Dear Ariboy,
I cannot explain the feeling I get whenever you cross my mind or I see the prompt of this tribute page with “forevermissed”, or when I open the page and see your face.
I feel fear, sadness, loss, wonder, disbelief... all at the same time.
I was in India when I heard of your death. I remember exactly where I was. I still cannot believe it.
Ariboy!!! Of all people!! 
I wish when we all leave this world, we will meet again in heaven and still recognize each other.
Rest on Ari

The day I met you in nigerian navy we recognized as FESTAC boys from that day I stood by you as you stood by me. We became best buddies. Brothers. We fought rivaled but thought how stupid we could be away from each other. We became best friends and a family. Your younger brother came into the team and he became my brother as well. We spent more years fighting and reuniting. Eating beans when you invite me in your home. Introduced me to Dili your younger brother. Now we are connected. I come to your house and I see your brothers and I feel at home as their hospitality reaches me. When I was having adolescent troubles. Everyone departed me. You came always to me. When I was sick you bought drugs fr me even sent me money when I was in Abuja away from my family. You were my family. You never failed your word when you promised you never left. You are here with me. Your child remains mine and I regard him as mine as well. One day one day I be away from here and never will forget you. You are my childhood you do the best as a human on earth and I thank God for every minute we spent all of us Ariboy Fritz ignoneku as you always say Beating your chest I don’t know what that means but you always laugh I never ever know anyone who giggles and taunts another with his laughs which makes me burst into laughter even when I’m the victim of the joke. Haha Arnie you ask about Christine  Lamar and my wife. Saying how are my kids even wrote a letter and signed it. I had to call you to ask why didn’t you just send an email rather than a letter you wrote and you said it’s not the same. You miss when we were together as a family. I wish I was in Nigeria back with you when I left to the states but you advised me to go be with my new family and wife and you know I never ever wanted to leave you and you promised that you would come visit me. You never lied cause you still visit me as promised. I love you more than ever and never forget you. God almighty who let our road cross will reunite us again this time with the same energy started. You are one who never judged anyone. You are a soul who never was perfect but perfect to me. I thought we would grow old together in this earthly world but God had his plans  Thank you for coming to my life. I can’t say much but that I miss you but I know life has no promise to me but my earthly creator and we would see one day when this is all over
Love diamond righo gee (as you always called me ) I remain your best friend ever loyal to the end

Fritz, today marks 5 years you left us to be with the Lord. This has been so hard for me to stomach all this years. All the memories growing up still flash in my head and you are not even here to just call and share a laugh. When I tell you problems I'm going through, you always had a way to calm me down.
I'll continue to pray for you and hope you do intercede for us your family and friends you left behind. Love you and know you will forever be in my heart

Ariboy!

The snickering Igbo. You'd snicker in a corner when as post-teens all we knew was to tease people with words. While everyone laughed out loud you would snicker because you were always mindful of people's feelings. That's the kind of person you were: kind, considerate, tolerant, patient, sensitive.

Living as neighbours in Festac, we all thought Dili was older.. Maybe because he was taller and more expressive and even when we deliberated on this you weren't the least bothered but once you spoke we knew 'nah! Ari's older'. You spoke with so much maturity, beyond your years.
I remember our balcony faced yours and anytime you were up there you'd grin and wave like we didn't just see five minutes ago and it always made me laugh. Such a happy Chap!

The first member of the three man 'Dynasty' (as you guys called yourselves) the two others being Dili and Ike. You made that phase of life precious and memorable. Even though we moved out of Lagos and distance became a barrier the world seemed an easier place knowing you all were doing good out there somewhere.

When Dili broke the news to me it was heart-rending. 'Why Ari?!' I couldn't stop thinking but then, questions like that lead nowhere. What mattered was the impact that your stay-no matter how short it seemed- made...and you sure did make a great one.

Your face, voice, smile.. words are still vivid in my memory and will always be. I write this in your memory so your family will know a piece of you lives in so many of us out here.You have a son, Dili said. He should know his father was a terrific person.

It's been years since you passed and I pray there'd always be strength for all you left behind.
Keep resting Ari Igbo.. Fondly missed by us all.

This memory still comes with a lot of sadly and heaviness in my heart.
I do not know how your family are coping, but I truly hope they are holding up well enough.
My friend Arinze, continue to rest peacefully

God Almighty in infinite wisdom called you home. We are so shocked and saddened by your sudden passing. And we have faith in God's omniscient presence but with sad hearts we muster courage to say " It is well." Gentle, handsome Arinze rest well safe in God's loving arms. We miss you and cherish happy memories of your young life.

Fritz, it has been difficult for me to come to terms with the reality that your smile I will miss forever, your brotherly words I will miss forever. Growing up as kids has so many memories too numerous to share.
You left this world early. Your put a smile on the faces of people you came across, tried in every way possible to help even when it meant going off your way. You will always be in my heart. I will desist to question God and his decision to call you this early. Please pray for us who you have left behind so when our time is ended here on earth, we will reunite with you and the Saints in heaven. Sleep on brother.

Ari....bro, my namesake...am in shock. Been quite a while since we communicated. I still remember school days. Am not sure I ever saw a frown on your face let alone see you angry. Even under a tense situation you still smile and show calmness. Sad so say these words...RIP DEAR BRO.

It has taken me some time to decide what exactly to write as a tribute to you, Arinze. After the shock, I was so deeply saddened to hear about your passing. And, honestly, my mind is still reeling. But, I am so happy that we keep in touch, even if it was just through emails, talking about our careers, our families, and our plans for the future. I know you are at peace with the Lord and because of that, I choose to remember you as gentle and caring as you have always been.

I started this tribute on Tuesday, Ari, but I couldn't finish it 'cause I couldn't see through my tears. I never imagined I'd have to do this for you. And so early?!

I thought I'd come to terms with your passing but walking into the reception of the office this morning and seeing the poster announcing your funeral arrangements brought it all home again.
I still remember the look of pride on your face as you told me that Nneka'd had a baby; a son, and you'd both named him Ifeanyichukwu. It was Monday, the 11th of January and I'd been away on leave and afterwards, official assignment so I hadn't seen you either at work or church. How could I have known that was the last time I'd see you?

We met in 2005, through Okon (Hocus-pocus) and you were so quiet, I sometimes wondered if we (Funmi, Chinyere and I) were too noisy a crowd for you but when you did speak, it was with wisdom, far beyond your 24 years.

In all my life, I haven't met a kinder soul. You were always considerate of the feelings of others around you, Ari. You always had a kind word for everyone and only saw the best in people. You always told me that if only humans could stop, for a moment, to put themselves in the other's position, a lot of misunderstandings could be avoided.

You know, here in the office, even those who didn't know you so well have only pleasant things to say of you. While some remember you as "that guy who was always so well-dressed", for some, it's "that guy who was always so polite" and for many others, it's "the dude who always had a smile for everyone." I still haven't met anyone who met you who didn't have a positive thing to say about you.

I was talking with my boss this morning and she quoted an excerpt from a book, which says "It's not how long we live on earth that matters, but how well." I'm glad my friend lived a beautiful, albeit short life.

I pray you find rest with the saints, Ari. I also pray that the Lord strengthens Nneka and every other member of your family and that HE walks with them through this dark period. As for your friends, we will seek solace in our many fond memories of you.

Rest in peace, Ari.

Dear Arinze, I met you once during your wedding ceremony and I said to myself this man complements my friend - the best husband for my friend. it is so sad that you are no more. A kind soul, continue to rest in the bosom of the Lord.

My name sake , you were a kind soul, iam speechless ,lose of words but my consolation is you loved God so much ,may your gentle soul rest peace till we meet again .Amen

A candle just got blown off. A young enterprising young man with a bright future. Oh death why why why. This keep re echoing in my head. The thought of your demise was a great shock to all who knew and have come across you. A look at your with and son Andrew sends cold shivers within me of what the future holds. We love you but God loves you more. I know you are resting in God's kingdom. Rest in peace my friend and Brother. Till we meet again.

honestly dis is a rude shock mama,i couldnt bliv it!even as i was reading d msg on ur wall i wish i was misreading or i was dreaming,all dat was coming to me was ur wedding day in festac,i was looking at u and ur charming husband.although i never met him but am sure he is a wonderful fellow,mama God will comfort and be with u and ur son.it isnt easy and the journey wont be easy but God will be with u all thru and the spirit of ur husband in heaven will always protect u and ur son.R.I.P arinze and take heart my frnd mama.......

Ariboy. I light a candle & lay flowers for you. You were very unique. Rest in Peace. Amen. From  Chinwe Mbata Aghanya.

I cannot remember when I first met Ari, he's been a friend since before I knew what friendship was called. As the older brother of my best friend, he never put on those airs we all had when we were younger and when seniority of even six months was a really big deal to be played up whatever chance one got. No, Ari was never that way, we always were friends even though he was slightly ahead of me. Given our long history, my memories of Ari are unsurprisingly numerous, from attending after-school lessons at his house, to playing "table-soccer" and other games with him and his great siblings, to learning how to drive around the same time. At UNEC, he made several typically spirited attempts to recruit me into the Human Race Foundation. To his great credit, he always was a gentleman even when I obviously disappointed him by declining to join up; despite this we remained good friends until the end.
The end,,, its still difficult to think of this as 'the end" for Ari because he was always so full of life, a real peoples-person. The last time I saw Ari was at his wedding in 2014 as he had moved to Abuja even though we did try to keep in touch thereafter in this our fast-paced world.

His death brings into stark relief the transience of life and the understanding that we must always stand ready to return to our maker. For one so young his death is painful, especially having just become a father for the first time a few weeks ago and leaving behind a young widow as well; but we cannot question God and must give Him praise in all situations, difficult as this one may be. To a friend who became a brother, an excellent gentleman, a devoted husband and father, a good man, I can only say good night for now until we part no more, rest easy my brother, my friend.

I lit a candle before. I am laying a flower now.
...For you Arinze. FOR YOU.

Dear Arinze. Everyone called you Ariboy in Unec. Your face can never leave my memory. Ive never seen you upset. Never heard you raise your voice. You were just always smiling gently. You survived Unec's Archy department.lol. Awesome! When i saw on facebook on the 24th that you are no more, i was shocked!!!! "Not Ariboy". Arinze will never hurt a fly. I remembered seeing you in Unec. Talking to you. I remembered your face, your teeth, your slim frame.
The last time i saw you was in Festac. I am so glad we had that time. We walked down the street of 1st Avenue. You told me about going to Abuja to take up a job.
Linda Igweh could not believe it when i told her. We had lost a second good man and friend of ours after Alex King from Unec Archy dept.
I read from your wife's tribute that you told her you had seen your guardian Angel. This is sure proof that you are in heaven. I am sure you are looking down on us and telling us not to cry.
I feel bad for your wife but God (and you), will be her strength.
Not sure what Ogo Eke is feeling now. Ikenna Ndaguba told me you just sent him messages On the 16th telling him about your new baby boy.
So many things to say. So many thoughts and memories. Words cannot describe this loss.
I am Grateful for this memorial site for you. You deserve to be remembered EVERYDAY!
Adieu Arinze Igbo.

Aribobo, the news of your death was the greatest short I have ever heard. I cried like never before for the loved ones you left behind especially my Sister your wife & my inherited Godson - Ifeanyichukwu. We take solace knowing that you are with you creator. Rest in Peace Arinze.

It's still a mystery how you left. Ari-Boy, I was talking about you not so long ago - saying it's been a while since I last saw you and hoping to see you when I visit ABJ. But the greatest shock is when Charlie called to inform me of your mysterious demise. Reading your wife's tribute makes me feel like spending that night with you when you left. I'm still perplexed at the story surrounding your demise but one thing I hold as solace is the fact that you are in a better place. Where there is no Change mantra nor fear of insecurity, neither will you bother about the corruption any more.
Paddiman, you left a mark with us. We will forever miss you. I only wish you stayed a bit longer, but God knows best. Ifeanyi won't see your cute smile except for pictures; Nneka won't have a Booboo to relate with; Ike doesn't have Ari-boy to boast of again; we don't have our Ari-boy to speak words of inspiration and wisdom to us again.
Death, you have done your worse, but Ari-boy, we will live on to continue where u left.
Relax with Chineke, it's a better place.
Just can't help but say "I still wish this was a Steven Spielberg movie - waiting for your emergence before the burial date".

I am amazed as to the death of your hubby Mama...I really don't know him too well, but know he was a good man and hubby to you and would have been a wonderful father to his son...May his soul RI...Amen, knowing that he is with Jesus Christ in God's Holy Hands....Be strong dear...

ari-boy,is so early to say goodnight,,u touched lives with your good and pure heart,you will be greatly missed,may ur gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Never met Arinze before, but because he was Married to Nneka, i believe he must have been one kinda guy that could've swept Nneka off her feet, a guy that's full of love, a guy understanding enough for Nneka to say yes, a guy that must have been passionate and enthusiastic about life, a guy positive in thinking and looking forward to many conquest....Rest in Peace Arinze-Igbo......You will be missed.....

I remember on the 7th of January when I spoke to you and you were so happy,telling me 'ada,see what God has done for me o,he has given us Ifeanyi and I told you yes o thank God for his mercies and we both laughed. It's so unfortunate but God knows best. I'm happy I met you and I pray you rest well cos I know he alone knows why it had to happen.you would really be missed, I assure you. Rest well ARINZE!

Dear Ari
What a shock! Your text to me at Christmas was so sweet. I had meant on my return to Abuja for us to visit one of my favorable charismatic priests but never completed the plans. My regret is that I never had a chance to see you in the New year. If I had I would have told you how much you are loved. I am however consoled that what God and the angels are telling you now are incredibly much more beautiful than anything I would have said to you. Sleep in peace dear Cuz till we meet again

I met our cousin Arinze Igbo, Uncle Victor's son, at Exclusive Department stores in Abuja, only days before he passed. Prior to this, I hadn't seen him in a few years and might have had a hard time recognising him if he hadn't walked up to me and re-introduced himself. We exchanged warm greetings and promises from each other to keep in touch more regularly in the future. And I burned his features into my
consciousness so that I might never again fail to identify him. Imagine my shock when - amidst my revels - I learned of his passing a few days later from my sister Titch (Chi Chi). By the sacred mysteries of humankind's restoration, may the Almighty remit for Arinze the punishment of the present life and of the life to come, and may He/She/It open to Arinze the gates of Paradise and admit him to everlasting happiness.

Tribute from Auntie May:
My Dear Arinze, you know your Auntie May loved you very much and will love you forever. My comfort is knowing that you are with Jesus Christ in God's Holy Hands.

Dear Arinze, as painful as your passing has been, I want to thank GOD for the amazing gift of your life, even as short as it was to us. Your beautiful and kind spirit will remain with us forever. I am so grateful that you accepted our LORD and SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST in your heart. Until we meet again in glory,I thank GOD for giving you life which you shared with us.