This memorial website was created in memory of our lovely mom, Adefolake Ogungbade, née Rosanwo, 56, who was born on February 27, 1958 and passed away on February 5, 2015. We will remember her forever.
Mommy always had a beautiful smile, was soft-spoken and was happiest when her children were happy.
She is survived by her husband Dr Gbadebo Ogungbade, children Ademola, Omolade, Oluwaseun and Adebayo, mother Mrs Olufunmilayo Rosanwo, several siblings and loving extended family.
Thank you to everyone who attended our mother's Memorial Service and Celebration of Life Service from Feb 20 - 22, 2015.
Your presence and loving stories comforted us.
Thank you for the visits, words of encouragement, prayers, and for all the love you're showing the family. May God bless you all!
Please leave a comment, share a story about Mrs Adefolake Ogungbade or leave some encouragement for the family and continue to keep us in your prayers.
Tributes
Leave a tributeNot a day goes by that I don’t think about you. I love you and miss you so so much. I’m grateful for all the wonderful memories. We are all doing fine; God is taking good care of us.
Love,
Your baby Bayo
And what makes it worse is on this side of heaven
It’s always going to be without you
And another thing that makes it worse is I miss you every day
Not just on Mother’s Day
Or on your birthday
Or my birthday
Or Christmas day
Or Thanksgiving Day
Or on Sundays when you would have made a special meal
Or on New Year’s Eve or New Year’s Day
Or in my wedding album
Or on my daughter, your grand daughter’s birthday
Or my future children’s births
I miss you EVERY DAY
When I go to sleep late
Or wake up extra early
When there’s a pandemic and I need my mommy
When life hands me lemons and you made the best lemonade
When I hear Whitney singing or Aretha, Stevie or Gladys (because I know how much you loved them)
Whenever I just want to talk or not
I miss you, mommy
Thank you for being the best mother because looking at Simi now I know how much you must have loved me
Thank you for your cards, and letters, and "I Love You"s
I still remember
I thought I would be able to look at your picture without crying by now but not yet
Happy Mother’s Day in heaven
Until the day when I won’t miss you anymore
There is a memory fond and true;
There is a token of affection, Dear Aunty Folake,
We miss you
We miss you mommy.
You live on in our hearts.
I treasure all those memories Of growing up with you, the secrets we would always share. The childish things we’d do.
And as the years quickly passed we grew closer Still, I miss you dear Sister Folake, and you know I always will❣️
Its three years already. Rest on in the bosom of the Lord....
Thank you for leaving us with beautiful memories mommy.
Thank you Lord for your strength.
I love you!
Meredith Andrews
[Verse 1]
You were reaching through the storm
Walking on the water
Even when I could not see
In the middle of it all
When I thought You were a thousand miles away
Not for a moment did You forsake me
Not for a moment did You forsake me
[Chorus]
After all You are constant
After all You are only good
After all You are sovereign
Not for a moment will You forsake me
Not for a moment will You forsake me
[Verse 2]
You were singing in the dark
Whispering Your promise
Even when I could not hear
I was held in Your arms
Carried for a thousand miles to show
Not for a moment did You forsake me
[Chorus]
And every step every breath you are there
Every tear every cry every prayer
In my hurt at my worst
When my world falls down
Not for a moment will You forsake me
Even in the dark
Even when it's hard
You will never leave me
After all
[Chorus]
Not for a moment will You forsake me
13 And now, dear brothers, I want you to know what happens to a Christian when he dies so that when it happens, you will not be full of sorrow, as those are who have no hope. 14 For since we believe that Jesus died and then came back to life again, we can also believe that when Jesus returns, God will bring back with him all the Christians who have died.
15 I can tell you this directly from the Lord: that we who are still living when the Lord returns will not rise to meet him ahead of those who are in their graves. 16 For the Lord himself will come down from heaven with a mighty shout and with the soul-stirring cry of the archangel and the great trumpet-call of God. And the believers who are dead will be the first to rise to meet the Lord. 17 Then we who are still alive and remain on the earth will be caught up with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air and remain with him forever. 18 So comfort and encourage each other with this news.
"In a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump and the trumpet shall sound----. We have hope in God.
Sister Folake we remember you always and on your birthday, Feb. 27th 2016. You live forever.
I honestly don't know what to say. I have held off on this long. I can imagine how much Molade misses you. You were so amazing you rubbed off on your kids. I'm glad I met you. I won't forget your smile ever.
I love you Molade!
She was so sweet and kind like an angel.
I remember one of the songs she used to sing at the fellowship where we both worked-National Archives,Lagos.
"Jesus at Your Name,I bow my knees.With your Spirit in my heart,I confess You are Lord"
She'll be greatly missed.
The consolation is that she was a believer.
You left a void that no one can replace.
Beautiful angel.
Looking forward to seeing your lovely smile in heaven.
The memory of the righteous is blessed Prov 10:7a
I miss your smile, I miss you always saying "pele my dear", and I miss the way you look at me with so much love and call me Molascoco.
Thank you for the love and care you showed, I'm reaping the seeds of your love even from strangers.
It's still hard to believe you're gone, but God keeps comforting me with the fact that He took you home to rest and that He will never leave me nor forsake me.
I miss you and will always love you!
Dupe Adeniyi, WV
HE looked down upon the earth and saw Folake's tired face.
HE put HIS arms around Folake and lifted her to rest.
God's garden must be beautiful; HE always takes the best!
HE knew you were suffering.
HE knew you were in pain.
HE knew you will never get well on earth again!
God saw the road was getting rough.
And the hills were hard to climb.
So HE closed your wearing eyelids.
And whispered "Peace be thine"!
It broke our hearts to loose you.
But you did not go alone,
For part of us went with you.
When God called you home!
~We will forever love you ❤️
'Shola Rosanwo,
My dearest friend,
A precious jewel,
A blessed heart,
You will be greatly missed, but never abandoned.
Every desire and dream for your children will be realized in Jesus name.
You loved the Lord,
You served with your heart,
God is faithful and He was your stay.
And since it’s best for you to be with Him now, what do we say?
All things are working together for your good.
My early childhood memories of you, was you as my ‘Guardian Angel’
And now I can be there for Demola, Molade, Junior and Bayo.
Adieu for now, till we meet again at His bosom.
Rest in His love.
Ore Odunsi (Sister)
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
I never laid eyes on her, yet her spirit has touched my heart.
To Shola and family: I pray your strength persists, and I pray her love doubles the power of what you possess to stand, and celebrate her life this day.
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My Best Friend
My mom was a very beautiful woman. And they say I look a lot like her too. We definitely have the same nose, cheeks, smile… In a lot of ways I am a mirror image of my mom. If I had to use one word to describe my mom it would be: selfless. And when I say selfless, I mean completely dead to self. All we really had was each other: my mom and her 4 children. She persevered through so much. She did not ask for much. She was happy as long as we were happy. My mom would sometimes make fun of herself in order to make us laugh because when we laughed, she also laughed. She taught us to laugh at our pain. All she wanted was for us to be happy and she did whatever she could in order to make that happen. She was so grateful for the people that God placed in our lives that became pretty much like family.
My mom taught me to not be so engrained in the pursuit of the finer things that I forget to appreciate the finest things in life. She did not have much and somehow she gave us so much. Everything I am and everything I hope to be I owe to God and my mother. I woke up everyday determined to make her proud. My mom had so much coming to her. God willing, I just needed like a couple more years. I’m twenty years old now and I never imagined that she would not be here to see me get married or have kids. My mom taught me how to love. Love is sacrifice. Love is not easily angered. Love keeps no record of wrong. And most importantly, Love is sharing your food with others no matter how hungry you are. My mom told me she loved me every single day and meant it every time. I hope to someday love my wife as much as my mom loved me.
The day I was leaving for Singapore, she was hugging and kissing me like she would never see me again (as she always does) and I was like “mommy I will be back”. Before I walked out she gave me this Our Daily Bread devotional that I have been reading throughout the year. I last spoke to my mom on Feb. 5 around 3am in Singapore (Feb. 4 1pm here) and her last words to me were “I love you too”, but the way she said it I could tell she was under a lot of discomfort. I felt for her and I prayed for her before going to bed. I woke up at 9am on Feb. 6 (7pm Feb. 5 here) and tried to call her four times but she did not answer. I feared the worst at that point because there was no way I would ever call my mom four times and she would not pick up, no matter where she was. I soon found out she had passed away. I later opened up the devotional for that day and it talked about blessings in disguise that can come in ways we least expect and we may still expect suffering when we are doing everything we think God expects of us.
God does not make mistakes. Everything happens for a reason. There is no way I could have been present when she passed away. I am not here today to mourn the death of my mother, but rather to celebrate the life of such a beautiful, selfless, loving, caring, and God-fearing woman. She lived such an amazing life in just 56 years. I promise to carry the torch of her life and to keep striving to make her proud in everything I do. The overwhelming support we have received is a testament to the amount of lives my mother impacted, even more so through the children she raised. On behalf of my family, I would like to thank everyone for the support, thoughts, and prayers during this time.
My Angel
Mommy I can't believe I won't hear your voice calling me Molascoco.
Mommy you were so patient and gentle to a fault.
Your strength was in your meekness.
You were there for everything, you were there. You loved us with everything you had. You lived for us your children.
It’s hard speaking of you in past tense. I never imagined you will go this soon.
We always talked about you being there at my wedding and we talked so many times of how you would take care of my children.
God had better plans for you my angel. He wanted you to rest. My angel. You woke up every morning before 6 to pray for us.
You left the sweetest voice mails and sent I love you text messages almost everyday, even when you knew we would be back home at night. I’m going to miss those calls, voicemails and text messages.
You were very generous with your hugs and kisses it was quite embarrassing.
Now I miss them. I wish I could get one more deep hug, one more mommy/daughter date to get our nails done, to go shopping, to have lunch.
You would cook and still wanted to wash the dishes, and do the laundry even when we were all grown.
You liked to sing and I am grateful for the time we sang together in the church choir. Now you'll be singing with the angels.
You didn’t care for expensive things, you enjoyed the simple things like a good cup of tea, and a good book.
And your smile mommy, it lit up the room.
When I was upset you would tell me over and over again Molade you just have to forgive and forgive and forgive.
You were the wind beneath my wings, you let me fly, my biggest cheerleader.
You were my home.
And your smile mommy, it lit up the room.
I love you and I miss you, it feels like a piece of my heart is missing.
Mommy you loved me. I’ll miss you my angel.
You left me a legacy of love and forgiveness and I pray I can make you and God proud.
Mommy shine like your favorite verse says:
“Arise, shine;
For your light has come!
And the glory of the Lord is risen upon you.”
Isaiah 60:1
Your princess
‘Molade