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2/4/1921 - 3/21/2017

On a beautiful Spring day, March 21, 2017, Carl L. Ortloff went to meet his Lord, Jesus Christ. Carl had transferred from his assisted living apartment to his daughter’s home one week before leaving his earthly residence. After falling several times, last Fall, Carl fell again after Christmas 2016. Falling caused fractures to Carl’s pelvis, along with disabling, severe pain. He was hospitalized on January 2, 2017 with the onset of pneumonia, weakness and pain. After a traumatic stay in Rehab, Carl was placed in the care of hospice at his assisted living apartment.

Carl continued to decline, transferring to his daughter’s home one week before he passed into the arms of his Savior. One of Carl’s hopes was to see his beloved wife, Hazel, before seeing heaven. Hazel has been living in Jane’s home, under hospice care since July of 2015. Carl visited Hazel every week of Hazel’s stay in hospice. After not seeing each other since December 31, 2017, Carl was able to see Hazel again and share his love for her.

Carl L. Ortloff was a deeply loved husband, father, grandfather, great grandfather, uncle, cousin, brother and friend. He lived with Hazel, his wife of 67 years, for over 60 years in the Tulsa area before moving to Oklahoma City February, 2011 to be closer to family. Carl is survived by his wife, Hazel Eileen McArthur Ortloff, daughter, Jane E. Ortloff Kouts, son’s, Richard C. Ortloff and Kenneth H. Ortloff.  His children, grandchildren and great grandchildren number 45 altogether.

Carl L. Ortloff was born in Birch Tree, Missouri to Ernest F. and Verna R. Ortloff. The family moved to Blackwell, Oklahoma when Carl was just a little tyke and the family eventually grew to include one girl and six boys. Ernest F. Ortloff supported his family working at the Zinc smelter in Blackwell. Carl also worked at the smelter to support himself through Oklahoma A & M College, graduating May 3, 1943 with a BS in Commerce [Accounting]. After earning his degree, Carl joined the U.S. Marine Corps on May 19, 1943 and was in active service until honorable discharge on July 12, 1946. While stationed in Hawaii, Carl met his future bride, Hazel E. McArthur, and they were married on June 26, 1949 in Lansing, Michigan.

After their elopement, Carl and Hazel settled in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Carl worked as an accountant for Stanolind Oil and Gas/Pan American Petroleum Corp, then transferred to Sunray DX Oil Company in 1952. Throughout his many years from ‘52 through the early 70’s, Carl’s career took him from intermediate and senior accountant to senior clerk and lead clerk for domestic oil operations to chief clerk for domestic operations/production and exploration, and into supervision of accounting operations for eight international subsidiary companies working with Sunray DX Division of Sun Oil Company. Carl took early retirement from Sun Oil Company after declining transfer from Tulsa to Philadelphia, PA. He then took on another career, joining the staff at Tulsa Abstract, as an Abstractor of Land Titles. He worked more years as an abstractor than he did as an accountant, retiring again December 31, 2003.

Participating and watching baseball, softball, tennis, bowling and even golf was Carl’s favorite hobby. He continued to play ball well into his late 70’s. When he was 77, he played for the Tulsa Senior League as first basemen. He was awarded a plaque for his sportsmanship and attitude from his teammates in 1998. The plaque reads “Role Model Extraordinaire.” His coach, Butch Webb said this about Carl: “Carl is a first-class person on and off the field.” Carl also participated in the Tulsa Senior Olympics. He loved the camaraderie and the exercise. Until 6 months ago, Carl was still doing stretching exercises on the floor of his little senior assisted living apartment. His determination to keep going strong has been impressive.

Carl has always been someone to admire. He was a very caring, compassionate, giving man. His family misses him dearly, but are thankful he has been given the greatest gift of all, to live for eternity with his Savior Jesus Christ.

From Carl's daughter, Jane E. Ortloff Kouts

February 4, 2023
February 4, 2023
You were an amazing grandpa to me. You are miss and loved.
September 12, 2017
September 12, 2017
I had the privilege to work with Carl at Tulsa Abstract. He always had great stories to tell and wisdom to share. He was a man of great integrity and I was lucky to know him. God bless Carl.
May 21, 2017
May 21, 2017
Carl Ortloff is my Grandpa and I love him dearly :) He read many poems and stories to me as a child and taught me to play croquet and how to crack pecans in the back yard.
He was kind, good and loved all people :) I am proud to be his Granddaughter. He and my Grandma Hazel are together now. He loved her always....and he will always be loved. They loved the song "I'll be loving you always." I'm so thankful to have had such wonderful Grandparents. Love you always
We will play croquet again Granpa :) I believe that. I love you
March 29, 2017
March 29, 2017
A TRIBUTE TO MY DAD, CARL ORTLOFF. From my earliest memories, my dad was very special. With a deep gratitude for living under the legacy of such a caring father, I owe so much to how he invested into all our family. 
The Qualities I admired in Dad: He loved Life. He came to understand and receive God's Amazing Grace in Christ in a deep and abiding way, and tried to be a blessing whenever he could.
He made others happy...our family, friends, neighbors
He loved God, and he loved others as best as he could.
Dad loved to read the Bible and talk about Scriptural verses and principles. 
He loved our mother, his beautiful wife Hazel Eileen, for 68 years of a blessed marriage.
Humble. Never known for lengthy prayers, his prayer was simple and faithful, never presumptive.
Giving- He wanted the best for us. Significant loans turned out as gifts, forgiven and forgotten.
Kindness-He shared his heart with others, investing in helping others, caring about others more than himself.
Lover- He loved people, was an extrovert, met new people easily, was never racially prejudiced.
Steadiness of Heart- He kept his cool, rarely letting things upset him outwardly.
Sincere and Honest- I never knew Dad to ever be deceptive, to lie or misrepresent.
Openness- Though never wearing his emotions on his shirtsleeve, so to speak, he spoke with others with a genuineness, that showed he really cared.
Never judgmental or Bitter- Though finding others actions hard to understand at times (namely, mine), he never held it against me, but just wanted to know why I did what I did, with encouragement.
Never controlling- Was accepting, encouraging, relaxed.
Never attempted to bring undue attention to himself
*His love of children, talking with neighbor kids, so friendly a neighbor in the neighborhood.
A Natural Leader:
*Assistant Baseball Coach for Rick and Kenny's ball teams in elementary.
*Assistant Scoutmaster for Troop 20 for 7+ years- Known as Shaggy (from going unshaven through the 5 day 50 mile hikes in the hard winter in the Oklahoma SE Mountain ranges). He led many of the hikes into unknown areas under brutal winter weather with a courage and fortitude that made my brother Rick and myself and the other scouts safe and proud to be under his leadership.
Softball Pitcher for decades- Our whole family watched dad enjoy pitching successfully for many years at league games.

From his last job at Tulsa Abstract, Dad ended up in his last 10 years suffering from severe arthritis in his lower back, and walked bent over, dealing with the pain daily. One of his favorite extracurricular activities for decades was pitching in a softball league, which lasted till he was in his mid seventies. Only after hurting his leg sliding into second base did he finally retire from softball. He was honored as the oldest player on his retiree team, and was featured in the local Jenks newspaper a year or so before retiring. 

Dad loved to play croquet in our back yard, with all of us in our early years. He was a dead eye when it came to aiming that croquet ball to either hit an opponent or to roquet us all around the court, if he wanted to. I'm sure he allowed us a lot of lee-way in our early years, but later on, we all gave him a run for his money. Playing tennis out at Heller park only a block away was always fun with dad. In high school, we used to play pretty hard on that court for several games, even sets for that matter. Swimming was fun at the local pool a couple miles from our house. Dad and Mom taught us to swim early on, so when we went to Hawaii in 1964 to visit mom's mother, Helen McArthur on Oahu, we swam to our hearts content out at Waikiki beach and Hanama bay where we snorkeled amidst a vast array of beautiful fish. I remember Dad on his surf board with Jane and Rick, although I was too young at the time to surf. Years later, we visited Grandma Helen after she returned to Ann Arbor, Michigan, and then drove to see Niagara Falls. Dad's 59 Ford Station Wagon took us all over, and he had the temperament that enjoyed driving his family to many different places often.
Dad's fishing skills took us to Keystone Dam, Methodist Campgrounds at Lake Gibson, and Lafortune Lake in Tulsa where we also caught big bullfrogs to bring home to have fried frog legs. Scouting was a big part of my best early memories of my dad. Rick and I enjoyed several years together with Dad, going on 10 and 20 miles hikes out near Gilcrease Museum several miles west of Tulsa, camping one weekend a month with Troop 20.  Dad loved to play with all our dogs, from Spotty the Cocker Spaniel to our German Shepherds: Pete, Lancelot (& Modred), and Prince.

Showing affection became much more natural later after all of his children came to understand and embrace the love of God in Christ more fully when God's Spirit renewed our hearts in our college Christian fellowships, beginning with Rick's miraculous healing through Aunt Rebekah's and Uncle Peter Laue's love and prayers after Rick returned from the Naval Academy in 1973. Upon hearing Rick share how God had healed him so miraculously, I remember thinking, "wow, maybe God really does love us!" Our whole family was changed by the love of Christ within the next year, Dad clearly being affected by what he saw in his kids. We soon became even more tight knit, evidenced most noticeably by how we all hugged each other. Dad's love and hugs to everyone were very special and much more obvious after this.
Much of what I desire to be goes back to how my dad mentored by his attitudes and actions, teaching us by what he did, more than what he said with his words.

My dearest memories go far back to when our family would take the three hour monthly trek for 15+ years of my childhood to Blackwell, Oklahoma, to visit and care for Dad's parents, Ernest and Verna Ortloff, and visit his sister and her husband, Aunt Margarite and Uncle Ward Corneil, on their farm a few miles out of town. Dad valued all our relatives. Keeping up with family was very important. I don't have a count on the list of grandchildren and great grandchildren. I'll leave that to someone else better informed.

Late in life, Dad continued to care for others whenever he had the strength to do so. He enjoyed watching sports..baseball, basketball and football on TV regularly, and loved to discuss them during phone calls. Oklahoma A&M College, his Alma mater, now Oklahoma State University Cowboys, have always been his favorite team to follow. I never saw dad dance, but he could get excited watching any game and knew how to enjoy life with others. I could write all night about all the wonderful ways my dad has influenced me and innumerable others, and hope other family and friends will share in this wonderful saga of a touching legacy to an exceptional man whom I am thankful to have had for my father, my dad, Carl Lavelle Ortloff
 
Kenneth Harland Ortloff
March 23, 2017
March 23, 2017
If you knew my grandpa you were blessed because he was one of the most kind and loving men you would ever meet. I may not have been a blood granddaughter but I was a legally adopted granddaughter. He never let me feel like I was not blood to him. I remember visiting my grandparents when I was a kid and he would make sure he took turns letting is grandkids sit on his lap when he would read us books blood or not we got a turn. We all got to be apart of what ever was happening at my grandparents home. Playing games reading music time anything and everything. You are very much missed and loved grandpa. I feel very blessed to have known you. I will always have you in my heart.

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February 4, 2023
February 4, 2023
You were an amazing grandpa to me. You are miss and loved.
September 12, 2017
September 12, 2017
I had the privilege to work with Carl at Tulsa Abstract. He always had great stories to tell and wisdom to share. He was a man of great integrity and I was lucky to know him. God bless Carl.
May 21, 2017
May 21, 2017
Carl Ortloff is my Grandpa and I love him dearly :) He read many poems and stories to me as a child and taught me to play croquet and how to crack pecans in the back yard.
He was kind, good and loved all people :) I am proud to be his Granddaughter. He and my Grandma Hazel are together now. He loved her always....and he will always be loved. They loved the song "I'll be loving you always." I'm so thankful to have had such wonderful Grandparents. Love you always
We will play croquet again Granpa :) I believe that. I love you
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Loves hugs from Grandpa

May 21, 2017

Grandpa always read stories and poems to me as a child. Sometimes I would ask him to read the same one over and over again :) he always did (though I think 4 was the max) for my favorite poem by Eugene Field. I have a book of poems by this poet, and I cherish it and think of Granpa when I read it. I was never shy about just hopping up and hugging my Grandpa. He didn't seem to mind. :) thank you for all the stories, poems, hugs and happy times Granpa....love you always 

Grandpa gave the best hugs and blew kisses as we left!

May 21, 2017

Last time I saw my Grandpa he gave extra hugs. We laughed and spoke of happy times. I ran back and gave him one more hug and blew kisses as we left. I said to my hubby, "I need to give my Granpa one more hug"...to which he abliged and I'm so glad. Love you Granpa 

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