Tributes
Leave a tributeShe didn’t have to, but she would come to me every morning for the several days I spent there to converse with, and encourage me. Her voice was quiet yet her words were powerful and forever memorable. I never saw her again after that deployment but I never forgot her.
I was reminiscing about that cruise lately and wondered: “Whatever became of Dr. Anita Hickey” and decided to search online. Alas, I came too late.
Anita, I am sorry it took me as long to look for you. I remember you and wanted to say thank you, however late. You left too soon. My petition to the heavens on your behalf is that you be granted eternal rest. It was nice to have met you ma’am. I bid you goodnight.
PS:
I made the trip to Rhode Island like you recommended, and while touring the Providence area, I stumbled upon a school, Brown University, and ended up going there. I like to think that it was you still looking out for me.
- From that young, black, “nail-biter” kid on the GW, in 1997.
To paraphrase Schuller: We can count the number of seeds in an apple;but, no one can count the number of apples in a seed...
Anita planted seeds of compassion that will continue to bear fruit for eternity.
Thank you Anita for always being true to yourself and in that we were free to be true to ourselves.
Rhodel
She has left a legacy and will forever be remembered as a gem...a true “one of a kind”. I am honored to have known and have been inspired by the way Anita lived her life. My heartfelt condolences go out to her family, friends and patients.
But, I will not mourn for her, as I know that she would not appreciate any sentiments that are not uplifting. May God bless you forever unto eternity.
Leave a Tribute
She didn’t have to, but she would come to me every morning for the several days I spent there to converse with, and encourage me. Her voice was quiet yet her words were powerful and forever memorable. I never saw her again after that deployment but I never forgot her.
I was reminiscing about that cruise lately and wondered: “Whatever became of Dr. Anita Hickey” and decided to search online. Alas, I came too late.
Anita, I am sorry it took me as long to look for you. I remember you and wanted to say thank you, however late. You left too soon. My petition to the heavens on your behalf is that you be granted eternal rest. It was nice to have met you ma’am. I bid you goodnight.
PS:
I made the trip to Rhode Island like you recommended, and while touring the Providence area, I stumbled upon a school, Brown University, and ended up going there. I like to think that it was you still looking out for me.
- From that young, black, “nail-biter” kid on the GW, in 1997.
Just Imagine
Imagine this image of Anita, same pose and posture however the room is dimly lit and the computer screen giving off that “funky glow.” I’m changing into a lovely hospital gown in a darker corner of the room. Anita says something; I turn and she is surrounded by the iridescent, shimmering light of the computer. She repeats to me, “I believe I have a plan for you.” This was our second or third appointment and I had already been gifted with her healing hands. I don’t think I ever shared this with Anita; not only did goosebumps appear but a profound sense of peace and comfort. It was uphill from then on. In my mind and spirit there is no doubt that the Lord intervened by placing this beautiful woman, inside and as well as outside, directly in each other’s lives. She is strong and yet open and vulnerable. Wisdom and intelligence beyond her years. But, most importantly; a kind soul for all, plus an amazing “healer.”
I would usually say that a light has gone out in the world when someone dear to me departs. But, with Anita’s crossing; I think there is an even bigger light watching and caring for us from afar. I can close my eyes and still feel her healing touch. I think it has become a part of me. Blessings to all
Reflecting back on our friendship that spanned about 27 years, I cherish so many wonderful memories of our times together.... hanging out in Park City doing the Sundance film festival, captured moments like at the Sheraton near the airport for drinks during one of her times living away, and joining her last fall for brunch for her book club. She was always light and infectiously positive and giving. She led with love and models what we should strive to be.
Jin Shin Jyutsu FUN
I met Anita on several occasions while studying Jin Shin Jyutsu. She was such a lovely lady and we had many conversations about our work. I feel so fortunate to have shared time with this dedicated and beautiufl person. The JSJ Community has lost a friend. I will miss her. Kathy Dunderdale