Happy 61st Birthday, Love. 
I guess this is it, how we end up, me leaving a note for you here every year. I guess it will have to be.
Not sure about the cheeseburger, at least the bread. Honestly, I forgot. I’ve been doing intermittent fasting and I’ve really changed the food, even more than before. You would hate it. But now that I’m talking about it, a chzbrgr it is.

I finally got kicked out of SFOF, and diagnosed with adhd… it.makes.so.much.sense. It was your issue too, I just know it. If we would have known. But I’ll make us both proud with my stellar growth. 
Me and the cats are hanging in there. I’m starting to feel some peace. Thank you for looking out for me, I love and miss you.

Happy 60th Birthday, Love. We would have had so much fun if things would have worked out.

Almost 5 years since you died and so much as changed.
Today I will eat a Cheeseburger for you. 
I’m sure you’ve heard your mom died last year. I’ll leave that right there.
Please keep watch over me still. I miss you!!! 

Happy Birthday, Love. Today I will eat a cheeseburger with you. It’s been hard since Tonya has been gone but I’m doing my best. Love you.

Hello Love, today is 3 years and not only that, today is the day I scatter my Tonya Sioux’s ashes. 
I’m so sad and so alone. You were right about everything. I love you and miss you and my life has changed so much I don’t recognize myself. I so wished I had you in my life now. I guess your love and memory will have to suffice. I’ll eat a cheeseburger in your name today, because I’m still eating meat and sugar. I’m trying, Love. I’m trying. I wish I wasn’t so alone. Missing you today and everyday. 

Missing you, Love... i was doing my best to the things we would do if you were here, so i had a cheeseburger and a beer and slept most of the afternoon. next year we do what I want to do! Haha!! I suppose now we are going into the third year without you i should focus on getting your stuff sorted out. I am still keeping myself too busy to deal with stuff....i guess i need a meeting of sorts.  my heart misses you and always will. 

I remember our days at K Mart when we were young. Good times messing around in Salem 1978 to 1980 with Paul and Brian. Seems like yesterday. 

Even though it has been so long, I miss you my friend.

Happy Birthday Love.. i can't believe we are 57 this year! I can't believe im facing 60 without you. I wish you could see all the work we've done on the house! I think you would like it, once you let go of not wanting change! I Love you and think of you all the time and miss you and miss our banter and i miss your laughter and the way you made me laugh, mostly at myself! I wish you were here and we would have had a low key day, go to dinner, have a nice visit. i love and miss you!

It's a year and a day, Love... i must be moving on.. i will always love you and we will always have your time.. but i have to move on, cleaning up . your space, letting go of things you left... I miss you! I did 10 kittens this year without you and it was so much harder. Dweezil misses you.. you were his favorite person. 

i,m looking at your pictures and I realize just how much I miss you

You were a good man Brad and I wished that you had more time on earth. But I know that you are with God and your dad and grandma and uncle Steve. Will see you someday in the ever after (heaven)We love you and miss you and miss having you here. Love Aunt Candy and Uncle Allan.

A though I haven't seen you for years every time I think of you , it brings a smile to my face !! Wish I got to hang with you a few more times . I am very grateful for the times I shared with you and Mitzi ! thank you for being who you were ,it made a lot of my days happier with you being there. You were a good soul and I know I will miss you !!

When you come back to life via necromancy, we're going to have to have a conversation about the fact your laptop password was jenny and not me.
Signed,
Your favorite daughter (RIGHT?)

YOU ARE SORELY MISSED
MOM

you are sorely missed Love yourmom

Happy 56 Birthday, Love

I miss you every day, Love....  thank you for sharing your life with me, for your lessons and for your love.