保民
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
Tony 是我在公司认识的第一位老中。 热情开朗,乐于助人。常常在上班路上看到他步行锻炼的身影。“早, James", ”Happy Friday!", “明天是Holiday 不上班”, “明天公司有lunch“ 都是他温暖的问候,提醒。苍天不公啊,怎么会让这么一个好人就这样葱葱地离开我们,,,
一路走好, Tony.
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
小平兄:

同窗共读十一载,
音容笑貌在眼前。
忽闻噩耗心悲恸,
一路走好永怀念。

本政和大春
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
代王永刚上传

雨夜,赫尔辛基

二点多飞抵赫尔辛基,三点四十五太阳就落山了。晚饭后,踟蹰街头,两周前的初雪仍未消融,靡靡细雨加重了路上的泥泞。这本来就是一个可以用脚来丈量的城市,三三两两的行人更加剧了冬日的孤寂。白教堂、红教堂、大码头……光怪陆离,亦幻亦真。偶然看一眼微信,一位八一级同窗溘然去世的消息使周围的一切失去了色彩。那是一位高高瘦瘦戴着近视镜的书生,言语不多却笑声朗朗,喝水必持一特大号搪瓷缸。十五宿舍前简陋的羽毛球场,活跃着他奋力救球却往往差之毫厘的身影,三杯啤酒下肚即脸红激奋,兴致昂扬。因曾做过我夫人的辅导员,尝逼我叫他老师,自然是空陶醉一场。而今却殊为憾事,道一声:老师,一路走好!谨以此文悼念11月12日仙去的清华大学1981级同窗王小平同学

永刚
November 16, 2016
November 16, 2016
小平,听到消息后的那天半夜,突然就惊醒了,以为做了个梦。一查手机,和红军的通话记录明明白白地在那里。晚上给十五宿舍的朋友发消息,我想看到后肯定有人觉得我开了一个不恰当的玩笑。

今生有幸与你相识。因为你天生的亲和力,你的大度、热情、诚恳,你出现的地方总是充满欢声笑语。读博士的几年是清贫的几年,但也是今生最快乐的几年。其中有多少快乐是因为你的出现!好像我们总有大把的时间打羽毛球,喝啤酒,打三先。你打反手球如大鹏展翅般的英姿历历在目。喝大瓶啤酒占优势是因为你的容量大啊!当时我们戏谑惯了,少不了开你的玩笑,你从来哈哈一笑,和我们同样快乐。

弟兄们在十五宿舍那么简陋的条件下给你办了婚礼,留下了在门口的那张照片。想来你的发型是我和你一起去照澜院找了一个认识的师傅理的。理完后你捧出一把喜糖散发。

后来在一号楼弟兄们给我办婚礼,你是理所当然的主闹。站到凳子上让点烟,还要仰脸朝天,你那么高,不易啊!

将近二十五年没见过面了。现在想来唯一的好处,是脑子里还是你当时的样子,你的未语先笑的笑脸。对我来说,你没有离开,只是去了远方。

旭亭
November 15, 2016
November 15, 2016
小平,简直不敢相信你就已经走了!祝你一路走好。我们永远怀念你。周红
November 15, 2016
November 15, 2016
小平,我们会永远记住你年轻的样子。 祝你安息!
November 15, 2016
November 15, 2016
惊悉小平走了,万分悲痛!读博的时候, 我们同住15宿舍三楼,小平的勤奋正直善良,以及任劳任怨和乐于助人的品行给我留下非常深的印象。这么好的一个人,怎么说走就走了呢。小平, 一路走好!
November 15, 2016
November 15, 2016
小平的助学金当初好像是20元,他完全靠这点钱学习和生活,吃的饭经常是米饭就咸菜。但他一直乐于助人,同学中有学习吃力的找他请教,他都热心帮助,生活和班里的事情无论大事小情都毫无怨言地承担,从他身上我看到了中华民族的传统美德,吃苦耐劳用在他身上在合适不过,永远想念你,小平![蜡烛]
November 15, 2016
November 15, 2016
作为小平的同学和朋友,得到这个消息时感到万分悲痛和震惊。直到現在心情還無法平復。在学校时和小平一起博士毕业。当年在学校度过的时光至今还历历在目。到湾区后我们几个同学和朋友每年差不多每个长周末都会聚在一起。两个月前还在一起聚会。小平非常乐于助人,你能感觉到他发自内心的热情。此时言语已无法表达悲痛的心情。

小平一路走好!
November 15, 2016
November 15, 2016
英年早逝,噩耗传来,万分震惊悲痛。小平是我们清华高1班的老班长,绝对的品学兼优。他数学超牛,很多同学都得益于他的无私帮助。生活中小平乐于助人,哪里需要帮助哪里就可以看到他的身影。这么好的一个人突然就走了,我-直都不愿意相信这是真的。千言万语也表达不了我的悲痛之心、愐怀之情。小平一路走好!
November 15, 2016
November 15, 2016
小平,我们永远怀念你。一路走好......
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Today I am searching one of the most talent, humble, kind and considerate classmate, Xiao Ping, via google, very saddened by this awful page. It takes me long time to believe you leave us forever. Wish you rest in peace in heaven. I am not socially active person, however we exchanged wish during the end or beginning of new year occasionally via MSN messanger. During the Chinese new year of 2016, I have received your Skype call, I am very excited by the first call from you after the graduation. During the call, we talked good time during dianyan6, your children and Wuhan hometown, then say good bye. I have never never thought anything related to your health. In my mind, you are very discipline and exercise as habit, use very cold ice water to take shower during winter in Tsing Hua. you should have no problem at all. It was first call, but last call as well. In the new year of 2017, I Skype you with wish, but no reply. I thought you may go to your home town and very busy....very sorry for us to lose very good man, Xiao Ping.....
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Rest in Peace

December 5, 2016

In loving memory of Tony Wang
Thanks for all you've done
We can't believe you're gone
You were our shifu, our brother and our dearest friend
Smiling down on us as you always do
We will carry the memories that remind us of you
And even though you're gone
You will always be in our hearts

Tony was our shifu because we looked up to him with much respect of his work ethics and experience to resolve difficult problems.
He was always the one work on memory leaks, random core crashes or new algorithms.
We called him shifu also because he was master of daily routines.
Always early to work, always exercising, always with a cup of Chinese tea, always greeting co-workers in their native languages
(Spanish, Filipino, Vietnamese) and always taking lunch walks rain or shine.

Tony was a brother to us. One day he invited some of us to his home at lunch time to eat his home made dumplings.
I couldn't forget the smile on his face while he watched us eating and told us how he made those dumplings from scratch. One time
Tony asked Stephen if he had some working gloves.
Stephen said "sure I have a pair, but what for?" His hands were sore because he had to level out a two feet of sidewalk that a city
tree had started to uproot on the side of his house.
His home insurance assessor said it was a liability. Tony only used a screwdriver and hammer to break down the concrete and he hauled
the concrete in his pickup truck to the Milpitas landfill all by himself. We were all so amazed at Tony.

Tony was our dearest friend who was always there to help. At work, Tony was always so patient even when we asked him some very basic
technical questions. He always explained everything in details without any holding back. When I joked "now I believe you are a true PhD!",
he would reply with a big smile "Do you know I got every possible degrees from Tsinghua university?". Tony had the greatest sense of humor
and that laugh of Tony's will be missed. Off work, Tony helped many of us transport furnitures or oversized stuff with his signature pickup truck
which reflects his personality perfectly - calm, humble, down to earth, a man with few words but a big heart.

We will forever keep those memories with us, Thank you Tony! So as we sit here and mourn the loss of our beloved friend Tony,
we have to keep telling ourselves that we will meet again.

Rest in Peace, Tony!

Family Dedicated

December 3, 2016

Tony and I worked together at Harmonic starting 10 years ago.  He would quietly work on all the problems he was assigned - very diligent and clever, he always came up with good results.  Even if the job was not the most exciting, he realized the importance of the work, so never complained about this so he could get another assignment.

But Tony was thinking about his family - everything he did was for them.  The clothes he wore sometimes looked funny, and we would joke with him that maybe he bought the clothes at a thrift shop, because he was so cheap.  Always brought his lunch to work, since he was so cheap.  But he did all this to save money for his family.  He wanted to keep paying off the mortgage, make sure he had funds for college for his girls.  Plus, he like doing everything himself.  Lots of home projects that Tony would figure out himself, so he would not have to pay someone else to do.  I am also cheap, so I also try to do this, and Tony and I would compare notes.  How to build the deck, how to install a fan in the house - when you do this yourself the first time, it does not always come out so well, but Tony kept at it, and every Monday we would hear about the weekend project.

I am very sorry for Tony's family that they lost him so soon, but I am sure they know that Tony loved them very much. 

Sifu

November 27, 2016

Here are few memories and moments I have of Ton

-He was someone I looked up to with much respect of their work ethics.  Very hard working coworker, who often was assign tasks that were difficult to resolved, such as memory leaks in the encoders and random core crashes.

-I often called him Sifu because he was master of daily routines.  Always early to work, always exercising, always with a cup of Chinese tea, always greeting co-workers in their native language (Spanish, Filipino, Vietnamese) and always taking lunch walks.

It was during our lunch walks my admiration for Tony grew.  We often exchanged jokes stories during our walk which were very funny coming from Tony. His laugh was affectiuos. 

One time Tony asked if I had some working gloves.  I said sure I have a pair, but what for? His hands were sore because he had to level out a two feet of sidewalk that a city tree had started to uproot on the side of his house.  His home insurance assessor said it was a liability.

Tony only used a screwdriver and hammer to break down the concrete and he hauled the concrete in his pickup to the Milpitas landfill all by himself.

I was just amazed at Tony.

I knew this guy would not let any obstacles get in his way. He was always determine.

I will forever keep those memories with me. Thank you Tony!

Rest in peace.

Stephen Yap

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