My deepest condolences to the Oyenusi family. May the good Lord grant them the fortitude to bear this grave loss. Is been a long minute since I last saw Tunji, back in Maryland. I remembered him as a very sociable fellow always full of laughter. May God forgive his shortcomings and grant him eternal peaceful rest.

We give God all the Glory for the Life and time my name sake spent on mother earth.We were class mates at St Judes Primary School,Ebute meta from 1964 to 1970.Tunji was Extraordinary brilliant in school and a Handsome Man.Lovely fellow anytime he comes to Nigeria to see his Mum now Late and Siblings,Mrs Adeola Fajolu and Tunde Oyenusi.
My Condolences to the Wife and children. May his gentle soul rest in peace.Amen

I couldn’t believe that Tunji has gone too soon!!!! Who are we to question God? We thank God for the life of the departed soul, his achievements, his relationship with God and his loved ones.
I can recall his calmness, seriousness and ever smiling face while we were all growing up in Apapa Road. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
On behalf of the Ogundipe family, our condolences to his siblings, we share your loss and grief at this time .E ku ara fe ra ku. Odun a Jin sira loruko Jesu, Amin.
We pray for strength and guidance from above for his wife and children, may the Lord uphold
and be merciful unto the family in Jesus name amen.
Fehintola Yemidale ( Nee Ogundipe)

We thank God for Tunji's life, whist this is so sad he is now at peace. Tunji was always great to be around and welcoming anytime I visited the US. I was looking forward to returning the favour by encouraging him to come to the UK with the family. We are left with fond memories and his lasting legacy. Rest with the Angels.

*MY BROTHER ADETUNJI HAS GONE HOME, TO BE WITH THE LORD*
Sorrow fills my heart at this sad moment, a sorrow that is deep and personal.
We prayed for divine healing for our darling brother, but God had a better plan for him, by calling him home to Himself. To a place where there will be no more pains, sorrow and agony.
Our parents brought us up to be one another's best friend and this made us to be closely knit. This is why Adebowale, Adeniyi and myself can't come to terms with your death. If tears could wake the dead, you would have woken up by now.
While Adetunji was at Government College Ibadan, I was at Queen’s School Ibadan, a few blocks away. I was opportuned to play the big sister role, making sure that Tunji was comfortable to the best of my ability. You were my confidant, any friend that you didn't approve of was dropped immediately.
Tunji was an exceptionally brilliant person, winning many prizes in school. He was even on the Dean's List at Howard University.
Tunji was a splendid man, generous to a fault, self sacrificing, charming and very humorous; there was never a dull moment with him.
Tunji was a delight to have as a son, brother, and uncle.
He was a devoted husband to his wife and affectionate father to his children.
He was a man of high integrity and boundless enthusiasm for whatever task he took on.
He was a board member of Bethel AME Church October 1996-April 2002, where he served as deacon and trustee.
True greatness in life lies in service to God and humanity. I am proud and consoled that he left a good legacy, with his selfless service and commitment to God's Kingdom.
May God comfort the family, especially his wife Morenike, and his children- Femi, Oyinade, and Olamide.
We can never be separated from those we love, because the memories of their good deeds are ever with us.
Sun re o, *'Tonjolo'*
Forever missed.
*Your sister : Adeola Fajolu nee Oyenusi Esq*

"He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from The Lord".
"Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies".
Tunji, The Lord truly blessed and favoured you with such a wife and brilliant and caring children.
You in turn showed your gratitude to God by doing the best that you could.
You were also a dutiful and caring son-in-law and we thank God for your care of them all.
Rest now in Perfect Peace and may The Almighty Father receive your spirit in Love and Mercy.
Oyinkan and Aronke (Kike's Aunties)

Bros Tunji as I fondly call you, though I was not close to you at GCI but very happy and fortunate to have been close to you in Maryland, your kind and honest counsel helped me a lot in my Real Estate career and thanks for sharing your life experiences with me. The entire GCIOBA community misses you bros. May your soul rest in peace Amen. May the good Lord console and comfort our sister Morenike, the kids and your loved ones that you have left behind in Jesus name Amen. Sis, we are here for you.

Ore mi atata, sun re o. I miss you even more, my friend, Tunji.
The news of your passing was unexpected. I was still holding on to hope that somehow you will get through this.
Tunji, kind-hearted, selfless to a fault, generous, giving, caring, just simply a wonderful person. Thank you for being a good friend.
My prayers are with you Morenike, Femi, Oyinade, Olamide, and the entire Oyenusi family. May God comfort and give you strength.
Much love,
Yemisi Balogun

Tunji,

How is it possible that you left so prematurely? Teddy Bear, you caught up with me in school because you skipped grades (you were so smart), hence becoming my classmate. Though you were my younger brother, I thought of you as my twin brother because we have the same circle of friends from primary school into adulthood. One of my regrets is permitting the ups and downs of life to force some distance between us. You’re a major part of my life. Your presence is synonymous with fun time, real time.

O! The fun we had as teenagers. I’m glad God positioned us together in life. I will always remember you as a confidant and close friend; both of us coming home from different boarding schools on holidays, hanging out with all of our friends, and driving together through Lagos to various parties.

My brother, you impacted the lives of so many people. The colors you painted as a good uncle is still very vivid with my children. You were a liaison between friend groups. You were a one-man welcome committee representative for new Nigerian students coming into the Washington DC/ Baltimore area.

My heart is broken into a million pieces to see you on that final sick bed so helpless knowing how helpful you were to the world around us in our heydays.

So long and farewell my brother and friend. I am missing you, but God demands of you more.

May God protect all your loved ones and shower them with peace, good health, and love. Rest in Peace My Brother.

-Adebowale Oyenusi

Brother Tunji,

Your jovial attitude towards life always kept me smiling. You made me feel so warm coming into the Oyenusi family. I remember traveling with Debo (my husband) to meet you in Maryland on multiple occasions. Your welcoming smile instantly made my heart feel warm. Your taste in music was exquisite and I loved dancing to your playlists. We would all go out dancing to parties and clubs and wake up to beautiful big breakfast cooked by you, a man of multiple talents.

We had great times before our children and family began to grow and even afterwards as we alternated holidays. It was incredible to see our two families mesh together. We would stay up late nights Christmas Eve with our spouses wrapping presents for the children, dance and sing carols.

We were praying fervently for God’s miraculous healing for you, brother Tunji. After all, he’s the same God that called Lazarus out of the grave. But with you, God’s intention was for you to vacate the body and come to him. You were taken from us too early but now you are an angel watching over us. I can still imagine you smiling down on us and can still feel the warmth that smile brings to us all.

Rest in Peace in the bosom of our Lord.

Anthonia Eruchie-Oyenusi (Sister In-Law)

It was really a shock to hear about your death, Tunji my dear friend and classmate. We saw last when you came to Houston. May you rest well.

TJ, this news came as a huge shock. Even though we didn’t communicate as we used too because life got i the way, you were always someone I knew would make me laugh and tell me to stop being a big baby. You teddy bear were always ready with a hug and words of wisdom and that your ready smile would be greatly missed. Losing you so soon and suddenly is not fair, “ why is life so unkind” , only the Lord knows his ways. Our loss is heavens gain. Rest in peace, in the bosom of the Lord my dear God Brother.

Jack, this is not how it is supposed to be. Got here before you but you've now claimed seniority. So many memories lasting almost 50 years. From Apapa Road to Victoria Island to Hyattsville and Summit Hills. Thank you my brother for the memories and your love. What I will miss most are your smiles, rib crackers (jokes), and that ability to find common ground and good in every relationship and everyone you encountered.

The crown prince from Irolu, I know you've gone to claim a higher throne, but as the saying goes "oku olomo kin sun" please keep watch over your darling Morenike and the kids. And may the good Lord give them the strength and peace of mind to continue the journey of life.

Rest in peace Jack!
Dewunmi (Omo Bobo)

Tunji or ‘T’ as I fondly call you. I am at a loss for words. Your untimely departure from this world has left me numb. You were my confidant, the person I could always share my thoughts with, and know that you would always give me your undivided attention. Even when you weren’t in the best of health, you still took time to listen to my woes. You were more than a friend to me, you were my brother and I miss you dearly. I remember when my dad, your Godfather first introduced us…it seems like just yesterday, and we’ve been close ever since. Your ready smile, laughter and jovial voice is forever engraved in my memory. Rest In Peace my beloved T. Adieu until we meet again. Love always from your God sister Ronke.

It’s hard bringing myself to writing this tribute. Whenever it crosses my mind that you are gone i shrug it off immediately and I’m still somewhat in denial. Where do I start, I’ve known you my whole life and you have been nothing but supportive. I remember that time in Lagos when you taught me how to make spaghetti with meatballs and wine. I remember the times you spoke to me about building a relationship with God, and how you teased me when my voice became baritone overnight. Everyday life and work took its toll on how often we communicated but without a doubt the love was always there. We were just celebrating you at 60, why did this have to happen?

It’s hard not mourn but I will celebrate your life. I would celebrate uncle T and his genius, uncle T winning all the prizes in school, uncle T and his silk suits, uncle T who wasn’t perfect but even his imperfections had love embedded in them, and most importantly uncle T the man who loved God. You might be gone but you would forever remain alive in all our hearts. Rest well with the Lord and say hi to grandma for me.

Rest assured your children, nephews and nieces would endeavor to make you proud to the best of our abilities so you have that beaming smile even in the after life.

May his soul rest in peace, it is not how long, but how well

Uncle Tunji,

I’ll always remember your laugh on our Christmas holidays together. It was so warm and contagious, making everyone around laugh too. I remember always seeing a confident smile on your face. It was always a joyous time having you around. Seeing the way you and my dad interacted made me cherish my own siblinghood with my brother.

I remember your prayers for grace before food. As a young child, I remember feeling so impatient, as sometimes you could recite an entire sermon before we chow down on lunch. I look back at those moments in awe of how amazing your relationship with God was.

I remember coming home from karate practice when I was still in elementary school and putting on a show to demonstrate my “skill”. I remember using you as my sparring partner and pretending I won our fake battle. The joys of such moments of innocence are so unreproducible.

Uncle, I love you. Rest in Peace. You are missed.

Your Niece,
Oluwabunmi Oyenusi

Life is a gift, Life is short, Life is a mystery, life is precious, life is valuable than every other thing in this world.
we don't have all the time to Life.
life is not measure by longitivity.
Life is measure by Impact .
Any life without Christ is full of chrisis.

I didn't know much about you sir, but I remembered your love, humility and coordinated life during Mummy Burial ceremony. Here in Nigeria.
Short but Impactful.
Rest On Daddy.
Rest in Peace.

May the Lord keep and preseve every other members of the family.

May the Lord satisfy every other members of the Family with Long life in good health and in the centre of God's will for their life's.

Genial, charming, shrewd, humorous: these were my first impressions of Bro. Tunji, urbane husband of my dear friend Kike - and they never faded. I was on a professorship (job) tour from Australia, and this dear couple had generously opened their home to me while I was attending the law ‘’meatmarket” in Washington DC. 

Right from the start, Bro. Tunji put me at ease, asking interested questions about the interviewing process, and I soon felt almost as comfortable with him as I did my friend of (then in 2005) twenty five years, his dear wife, Morenike. 

I can still recall one joke we laughed heartily about - it had to do with a desperate suitor, an Omo-Oge whose glamor owed much to horsehair extensions, and a Babalawo. Yes, it was ever so faintly risque, but Bro. Tunji’s skill as a raconteur was such that the humor was foremost, while the cheeky implications reversed far into the background.

On a trip back to their home, in the car after dark, after a midweek church service, we sang the “I’m a Map” song from Dora the Explorer - this was 16 years ago, while the young people were still ‘rugrats’ - we had a fun interlude chuckling at the childishly appealing absurdity of the song (and the show).

In short, Bro. Tunji was a genial, urbane man, fully engaged with his family, who took the time to cultivate friends - both his - as his pride and active participation in GCI Old Boy events demonstrated, and his welcoming demeanor to Kike’s friends such as I.

I am so sorry for the family’s loss. In the loss of their husband, father, brother and uncle, time in the valley of grief is unavoidable, but what a comfort to be able to trust that all is well.

This means that even while passing through the valley, guided by the Lord’s staff (Psalm 23: 4) - honoring the pain of his absence - we can be buoyed by the hope of eternal life in Christ, rejoicing that Bro. Tunji knew the Lord Jesus.

We will not, therefore, grieve as those who have no hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13), instead we will praise God for Bro. Tunji’s life, we will honor his memory, and we will enjoy a smile whenever a witty story or joke he told/might have told comes to mind.

Sun re, oko ore mi: Loruko Jesu, Amin.

Words seem so feeble in moments like this. Life is so precious and death such a thief.
Still unable to fathom the fact that you are gone but in it all I’m grateful to have had an amazing Uncle.
Even though you’re no longer here with us, you’re still so alive in our hearts.
Sleep well Uncle Tunji.

We miss you.
With love from Tolu Odunlami née Fajolu

Tunji, it is had to believe that you are gone. I can still hear your laughter and see your smiling face. You left a lasting impression on all who were lucky enough to meet and know you. You will be greatly missed. Now that your earthly journey is over, sleep well my dear friend in the bosom of the Lord. Watch over the family and friends you left behind.

About 10-minutes ago, I suddenly saw d image of Adetunji & his pleasant comportment, while we were studying architecture at Howard University, after more than 40yrs, but couldn't remember his surname.
I sent a message to Kelly Onwukwe reminding him to always pick his calls, bcos something significant might be waiting for him.
Suddenly, he sent me dis notification of Adetunji passing unto glory; what an oxymoron - a bittersweet experience!
In effect, dat flash of Adetunji was to tell me something Kelly ended telling me - dat I would never see d man I had just seen in a flash again!
May d beautiful soul of lively & friendly Adetunji Oyenusi rest in peace, in Jesus name!

"Bra Tunji", :-)

It would take way too long to explain the genesis of that private joke.

Initially meeting as classmates at GCI in January 1971, reconnecting on the East coast in the early '80s, and developing an enduring friendship.

May your family be comforted by your memory.....

I appreciate you brother and will miss you........

This is like a part of me went away forever. TJ as I fondly called my brother Tunji is no more.
I was like the 4th Oyenusi brother the way we bonded. Nothing we did not know about each other. From Surulere to FSS to Howard we were always together.
A great personality, a loving husband and father, a respectful child all parents were proud of, a trustworthy friend to all, a fun loving, happy-go-lucky, no dull-moment, free-spirited professional and above all my confidant.
TJ you left too soon but God knows best. My entire family will miss you dearly.
I pray for your gentle soul to keep resting in the bosom of the Lord until those of us still lucky to be at this end of the divide join you to part no more.
God please grant Morenike, the children and the entire family members left behind the fortitude to bear this great loss.
Sun re o my dear brother by another mother.

Tribute in honour of Adetunji Oyenusi on behalf of Entebbe section old students of St. Jude's school Ebute metta, Lagos - Nigeria.

News of the demise of our dear brother and friend Tunji came to us a few days ago as a rude shock.

Tunji was with us in the entebbe section of St. Judes school, Ebute metta between 1964 and 1970. While many of us may not have come across him in the last of 51 years, yet some of us ran into him sometimes in the U.S. which had become his abode for many decades until he passed.

For me as a person, Tunji was part of a troika of us (himself, another Tunji and I) who used to be together especially after school in those good old days. We had our fair share of being naughty at times and weren't often spared for such acts. Secondary school separated us, but we still kept in touch. Our last meeting was a function hosted by a mutual friend somewhere on the East Coast of the United States.

Alas the race of life is now over for Tunji...no one knows who will be next. Our prayer is that we be fully reconciled with our maker before that time. I am reliably informed that Tunji spent a better part of his last 2 years in and out of hospitals...and he must indeed have set his house in order.

May the good Lord grant him eternal rest and peace.

Adieu Tunji...sun re o...

Bayo Adewakun
For 1964 - 1970 Entebbe section students of St Jude's School, Ebute metta, Lagos - Nigeria.

Life!

We met first as classmates in January of 1971 and bonded instantly as he enjoyed a good laugh.

Steady, dependable, wise Tunji will be sorely missed for his friendship and wise council and always remembered for his endearing nature, his simple wide smile and hearty laugh.

Till we again meet.

May his kind soul find rest. Amen.

Unfortunately I didn't know Tunji all that well but I have known his wife Kike for over 20 years. Tunji was always very kind to me whenever I would see him.

Through Kike, I know he was wonderful, loving husband and a kind and gentle soul.

I'm very sorry I won't have the opportunity to get to know him better and I know that is truly my loss.

I know that the loss to his wife and children is immeasurable and I have no doubt that every one who knew him well, feels the same way!

My deepest sympathy to the entire Oyenusi family for their great loss during this very difficult time.

I woke up with the sad news of Adetunji's passing. I met him through the GCI Old Boys Association of North America Chapter. This was a brother that I admire for his sense of charm, humility and caring spirit. I last saw him at his 60th birthday celebration.

To the family he left behind our heartfelt condolences.

"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” — Maya Angelou

May he rest in perfect peace in the bossom of the Lord.

Our deepest sympathy and condolences to the Oyenusis. Tunji, Popsie as we called him then at Howard University was the life of the crowd. He was a very happy, gregarious, funny, and caring person. His love for people was evident in the way he related and interacted with them. He will surely be missed. Morenike and kids, may the Lord keep you and give you comfort in knowing that he’s gone to rest. Our prayers are with you.
Remain blessed.
Taiye Awojoodu

Adieu Tunji, you have ascended to eternity following a graceful and well lived life to be proud of. Those of us who were privileged to have shared life experiences with you will always cherish the memories. May God guide and protect all the loved ones you left behind.

Tunji,
I am not sure how to process the news of your death. We first met in elementary school while you were representing St. Jude's Elementary School, Ebute Metta and I was representing St. John's Elementary School, Aroloya Lagos in a Bible competition. We then ended up at Field House, GCI together.
The last time we spoke was when you were in the  hospital and we both prayed for good heath.
 May Almighty God accept you into His Bossom and Comfort the family members you left behind.
Tunji, Sun re o.

BROTHERS...

In the begining we met at Government College,
Then we caught up as HU Bison,
And when I started Moonlighting,
He was the first Team Member,
And then we journeyed to Sandtown-Winchester,
Where we framed many Houses,
And touched many Lives,
Then one day he shared the Good News,
And it suddenly made Sense
So he became The Pastor
Lives so Connected
And then torn so far Apart
You will be forever Missed
@oluxola1

My sweet jolly Uncle. It all still seems like a bad dream, that I want to wake up from but unfortunately its not. Youve always been a part of my life since I was a born so not having you around now is just sad.
I am very happy for one thing though that you knew the Lord before you passed, so I would not mourn like one who doesn't have hope, because I know that on the last day we would see again in glory.
Keep singing with the angels free from pain and sorrow.

We love you, forever in our hearts.

Gbeminiyi Olofin nee Fajolu

My husband and I met Tunji in the late 80’s when we first moved to the area. We lived in the same complex and spent quite some time together. Tunji was smart, enterprising, jolly, warm, caring and helpful. He had a big heart, always ready to help and fun to be around! We will always remember him fondly. 

May his soul rest on peacefully. May the Lord Almighty who sees every tear and knows every heart, comfort and strengthen Morenike and the children. We are standing with you during this difficult time. Be blessed.

This is such shocking and sad news. Tunji was bubbly and fun. He always went clubbing and to the cinema with me whenever I visited them in Baltimore and Kike could not be dragged out! His faith meant the world to him and I appreciated all the effort he made to break it down to me over several visits – his explanations have been the clearest I have ever had. His family meant the world to him they will miss him terribly. We will all miss him too but we are glad his ill health / suffering is over. I'm praying for strength for Kike and his children Femi, Oyinade and Olamide, his siblings, cousins and friends. May he rest in perfect peace.