To live in the hearts of those we love is not to die.....Deyo and I met at Yaba Tech and we hit it off.....Deyo had this quizzical look, full of smiles but behind it a wealth of wisdom. When she and Yomi started dating, she and I had long chats about relationships and I learnt a lot from her. Deyo took over Yomis life abd rearranged him. She was indeed not just a lover, but a caring and wise doting mother. I visited her a lot in their Apapa Road family house and was well known to her family. I also kept visiting her and Yomi after they got married, but soon, I had to travel out, there were no phones and we lost touch. Last year, I'm not very good with Facebook, but I searched Deyo and found her but possibly an old account as she had not been on it for about 6 months but I sent a message to one of the twins I saw and described myself that they should tell Deyo, but the response I got was the person didn't know Deyo, apparently not one of her twins. She was the master planner in school and treated us all as if she was much older, and she tells me, omo arugbo ni mi.....Deyo was up and doing, so all that I have read in the tributes are true to her nature. Yomi, the Lord God Almighty will uphold you, comfort you, wrap you in His warm embrace and care for you. Enjoy your children and grandchildren. Hold on tenaciously to your God and He will give you the grace to bear the loss. To the children, Ore, Taiwo and Kehinde, I thank God you showed your mum that her labours over you was worth it. We wish she lived to enjoy her labours but, guess what, she's in a better place now. May God comfort you all, your spouses and children also. Mama Jirin, I'm so sorry ma. I planned to visit your family home as I wanted to reconnect with my wise friend. May God comfort you ma. It is well. My heart is heavy, my eyes stricken with grief but the consolation is shes in the best place. Adieu Deyo....rest well and enjoy with our father in Heaven....