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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Adefemi Adebajo, 46 years old, born on June 23, 1969, and passed away on February 17, 2016. We will remember her forever.
February 20, 2016
February 20, 2016
We do not mourn your transition, indeed we do miss you. In fact you've left an unfill able gap! But we do not mourn you. Your desire was that we thank God for and not mourn you. You're in a better place. Your confession and professions attest to it. Your sweetness and smiles against all odds attest to it and also the word of God attest to it. You took your bow gracefully and passed the baton to us. Adieus till we meet at the feet of Jesus
February 20, 2016
February 20, 2016
Dear Femi rest in peace. You will forever remain in my heart for you radiated love. I know you are seating at the Lords table because you lived an exemplary life.
February 20, 2016
February 20, 2016
Femi , Resting in the bosom of the Lord ! Your courage , your strength and your faith are a testament to the goodness of God . You fought the good fight and kept the faith . Heaven has received you with Angels singing glorious Halleluyahs .
February 20, 2016
February 20, 2016
Dear Femi,
Rest in peace, my heart is heavy but I am consoled because you are in a better place. You taught me what true strength meant. You were a Woman of Faith, so confident, always so positive with a can do attitude. I remember all our numerous conversations fondly, I will miss you dear friend.
February 20, 2016
February 20, 2016
My Dear Adefemi,

God loves you more. Continue to rest in peace.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Goodnight dear
You deserve to sleep well.
You fought long and you fought hard yet not once did you waiver in your faith and love for God and those around you.
Sleep well precious one.
I did so enjoy the way you used to fuss over and mother me in school.
Indeed heaven has reclaimed an angel
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Sister Femi, the news of your translation to glory at your prime is so saddening. May your gentle soul find rest in your Maker. May God of comfort heal the pains and wounds in the hearts of your family members in Jesus name. RIP Femi.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
My friend, my co-labourer in the vineyard, you had a great loving heart. Your love and pasdion for Christ was without guile. You cared for all and cherished everyone. You were such a gem.
I recall your passion for African folklore. You pressured me to recall more & more stories for you to put together the book you authored on Ijapa the cunning one & you did mention my contribution in the the acknowledgement of book.
My trips to the UK was never complete without seeing you. What will my subsequent trips look like now, oh Adefemi!
Love you, miss you.
Rest on dearly beloved.
We shall meet again.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
May the Lord whom you loved receive you into His bosom and console those you left behind. Sleep on till the Resurrection morning.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Femfem my beautiful inside and out selfless friend! 30 years of true friendship all filled with lovely memorable moments, not a single sour moment!. I remember riding back with us from the reception on my wedding day in 1994!
Anyone coming from England to the East Coast that knows you gives mea call on your behalf! I will forever cherish your phone calls and heart felt prayers, most especially the last on January 19th.
Sweetheart I will forever love and miss you. What gives me peace is that I know you're in heaven. You are now my Guardian Angel!
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
ADEFEMI ,my darling aburo I am missing you already! There was no Face time this week! . You were such an inspiration to us all spiritually. You took all of life's challenges with Grace & Dignity with complete faith in Almighty God. Often times you told me"Auntie Adun, e ma worry Jesu Loba!". You were a true servant of God, ever so caring, always wanting to know that everybody was fine. I shall miss our tea meetings at Selfriges with your friend Biola Shasanya any time I am around. You were such a good cook! . ADEFEMI ,baby Anti mi, Ifanu Adebajo,aburo mi owon ,Sunre,! Odaro, Odigbose. You have joined the Saints Triumphant! Alleluia .
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Dear Adefemi, you were a true friend, a woman after God's heart, vibrant and passionate. Honest and of good character, integrity was your watch word and pleasing the Lord in all things was uppermost in your mind. You impacted many lives, mine included. Your faith, zeal and passion for the Lord even with life's challenges was so admirable.
I recall the chat I sent to you via WhatsApp on the 10th of Feb 2016, asking you how you are, that you have been in my thoughts and prayers for the past 2 weeks. That I hope all is well with you, love you and God bless......your response was "please keep the prayers coming. Thanks Xxx.” And I responded 'It is well with you my friend, the Great Physician will perfect your health and all that concerns you in Jesus Name " I never realized this will be our last conversation on earth as the Lord will take you to His eternal rest on the 17th of Feb 2016.
My darling friend and sister in Christ, you fought a good fight of faith, you have completed your race. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
My thoughts and prayers are with your mum, siblings and family, pray that the Great Comforter will give them the fortitude to bear your loss.

'Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints' Psalm 116:15"
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
You were such an inspiration, with so much zeal and passion. Rest in the bossom of the Lord Femi.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Sleep on and sleep well my dear friend. You fought well and hard but the Lord chose to call you home. I would have cried but I know you wont want such more so, our loss sure is heaven's gain. Femi you will be missed my darling friend and sister.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Adefemi,

Words fail me . You came, you saw and you conquered. You fought a good fight of faith and to the glory of God you are resting in a better place. You will be greatly missed...Sleep on beautiful soul
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
To God be the glory great things he has done.Who are we to question the most high . ,( Didun ni iranti olododo), Femi we love you but Jesus loves you more.I look forward to what we discussed but it never happened.You are a rear Gem, always smiling as if you were not going through stuff, Your crown is waiting for you Oh saint of God
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Femi,my cherished one,I didn't believe at first but it's true,I will miss u so much,you were one true heart that I will never let go,the impact you made in my life spiritually lives on in me.To me you will always be alive in my heart till we meet again with the Lord.Love u still my Angel.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Adefemi, This is so painful but I know you would want us to do as the Bible says which is to give thanks in all things. I thank God for your life which was such an inspiration. Goodnight dear dear aburo. Rest in perfect peace in the bosom of your maker who you loved so much.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
My dear and kind and genoerous sprited friend, your heart was too big to beat long in this world. I will miss your gentle courage and support, your wonderful perspective on the world and your amazing ability to take life by the day and live in this cruel and beautiful world. I was so happy to have you in my life and to be able to turn to you to discuss so many things. And I envied your faith which was strong to the end. Rest in sublime peace now, your battle is over. How grateful am I to have had you in my life x
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Your departure is painful, could not hold back tears of memories of our days at LRA, as fellow worker and then secretary to Pastor T. During our days at LRA. And even more recently at Celebration of Life service of Late Mum Odubunmi we chatted and chatted even to the car park, but for the brethren that brought you I wanted to drop you at home.
Sis you are now in company of angels and host of Heaven.
The comfort of The Lord be with us your brethren and you families, till we meet to part no more in Heaven.
Adieu.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Adefemi, you fought the good fight, you finished the race, above all you kept the faith. The memory of you that always kept on in my mind is your posture & voice introducing moment of truth before Our Pastor and father in the Lord Pastor Tunde Bakare starts the teaching of the word in the 90s. May your gentle soul rest in peace.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Such a young live! God doesn't keep great Angels around long on this earth once their jobs are done. May Adefemi's soul rest in peace. My condolences.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
My dearest Adefemi. You were such a beautiful soul. The memory of you when we all celebrated Kemi's Birthday is one that will stay in my mind forever. Our consolation is that you are resting in the bossom of the Lord. Continue to rest in perfect peace.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Femi
So young and taken from us so soon, may you rest in peace and thoughts are with your family at this sad time RIP sweet angel x x x x
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Femi,
What a blessing to have met you? What a joy Living Spring contributed to our Christian development and walk?
Looking back, I can only say thank you for all the lives that was touched and destinies that was shaped upon that mountain. xxx
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
My dear Adefemi, I miss you terribly! Your kindness, your generosity, your cheerfulness in the face of adversity, your steadfast faith in our Almighty God, your constant thirst for knowledge and your powerful academic and social writings are some of your glowing qualities, worthy of emulation by all of us. Rest in peace with the Lord.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Adefemi, may your beautiful soul continue to rest in eternal peace. You gave so much. Always with a smile and ever so positive. A woman after God's heart; you were special. We first met when I attended the Living spring fellowship which used to meet at your flat when we were in LASU. Can one think about Femi and not think about your walk and work with God? You were a real inspiration. Sleep well Adefemi, we are hurting but you are definitely in your Father's bosom where there is no more pain... x
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Adefemi darling , U R one of a kind , I thank Gof for yre beautiful life, U said it all ... May the Lord strength all your family U left behind , We celebrate your life indeed , Rest on my dear friend in the bosom of the Most high
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Adefemi, may you rest in the bosom of the Lord. God loves you most. The heaven will rejoice to welcome you home.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
We may never understand but God sure understand why you were gone too soon........I was opportune to spend several hours with our dearly beloved sis. Adefemi Adebajo in early December 2015 here in Dublin at Beaumont Hospital and I was dazed and in total awe of her unwavering faith, her passion for God made me felt like answering the alter call again, her will, drive, tenacity for Jesus was evident; I would often go blank and lost in my thought and she has a way of pulling me back to reality of the WORD of God which according to her words and her testimony she has evidently lived in the past 11 years. She was bubbly and full of life and joy, we even took some selfie together. (teary eyes........) I remember picking her up from the hotel where she stayed to the hospital, I dropped her for the clinic appointments and promised to be back in a few hours; and she sent me a message on whatsapp to bring her an apple-pie from McDonald upon my return.....it was the first time as an Ekiti man to know how an apple-pie looked like....as I expected it was a kind of a drink and it turned out to be an actual pie......and I though to myself an ''aje-butter'' will always be an ''aje-butter'' and that was who you were Femoooo an ''aje-butter'' to the core...... I watched you devour the ''apple-pie'' with delight and felt great it was worth all the diversion despite the rush hour traffic in Dublin to the closest McDonald to get you your request.......the clinic appointment itself was ''successful'' and I remember you asking me to take you for shopping to bring some souvenir with you to London to people special to you; we went to the Pavilion Shopping Center in Swords Dublin and I vividly remember you picking up really expensive gift-items to take with you back to London, and after your shopping we even had a meal together at Nandos in company of your best friend Adebanke Oluborode....I had a glimmer of hope that all was going to be well......but God in His infinite wisdom know better......Kabiosi! A rare gem you were and I have no doubt that you have gone to be with the Lord; now resting in a better place in the bosom of God. It is still hard for me to take in and I wish all L.R.A family members both at home and in the diaspora as well as friends and families all across the planet the inner fortitude to bear your passing away...... sun re ooo!
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Indeed, you fought a good fight like a good soldier of the Lord, finished the race and kept the FAITH proudly. Certainly, the crown of righteousness is waiting for you. Sleep on my dear friend and sister, Adefemi Adebajo. It is well!
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Hello Femi
I know it's being ages since we last saw each other. Thank goodness for face book; at least we were able to communicate and I am so glad we did. Sleep well! dear friend. You are in a better place far far away. We will meet again to part no more RIP
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Dear Femi,
Feels so unreal. Can't believe you've gone just like that. Thank you for your prayers and being there for me when I was ill. Thank you for your strength. Saw you last at aunty's Service and I was so sure we would catch up later. Our last conversation keeps going round my head now. Love you but God loves you more. You have inspired me with your strong faith, your cheerfulness and the only consolation is that you are up there with the angels. Sleep well, beautiful soul.
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
Dear Femi, rest in peace with the Angels. I will forever remember your smiles and kindness.xx
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
From our view, It hurts! but from your view. You are now present with The Lord.. what a consolation..Rest on dear sister!
February 19, 2016
February 19, 2016
We chatted last month about visiting Florida next year, I didn't know it would be our last...my heart hurts knowing you are gone. You were an inspiration and a big sister to me back in my LRA days and I will never forget it. I only wish I had told you more often. I love and will miss you. Rest in his bosom Cos.
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Until we meet again Aunty Femi. We all miss you xx
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Sade your cousin spoke so highly of you: your faith, your envangelism, love for God and ministry for Him. It is inspiring, God bless you as you now join the heavenly choir & great cloud of witness.

'Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints' Psalm 116:15
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
My dear Femi, hurts that I am doing this and why, but I somehow find a smile when I think of what you mean to me, how having you as a sister has made me a better person. For you will gently disagree with me, making your point clear, but with such a softness that only prompts a smile. You were such a beautiful soul and did not want anyone feeling sorry for you, I will miss you, but I am comforted knowing without a doubt that you are with our HEAVENLY FATHER, you masked every type of pain in faith, rest on now my dear sister, rest on. I thank GOD that we crossed paths, you were 5 years old when we became a family, wow! I pray the LORD will grant aunty, Tilewa, Kemi and Keye, the fortitude to bear this...XO- Kehinde Dacosta-Lawrence
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Adefemi, my dearest sister. You came, you saw, you conquered and now you have left us. A true woman of faith,despite all that you endured through the tears.You never stayed idle , there was always a project you were pursuing .
I remember our phone conversations (even when I do not call you will always call),never a negative confession from your mouth,always positively confessing the Word regardless of how you felt - " Jesu l'Oba", Owo Jesu ni mo wa".
Our loss is Heaven's gain but we are comforted by your many words . Not one to miss an opportunity to declare the Word of Truth. We will all miss you and the children too, Timo your "Bobo " cried when he heard the news. Your memory and legacy will forever live on in our hearts.

Sun Re, " Ayanfe Eledumare, Eni Olorun da".
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
My dear you are shining light you loved the Lord with all your heart. All the times I met you, you where always smiling I loved your spirit .
Rest in peace in the bosom of God our father.xxxx
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Fem Fem...What a beautiful soul.....Thank you for entrusting your big projects with me, thank you for being that baby sister I never had but had through you...Thank you for always calling just to check up on me when I should be the one checking up on you...Thank you for all our long conversations about God, nothing and everything....
I miss you already, but I know without a doubt where you are now, resting with God... Sun re o aburo mi atata...Forgive me this once, though you said we should not cry, I am crying right now cause it hurts so much ...Love you dearly!!
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Fem Fem... As I write this I can't stop the tears... Memories of times gone.. Your laughter, your kindness and your Generousity. Through your pain ...You always listened and counselled others. I Always wondered where you got the strength from and I must confess I took it for granted always thinking Femi is Strong and will be A ok.... Can I turn back the time? Calls I should have made, visits I didn't make always assuming Femi is cool..But I know you are now at peace, resting in the warm blossom of the almighty...God will soothe the pain and Aunty ,Tilly, Kemi and Keye are well assured you are now at the pearly gates enroute Glory.!!! Rest in Peace my dear friend... and surely we shall meet again... Sun re o...
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Some people pass through this world and in their time add true value to the world around them. Aunty Femi was one of such rare people. In the few times we met I saw a true Christian and an absolutely pleasant soul. You will be missed. R.I.P
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Femi, you fought a great fight, but we thank God for the legacy you left behind, you will surely be missed. Rest in the bosom of the Lord
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Dear Adefemi Adebajo,
This is really really heart wrenching....
You loved God so much, so very much......
You stood in faith till life was gone......
Goodnight dearest aburo.....
lyrics of a song......HER last post....
"I wanna ease the pain, (that life can bring)
Help them find a peace, mmm (their spirit needs)
Have been chosen for (a work to do)
To make this world a much better place
For me and you"....
And dearest Femi.......you kept your light in your window....that you did.......
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Dearest Adefemi Thank you for always being such an inspiration....
February 18, 2016
February 18, 2016
Femi, you fought a good fight and finally the battle is over; victory is yours in Christ whom you loved so very much throughout your life on this side of the fence.
Sleep on Femi and rest with the lord........
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Didundidun ni iranti olododo! May God continue to bless the soul of our dear sister, ADEFEMI & grant her peace at His feet. Amen.
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Dear Adefemi, Happy belated birthday. You would cooked your 'best ever'jollof rice and various stews. Sun re oh


My dear friend, Femi

February 27, 2016

Femi was a friend of mine
A dear childhood friend of mine
I met at a boarding school called Kent College
Some 35 years ago - that was indeed a privilege!

Back in the Eightees, now all a haze
Those seem to be such carefree days
With homesickness and Prep as our greatest woes
And of course, cross country runs across woods and meadows

Right from the beginning, she stood out
As someone with whom you wouldn't mess about
Principled, responsible, a Christian devout
Plain-spoken yet understanding without a doubt

She was like a big sister, compassionate and caring
And kept us all in check, from misbehaving
She once talked us out of watching an 18 movie
Which for a group of 16 year olds was a big deal to go and see

She tolerated PE and enjoyed Speech & Drama
Got her article published in the school magazine, Saga
And partook willingly in midnight feasts and pillow fights
Her cheeky chuckle could be heard well before she came into sight

With time we all spread out, to the four corners of the globe
Yet Femi maintained the circle of friends, with her as the central spoke
Through her, news of each other we learnt
Of life taking many an unexpected turn

She led by example in showing us how to be
Bold and fearless in the face of adversity
Always cheerful and with such positivity
She endured gracefully and with quiet dignity

Just count your blessings, she once told me
I realised then, that's how she coped so admirably
Selfless, encouraging and never complaining
She soldiered on, her faith unwavering

Despite her health, living life to the fullest
She did so much, she was simply the coolest
An exceptional individual, a wonderful inspiration
Her amazing achievements worthy of commendation

To adorn His crown, as a precious jewel dazzling radiantly
God called her home, from pain and suffering to be set free
Where, rejoicing in His glorious presence for all eternity
We'll meet again, my dear friend Femi.

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