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ALFRED H. MILLS (1933-2021)
Alfred Henry Mills died on January 9, 2021 in San Diego, CA of Covid-19. He was 87 years of age.
Al was born in Neenah, WI on November 25, 1933 to Norman J. and Ruth (Anderson) Mills. He grew up on the family dairy farm in rural Outagamie County and attended Elm Tree School, a one-room country schoolhouse. Al graduated from Neenah High School as salutatorian in 1951. Under an NROTC scholarship Al attended the University of Wisconsin-Madison, where he studied electrical engineering and graduated in 1956. He received his master’s degree from UCLA in 1965.
Al married Mary Ann (Protheroe) Mills on February 4, 1956. Three days later the newlyweds left Wisconsin in their 1950 Pontiac for the 2,000+ mile drive – mostly on Route 66 – to San Diego, CA. For the next three years Al served in active duty in the US Navy, mostly aboard the USS Calvert, achieving the rank of LTJG. After Al’s discharge the couple remained in the San Diego area, where their children – David, Kathryn, and Paula -- were born and raised.
Al’s career as an electrical engineer coincided with the enormous expansion of the aerospace industry in Southern California. He worked for General Dynamics for over 30 years, in supervision and management much of that time. After retiring from GD in 1990, Al served as general manager for EMACO/TUV Product Services for 4 years. He was also a Senior Member of the Institute of Electrical and Electronics Engineers.
Al and Mary became members of Scott Memorial Baptist Church in 1956, and subsequently were members of Shadow Mountain Community Church with the move of the church to El Cajon. The church community served as the foundation for some of their most enduring and dearest friendships. In 2009, Al and Mary moved to Covenant Living at Mount Miguel where they were blessed with numerous new friends.
Al enjoyed tinkering in his small shop in the family garage. He was an inveterate do-it-yourselfer and home handyman. With the analytical temperament of an engineer and the frugal nature of one raised during the Depression, Al delighted in finding new uses for discarded objects – long before recycling became the vogue. Favorite hobbies also included bee-keeping, raising rabbits, and tending his numerous fruit trees.
Another of Al’s favorite activities was the transcontinental road trip. Every year or two the family would be packed up into a car (or occasionally a rented RV) for a cross-country vehicular adventure to visit friends and relatives, national parks, and historic sites. After the children moved out these road trips eventually gave way to cruises with Mary and friends or the occasional trip to Europe.
Al is survived by his wife of nearly 65 years, Mary Mills of Spring Valley, CA; son David Mills and his wife Nan of Santa Barbara, CA; daughter Kathryn Hunt and her husband Walter of O’Fallon, IL; daughter Paula Prohaska and her husband Gary of Cary, NC; grandchildren Travis, Brianna, Kai, Lainey, and Kylie; great-grandson Harrison; and by numerous nieces and nephews. Al was preceded in death by his parents and by his brother, John N. Mills.
Donations may be made in Al’s memory to the Benevolent Fund at Covenant Living at Mount Miguel, to or Shadow Mountain Community Church. No memorial services are planned at this time due to pandemic restrictions.
January 8, 2022
January 8, 2022
We have missed you this past year, Dad, but I am sure you are having a great time in Heaven! We love you!!
May 10, 2021
May 10, 2021
Condolences to you Mary and your Family from your TÜV SÜD America Inc. Family. I had the privilege of meeting (Al) Mr. Mills as I addressed him during my 9 years of employment at General Dynamics - Convair Division. Later down the road I was honored and surprised to be working together again here at TÜV SÜD America Inc. in the EMC Department. Mr. Mills was a great mentor to me as well to my late husband William C. Vega (Billy) -NARTY Engineer of EMACO which is now called TÜV SÜD - EMC where I have remained employed over 25 years. I just wanted to let you know his legacy lives on which I believe was guided by Jesus Christ our Lord with his knowledge that changed so many lives and will continue for many years to come.
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
I remember Al and Mary joining Ron and me on mission trips to Alaska and France. Al had a servant's heart; he was willing to do anything asked of him for the kingdom of God. My Ron went to be with the Lord two years ago, so I am picturing Ron welcoming Al to his heavenly home. I pray for you, Mary, as you grieve. I understand.
March 31, 2021
March 31, 2021
Al was our cousin and I remember he would come home from the Navy in his
uniform for visits in WI and I was about 9-12 yrs old. We were intrigued with the latest and greatest gadgets that he would bring home from Japan that always entertained us as they were so unique at the time, such as, recorders and movie cameras etc. Enjoyed Al and Mary's many visits to WI.

Our sympathy Mary and family.

Love from the Clyde Andersen Family

 
March 27, 2021
March 27, 2021
I remember Al as a very thoughtful and modest person who loved his family. My husband Dick admired Al and always said Al was the smartest man he had ever known. Al, Guy East, Art McGrew and Dick enjoyed many a card game together. For several years, once a month, Al and Mary, Guy and Jean East, At and Arline McGrew and Dick and I had pot luck dinners, celebrating birthdays and followed by cards for the men.  Deciding to buy Dine-Out Books, we were then known as "The Dine Out Group." We all enjoyed eating at different restaurants around San Diego,. We included Dick and Darlene Need, when they were home on leave. How fortunate to be given avocados from the Mill's ranch (aka back yard) and, also, to benefit from Al's car-repair knowledge. I remember that Dick and I had the pleasure of serving with the Mills on the Ambassador's Class Party Committee at Scott Memorial Baptist Church, East, now Shadow Mountain Community Church.    I am sure that Guy, Art and Dick were there to welcome Al to Heaven!
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
Ginger remembers happy visits. Walter remembers times at General Dynamics, and we're glad we will meet again around the throne. Love to you, Mary, and we're praying for you. We were so sorry when the visiting restrictions happened here at Mt. Miguel because of Covid, and the bumpy ground kept Mary from getting up to his window.  
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
We played so many games together, Al was the best at keeping score and remembering all the plays. It was always a treat to be around the table at the Mills house. You knew the conversation would be enjoyable with Al guiding the subject matter. We traveled together, ate countless meals especially pizza and movie nights, served on committees together at church and worshiped together. What a blessing it was to call Al our friend. I know there is much celebrating in heaven among friends already there.
March 2, 2021
March 2, 2021
Jim & I were privileged to be friends of the Mills for over 50 years. Al was always the gentleman. I was intimidated to be his partner in card games because with his keen mind he could remember every card played & I was afraid of making the wrong choice. We & our families grew up together & even when we lived on opposite ends of town, the friendship continued. We were able to spend a week with the Mills in Branson, MO & have great memories of that trip. Al was a quiet man of God but one of great influence.

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January 8, 2022
January 8, 2022
We have missed you this past year, Dad, but I am sure you are having a great time in Heaven! We love you!!
May 10, 2021
May 10, 2021
Condolences to you Mary and your Family from your TÜV SÜD America Inc. Family. I had the privilege of meeting (Al) Mr. Mills as I addressed him during my 9 years of employment at General Dynamics - Convair Division. Later down the road I was honored and surprised to be working together again here at TÜV SÜD America Inc. in the EMC Department. Mr. Mills was a great mentor to me as well to my late husband William C. Vega (Billy) -NARTY Engineer of EMACO which is now called TÜV SÜD - EMC where I have remained employed over 25 years. I just wanted to let you know his legacy lives on which I believe was guided by Jesus Christ our Lord with his knowledge that changed so many lives and will continue for many years to come.
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
I remember Al and Mary joining Ron and me on mission trips to Alaska and France. Al had a servant's heart; he was willing to do anything asked of him for the kingdom of God. My Ron went to be with the Lord two years ago, so I am picturing Ron welcoming Al to his heavenly home. I pray for you, Mary, as you grieve. I understand.
His Life

My Autobiography by Alfred Mills, written in July 2015

February 22, 2021
Early Childhood Years

I was born of the 24th of November 1933 at the Theda Clark Memorial Hospital in Neenah, Wisconsin. My parents were Norman and Ruth Anderson Mills. My mother told me that I actually came into this world just before midnight on the 24th. However, my birth certificate gives my birth date as November 25th. During my early years, my birthday was observed on the 24th but later on we changed the observance to the 25th. My full name was Alfred Henry Mills. I was named after my two grandfathers. My brother, John, was born on the 29th of September, 1932.

At the time of my birth, my parents were living on the Mills homestead west of Greenville, Wisconsin. My great-grandfather had moved from Ohio to the Greenville area in 1848 and had acquired a quarter section, 160-acres, of land. After my grandfather died, my father continued working the farm until 1936.The land remained in the extended Mills family. My cousin and her family are operating the farm now.

In 1938, a 40-acre farm, west of Appleton, became available for purchase. My parents had very little money, but they were able to work out a deal with the previous owner and a woman in Appleton. Her name was Mary Ripple, and my parents considered her to be an angel. My parents were able to acquire the land, the buildings, some farm machinery and some farm animals for $5,400.There was no electricity or running water. A windmill and water well were located near the barn. We used kerosene lanterns for lighting and carried water in pails from the well to the house. During the next couple of years, my dad wired the house and barn for electricity and plumbing was installed, so we had running water, a bathtub, and a toilet in the house.

My mother and father were hard workers and wonderful parents for my brother and me. My mother had attended a Oshkosh State Teachers College after high school and taught at a rural school teacher before she was married. My brother and I benefited from her background as a teacher. My dad did not have the opportunity to go to school past the 8th grade, but he did a lot of reading and was self taught in farming and electrical work. My mother died on August 30, 1977, and my dad died on March 28, 1984.

School Days

For our elementary grades, my brother and I attended a one-room rural school. My brother was one year ahead of me in school. We would walk 2 miles to get to school. Occasionally in the winter, when temperatures would drop to 10 degrees below zero or colder, we would get a ride to school, unless the snow was too deep or the road had not been plowed. I don't recall a school day being canceled due to cold weather or too much snow. The school typically had 15 to 24 students in the eight grades with one teacher. Students would sit at desks and go up to a table with the teacher for lessons. There were three other students in my grade.

After 8th grade, my brother and I attended Neenah High School. We should have gone to a different high school, but our parents got permission for us to go to Neenah HS. They wanted us to go on to college and felt we would be better prepared there. My brother and I took college preparatory courses and did well academically. I graduated in 1951 as salutatorian of my class of 138 students. It was quite a change going from the one-room rural school to Neenah HS. I enjoyed school and went the four years of high school without missing a day.

During my senior year of high school, I took an examination applying for an NROTC (Naval Reserve Officer Training Corps) scholarship. It was necessary for our family since my parents did not have adequate funds to send me away to college. I passed the exam and physical and received the scholarship. It paid for books and tuition and $50 per month for room and board. This essentially covered all my expenses at the University of Wisconsin in Madison. Under the NROTC program, I had to take a course in Naval Science each semester, go on a six-week midshipman cruise during the summers, serve three years of active duty after receiving my commission and be in the inactive reserve for five years after completing the active duty. It was a great program.

At the University of Wisconsin I enrolled in the electrical engineering program with an option in electronics. I became a member of Phi Eta Sigma, an honor society for first-year college students, Tau Beta Pi, an engineering honor society, and Eta Kappa Nu, an electrical engineering honor society. I graduated on the 28th of January 1956 with a Bachelor Degree in Electrical Engineering and a Bachelor Degree in Naval Science and received my commission as an Ensign in the United States Navy.

Mary Ann Protheroe Mills

I tell people that Mary Ann and I met when I was twice as old as she, when I was four and she was two. There may be some truth in this as we both attended Whiting Memorial Baptist Church in Neenah during the time we were youngsters. During high school and my college days we were active in the youth group at church. We both went to Bible camps during several summers. Mary Ann dated my brother for a short time while I dated her good friend, JoAnn Petersen. When I was a junior in college Mary Ann and I started dating. I would come home from Madison for weekends and school breaks. Typically we would go to a movie and then stop for a 25-cent hamburger with fries. We became engaged in July of 1955 with plans to get married after I finished college.

Mary and I were married on February 4th, 1956 at Whiting Memorial Baptist Church. It was a small evening wedding, with the weather about 15 degrees below zero. The cold weather did not keep relatives and the hearty Wisconsin people away, so the church was packed. After the reception and time at the Protheroe home, we headed to Green Bay for our first night together. The next morning we started packing our few belongings in our 1950 Pontiac for the trip to San Diego. We left Wisconsin on February 7th with orders from the Navy to report to the Amphibious Base in Coronado, wherever that was.

Mary has been the most wonderful wife, mother, grandmother, cook, and homemaker.  She unfailingly supported me in my career and brought up our children to be the wonderful people they are today.  She deserves special credit for maintaining her own health, since she has been a type I diabetic since 1958.  Mary is a Godly woman who delights in helping people in need.   She has been a dear friend to me and so many others.

Navy Days

We made the trip from Wisconsin to San Diego in about 8 days, traveling most of the way on Route 66. When we arrived in the San Diego area, we drove down Highway 163 through Balboa Park. We were impressed with the difference between the warm and green San Diego and the snowy remembrance of Wisconsin. We crossed the bay to Coronado by ferry and took a kitchenette unit at the Coronado Motor Inn on Orange Avenue. For the next several weeks I attended an amphibious indoctrination school and navy communications school at the Amphibious Base. Then my orders were to attend a damage control school and fire fighting school at the Navy Treasure Island facility in San Francisco. We had a small apartment in Berkeley. In 1957 we bought a new Volkswagen bug for about $1500. I kept that car for 26 years, put 267,000 miles on it and sold it for $3000. It was a great little car.

My next orders sent me to my permanent duty station which was the USS Calvert, APA-32 in Long Beach. After an overhaul period, the ship sailed to San Diego and I was assigned to the Engineering Department on the ship. During the next couple of months, preparations were made for the first of three Westpac cruises I was to make on the Calvert. The first cruise took me to Yokosuka, and I spent about three months in the Western Pacific. Then the Navy flew me back to San Diego to attend an engineering officer's school. On my flight back to Japan, I was delayed several days and missed a flight that ended up disappearing somewhere between Wake Island and Japan. God did not intend to have my life end at that time.

I served aboard the USS Calvert for about 2 1/2 years. Most of the time I was the assistant engineering officer and the division officer for the 'M' and 'B' divisions, working in the engine and boiler rooms. I enjoyed my time of active duty in the Navy, got some valuable experience in management, and had the opportunity to travel, but I did not gain any experience in electronics. Since my emphasis in college had been in electronics, we decided that I would leave the Navy after completing my obligations and get into some work where I could use my college training. I was released from active duty on January 27, 1959.

Employment

After my time in the Navy, I applied for employment at the Astronautics Division of General Dynamics and went to work at their Kearny Mesa facility in February 1959.  I started in the antenna group, with a monthly salary of $525. This group designed antennas for the various versions of the Atlas which was developed as an ICBM and then later as a launch vehicle for space exploration.  At General Dynamics I also worked in a test evaluation group and an electronics design group before ending up in the RFI (Radio Frequency Interference) group. This became the EMC (Electro-Magnetic Compatibility) group, and in 1970 I became the engineering supervisor of this group.  I continued with this position until February 1990 when I retired from General Dynamics.

During the 1980s one of my coworkers at GD started his own EMC testing company in San Diego called EMACO, which was later sold to TUV Product Services, a German company. I became General Manager of the San Diego operation of EMACO/TUV in February 1990. We had between 18 and 24 employees and did EMC and product safety testing for electronics manufacturers to show compliance with FCC and European requirements. I enjoyed my time at EMACO and retired in August 1994.

Retirement Years

Following my retirement, Mary and I went on several cruises as well as trips to see our children, friends and relatives. Cruise destinations included Panama Canal, Alaska, Western Mediterranean, Caribbean, Australia/New Zealand, Baltic Sea, Mexican Riviera, Pacific Coast, St. Lawrence Seaway, Hawaii and South America. Several times, we told our relatives and friends in Wisconsin that we were on our last driving trip to the Midwest and then we would do it again a year or two later. We enjoyed visiting family in Oklahoma, Illinois, North Carolina, Michigan and of course, Wisconsin. I estimated that we drove 35 times between San Diego and the Midwest.

Genealogy research occupied some of my time since retiring from the workplace. In my genealogy files, I have the names and relationships of over 2300 individuals spanning 12 generations with the earliest date of 1542. Mary and I spent time in several court houses and in a variety of cemeteries collecting information. We have been fortunate to have received information from relatives as well.

In August 2009 Mary and I moved into a two-bedroom apartment at Mount Miguel Covenant Village (now Covenant Living at Mount Miguel) in Spring Valley, CA.  This is a retirement community operated by the Evangelical Covenant Church with a wide variety of activities and services available to residents.  With several retired missionaries and pastors living here, we have plenty of opportunities for Bible studies and chapels.

God's Blessings

This is the most important part of my autobiography as I tell about my relationship with God. As a young boy, my parents took my brother and me to Sunday school and church on a regular basis. At that time, I had only a child-like understanding of God, the Trinity, God's love, and His salvation plan. However, when I was about seven or eight, I had enough understanding that I believed and received Jesus. When I was 13, I went to a Bible camp and I committed my life to Jesus and accepted Him as my Savior. I did not always walk with Him, but He kept me from turning away. I confess that I have sinned but through the grace of God, I have been forgiven so that today I know that I am a sinner saved by the blood of the Lord Jesus Christ.

As I look back over my life, I can truly say, "God has been good" and we have been greatly blessed. I have had a wonderful life due to my family and because of my relationship with Jesus Christ. He has given me blessings upon blessings and life would not be worth living without Him. He is a wonderful Savior. The hope and assurance of my future with Him in Heaven gives me comfort. I look forward to spending eternity with Him.
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To Tie a Tie

March 11, 2021
It was the late 1970s.  I was young, naïve, and on a road trip for a grad school interview.  In my hotel room I showered, laid out my suit, and shined my shoes.  I’ll admit I was a bit nervous.  As I got dressed, I realized to my horror that I’d forgotten how to tie a necktie.  Panic began to set in.

I called my dad and explained my predicament.  He attempted to talk me through tying the tie but found that he couldn’t do it without actually having a tie around his neck.  Moreover, he had to be looking at himself in a mirror in order to do it.  “Wait,” he said.  “I’ll call you right back.”

In a few minutes the phone rang. My dad had found a necktie, run the phone cord down the hallway into the bathroom, and enlisted the help of my mom.  She held the phone to his ear while he tied his tie in front of the mirror, describing to me what each of his hands was doing.  I listened carefully, followed his instructions, and duplicated the described maneuvers around my own neck.

After a few attempts there was success.  My tie was tied.  I dashed off to the interview.  I got the position, all thanks to Dad.

Bees, Rabbits, Snakes, Opossums and a Tortoise

April 4, 2021
Mom recently reminded me about all the different living creatures we had around our house growing up. My dad had a number of bee hives in the backyard, so that we could harvest our own honey. The bees also helped to pollinate the avocado trees. There were also a bunch of rabbit cages, so he could raise rabbits (which we would eat). Since we had an avocado orchard in the back, there were often animals roaming around. My brother, David, would catch opossums or snakes. I remember he had a mama opossum with babies in her pouch one time. Another time he had a king snake that got out of the cage and disappeared somewhere in the house. When there was a tortoise in our driveway, my dad drilled a hole in its shell, attached a string, tied it to a water spicket  and found a nice place in our front yard for its new home. It was always exciting around the Mills household. Now that I am a parent, I understand and admire my parents for allowing all these experiences!

Life in the Balance

March 11, 2021
Those who only knew him in recent decades may find this hard to believe, but Al Mills was once a very skinny guy.  As an adolescent he was so thin that if he turned sideways he’d almost disappear.  Al wasn’t emaciated or sickly – just extremely lean.  This never proved a problem until one day in 1951, around the time of his graduation from Neenah High School.

Al had been accepted at the University of Wisconsin--Madison but his family lacked the resources to pay for a college education.  The solution? The US Navy!  During the final months of his senior year in high school Al applied for an NROTC scholarship and successfully passed the written examination.  All that remained between him and a full 4-year college scholarship was to travel to the naval recruitment center in Chicago for a physical exam.

But as Al prepared for the trip to Chicago he realized there was a problem.  His weight was several pounds below the Navy’s required minimum weight (135 lbs) for his height.  Al’s mother knew what to do.  When she saw him off at the train station in Neenah, she gave him a large bag of bananas.

As the train approached Chicago Al ate the bananas – a very large quantity of bananas.  He felt a bit queasy as he found his way to the recruitment center.  There, the Navy doctor examining him listened to his heart and lungs then asked him to step onto a scale.  At that moment Al’s future was – quite literally – hanging in the balance. 

The doctor adjusted the sliding counterweights on the scale then wrote down the result.  Al felt like he was going to throw up.  I imagine the doctor sitting down, perhaps frowning, and saying, “Hmmm.  133 pounds. That’s below the required minimum weight for your height, young man.”  Al said nothing.  The doctor paged through Al's dossier, paused, then looked at Al over the top of his glasses.  “I’m going to waive the weight requirement in this case”, the doctor said.  “Welcome to the US Navy, Midshipman Mills.”


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