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In Memoriam Calgary Herald

April 21, 2022
Donna Kathleen Brasso (nee Thomson)
April 30, 1943 - April 21, 2021

Mom/Mama, the year has flown by, but not a day passes that we don't think of you. Your laughter, hugs, warmth and strength are with us always and we miss you so much. You were the rock of our family, keeping the home fires burning and all the tops spinning in the busy, full, varied life and family you and Dad/Papa built over the years. You literally and figuratively always kept the boat provisioned and the crew outfitted and cared for while your skipper steered the ship, and rode the waves together whether the seas were calm or rough. And while you were a self-proclaimed homebody who felt happiest on the ranch, you were always game for another adventure and new horizon. After proudly representing Calgary as our Golden Jubilee Stampede Queen and Miss Rodeo Canada, and then leaving a successful teaching career to raise your family, you devoted yourself completely to your role as a wonderful wife, mother, grandma, daughter and sister. But even though family was your focus, you also shared your talents and time with many worthwhile causes, including co-founding the Calgary Stampede Queens' Alumni to support local charities. Your energy, practicality and organizational skills were remarkable and you could always be counted on to just "get things done" without fuss or fanfare. Never one to be idle, once the husband, kids, critters, accounting, ranch work, housework and many other obligations were looked after, you threw yourself into hobbies and interests with skill and enthusiasm. Your garden was large and bountiful, your flowerbeds abundant and beautiful, and your crafts and gorgeous needlepoint creations are now treasured heirlooms. You could always be counted on for a hug, a kind word, a gentle nudge or even a loving kick in the butt when that was what the situation required. You were a confidante, an advisor, a soft place to land, a shoulder to cry on and a hand up. You were always empathetic but wouldn't let us wallow; you celebrated our wins and supported us through our losses. Through all of life's ups and downs, your unconditional love, support, positivity and friendship were a blessing to us all. Over the past few years as your health declined, we watched you fight a quiet, brave battle with the grace, humour and strength befitting a rancher's daughter and wife - and a Queen. That you and your cowboy rode off into the sunset on the same day, at home and surrounded by family, still amazes us. While losing you both at once was a hard blow, knowing that divine intervention and your abiding love for one another led you to greener pastures together brings us all great comfort. 

Love always from your daughters Celia (Kirk), Kristen and Alison (Kris), grandchildren Paige, Bryten, Hunter, Ava, Mia, Amara and Alex, sister Marian (Kim) and your many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends 

As we work on ways to celebrate Einar and Donna, we would be so grateful for any stories and anecdotes of their lives. To share, please visit www.forevermissed.com/brassomemorial
Published on April 21, 2022

In Memoriam Calgary Herald

April 21, 2022


Einar Christian Brasso
February 5, 1937 - April 21, 2021

Dad/Papa, we can't believe it's already been a year since you left us. We miss you so much. It still feels like you're right here - to guide and give advice, tell great stories, make us laugh and teach us every day. You were a well-respected rancher, an accomplished horseman, a savvy "car guy", a successful businessman, a quiet philanthropist, a capable seafarer and so much more, and earned many accolades over the years including being honoured by the Calgary Stampede as a Pioneer of Rodeo, earning the Better Business Bureau Ethics Award and the Nissan Global Dealer of the Year Award. But above all else, you were a wonderful husband, father, grandpa, son, uncle, and brother, and every decision you made was guided by your dedication to your family. You taught us that "life is a collection of moments", and that we should place value on experiences, not things. To keep our word, look after one another, live with integrity, lend a hand, and that what a person does matters more than what they say. To never judge someone by their appearance, to find the good in situations and that life ain't perfect but it's still a great adventure. To never borrow something we weren't prepared to repair or replace if we broke it, and to be prepared with a "mot" at a dinner table to break any awkward silences. And so much more. You were a font of wisdom and sage advice, and we hope you know that we really were listening even when it didn't seem like it. After a life full of vitality, adventures, travel, wonderful friendships, great horses, loyal dogs and a couple of good old boats, of building and running a successful business, community service, and exploring a variety of interests, you endured failing health over the past several years with your typical humour, wisdom, practicality and optimism. And you reminded us of the importance of gratitude; you were always so thankful for the opportunities you were given, and for the life you were able to enjoy and share with your family. Even on your last day, surrounded by family at home, you were grateful - to be here, for your life, and for us - just as we are so grateful for you and all you've done for us. The fact that you went first so you could lead your bride across the threshold when she was ready eleven hours later is a testament to your devotion and love for each other and we remain in awe of it. Heading into your eighth decade together, God and the Universe knew you couldn't live apart; while it was so hard to say goodbye to you both, we take great comfort knowing you will never have to miss one another. Thank you for the wonderful life you both gave us, and the legacy of love and commitment to family you leave behind.  

Love always from your daughters Celia (Kirk), Kristen, and Alison (Kris), grandchildren Paige, Bryten, Hunter, Ava, Mia, Amara and Alex, brother Henning (Fran) and your many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. 

As we work on ways to properly celebrate Einar and Donna's lives, we would be grateful for any stories or anecdotes you can share with us. Please visit www.forevermissed.com/brassomemorial
Published on April 21, 2022