Mom had the biggest heart. She didnt have anything.Everything she had she got from me and sometimes my kids. But she would hand out her money like nothing to anyone. I was always telling her to stop, she would reply with'it's mine i can do what i want with it. When dad died i moved her in with me. Was going to give her a brand new bedroom but she wanted to live downstairs, I lived there for ten years while building the upstairs. she wanted the feeling of having her own place, so that's what i gave her. She didnt want to feel like a burden so when she took care of the dogs even though she didnt have to i would say thanks mom, that was so much help, and she needed to feel needed. She would always talk about going with Joe (RIP) my kids father to flea markets. She loved it and loved him. She missed pap alot. So i and the kids would joke with her, saying you have a man in the closet mama? She would say all sorts of things, made us all laugh. She was always worried about me. Said i need a man, of course i would say no i dont. She enjoyed watching me to everything, even if it was cleaning house. I didnt understand till she was dying what she was doing. Showing me take time to be with your loved ones. She was my rock, even though i was taking care of her. Rest is loving peace mom