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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Abiola Adelowo-Aiyenigba . We will remember her forever.

Celebration of life and Funeral Services will be as follows:

Service of Songs
There will be a virtual Service of Songs via zoom on Friday, Sept 4th, 2020 @ 6pm
Zoom ID: 87028877944
Password: 146833
Follow this link to join >> {ZoomLink}

Funeral Service
There will be both an in-person ceremony and a live-stream via YouTube on 
Monday, Sept 7th, 2020 @ 10am
Please click on this link to view the service on Youtube


September 2, 2023
September 2, 2023
Happy posthumous birthday, today i choose to remember all the loving memories we shared and your beautiful hearty laughter.l Love you 
July 23, 2023
July 23, 2023
Time does fly - with you in it it was timeless now we count the days since you left. Still in our hearts. Sun re Abi
July 23, 2023
July 23, 2023
Three years on Biola… still remember your heart laugh and gorgeous smile. Continue to rest in peace x
July 22, 2023
July 22, 2023
Lighting your candle Abi, 3 years on. Keep resting dear.
July 21, 2023
July 21, 2023
Time passes so quickly but it still seems like it was just yesterday i heard your hearty laughter, i miss you so much... we all do.
My bonus big sister, Love you forever and a day.
May the Lord continue ti grant you eternal rest
July 21, 2023
July 21, 2023
Another anniversary of you being taken from us. Miss you so much. May you rest in peace sweetness love you so much
July 21, 2023
July 21, 2023
Keep resting my beautiful sister. I miss you several times a day, everyday. 3 years gone, never forgotten ❤️
Love you always, B.
September 13, 2022
September 13, 2022
We grew up together in Sagamu, Ogun State, Nigeria. What a soul she was. Bright mind. Shocked at this. God knows better and am sure you're with him. You're part of the choir in heaven am sure
September 3, 2022
September 3, 2022
…..another year gone without you….happy belated birthday dear Abi
September 2, 2022
September 2, 2022
Happy posthumous birthday dear Adelow, friendship mi toh toosh! You're sorely missed, fondly remembered and most definitely living on in our hearts  . Rest on hun....
September 2, 2022
September 2, 2022
Friendship me! I should have called to say Happy Birthday today but the memories remain and I am consoled. I still celebrate you today. Your memory lives on.....
September 2, 2022
September 2, 2022
Happy post-humous birthday dearest Abiola. We love you and miss you everyday. Always loved. Always missed. Always ours. ❤️
September 2, 2022
September 2, 2022
We are still celebrating you, happy post-humous birthday my darling sister.
Always in our hearts 
July 23, 2022
July 23, 2022
Friendship mi, like you say when I call. I still hear it clearly. 2 years on and I still miss you so much. Sing on, smile down and we keep the flame burning. We move....like you always wanted. Progress. Rest on dearest.
July 22, 2022
July 22, 2022
Abiola, 2 years on and you are still missed. It is such a bittersweet day for me, as you passed on the day my son celebrates his arrival into the world, but I choose to always include you in our celebrations, and so I celebrate you both, the life he's living and the one you lived. Continue to rest in peace.
July 21, 2022
July 21, 2022
I think about you everyday Abiola and miss you so much. I cannot believe 2 years have passed already. Rest in eternal peace lovely lady Dot
July 21, 2022
July 21, 2022
Still miss you so much, how has it been 2 years when it feels like i still spoke to you yesterday?
Love you sis
July 21, 2022
July 21, 2022
It’s been 2 years - still feels unreal. Always in our hearts. Sleep well.
July 21, 2022
July 21, 2022
Hmmmm....2yrs gone.....Unquestionable God!
Keep resting Adelow.....
July 21, 2022
July 21, 2022
Abi....remembering your smile and kind heart today and always. Keep resting in peace dear...miss you
July 21, 2022
July 21, 2022
Another year gone without you but death didn't rob me of your eternal love. So missed so loved and so very dear.❤
January 18, 2022
January 18, 2022
If only you knew how much those little moments we had together means to me. Still feels as if you are here. Always and forever loved Abi mi
November 22, 2021
November 22, 2021
I never feel so scared than waking up one day and find you no more beside me. I feel no sadness like opening my eyes and realizing you are far away from my reach. Now and for the rest of my life; your love will remain in my heart. You mean the world to me
September 3, 2021
September 3, 2021
I had a dream last night and it was so vivid. You were there in real life. We would have had celebrated your birthday yesterday but all I had were memories and dreams. I hold on to them and cherish them. Keep resting in the bosom of the Lord. Till we meet again. Adeluv........miss you so so much.
September 2, 2021
September 2, 2021
This would have been 44 :) Many fond memories of you all day today Sis B! Watched many of your silly dancing videos and laughed. So much life and energy! Keep resting Beautiful. Miss you loads. Happy birthday.
September 2, 2021
September 2, 2021
Adelow mi owon! Friendship mi toh tush!! Remembered you fondly today and missed wishing you a happy birthday.....continue to rest on your Lord's bosom dear . Miss you lots....it still hurts loads too 
September 2, 2021
September 2, 2021
Rest well Abi dear. We keep celebrating you, happy heavenly birthday dear
July 23, 2021
July 23, 2021
Can't believe it's a year already, I still remember those beautiful smile of your yours Biola, you will forever be remembered for your legacy of love. May the good lord continue to be with your family and may your beautiful soul continue to rest in perfect peace. AMEN.
July 22, 2021
July 22, 2021
Still can’t believe it Biola! Forever smiling, cheeky one. Continue to rest on x
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
Keep resting Biola....your legacy of love remains....the love you guys shared is what I remember...thanks for welcoming me into your home when I had a low point in life....❤
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
B, it's a year! How times flies. I cherish the conversations we had. You effortlessly encouraged me without knowing it. Even your death gave me a friend in Tope and the geng. Your footprints will forever remain in the sands of time.

Rest in power B
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
It’s been a year - still a mirage. See you in the day to day something always reminds that you were here - that you are here - though we can’t see you. You passed through and you left a mark. Rest on Abi
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
Aunty B, it’s has been a whole year already! Time really do fly. The other day I was looking at our pictures. I really do miss you and the detailed advice you give.

I believe you are in a better place. Till we meet again.
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
Keep Resting in God's Bossom sis, you are greatly Missed❤
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
Can’t believe it’s been a year already Sis B…

Your memories still and will continue to live on, plus, each one never fails to bring a smile to my face.

Thank you for being you.
Missing you!♥️

July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
Gosh, that year has gone so quickly. I remember the lovely tribute at the house. I do hope that young Levi is flourishing. We miss him a greta deal in Liverpool. Please do pass on my very best wishes to him and tell him he is always welcome here. Lee Ward
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
Hmmmmmm.....1 year already? Thank God for how well we have navigated despite missing you so much my dear Abiola! I talk about you so often and it still hurts as much as it did when I heard you had gone to be with God .

I am still sorry I didn't get to speak with you nor spend your last days with you as much as we did for over 3 decades.....Sholakunmi & Nnenna comfort me and have remained soul sisters .

Adelow! Friendship mi! Pasero mi! Haaaa....death where is your sting??? Despite it all, God has been faithful Adelow....everyone misses you so much! Your hubby is back to being my OFM; Levi is doing well and joined athletics in school...he is the pride of everyone Biola .....you did well raising him dear....he is indeed our Lengendary Levi ; Seyi & Tope miss you sorely but have taken solace in God cos they know you are smiling down and asking them to live on.....God has been faithful to them Adelow......ogo ni fun Oluwa loke orun!

There are so many things I want to say to you Adelow, but.....guess it'd be on the resurrection morning. Continue to rest in God's bosom dear....we will keep living out your legacies of love, true friendship and genuine joy . I hope the vacation plans you had for all those getaway destinations materialise someday....TBH, I have been living the plans o....its them Sholakunmi, Nnena & Remi that have been too busy to go .

In all things Adelow, we are more than conquerors and God's grace is sufficient for us! Sleep on Friendship mi, till we meet to part no more IJN! 

Sun re o!!!



July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
Experienced Biola for a short while staying at their family house, she was kind, accommodating and fun. Gone to soon. I pray the good Lord grants your family the strenght to continue to bear this loss.
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
I cant believe its a year already Eeeeeeeema or Mama Lee or iyawo EEEEPA as i fondly call you i miss your teasing your words of encouragement and the jokes honestly im happy to have known you and felt your love and care. So accommodating and sweet. I remember my uni days when i was always complaining of motion sickness and scared of the journey back to school you gave me a solution which has been working for me since then and i still do it thanks to you i no longer have motion sickness or is it when i got married and when we talk you will say shea oti se ounje fun oko wa Nike behave yourself oo he is no longer boyfriend o and i will be like Eeeeema limee o you will say Nike toju oko o and i will make silly faces. The last time i saw you at granpas burial the way you hyped me when i walked in seeing me pregnant maami you scream with hapiness and pure joy we pouted and took pics u hugs me saying Nike im happy we are expecting we are expecting nike rora se wahala o pls o rora this one i cant wait to meet minie you just go in and dont jump about abbie honestly if i cn miss u like this how much more your husby, son, sisters etc Im pained you didnt get to meet and carry Erioluwa my daughter buh im glad you saw her on Vid calls. I believe you are now an angel looking down on us please take care of Your Husby My Brother Eeeeeepa as i also fondly call him and Levi aka bobo Lee Sun re o Love you maami till we meet to part no more.
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
You were sooo sweet my beautiful Aunt. So prayerful, so thoughtful. I miss you so very much. I know you’re resting , keeping resting my love ❤️
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
Hard to believe its been a year!
A whole year of Gods faithfulness
How else could we have made it thus far
I am left with such beautiful and pleasant memories of you
You really lived in the now and made the best of every situation , you were so full of positive energy , i miss our long phone calls, i still hear you telling me “ go for it , because you can never say” your laughter still echoes in my mind and brings a smile to my face
I remember your Voltron moves , great defender of those you love
You had so much love to give, maybe you knew you would not be here for long so you poured so much love in to each and everyone of us , Levi is such an exemplary young man you sure raised him right and we are so proud of him
I remember the first time we met , and how you instantly took me under your wings lol no questions asked
The way you loved my brother so sincerely and beautifully, and how you welcomed all of us in to your home
My visits to Scotland and then Liverpool and when i could not make it to you , you would appear a day or so before i head back home ,take El-Nathan and order me to take a few hours to finish up whatever i had pending
Somehow you held us all together, i dont know how you made the time for everyone.
I could go on and on,
You are so deeply loved and sorely missed
Continue to rest in peace my sister , my friend
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
…..a year gone and still waiting for that call to conclude our summer plans…..
Oh how I miss you…..your ever cheerful and positive manner …..your constant love of God….the love you had for your Tola and Levi. The enviable and deep love bond you share with your amazing sisters.. Seyi and Tope.
Your passion for work, all of us your friends….
Missing you is an understatement, but we know you are safe, very safe.
rest easy dear Abi❤️
July 21, 2021
July 21, 2021
1 year already?!

I don't know how I've survived this - actually I know; the Holy Spirit carried me. I miss you more than words can say Abiola. I miss your big warm hugs - which you would give whether I liked it or not; your hearty laughter, loud and dramatic. I miss your fierce love and your fire. I miss your drive and positive outlook - the glass was always half full in your view. I miss our endless video calls, which always started with you making a stank face...so silly:). I miss sharing IG jokes with you. I miss you forming voltron (*yinmu*). I miss stealing your lipsticks, jewelleries and scarves and hiding mine from you only to see you rocking them proudly soon after. I miss sending you silly voice notes after watching your boisterous singing and dancing videos. I miss you treating me like a baby even at my big age...lol. I miss you telling me I can do anything, your Tope, you're the most beautiful girl in the world...can't you see, your I'm so proud of you. I miss fighting for you, praying with you, arguing with you just because. I miss you hyping up my Sean; making him blush, cooking with my Dams even via video, gushing over Koko - she's growing beautifully and I wish she experienced your big love a little longer. Levi misses you; Lanre, Sean and Dams miss you. WE MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH, B. Sis Seyi & I are blessed to have called you sister.

I love you endlessly. Keep resting Champ.

It's been quite a journey and God has carried us through. Lord, I'm grateful for joy like a river and peace that truly defies understanding.

Thank you Jesus for this past year. 
November 13, 2020
November 13, 2020
Abi mi, I still talk to you every day, and I hope you can hear me, but I know that one day I’ll hear your voice again
September 7, 2020
September 7, 2020
Words fail me Abi, I was broken when I learnt of your demise, life indeed is a mystery, Mahanan left and then you!.........
I will hold on to the memories of you I have and will forever love and cherish them. Thank you for all you did for me, the love, the gift( a beautiful lilac wallet you brought for me at work).
May God almighty continue to comfort Tola and Levi and the family at large. Please say hello to my only brother Mahanan and please take care of him for me if you can. I love you both, rest well my darlings , looking forward to seeing you both again on the resurrection morning
September 7, 2020
September 7, 2020
Goodnight babes, my friend Dr Abiola Adelowo-Aiyenigba. Was nice knowing you all through 6years of High School. I can't believe you are gone. I remember the good old FGGC Sagamu days and you will be sorely missed. I pray for God's divine comfort for you husband and son, your siblings and all your loved ones. May God take care of your handsome legendary Levi and your husband Tola. May God take care of your siblings Seyi and Temi Adelowo Kuku. May God take care of your friends in Jesus name.
September 1, 2020
September 1, 2020
In was in Lagos earlier in the year and popped in to say hi to Bros Tola. He was having face time with you. I got to find out later this was a usual routine for him. Immediately you saw me walk across the screen, your smile lit up like a thousand candles, a mega watt smile. I hardly ever saw you not smiling. Always cheerful, always smiling...except when someone said or did anything that had bros Tola sad, worried or slighted - then I witnessed how protective you could be. A blessing it was to have known you, and to have witnessed first hand the impact you have made in the lives of those around you. Grandma showed me the portable sewing machine you gave her and still mentioned the clockwork routine of your calls to check up on her. You would be sorely missed, and I pray God grants Bros Tola & Levi the strength and grace to bear your loss and honor your love continually.
Adieu!!!
August 16, 2020
August 16, 2020
Abiola, my very own Temitope's Best friend/confidant/small mummy..wow it took Everything in me to pen this down, cos I would never have thought in many years to come that I will be doing this Now, the first time this link was sent to me, i couldn't get myself to write anything cos this is hard for anyone who has ever crossed your path.. you will surely be missed greatly..thank you for all you were, thank you for always supporting me, my own '"Coolacademic" "prof" Dr" I pray all you have left behind that God Almighty will protect them and give everyone peace to bear this loss Most Especially Levi and your Husband.... Sleep well sweet angel though there was no warning... But God knows Why He called you Home.... till we meet at Jesus feet...Adieu sister!!!❤❤
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September 2, 2023
September 2, 2023
Happy posthumous birthday, today i choose to remember all the loving memories we shared and your beautiful hearty laughter.l Love you 
July 23, 2023
July 23, 2023
Time does fly - with you in it it was timeless now we count the days since you left. Still in our hearts. Sun re Abi
July 23, 2023
July 23, 2023
Three years on Biola… still remember your heart laugh and gorgeous smile. Continue to rest in peace x
Her Life

BIOGRAPHY

September 2, 2020

BIOGRAPHY 

Dr Abiola Olamide Aiyenigba (nee Adelowo) was born on the 2nd of September, 1977 in London, United Kingdom to late Dr. Olatunji Olanrewaju Adelowo and late Mrs Felicia Oyeyinka Adelowo (nee Idowu). She was the second child of her parents. Abiola attended Mayflower Junior School, Ikenne, Ogun State for her Primary Education, and proceeded to Federal Government Girls College, Sagamu for her Secondary School Education. She attended the Federal Polytechnic, Ilaro, Ogun State to study Food Science and Technology for a year after which she got accepted to study medicine at Olabisi Onabanjo University, Ago-Iwoye. She obtained her Bachelor of Medicine and Bachelor of Surgery (MBBS) qualifying as a medical doctor in 2004. After her graduation she moved to London, United Kingdom where she further studied and wrote the required PLAB exams to obtain her license to practise in the United Kingdom. She moved to Edinburgh, Scotland to work and met her husband Mr Adetola Adewale Aiyenigba through his bosom friend by what can only be described as a divinely orchestrated appointment.They tied the knot on the 2nd of September, 2006 in Nigeria and their union was blessed with a son, whom Abiola fondly called her Legendary Levi. 

Abiola started her working career at the Sighthill Medical Practice in Edinburgh, Scotland. She also worked at Nuirhouse GP practice also in Edinburgh. She joined the University of Liverpool’s Sanyu Research Unit not long after it launched in 2013 to start her PhD part-time, and was an important part of the unit’s development. She moved to Liverpool and continued working and looking after her beloved son while also pursuing her PhD. Doing her PhD part-time meant she was a constant over 6 years where she was always quick to offer friendship and support to other short term students visiting from Africa, many of whom were coming away for the first time. With her customary enthusiasm, Abiola created an intervention she called ‘FELICIA’ (the Fertility Life Counselling Aid), named after her beloved mother. The detailed manual for this course is now published (see Aiyenigba et al, African Journal of Reproductive Health 2019; 23:76-91). On finishing her PhD in Women’s Health she started working at the Centre for Capacity Research of the Liverpool School of Tropical Medicine until her sudden demise. She also wrote a letter on UK fertility interventions published by The BMJ (The British Medical Journal) in 2017. Abiola was described by her colleagues as a bright and warm individual, with an exciting research career in front of her. She is a great loss to the global health community.

Abiola was a loving and caring Wife, Mother, Sister and Aunty. She doted on her family and was a pillar of support to them collectively and individually in so many peculiar ways. She was especially loved by her many nieces and nephews of whom she was exceptionally fond. Abi/Aunty B as she was fondly called was a family oriented woman who loved and cherished her nuclear and extended family alike. She was extremely warm, kind hearted and lavish in her expression of love for her family and friends. Abi was known by family, friends and colleagues for her joyful disposition, warm hugs, expressive gestures, contagious laughter, positive outlook and genuine concern for the welfare and success of everyone around her. She brought light and laughter everywhere she went, was always ready for a good time and there was never a dull moment around her. She never allowed life’s challenges to weigh her down for long, but sought to always put the turbulences of life behind her quickly, while bravely marching on to a brighter future. Abi loved listening to music, dancing, travelling and singing. She was known for her love for colourful African fabrics that she often wore and even sold these as a side business - 'Bold and Beautiful fabrics'. She was a keen collector of African art which she enjoyed collecting as she travelled to and through many African countries for work.

As a devout Christian, she was a highly committed member of Alive Believers Church in Liverpool where she volunteered as a notable member of the choir and other capacities. She was also a volunteer of Light Up Liverpool, an inter-denominational project to bring worshippers together in the city of Liverpool.

She will be greatly missed by her husband, Adetola whom she fondly called “Sweerim” (My Sweety), son, sisters, brother, in-laws, cousins, nephews, nieces, aunties, uncles, friends, colleagues and well-wishers. Adieu, Abiola Olamide Olatokunbo Aiyenigba - till we meet to part no more. Eternal rest grant unto her O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon our beloved. 

May your Beautiful Soul rest in perfect peace. Amen
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July 22, 2023
Was telling someone about you yesterday and how much I miss you. You always made life simple no matter how entangled the situation may seem. Always encouraging. I miss the laughter, our talk, and our friendship. I know you are in bliss. Heaven gained a beautiful soul. Keep resting in peace friendship mi.
July 22, 2020
Sister Biola, You are the one who forced me to try my smoked fish here in the UK, and gradually it has become Hilda's Kitchen. 
I am speechless my sister Thank you for your advice. Rest well 

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