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Born May 18, 1954 in Piddig, Ilocos Norte, Philippines, Adoracion Agustin (fondly known as Adora, Ador or Adoring) always had a zest for life.   She was devoted to her family, friends and community.  Survived by her daughters Irene Ann, 42, and Leah Grace, 39, and grandchildren, Joleyann, 12, and Camille, 5, she wanted nothing more than healthy, happy children and grandchildren.  

Adora was always a natural care giver.  One could only imagine how devastated she was when her father informed her that he did not have enough money to send her to nursing school.  Adora cried for three days straight until her father dragged her to the local university and enrolled her to get a degree in agriculture.  

Little did Adora know, that the love of her life lived in her hometown.  She had many suitors. Beautiful but shy, it wasn't until Norma Agustin, a local teacher, introduced Adora to her younger brother, Irineo (also known as Jun).  Jun was 8 1/2 years older than she was, but she loved how handsome and tall he was.  

Before joining the US Marine Corps, Adora and Jun married.  Jun was shipped out and in 1976, they were reunited when he was deployed to Camp LeJune in North Carolina. In 1977, they decided to head west after Jun separated from USMC.  They intended to settle in California, but a very pregnant Adora, decided she didn't want to travel any further.  A snowstorm had them stranded in St. Louis and they decided to stay.  

On May 22, 1978, their oldest child, Irene Ann, was born. Then two years later on December 11th came Leah Grace.  She raised two kids and worked nights in the Pulmonary Department at Saint Louis University Hospital.  Adora never gave up on her dream to become a nurse and went back to school.  In 1995, Adora finished her nursing program.  She ultimately landed a job at the VA as a nurse working in the intensive care unit. 

Adora was dedicated to nursing and helped so many people.  Sadly, her career was cut short due to a brain tumor that forced her into early retirement.  Adora underwent two craniotomies and radiation. Jun was by her side to take care of her and nursed her back to health.  They enjoyed retirement by traveling the world. In 2008, they welcomed their first grandchild, Joleyann, and loved being grandparents.  

In 2012, Jun was diagnosed with renal cell carcinoma and underwent surgery to remove the tumor.  The day he was to be discharged, he aspirated, coded and our lives were forever changed.  With a very bleak prognosis, Jun was put on hospice care.

Adora was determined to care for him and comfort him in his final days.  She loved him so much and was by his side until the day he died.  Originally, doctors thought Jun would only live a week, but he lived a year, just over one month after his youngest grandchild, Camille, was born.

Life without Jun took adjustment, but Adora focused her attention on her grandchildren.  She also took time to travel out-of-the country and visited places like China, Italy and Greece with her closest friends.  

In 2017, her doctor discovered that the brain tumor came back.  She underwent a third craniotomy and sadly had a stroke that caused paralysis on the left side of her body and memory loss.  

Regardless of what was going on in her life, Adora remained positive and happy.  She went to live with her cousin, Beth, who was able to provide the supervision she needed and together they lived life to the fullest.  They enjoyed dancing and drinks at the Ritz-Carlton to celebrate birthdays. They took trips together and went to Mexico and Wisconsin with the Christian For Life group.  Beth and Irene, took Adora back home to the Philippines in September 2019 which was her last trip before doctors discovered her tumor grew back again and more aggressively.  

Sadly, this all took a toll on her body and was placed in hospice in her final days.  Adora passed on May 19, 2020, an hour after her 66th birthday at Evelyn’s House in St. Louis, Missouri.  Her daughters, Leah and Irene, were by her side and she did not pass alone.

Adora was loved by so many.  She has left a lasting impression on anyone who was blessed to know her and her memory will live on in her children and grandchildren.  
May 18, 2021
May 18, 2021
Adora always had a smile to share
Time to give and time to care
She had a beautiful soul
with a spirit that was warm and true
Such a good friend
I really do miss you. Happy birthday
God bless always
June 8, 2020
June 8, 2020
Irene and Leah,
Ador was such a jewel! She will be missed. A tree will be planted in her memory at a USA national Forest.
May 27, 2020
May 27, 2020
Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.
               Matthew 11:28-30
May 24, 2020
May 24, 2020
We heard from a saddened Mary Brod of Adora's passing into eternity. We are MOST grateful for the hospitality and generosity Adora and Jun showed us over a dozen years ago, also instilling those virtues into Irene and Leah toward us. We felt like family when we got together. We praise God for putting them into our lives in these later years. God comfort and bless you.
May 23, 2020
May 23, 2020
Those we love don't go away
They walk beside us everyday
Unseen, unheard but always near
So loved, so missed, so very dear.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sorrowful time. Your mom will forever be in our hearts and will be greatly missed. God bless always and forever.

Diana Hibbler and Family.
May 20, 2020
May 20, 2020
Hi Irene, I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ve enjoyed hearing about your parents through the years through Katie. My heart is heavy and I will hold you all in prayer. Hugs and love to you and your family.
Love, Julie Finley Knott
May 20, 2020
May 20, 2020
Condolences to Adoring's family. May the Lord grant her peace and shine His perpetual Light upon her. May the angels, our blessed mother and SJPII accompany her to eternal rest. I will be offering up my Holy Hour for Adoring on Sunday. With deepest sympathies Daisy
May 20, 2020
May 20, 2020
Our sincerest sympathy and condolences to the bereaved family.
Remember your mercies O Lord and with your eternal protection sanctify your servants, as we commend the soul of our faithful departed Adora to thy kingdom.. Amen 
Prayers of comfort go to the family.

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May 18, 2021
May 18, 2021
Adora always had a smile to share
Time to give and time to care
She had a beautiful soul
with a spirit that was warm and true
Such a good friend
I really do miss you. Happy birthday
God bless always
June 8, 2020
June 8, 2020
Irene and Leah,
Ador was such a jewel! She will be missed. A tree will be planted in her memory at a USA national Forest.
May 27, 2020
May 27, 2020
Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.
               Matthew 11:28-30
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Funeral Arrangements

May 20, 2020
Due to COVID-19, there are capacity restrictions in some of the venues.  We will make sure to accommodate all who attend, but to help us prepare, we ask that you fill out the following form.

*You are required to wear a mask at all venues and to comply with social distancing.*

Visitation

Thursday, May 28, 2020
4:00 pm - 8:00 pm*
Kutis Funeral Home
10151 Gravois Rd
St. Louis, MO 63123

*Due to COVID-19, Kutis is allowing 9 visitors at a time. Please do not bring snacks to share. We will provide more details on visitation as we get closer to the date.

Funeral Mass
Friday, May 29, 2020
9:30 am - 10:30 am
St. Gerard Majella
1969 Dougherty Ferry Rd.
Kirkwood, MO 63122
Due to COVID-19 restrictions, funeral procession will be for family only.

Burial
Friday, May 29, 2020 (immediately following funeral mass, for family members only)
Jefferson Barracks
2900 Sheridan Road
St. Louis, MO 63125

Please send cards to 10716 Willinda Dr., St. Louis, MO. 63123.




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My Eulogy

May 30, 2020
My family and I are so thankful for those who could join us at my mom’s funeral mass. But we know many weren’t able to and I would like to share my eulogy with you.

Anyone who knew my mom, knew how beautiful a person she was.  She was like a magnet. People were naturally drawn to her.

My mom was kind and generous. She never hesitated to help others.  That’s probably why nursing was a natural career choice for her. She opened her home to many people.  She provided shelter for those who needed a place to stay, but they all really came because of the loving support my mom was willing to give to anyone.

My mom was hard working, passionate figure of strength who never waned in the support or love of her family, and who soldiered on even when times were tough.  When my dad became ill, she was by his side every step of the way.  None of us thought my dad would have survived as long as he did, but I believe he hung on because he didn’t want to leave my mom. She loved him and cared for him in   ways most people are not able or capable of doing.

My mom was brave.  She survived cervical cancer, three craniotomies and a stroke.  Despite her illnesses, my mom always had a zest for life. She traveled with her closest friends and visited Greece, Italy, Poland, Hong Kong, Mexico and many other countries.  Her fondest memory was people watching and eating pastries at a sidewalk cafe in France. 

Like most Filipinos, she loved to sing and dance.  She loved attending the Sinulog Festival and learning dances Tita Lily would choreograph with Ministry Families of Christ.  After her stoke, she was not able to join in, but she wore the costume with pride.  When everyone stood up to dance with their Santo Nino de Cebu, she typically would forget her “boyfriend” which was her cane and get up and dance. 

She was the “rock” of our family, the one everyone turned to and she genuinely loved everyone who crossed her path.  I’ll miss our time together, our drives and our talks.     She always worried about my sister and I and her “babies” Joleyann and Camille.  But I hope my mom and dad know that their bravery, strength and love will live on through their children and grandchildren.

To say they will be missed is an understatement.  I don’t want to say goodbye.  I want my mom here.  I want both my parents here. 

I know it’s God’s will, but it’s just not fair.  She left this earth way too soon, both my parents did.

Mom, I know your with dad and I hope your at peace.  I hope you can see the many people here and around the world that will miss and love you.  And know that your memory will live on in your children, grandchildren, family and friends.
May 20, 2020
I was blessed to know and meet Adoring through her dear cousin Beth and the Alliance of the two hearts. Adoring always had such a great disposition, She was kind and her smile was the sweetest. Fly high and free Adoring. I know your beloved Jun is welcoming you with open arms and your smile is even sweeter and bigger. We will miss you but know that your suffering has ended. No more pain, no more tears. May the Lord keep you in the palm of His hands dear faithful friend. Daisy

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