I met you through a friend lois burns. I had recently split from a long term relationship and was looking for a friend who was different and interesting....and that was definitely you!! You were in unit 3 at Rimutaka prison Nz and as I sat waiting for this mysterious person to appear I was nervous as hell. I watch as one by one the prisoners walked into the visiting room. 'Is that him?' I asked my friend. 'Nope' she replied.  This went on for a couple minutes until this tall, handsome guy struts his stuff over to me, the biggest grin I'd ever seen. All I can say is WOW 2hrs flew by so fast. We had so much fun, laughing and joking around. I went away feeling great!! From there I continued to visit you regularly till you got out, 2 yrs 6months later. It was hard but we got there. We lived together for 4months before you were recalled back to prison. I think you knew I wasn't strong enough to go through the jail life again so I had to break it off with you. We still continued to be friends and caught up every now and again just as friends. I've never met anyone like you Brendon and I doubt I ever will. I could see an innocent, loving, and sensitive soul in your eyes that used to make my heart sad. I grieved for you even before you died. Its as if I knew you were going to leave us tragically one day soon. I worried about you constantly but now my heart is at peace knowing you are safe up there in the next dimension waiting for your friends and family to get there xx