A Man who Found the silver lining in the darkest times.
April 4, 2022
The Sunday, the African Cup of Nations was about to start, all the vuvuzelas all around Yaoundé could be heard, and of course daddy could hear them. When I walked into the hospital room, nothing could have prepared me for what I saw. My heart fell to my stomach and I felt like I could not breathe because it was all too real that you were REALLY SICK! You first said to me "Do you see why good health is important?" (always trying to teach something) or at least you tried to say it because you barely had strength to speak through the CPAP, and I nodded YES! Every breathe came with a great deal of struggle and it broke me, because that is the most energetic man I know. If it broke me, I cannot imagine what it was doing to you mentally cause I know you were fighting! As I stood there observing you, in the silence, we could hear your CPAP making a vibrating sound that sounded a lot like, one of the many vuvuzelas blowing that day.
You looked up at me and said "They have given me my own vuvuzela" We could not hold it in, and we both laughed. I know that is where Eric and I get our humor from. That evening, I wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and sent you a text that said "Laughing with your parents is such a precious moment." and it truly is. I just hope you know I adored you like crazy even though you could talk my ears off. I truly loved and admired you because you shaped and molded me most.
You looked up at me and said "They have given me my own vuvuzela" We could not hold it in, and we both laughed. I know that is where Eric and I get our humor from. That evening, I wanted to let you know I was thinking about you and sent you a text that said "Laughing with your parents is such a precious moment." and it truly is. I just hope you know I adored you like crazy even though you could talk my ears off. I truly loved and admired you because you shaped and molded me most.