ForeverMissed

 

 

 

To live in the hearts, we leave behind...

is not to die .

 

This memorial website was created in the memory of our dearest loved one, Abhijeet Singh, 19, born on March 7, 1992 and passed away on August 10, 2011. We  miss you from  our life and the big vaccumm you have created can be filled by none.I wish you knew how much you were loved.

Abhijeet  was persuing Mechanical Enginneering  from Manipal University. He was a strapping young man, 6 feet in height and an endearing smiling face. He was gregarious, fun and outdoors loving person who just loved to be in company of his friends.He was fond of trekking,  mountain climbing, Squash, and football. He was also very fond of clicking photographs and getting clicked.He was very fond of gadgets and new gizmos like any other teenager.He was fond of all things manly like motor bikes, guns, tanks  submarines,  fighter lanes, and other military paraphrenalia.

 His passion was ' Flying.'.. fighter aircrafts... so much so that I assume that in his last incarnation he must have been a fighter pilot. His passion was to soar in heavens. His only aim in life was to join Indian Air Force after his enginnering degree.He would have flown Sukhois and that would have been the happiest times in his life. If only God willed...

Abhijeet was a caring  loving son and a great elder brother to Abhishek. He was a role model and an ideal for his younger brother. He is greatly missed as a grand son and nephew and  as a great buddy to his numerous friends.  Abhijeet had moved frequently with his family and had learned to make friends fast. Naturally humble, and blessed with a jovial personality and wonderful sense of humor, people were quickly drawn to him.Wherever he went, he spread good cheer and sprinkled life and zest with his great sense of hiumour.How polite, compassionate and incredibly funny he was. He oozed maturity way beyond his years.Never did he ever utter a disparaging remark or critical word for anybody. He was the most compassionate and nonjudgemental person I have ever known.


   As a tale,  so is life ; not how long it is , but how good it is , what matters. 

We lost Abhijeet on 10 August 2011. He had gone for a swim in the Arabian sea with his friend Jana Kish. Both of them entered the sea around 3.o clock in the afternoon, never to come out again. And we were left with this deep stabbing pain in the heart and a with a  big question in the mind for the Almighty to answer-WHY?

Why was life snuffed out of a person so full of life and love for life? Why one of us is taken while the rest of us remain to endure the pain? For there are just so many things that no one can explain. The most painful goodbye was bid to him on 13th August and up  went in flames our hope, dreams and future imagined for him.

Abhijeet,we have you in our hearts while God has you in his arms. You have left your footprints on our hearts , and we will never be the same again. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.

WHERE LOVE IS , DEATH CAN NEVER BE THE END OF THE STORY.  YOU are MY forever CHILD.

 Life is eternal, and love is immortal,and death is only a horizon;
and a horizon is nothing save the limit of our sight.

My son is not my PAST.HE IS MY FUTURE. We do not stop carrying those we love in our hearts and minds because we can't see or touch them. Their memories remain alive as an active part of our lives. Honoring memories is about preserving the gifts of love God allowed to grace our lives with on this earth. It's a holy love that dwells in the places carved inside our  hearts by love itself. It's part of the reason we are Who we are.

This  site is  still in the process of construction. Please visit  it  again soon. And please do write something to let me know you were here to celebrate the  living spirit of my Son.

Posted by ENU SINGH on January 15, 2021
I loved you with the utmost love of which my soul is capable and you have been taken from me - yet in the agony of my spirit in surrendering such a treasure, I feel a thousand times richer than if I had never possessed it.
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 4, 2021
My mind still talks to you .My heart still looks for you , but my soul knows you are at peace . I miss you every single day .
Posted by Cindy Baumann on December 31, 2020
Enu,

The tribute you posted on December 27th was so beautiful and true.
God Bless
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 31, 2020
Mujhe rahega intzaar tamam umr tera .
Ishq mujhe tujhse hee nahi , tere hone se bhi ha

Happy new year to you . May you always be surrounded by love and peace, wherever you are .
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 27, 2020
*_The Earth does not cradle the Sun in her arms nor hold Him tight against her chest. in fact the Earth does not even touch the Sun! And yet, all life on Earth happens because of the Sun._*

*_There is no visible or tangible connection binding the Earth to the Sun. But the relationship between the two is unquestionable! Is it not?_*

*_It matters not if you cannot touch or hold something that your life depends upon. Life does not end because the Earth cannot touch or hold the Sun . Instead the reason that life goes on is because the Earth is touched by the Sun - each day, every day! A phenomenon that will continue till the end of eternity

Just like you and me
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 26, 2020
You were part of this decade which will soon be over .
The 20’s will start soon . I will though keep wondering what you would have been today
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 25, 2020
Merry Christmas to you
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 24, 2020
Merry Christmas my baby love
It was your kind of festival. You loved this time of the year .
Have a great time up there . Sending you tons of love .
Posted by ENU SINGH on November 1, 2020
Kya kahu ?
Tum sab jaante ho
It is your bro ‘s birthday tomorrow
He will be 24 tomorrow .
Plse always ensure that he is safe and sound . Protect him from anything which is dark and negative.
Love you so much my baby . See you sooner than later .
Posted by ENU SINGH on September 27, 2020
I called you
It says YOUR CALL CANOT BE CONNECTED AT THE MOMENT.PLEASE TRY AFTER SOME TIME .
So when should I call again?
Posted by ENU SINGH on September 26, 2020
It has settled deep under my skin, into my bones
the love
the loss
the joy
the pain
Posted by Enu Singh on September 4, 2020
I was looking at the family pics today and still it has not yet sunk in that you will never be part of the pics again . Wish the pics were complete with your presence .
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 19, 2020
Sometimes I canot find a reason why you are not there
Sometimes I turn to look back to find you ,
With thought that I would like to share
Posted by Vanda Bubear on August 12, 2020
Always in my thoughts. I wonder what you are making of this world today, and the dreadful state it's in? Look after your mum and family and show her lots of signs. I will meet you one day xxxx
Posted by Cindy Baumann on August 10, 2020
Thinking about you Enu and sending a hug and healing prayers.
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 9, 2020
I will always talk about how you brought that specialness to my life
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 9, 2020
I wish I could hug you and keep hugging you till my soul melted with tears.
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 1, 2020
Zikr tera hawaon se jab bhi kiya karte hai...
Yaado me teri khushbu ka hum Ehsaas karte hai !!!!
Posted by ENU SINGH on July 30, 2020
Door Hokar Bhi Door Tum Nahi Ho ..... ‍❤️‍
Paas Ho Lekin Paas Kyu Nahi Ho ......
Posted by ENU SINGH on July 29, 2020
I will love you
Forever
I will miss you forever
I will speak your name forever
I will remember you forever
I will carry you in my heart forever.
Posted by Vanda Bubear on July 29, 2020
Be close to your mum in these messed up times Abhijeet. Hold us close as we struggle to continue on here amidst the chaos. Love and light xxx
Posted by ENU SINGH on July 28, 2020
Looking at your pics these days
All the growing up years
From a cute lil bundle of joy to the young and handsome.
The mental picture of you lying on the beach is still so strong though .
Sending you love . Loads .
Posted by ENU SINGH on July 21, 2020
The day of your departure from this earth is approaching. All days are same but still new tidal waves of sadness engulf me every time . I just wish that har Khushi ho vaha , tu jahan bhi rahe. .
Posted by ENU SINGH on July 19, 2020
I keep wondering how you would have taken  these trying times of pandemic. I am kind of sure you would have been somewhere posted in some Cantonment.
Miss you always and every time my son . God bless you wherever you are
Posted by ENU SINGH on April 27, 2020
Never a day goes by when I do not think about you .
You are loved . You are so missed
Posted by Vanda Bubear on March 8, 2020
Happy Birthday in Heaven precious Abhijeet. Always in my thoughts. I hope you have a wonderful time with my son and your friends xxx
Posted by Manisha Joshi on March 7, 2020
Happy birthday Abhijeet! It's hard to forget a person who gave us so much to remember...
You will always stay forever in our hearts
Posted by Banu Mouli on March 7, 2020
Abhijeet
Happy birthday in heaven dearest
Posted by ENU SINGH on March 7, 2020
Happy birthday dear son wherever you are . Your time here with me was too short . But it will forever in heaven with you . I am gonna find you I promise.
Posted by ENU SINGH on February 14, 2020
Aakhir kya Phool detee ma tumko
Tum juda hee tab hue jab drakhto ke haath bhi khali the

Happy Valentine’s Day
May you always find real love wherever you are
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 25, 2020
2010-2019
This decade is over . You were there in this decade till Aug 2011 . Now I don’t know any other decade left for me , but what I know for sure is that you will never be in that. This finality is fills me with despair and fresh awareness of your absence
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 23, 2020
I never truly understood the meaning of ‘I miss you’ earlier .* I miss you* . Each and every cell of my body knows that I will never be able to see you ever again. That despair that sets in gives a whole different meaning to the simple “ I miss you”.
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 14, 2020
I miss the future I was supposed to have with you
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 11, 2020
You are loved . May beauty love and more love surround you wherever you are. Fly high, Fly strong . You are there in every beat of my heart.
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 4, 2020
We begin to remember not just that you died but that you lived. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 1, 2020
My son ,
My love for you will never die. I shall always keep you alive in my heart . I shall never stop missing you . Wish you a very happy new year . One more year without you here is finally over . You were and always live in my heart
Posted by Banu Mouli on December 31, 2019
Abhijeet... Celebrate the new year with all the angels... Send sm signs.. Stay with your mom, dad and Abhishek...
Love you baby.. Hugs
Posted by ENU SINGH on December 30, 2019
Another year gone by .2019 is over and done . There is festive cheer all around but in my heart is the melancholy of loss. Another year without you. What would you have been today ?
Posted by Nanci Neilsen-Young on November 7, 2019
I was visiting my sister, Dar and I wanted to stop in and say Hi and to let you know I am thinking of you and your family. I continue to keep you in my thoughts and I send much love and hope for peace to each heart that is missing you!!! Hugs to all who come visit you here and are missing you!!
Posted by ENU SINGH on October 22, 2019
Split Wide Open

Last night Hephaistus came to me in a dream
And said, Give me your heart
Since you suffer so, I will make it stronger
In the foundry of the gods
Melted, beaten, welded just so
Hardened to perfection
So that you feel no more
The things that torment you so.

I sat for awhile, heeding Hephaistus's advice
Who was I to let it go
Words of the mighty
Those in the know.

And then I saw a mother weeping
For her child forever gone, forever sleeping
And I turned my back on the blacksmith's prowess
To relieve me of all stress and duress

I would rather be split wide open
Torn asunder and broken
To feel a mother's pain
To know that a life gone, was not in vain
To hold a hand and be a comfort
Than be a stone, in a human cast
All feelings gone, an outer shell
Just a cast.

I would rather be light, and love and joy
And all that was in you, my boy
While you were living, and my heart was singing
I would rather be that song, the lyrics
Which I carried in my heart, the day you were born.
Posted by ENU SINGH on October 13, 2019

I See the moon .and the moon sees me,
And the moon sees the one I long to see,
God bless the moon and God bless me
And God bless the person I long to see ...
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 31, 2019
. In French, you don’t really say “I miss you”, you say “Tu me manques” which means “You are missing from me”.
I miss our conversations so much my baby . I miss your sparkling smile . I miss you in every way that I cannot express.
Posted by Cindy Baumann on August 18, 2019
Thinking of you Enu and sending my love. What a beautiful post. I think this is my favorite line.......
I choose to hold you in my dreams...
For in my dreams, you have no end...
Hugs
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 18, 2019
I choose to Love you in silence...
For in silence I find no rejection,

    I choose to Love you in loneliness...
For in loneliness no one owns you but me,

    I choose to adore you from a distance...
For distance will shield me from pain,

   I choose to kiss you in the wind...
For the wind is gentler than my lips,

  I choose to hold you in my dreams...
For in my dreams, you have no end...

_*RUMI*_
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 16, 2019
You never leave my mind . Not even when I have million things to think about.
Posted by Vanda Bubear on August 14, 2019
Thinking of you and your family, Abhijeet ❤ Please leave many signs for us who are lost down here below. It gets harder as the years pass by. This world makes no sense without you all xxxx
Posted by manisha joshi on August 13, 2019
A beautiful soul is never forgotten. You live in our hearts and forever missed. Lots of love
Posted by Banu Mouli on August 9, 2019
Abhijeet dear
Stay safe wherever you are...
RIP.. Return if Possible
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 9, 2019
Death changes everything
Time changes nothing . I miss your presence in my life today as much as I missed you on the first moment of your going.
Posted by ENU SINGH on August 9, 2019
Har Khushi ho vahan , tu jaha bhi rahe
Zindagi ho vaha, tu jaha bhi rahe

Always loved , always missed .
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Posted by ENU SINGH on January 15, 2021
I loved you with the utmost love of which my soul is capable and you have been taken from me - yet in the agony of my spirit in surrendering such a treasure, I feel a thousand times richer than if I had never possessed it.
Posted by ENU SINGH on January 4, 2021
My mind still talks to you .My heart still looks for you , but my soul knows you are at peace . I miss you every single day .
Posted by Cindy Baumann on December 31, 2020
Enu,

The tribute you posted on December 27th was so beautiful and true.
God Bless
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Shared by ENU SINGH on January 21, 2021
*I sat with you today*

I sat with you today you know,
I sat right in your chair, 
I know I could not see you, But I knew that you were there...  

I couldn't hear your voice at all, 
But I heard every word that was spoken,
I sat with you today you know,
Calm, but yet so heart broken...

I know you follow me around,
I have known it from the start,
But sometimes I am afraid to look,
So heavy is my heart...

I often feel you touch my face,
Or think I feel you near,
But when I try to see you,
It's like you just simply disappear...

I love you more and more each day,
And beg for you to know,
I find it harder everyday
Just to let you go...

I sat with you today you know
I am sure that was your scent
I cannot understand it though,
How you just suddenly went...

I will sit with you tomorrow,
If that's okay with you,
Sometimes it feels the only thing,
I still know what  to do...

I love you
Shared by manisha joshi on March 7, 2019

It's hard to forget someone who gave you so much to remember. Missing you forever..

Shared by ENU SINGH on March 7, 2018

You and I are together...the 'forever' kind of together.

Just because we are together, does not mean we have to constantly exchange words, touch or sight. There isn't always a purpose, an agenda behind being together. It is enough just 'being' together!

You may think I do not hear you, but I listen. You may feel I do not look at you, but I never lose sight of you. I don't touch you but I hold you every moment. It is this kind of togetherness that matters. The forever kind of togetherness.

Yes! You and I are together...the 'forever' kind of together.