Happy Birthday, and an early Happy Mothers Day.   Miss you and Dad, and something reminds me of both of you daily. Forever in my heart.

Alma, you were like a second mother to me and I still think of you fondly and often. Thank you and Andrew for allowing me to join on some family trips. I was in Colorado when we pulled over to take the Alma town sign picture. The trip we took driving through Canada was amazing and I never would have had the opportunity without you. I still remember the vulgar bathroom graffiti from Maine by heart, and how much it made you, Angela, and myself laugh but exasperated poor Andrew after hearing it two dozen times. I am forever grateful that I had the opportunity to say goodbye to you over the phone one last time, There have been many times over the past 10 years that I wish you were still in your green chair so I could ask you advice, or we could have laughed at the absurdity of it all, and I didn't even know you were gone. I love and miss you!

Happy Birthday, Alma. It would be 77. It's 27 years since that suprise 50th party in Clearwater. Miss you.

Today is 54 years since our marriage in the Anglican church in Montreal West.

Happy Anniversary, Alma.

I always have trouble with this time of the year. Still missing you......

Happy Anniversary, Alma.

Today would have been our 52nd. We were married for 47 wonderful years..

Hard to believe that Four Years have passed, when we thought we would never get through that first month. Still miss you, with every Avon trip and every Sundown. They bring back wonderful memories of our fun times when we played, shared, laughed and sometimes cried together. Thank you for the lessons you taught me, the wise words, the sage advice and the funny stories and the quips. Miss you very much. Love you......

Today is the fourth anniversary of Alma's passing. Time is going too fast, but the memories of Alma with my terrific family will never pass.

Happy Birthday mom, and as always , belated Cinco de Mayo, and early Happy Mothers day. Love you forever.

Alma's 73rd birthday. As I review the photos, listen to her favorite music and read through all the comments on the website, I smile for all the family memories and shed a few tears at the same time.

Andy

Thinking of Alma, Andy and family today. <3

For three years now, we have been living without you, and missing you all the time. So many reminders, words I hear, stories, my deliveries - alone, time with Andy and your children. Still miss you and still Love you. They say life goes on and I guess it does, but not comfortably.

I up loaded a booklet that Angela produced in kindergarten that I found recently. A fitting tribute to Alma.

Had to be out of town on your Birthday, so am writing a tribute now.
Thought of you all day as I often do. By the way, Thanks for the "Buck up Little Camper" comment when I needed it last week. It worked yet again, and I got through the moment. Just one of the million things you taught me that I am given when I need it. Thanks, Allie. I am a better person for being born your Cousin and becoming you Sista. Love and Prayers.......

Had to be out of town on your Birthday, so am writing a tribute now.
Thought of you all day as I often do. By the way, Thanks for the "Buck up Little Camper" comment when I needed it last week. It worked yet again, and I got through the moment. Just one of the million things you taught me that I am given when I need it. Thanks, Allie. I am a better person for being born your Cousin and becoming you Sista. Love and Prayers.......

There are some people you never forget. Alma is one of them.

Today I had the stones to look at this. Mom was so incredibly strong. And of course, she had to have her birthday next to Mother's Day. She was insanely courageous, a great cook, and I would back away from her with a pinto and a machete. There was so much to love, but I think I admire most is her courage and adaptability. And creative use of words.

Happy 72nd Birthday, Alma. At least you're not getting older like the rest of us. Love, Andy

Alma, it's been two years and I still miss you every day.

You are right about the bump in the road, Chris. Loosing Alma was one thing; living on without her is quite another. I am reminded where I was two years ago today as we rallied around her to tell her that She is Loved and to say our Good-byes. You are right, life does go on, albeit differently than before.....  Love and good memories.........

Andrew, thinking of you today. Anniversaries are weird when they are celebrated by one. Hugs to you.

Today would have been our 48th anniversary. Alma is forever missed.

Andy

8/3/14

Well, I just got back a week ago or so from New Brunswick for Sandy & Sara's wedding; as usual, not enough time to see everyone and everything. But being back in Blackville reminded me of summer 2010 when Kathryn and I visited.

I wish i could stay up there for a few weeks or a month or so, thanks to everyone for a great (if too brief) time.


We are at over 4000 views! I will be posting more new old pictures that Dad ran across, and hopefully will be able to tackle the rest of the negatives that i have to find more - thanks to all of you who take the time to stop by!

Chris

Happy Mother's Day, Alma. I couldn't have asked for a better mother-in-law. I miss you very much.

for some reason, I can't edit the main header and save it - but a belated Happy Birthday. Mom!

love,

Chris

Happy 71st Birthday, Alma. I still miss you every day.

Thinking of Alma this morning. Am grappling for a description. It is rather like loosing a digit on your hand. Say the index finger. It is throbbing and bleeding and hurts. With time passing, the wound site heals, it does not bleed any more or throb so much. Every time you go to do anything, you are strickingly aware that finger is gone. and you must sort out another way of doing things without the use, presence, and assistance of that finger. You will adapt. You will never not know that it is missing. It does not ever come back and you must adjust. Albeit, awkwardly, but you must still use your hand on a daily basis. 
 Just some musings from my mind, as we live on and try to cope , carrying memories daily and the belief that someday, somewhere we will be together again.......

Well, it is hard to believe that a year has passed without Alma. Sometimes it seems like just weeks or something and other times it seems like I have not heard her voice laughing for so very long. Still miss you every time I go on the road to do my work. You always came with me and I miss you.

I have thought about Alma every day for the past year. Today is the1st anniversary of her death. Reviewing all of the photos on this site brings back a lot of wonderful memories of our life together and all the places we have been.

This was my first Christmas without Alma since we first met in 1964 - 49 years ago. I spent the holiday season in Florida with Chris, Dan & Angela - and families. We reminisced about the many happy times at Christmas in various locations - especially Kingston, Beaconsfield, Clearwater & Knaphill. Alma was sadly missed this year but was with us in spirit. One memorable Christmas when the family was together was in 1998, when Alma supervised the cooking of Christmas dinner in Clearwater after a 6 hour session in the hospital cath lab on Christmas Eve. We will always have the memories.

Message for Alma, I was driving home this week and what did I see for my pleasure, but a big beautiful sunset. And you would have made your "Sailor's delight " comment. Just like the ones we so enjoyed. Thought crossed my mind that you sent that to me. Thank you, although I need no reminder of you. Think of you daily. Miss you.

Well, the summer is running on. I miss you and our Summertime activities. The outside and the BBQs. I guess I just miss you.

What a beautiful page. It took me a long time to look at it, but it's a gorgeous tribute. Mom was an awesome human being and I'd never choose anybody else for a mother--mostly because the way she taught me to be a female was to be a lady, but be educated and tough as nails when need be. She was such an intelligent, intuitive well-read person. I love her and miss her.

Today is Alma's 70th birthday. We had our 47th wedding anniversary on February 5th. It was a great run. Those who knew her well know that she could be very difficult at times. But, I have trouble remembering any of the hard times, and no problem with the many good times. To quote Kris Kristofferson (one of her favorites): "Loving her was easier than anything I'll ever do again."

Happy Birthday Alma. Missing you on your Day. Missing you all the time. Lonely for you. Thanks for all you shared with me, I am reminded of something every day. I go on believing that you are restored to the perfect state in which He brought you here. and that you are completely healed and happy. Thank you God for this remarkable lady who called me Favourite Cousin/Sista.......

Well, time has passed one month since God chose you. I know they say time heals, but as yet, it has not. Miss you everyday, usually several times a day. I try to concentrate on the good memories and the great times we shared, rather than feeling lonely for you. Part of me went with you, but gratefully part of you stayed with me. Love,

I love seeing all the pictures of Alma & her beautiful family. She was an amazingly beautiful women from inside out. I knew from the day I met her & Andy they were a special couple & loved hanging out with them both. Miss her dearly, especially on nights we are in Renous. She knew how to liven up a gathering. She left a wonderful legacy & she touched many - including me. Love you Alma -Xx.

We first met the Hawkes's in 1975 in Kingston Jamaica. Alma befriended me and became a great friend. We continued our friendship in Montreal. Later we came in contact with each other over the years. Alma was always a joy and pleasure to be with. And we also had many laughs and good times. Sadly she will be missed.
**Great music--Chris.

Alma was an amazing woman--my "other mom." She looked out for her family all of the time, and my heart is with her. Angela, Chris, Dan, and Andrew, I am very sorry for your loss.

I worked with Alma at Harvey's studios in the early 60's. What a character Alma was, Always curious and she had an awesome memory. I hadn't seen Alma in years but I was looking forward to seeing her this coming summer at her cottage St. George. Alma was a generous, kind-hearted person. She will be Always remembered definitely missed. Rest in peace , old friend.

Chris,
I worked with your Mom in Philippines and India she was a great person and made us enjoy life no matter where we were in the world. She always had a good outlook on life and taught me that home is where we live and it doesn't have to be ones birth place. I will remember her kindness and all of the laughter. It was an adventure we will never forget. Life is short lived but our memories live

Chris, this a beautiful tribute to your mom. She was loved and will be missed by many!!

Alma, you will be missed by many! You were such a fun person to be around. I remember our trip to Clearwater, Florida with Burnice & Lloyd about 15 years ago and we had such a good time with you. I can still remember her telling stories and Burnice, Lloyd, Carmen and I laughing soooo hard. She kept us laughing for about two hours. Thanks for the good times! Rest in peace my dear lady!

beautiful pictures Chris your mother was a very lovely lady . I will always remember the times we had growing up and all the times she made me laugh . I will miss her so much love Ruth you were my favor cousin and we had great Sundays together as kids .

My heart is broken but I will always remember and cherish all my childhood days I spent with you . And all the laughs and talks we had when we got together Love Ruth .God has one more angel with him now .

Love this site Chris!! We loved your mom so much ❤❤

Miss you Allie. Our day trips and our discoveries. The sunsets shared, the books shared, the times we just sat and reasoned, our shared love of Reggae, our delivery trips, and shopping trips, and all the time we spent together over the years. Your BFF and Fav Cousin, lo

I will miss you Alma. You had a lot of wisdom. I will never forget the time I spent with you at Larry's Gulch I never laughed so hard in my entire life. You were a great story teller. RIP

So sorry to hear of Alma's passing, my thoughts & prayers are with you all. Love Beth, Darrell & Rowie

Had many laughs, late nites and a few Bingo games with Alma. She had a good life and seen a lot. Will miss her but not near as much as my Mom will. Considered her part of the family. Pictures of her are beautiful.