To live in the hearts, we leave behind...
is not to die .
This memorial website was created in the memory of our dearest loved one, Abhijeet Singh, 19, born on March 7, 1992 and passed away on August 10, 2011. We miss you from our life and the big vaccumm you have created can be filled by none.I wish you knew how much you were loved.
Abhijeet was persuing Mechanical Enginneering from Manipal University. He was a strapping young man, 6 feet in height and an endearing smiling face. He was gregarious, fun and outdoors loving person who just loved to be in company of his friends.He was fond of trekking, mountain climbing, Squash, and football. He was also very fond of clicking photographs and getting clicked.He was very fond of gadgets and new gizmos like any other teenager.He was fond of all things manly like motor bikes, guns, tanks submarines, fighter lanes, and other military paraphrenalia.
His passion was ' Flying.'.. fighter aircrafts... so much so that I assume that in his last incarnation he must have been a fighter pilot. His passion was to soar in heavens. His only aim in life was to join Indian Air Force after his enginnering degree.He would have flown Sukhois and that would have been the happiest times in his life. If only God willed....
Abhijeet was a caring loving son and a great elder brother to Abhishek. He was a role model and an ideal for his younger brother. He is greatly missed as a grand son and nephew and as a great buddy to his numerous friends. Abhijeet had moved frequently with his family and had learned to make friends fast. Naturally humble, and blessed with a jovial personality and wonderful sense of humor, people were quickly drawn to him.Wherever he went, he spread good cheer and sprinkled life and zest with his great sense of hiumour.How polite, compassionate and incredibly funny he was. He oozed maturity way beyond his years.Never did he ever utter a disparaging remark or critical word for anybody. He was the most compassionate and nonjudgemental person I have ever known.
As a tale, so is life ; not how long it is , but how good it is , what matters.
We lost Abhijeet on 10 August 2011. He had gone for a swim in the Arabian sea with his friend Jana Kish. Both of them entered the sea around 3.o clock in the afternoon, never to come out again. And we were left with this deep stabbing pain in the heart and a with a big question in the mind for the Almighty to answer-WHY?
Why was life snuffed out of a person so full of life and love for life? Why one of us is taken while the rest of us remain to endure the pain? For there are just so many things that no one can explain. The most painful goodbye was bid to him on 13th August and up went in flames our hope, dreams and future imagined for him.
Abhijeet,we have you in our hearts while God has you in his arms. You have left your footprints on our hearts , and we will never be the same again. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
WHERE LOVE IS , DEATH CAN NEVER BE THE END OF THE STORY. YOU are MY forever CHILD.
Life is eternal, and love is immortal,and death is only a horizon;
and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.
My son is not my PAST.HE IS MY FUTURE. We do not stop carrying those we love in our hearts and minds because we can't see or touch them. Their memories remain alive as an active part of our lives. Honoring memories is about preserving the gifts of love God allowed to grace our lives with on this earth. It's a holy love that dwells in the places carved inside our hearts by love itself. It's part of the reason we are Who we are.
This site is still in the process of construction. Please visit it again soon. And please do write something to let me know you were here to celebrate the living spirit of my Son.
Ishq mujhe tujhse hee nahi , tere hone se bhi ha
Happy new year to you . May you always be surrounded by love and peace, wherever you are .
*_There is no visible or tangible connection binding the Earth to the Sun. But the relationship between the two is unquestionable! Is it not?_*
*_It matters not if you cannot touch or hold something that your life depends upon. Life does not end because the Earth cannot touch or hold the Sun . Instead the reason that life goes on is because the Earth is touched by the Sun - each day, every day! A phenomenon that will continue till the end of eternity
Just like you and me
The 20’s will start soon . I will though keep wondering what you would have been today
It was your kind of festival. You loved this time of the year .
Have a great time up there . Sending you tons of love .
Tum sab jaante ho
It is your bro ‘s birthday tomorrow
He will be 24 tomorrow .
Plse always ensure that he is safe and sound . Protect him from anything which is dark and negative.
Love you so much my baby . See you sooner than later .
It says YOUR CALL CANOT BE CONNECTED AT THE MOMENT.PLEASE TRY AFTER SOME TIME .
So when should I call again?
Sometimes I turn to look back to find you ,
With thought that I would like to share
Forever
I will miss you forever
I will speak your name forever
I will remember you forever
I will carry you in my heart forever.
All the growing up years
From a cute lil bundle of joy to the young and handsome.
The mental picture of you lying on the beach is still so strong though .
Sending you love . Loads .
Miss you always and every time my son . God bless you wherever you are
You will always stay forever in our hearts
Tum juda hee tab hue jab drakhto ke haath bhi khali the
Happy Valentine’s Day
May you always find real love wherever you are
This decade is over . You were there in this decade till Aug 2011 . Now I don’t know any other decade left for me , but what I know for sure is that you will never be in that. This finality is fills me with despair and fresh awareness of your absence
My love for you will never die. I shall always keep you alive in my heart . I shall never stop missing you . Wish you a very happy new year . One more year without you here is finally over . You were and always live in my heart
Love you baby.. Hugs
Last night Hephaistus came to me in a dream
And said, Give me your heart
Since you suffer so, I will make it stronger
In the foundry of the gods
Melted, beaten, welded just so
Hardened to perfection
So that you feel no more
The things that torment you so.
I sat for awhile, heeding Hephaistus's advice
Who was I to let it go
Words of the mighty
Those in the know.
And then I saw a mother weeping
For her child forever gone, forever sleeping
And I turned my back on the blacksmith's prowess
To relieve me of all stress and duress
I would rather be split wide open
Torn asunder and broken
To feel a mother's pain
To know that a life gone, was not in vain
To hold a hand and be a comfort
Than be a stone, in a human cast
All feelings gone, an outer shell
Just a cast.
I would rather be light, and love and joy
And all that was in you, my boy
While you were living, and my heart was singing
I would rather be that song, the lyrics
Which I carried in my heart, the day you were born.
I See the moon .and the moon sees me,
And the moon sees the one I long to see,
God bless the moon and God bless me
And God bless the person I long to see ...
I miss our conversations so much my baby . I miss your sparkling smile . I miss you in every way that I cannot express.
I choose to hold you in my dreams...
For in my dreams, you have no end...
Hugs
For in silence I find no rejection,
I choose to Love you in loneliness...
For in loneliness no one owns you but me,
I choose to adore you from a distance...
For distance will shield me from pain,
I choose to kiss you in the wind...
For the wind is gentler than my lips,
I choose to hold you in my dreams...
For in my dreams, you have no end...
_*RUMI*_
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You and I are together...the 'forever' kind of together.
Just because we are together, does not mean we have to constantly exchange words, touch or sight. There isn't always a purpose, an agenda behind being together. It is enough just 'being' together!
You may think I do not hear you, but I listen. You may feel I do not look at you, but I never lose sight of you. I don't touch you but I hold you every moment. It is this kind of togetherness that matters. The forever kind of togetherness.
Yes! You and I are together...the 'forever' kind of together.