ForeverMissed

This memorial was created in loving memory of  Bobby who was born on November 1, 1972 and passed away on February 22, 1999.

 Gone but never forgotten.

"if tears could build a stairway and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to heaven and bring you home again"

Posted by Ashlyn Pillay on February 22, 2020
Dear Bobby,
It’s hard to believe 21 years have gone by without you. 
Missing you isn’t the problem, It’s knowing that YOU ARE NEVER COMING BACK that is killing us everyday. They say that time heals everything but we as a close knit family know that it doesn’t. The heartache we felt then is still with us today. 21 years later this day still stirs up emotions in our hearts like no other. There are no words to describe
What it meant to lose you. The hardest part is not knowing why?
Until we meet again,
May you rest in Paradise.
Forever loved & Always missed by your loving sisters, Mom & dad.
   
#BobbyPillay
Posted by Ashlyn Pillay on February 22, 2018
We miss you Bobby
It’s so hard to believe that many years have gone by without you! Here we are ...19 yrs later, still feeling shattered in a million pieces from losing you.
I have kept you alive in my heart & in my home. My kids never met you but they both know all about you.
To some extent our lives have moved on, but only we know how many times our hearts still ache with sadness.
I have seen mom wail, I have seen dad shed silent tears, I have seen our lil sis weeping for you. I just wish that I could turn back the time so you could still be here, ALIVE. I wish to hug you & never let go. No one will ever truly know what it was like for our family to lose you. No one can ever replace you Bobby!
I don’t show it but my soul cries deeply. It tears my heart apart when I think of you & how your life ended. So many questions to this day that are left unanswered but I believe that everything will be revealed in God’s timing! “Fear them not,for there is nothing covered that shall not be revealed, and hid that shall not be known.” ~Matthew 10:26
May God rest you in eternal peace.
#AlwaysMissed & #ForeverLoved
#RIPBobbyPillay 
Posted by Ashlyn Pillay on November 1, 2017
Thinking of you on your 45th Birthday
in Heaven bhai.
Though we miss you always, we miss you more today because it is your birthday and you are soooo far away. You may not be here to celebrate but we always do.
On this day we reminisce with smiles and frequent tears, as we think of your memories and wish you were still here.
#HappyBirthday May God rest you in eternal peace.
Posted by Ashlyn Pillay on February 22, 2017
Bobby Pillay There isn't a day that goes by without us thinking of you. 18 years have gone by since we last laid our eyes on you & heard your voice, & laughed on your silly jokes for the last time :(
Never in a million years would we have thought that you would leave us so suddenly and so abruptly, gone without saying goodbye.
~Revelation 14:13~
We all miss you very much!
May God rest you in eternal peace.
~Isaiah 57: 1-2~
#TuYaadNaAayeAisaKoiDinNahi
#GoneTooSoonButNeverForgotten
#AlwaysMissed & #ForeverLoved
Posted by M Pillay on July 1, 2016
I miss you
Posted by A Rogers on November 1, 2015
Happy Birthday to you in Heaven Bro. Just thinking of you and wishing you were here to celebrate your 43rd bd with us. May god continue to rest you in peace. We miss you so much and love you even more.
Gone but never forgotten.
Posted by A Rogers on February 9, 2015
I miss you bro. May God rest you in peace.
Posted by A Rogers on February 9, 2015
" kahan gaya usse dhoondho"
Behti hawa sa tha woh....
This song reminds me of you bro.

http://youtu.be/YytkxIgsBNk
Posted by M Pillay on February 22, 2014
Missing you everyday my dearest son. May god rest you in peace. Tomorrow is another sad reminder that you are no longer with us and that it has been 15 long years and living with such agonizing pain. Love you always and forever son - Mom & dad.

"I wish Heaven had a phone so I could hear your voice again. I thought of you today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and your picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake from which I’ll never part. God has you in His arms, I have you in my heart.
Posted by A Rogers on February 22, 2013
February 22nd brings us so much pain!
14 years today is yet another sad reminder that someone out there knows all the answers to our questions, yet breathing freely without any care! That one tragedy has left us with so much despair! Gutwrenching heartache.
May the lord see to it that justice prevail, eventhough at has long been delayed!
Posted by M Pillay on November 1, 2012
Happy Birthday to you Betta!
Today you would have been 40 yrs old! Wish you were here with us to celebrate. We are lighting a candle for you today to celebrate your life with loving memories of you.
My heart aches everyday for you, but on a day like this, it is far beyond the words can describe. Love u forever
Posted by Minal Prasad on November 1, 2012
To my darling brother... Each day that passes by I wonder if one day you will just walk thru the door and make all our sorrow disappear..You are truly missed - you may be gone but not forgotten... - you will forever live in our hearts - I love you and wish you a very happy birthday in heaven our sweet little Angel.
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Posted by A Rogers on November 1, 2012
Happy 40th Bday to you in the Heavenly realms brother!
It is just so hard not seeing you on your bday and celebrating with you. If I had one wish granted, it would be to see your loving face & hearing your voice again. Missing you terribly & loving you forever.
Posted by M Pillay on February 10, 2012
Losing you was the most excruitiating pain I ever suffered, pain that has been with me ever since. It has been 13 years since you left us.
My dearest son I love you and miss you every second of my life. Until we meet again, may god rest you in peace.

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Posted by Ashlyn Pillay on February 22, 2020
Dear Bobby,
It’s hard to believe 21 years have gone by without you. 
Missing you isn’t the problem, It’s knowing that YOU ARE NEVER COMING BACK that is killing us everyday. They say that time heals everything but we as a close knit family know that it doesn’t. The heartache we felt then is still with us today. 21 years later this day still stirs up emotions in our hearts like no other. There are no words to describe
What it meant to lose you. The hardest part is not knowing why?
Until we meet again,
May you rest in Paradise.
Forever loved & Always missed by your loving sisters, Mom & dad.
   
#BobbyPillay
Posted by Ashlyn Pillay on February 22, 2018
We miss you Bobby
It’s so hard to believe that many years have gone by without you! Here we are ...19 yrs later, still feeling shattered in a million pieces from losing you.
I have kept you alive in my heart & in my home. My kids never met you but they both know all about you.
To some extent our lives have moved on, but only we know how many times our hearts still ache with sadness.
I have seen mom wail, I have seen dad shed silent tears, I have seen our lil sis weeping for you. I just wish that I could turn back the time so you could still be here, ALIVE. I wish to hug you & never let go. No one will ever truly know what it was like for our family to lose you. No one can ever replace you Bobby!
I don’t show it but my soul cries deeply. It tears my heart apart when I think of you & how your life ended. So many questions to this day that are left unanswered but I believe that everything will be revealed in God’s timing! “Fear them not,for there is nothing covered that shall not be revealed, and hid that shall not be known.” ~Matthew 10:26
May God rest you in eternal peace.
#AlwaysMissed & #ForeverLoved
#RIPBobbyPillay 
Posted by Ashlyn Pillay on November 1, 2017
Thinking of you on your 45th Birthday
in Heaven bhai.
Though we miss you always, we miss you more today because it is your birthday and you are soooo far away. You may not be here to celebrate but we always do.
On this day we reminisce with smiles and frequent tears, as we think of your memories and wish you were still here.
#HappyBirthday May God rest you in eternal peace.
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Dirty Sock

Shared by Minal Prasad on November 1, 2012

I thought I can take a quick nap one day and all of a sudden I woke up Startling cause I had something rubbing against my nose....And its your nephew Josh  Laughing soooo hard- Rubbing his dirty socks on my nose... ......

And then he turns to me and says mom - who does that remind you off?

And ofcourse It reminded me of you.....

When we use to play fight and rub eachother socks.... Damn that was pretty funy & discusting...lol

Apparently Mom has told him stories of all our memories ....
Gosh I only wish you were around to meet your neice and nephews.... Each one of them has got one of your traits.... We love you & Miss you - Rest in Peace Bro