- 46 years old
- Date of birth: Oct 16, 1966
- Place of birth:
OSWEGO, New York, United States
- Date of passing: Aug 16, 2013
- Place of passing:
OSWEGO, New York, United States
|Let the memory of david our brother be with us forever|
"HAPPY EASTER BUBBA been awhile since my last post but that doesnt mean that i didnt think of you as i always do i miss you more and more with everyday that passes i often think of you in certain situations and wonder what you would do.Dylan now has a permit you would be so proud of him and trust me he looks alot like you now that he is older i so see u in his face Jordyn bought her first vehicle which would have made you proud,Tyler now has his license and him and jordyn are in the fire dept there guess it is in there blood have to keep going as u always did until god called u home so u can be free of all your pain and fly high.Mom and dad are doing good moms is gone as she had a CT scan and that it came back normal so i hope and pray that it is dadnis still dad has changed there i make sure they make their doctor appts with the their regular dr and there specialist to make sure everything is going ok..It seems like the days should be easier well they arent we just learn to live here without you i love and miss you so much bubba so much has changed since you left here..ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DEARLY FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER SHINE ON TIL WE MEET AGAIN XOXOXOOXOXO"
"hey there Bubba been ahile since my last post the weather is starting to get nice again a little chilly today but warm weather is around the corner better then the snow even though u used to love it i remember playing tackle football in the middle of emery road during a storm and the cold i remember quite a few times that u would tackle someone in the bank because they were so high from the plows or going ice skating on the pond down the road you were always there telling us smaller ones to be careful and was there to help us up when we fell or when it was summer time we played in the cow pasture you would always say be careful the cows dont chase after you guys see you were always there for us smaller one...I will never forget when we were playing in the pines jumping tree to tree and then it was Rickys bright idea to start the pine needles on fire and boy did you ever yell at him made him go tell mom and dad he started the pines on fire so mom called the fire trucks to put the pines out boy did we ever get into trouble after they left and the time Ricky was taking mom cigarettes and you said mom will know and sure enough she did had uncle terry bring a green cigar and he was made to smoke it and you laughed at him because it made him sick and uncle terry was yelling at him and made him smoke the whole thing..Remember the time we went up the road to the barn and jumped from the rafters in the hay we had so much fun we had aunt Bonnies kids with us and they had a ball.I remember going to the pond and killing the frogs so mom could have frog legs everytime u would go after a frog you would say come here u little B*STARD and u would put it in the bag and then we got home and you would clean them saying stuff...Then the night you told Roberta and Michelle the bats were gonna get in there hair they ran in crying and told mom and you laughed when mom asked u if you said it you go i was joking lol...Bubba please watch over Junior he injured his spleen may need surgery watch over him and help heal him.I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU TERRIBLY BUBBA FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER AND SHINE ON XOXOXOOXOX"
"My dearest brother I know u have been around me more than ever lately I want to say thank you for your comfort and I know when I speak to you every night you can hear me because the day after u give me the sign that I know for a fact that is your way of letting me know u r here. It gives me a sense of relief. And I have to apologize for drama being brought here this is a remembrance place for us to come to talk to u but we log on and see negativity please help those who feel the need to constantly being negative put love back into their hearts... I love you brother and continue to stay by my side and help me with everyday life.. Fly high my sweet brother and rest in peace.... until we meet again I'll miss u always"
"hey there bubba things have been really stressful lately and i am always looking for your guidance threw it and praying to god to help me as well sometimes i feel i cant make it threw it as i know stress isnt good for a person but if i didnt have so much to worry about i wouldnt be stressed out i cant seem to get mom and dad out of there room that is all they do as they have went down hill since we lost you and i pray to god to get them better i say they need counceling but they tell me no they can handle it well i am here to say they cant and havent been able to handle losing you and the only one that helps me with them is Ricky as i know i can turn to him for help and it is sad as Michelle always asks them for help or something but she cant take time out of her busy schedule to help take them to a doctors appt or anything taking them to dinner or anything but i know i am the one that will always be there for them and can honestly say i never turned my back on them as at the end of the day i am taking care of them sometimes i get so mad at them but i can say they are here with me when no one wanted to help with them yes Jim had them move in and then he left but i still have them with me i wouldnt change it for the world...I keep telling them they need to pay off your funeral bill as Jim and I were then jim left so i had to take care of the bills they just dont know how to pay bills that they should pay they think someone else will do it i love your parents and wouldnt change them for the world but bubba pplease help me by guiding me to have them get better as they arent showering the way they should i understand that losing you was a horrible thing as i live it everyday but i know you would kick me in the a** if i didnt move on i WILL NEVER FORGET YOU ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU BUBBa FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER AND SHINE ONXOXOOXOOXOOXOXO"
"hey there Bubba been a few days since my last post there wasnt a day that passed that i didnt think of you as i always do i am dealing with losing you as it is hard on me as you were the oldest of the boys and i was oldest of the girls and you always were there protecting any of us weither we were in the right or not you were always there and when i lost you i lost that protector and i am completely lost with out it as i sure could use some guidance Bubba there was alot that i sure could have used you to help me threw but it has made me a stronger person as when i wanted to just give up on everything i thought of what you would say and do to me and i know you ride with me everytime i am in the durango i can feel you Blake almost had an accident not paying attention and i knew you gave me a sign that you were there and i cant thank you enough for always being there when one of us are in the durango as you left us and still protecting us as well......I am gonna go for now but i promise i will be back to post again til then always remember I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU TERRIBLY BUBBA FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER AND MAKE SURE YOU SHINE ON XOXOOXOOXOXO"
"hey there bubba been thinking of you lately as i always do i cant seem to realize i will not beable to walk threw my door what i wouldnt give for that to me this is all a bad dream and someday i will wake up and u will be here with all of us.There was alot of unspoken words as we never knew that god would that u so young i understand that u were in alot of pain and god seen that but i just wish u would have let us all know as maybe u would still be here to..Watch over Dylan he has been sick he is getting excited he will be getting his permit soon doesnt seem he is that old now wow where has the time go.As u seen we gave him your shot gun as we knew that is what u would have waited the only one of your kids that didnt get anything of yours was Jordyn and i am trying to figure out what we can do for her....i know you arent in any pain anymore and i am happy for that but bubba what about our pain here as it isnt getting any easier they say time heals well i am here to say that is a LIE.........I will post again til then ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND MISS U BUBBA FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER AND SHINE ON XOXOOXOXOOOXO"
"yesterday was valentines days i got busy but i wanted to say happy belated valetines day i love you and miss you bubba fly high my sweet brother and shine on xooxoxoxox"
"hey there Bubba boy do we ever have some snow you would have loved it if we still had the snowmobiles maybe you wouldnt get dropped in a middle of a field like when dad turned and lost you mom was pissed..I think of you all the time and wonder what you would do in a certain situation and always looking for your guidance down the road that i should be going down.Alot of our friends we had in the fire dpt are passing away sad but you probably already know that..If you see uncle terry and grandma trumble please give them a hug and kiss them for me please as i miss them as well.Can you please watch over our brother ricky he has been having issues with his heart again i know you are watching over him as i shouldnt ask but doesnt hurt to ask you anyways,,I will post again soon ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE AND MISS YOU TERRIBLY SPREAD THEM WINGS AND FLY HIGH MY SWEET BEOTHER SHINE ON XOXOOXOXOOXOO"
"Hey there Bubba i know it has been a few weeks since my last post but that doesnt mean i didnt think of you as i often do.Things are getting a little better but not much as i worry about mom and dad as they grieve everyday and i am watch them just fade away i know it was a tragetic thing they went threw well the rest of us did to i wish u would give them a sign that you are doing fine as i know you are i can feel it in my heart as i know the pain i still feel til this day still seems like yesterday that took you away from all your loved ones.I often think about how things would be if you were still here as i know that alot of things wouldnt be going on as u would set us all straight and u would kick us all in the ass u were the rock of all us kids and i miss that i would do anything to hear your voice again or guide me threw all this as it is so hard for me as u were the oldest of the boys and i am the oldest of the girls so i try to be there for all my siblings but i cant do it anymore i have to think of my boys and mom and dad as ricky is the only one that has helped me with our parents since the day you left us so he has stepped up alot more then the rest has and i am greatful to him for that as i cant thank him enough as i try to tell him all the time to let him know i appericate the stuff he has done to help me threw all this.......I know my heart is still heavy bubba and the pain is still there not easing at all and i dont expect it to as we may have fought but i didnt love you any less made me love you more as u were the oldest of all us kids i was always there helping you threw stuff as that is what sisters do..well i am gonna post again til then A;WAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU BUBBA FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER SPREAD THEM WINGS......SHINE ON BROTHER XOXOXOOXOXOXO"
"HAPPY NEW YEAR BUBBA another year without you here with us the pain isnt easing at all i think of you everyday and always ask myself what you would do in certain situations or even ask for your guidance as i know you are around your around your loved ones.i cant seem to get passed the thought of you walking threw my door and sayhey B*TH my heart hurts everyday as i know the pain should ease well it isnt and never will as you were the strong one that kept us all straight alot of bullshit has been going on out of control..Please guide us threw all this bubba you maybe gone but YOUR NEVER FORGOTTEN FLY HGH MY SWEET BROTHER SHINE ON XOXOXOXOXXOXOXO"
"hey there bubba things have been crazy here lately but that doesnt mean i wasnt thinking of you as i do that everyday another year is approaching and i dont like that as means that means another year without you ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU TERRIBLY FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER SHINE ON XOXOXOOXOXOXO"
"hey there bubba sorry it has been awhile since my last post but things have been crazy doesnt mean i didnt think of you as i do that eveyday often speak your name as i truly miss you my sweetest brother you left us and pain isnt easing any at all still seems like yesterday you left i miss you terribly as i understand you arent in any pain and i am greatful for that i sure you are having fun up in heaven but bubba what about my pain i cant get over losing you"
"Merry Christmas brother another holiday that u r missing with us :'( Breaks my heart because ever sense the day u left things have fell apart our family isn't a faimly anymore so much hatred Is running threw our veins right now seemed u were the only one who kept any kind of sanity with in all of us u were the one who wld straighten people out if they got out of line... Dj plz help your the only person I know that I can turn to even from far away I know you can help.... Plz help mom and dad and save them from all the pain they r put threw... I'm begging u brother help make things right.... I love you and miss you so much more everyday... Work your magic. .. Fly high sweet brother"
"hey there DJ i know it has been awhile since i posted but that doesnt mean i wasnt thinking of you as i am always wondering what you would say or do with some situations i have been in i miss you more and more everyday it still seems like yesterday that you left us alot of unspoken words and answers i still ask myself why you had to leave us so soon i understand that god seen you were in pain but you know what Dj we are still in pain as they say time heals all wounds well i am here to say that is a lie it is we just learn to deal with the pain we live our lives but i cant seem to stop loving and missing you i know you are up in heaven having some fun and i understand you are no longer in any pain and i am greatful for that but my pain hasnt eased and i dont think it ever will til we meet again i find myself trying to understand why and i cant come up with an answer just you were in pain.Dj please be with all of us during the holidays as we are all gonna need your help as these are the worst just like your birthday and anniversary i remember you coming to my place for dinner i enjoyed it as it gave me time with my big brother i know i may not have said the right words or tell you that i love you and missed you but trust me i did and still do ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU DEARLY DJ SPREAD THEM WINGS AND FLY AND DONT FORGET TO SHINE ON MY BIG BROTHER and you know the saying you dont know what have til it is gone oh trust me i do as i miss my big brother xoxoxoxxoxooxooxo"
"hey there Bubba setting here thinking of you loving and missing you the pain is horrible i cant seem to understand why you had to go so soon i know god knows why and he seen you were in pain but you know Bubba so are we your family the pain never eases as i am alway wondering what u would say or do with the things that have been going on i know you would kick us all in the A** as you were the oldest and always kept us on line lol If they had visiting hours in heaven i would be there everyday visiting you just to hear your voice and see that smile upon your face Bubba please watch over all of us and guide us threw the things we are going threw YOU MAYBE GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN I CARRY YOU IN MY HEART AND THOUGHT EVERYDAY ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE AND MISS YOU BUBBA FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER AND SHINE ON XOXOXOOXOXXOOXO"
"thinnking of you today always in my thoughts and heart I LOVE AND MISS YOU BUBBA FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER SHINE ON XOXOXOOXOXO"
"hey there my sweet brother i have been thinking of you alot lately i cant seem to come to reality that you are gone and i cant smiling face and miss them wise cracks you dont know how much i miss that people take things for granted as we always think we will see that person again the next day and we dont realize tomorrow is never promised well you know what i have realized that more now that you left us dj my heart aches everyday as there was alot of unspoken words that should have been said and i hope you know i love you may not have said it as often as i should but i do and always will you maybe gone but never forgotten i carry your memory with me everyday and think of the things we used to do as kids i will never forget the time dad lost you on the back of the snowmobile mom was pissed you werent scared just went to a house and called mom......I remember swimming in the pond and going frog hunting for frog legs you would just hit the frog over the head and move to the next one.......Playing tackle football in the of emery rd eveyone always wanted u on there team lol..cold days but we played anyway til it got dark and then sometimes we played then...Then the time you kept telling us girls that the bats were gonna get caught in our hair and jumping"
"Happy birthday my dearest brother I cant seem to stop loving and missing u tears are flowing today because we miss you so much i cant stop thinking how things would you would still be here i klnow my heart wouldnt hurt so much they say it gets easier they lie DJ as it still seems like yesterday thinking of you alot lately you were always there for your siblings no matter the problem you were always there i am completely lost without you Dj always remember i love you and miss you terribly I LOVE YOU AND TERRIBLY MISS YOU SHHINE ON SPREAD THEM WINGS AND FLY XOXOXOOXOX"
"Happy Birthday my amazing brother... Not a day goes by that I don't think of u and miss u as much as the first day u left us.... Dj I don't think any of us will ever accept that u had to leave but we deal day to day because we have to.... Hoping u have a wonderful day in heaven until we meet again I love you yesterday I love you still always have and always will fly High my sweet loVing brother"
"hey there bubba well tomorrow is your birthday is tomorrow you would have been 51 my heart will be heavy tomorrow as i think of you often and your kids came to see me when they were here it was nice to see them there grandma ranieri toms mother passed away which you probably already know i sure do miss you bubba and the fact i cant seem to get past that i cant hear your voice or see your smiling face til we meet again always remember i love and miss you dearly bubba think of you quite often fly high my sweet brother SHINE ON xoxoxoxoxoxooxooxoxo"
"hey there Bubba i have been thinking about you alot lately your birthday is this month you would have been 51 that day is gonna be hard just like any other day as i cant seem to ease this pain they say time heals all wounds welll i am here to say they lie as it still seems like yesterday that you left us.Your son tyler e to moved with his mother and never said by me and i was the only one that took him when he wanted to stay with us and your baby dylan has your shot gun as we knew you would want him to have it he hurt me as well never said bye but it is what it is i guess..mom and dad are getting worse bubba they do nothing mom plays on here tablet everyday all day does nothing to help around the house and Blake is having a hard time with it all i make sure they go to the doctors and take there meds yes but that isnt it we are all watching them weither away and michelle seems to think i took over on our parents no i didnt no one else would take them so jim and i did to make sure they would take care of themselves i dont know what more i can do maybe you can send signs or something to get them to do more dad went and said he doesnt feel like living anymore and that hurts as i lost you cant handle that yea dad and i may argue everyday as we are to much alike but that doesnt mean i dont love him....well bubba i will post again soon but ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU TERRIBLY FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER TIL WE MEET AGAIN XOXOXOXOX"
"hey there Bubba i first want to say i love and miss you terribly the pain isnt easing at all there is alot going on as mom and dad arent getting any better they stay in there room all day everyday i understand there pain as all of us have the same pain..i have been thinking about u alot lately and i cant seem to stop thinking you are alone even though your not sometimes it drives me crazy as there was alot that i needed to say to you before you left and never got the chance to maybe that is why i cant stop thinking your alone not a kiss bye or a i love you and a hug as i am completely lost without that you were my protector now i dont have that and i am scared.i really need you as Blake is out of control with his temper and that thing of a gf he flips out alot and i am getting him in the doctor to see what they can do he cried and said i wish my uncle was here so i could talk to him he is lost he says he lost his best friend as we all did i know you would snatch him up and have hime recheck himself ha ha ha that is what he needs.And i have kept my promise with taken care of mom and dad just need your guidance with all that business,,Ok i have bored you enough gonna close for now ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE AND MISS YOU BUBBA FLY HIGH MY SWEET BROTHER TIL WE MEET AGAIN XOXOXOOXOXOXOXOXXOO"
"i love and miss you terribly bubba you maybe gone but NEVER FORGETTEN fly high my sweet brother shine on xoxox"
"Well my brother today you have been gone for 3 years and it still seems like yesterday the pain hasnt eased up any as i am always waiting for you to walk threw my door and say hey B*TCH and when you would leave i would get a hug and kiss even though you hated it but did it is hard for everyone when it comes to this day and your birthday you know they say timee heals all wounds well i am here to say they all lied as there are certain songs that make me cry thinking how i love and miss you dearly as we know you love and miss us as today it is raining and he has rained the last two years we needed the rain as everything is so dry thank you bubba....I have to go to the other website to write on there to ALWAYS REMEMBER I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU BUBBA XOXOXOOXOOXO"
"So today is the day we celebrate your life ... u left us 3 years ago D it never gets easier and the pain still hasn't gone away... even tho I continue to live life not a day goes by that I don't think of u and miss u more and more... I know u try to watch over all of us one by one and I also know u r a busy guy so with that said please just let us know u r near today.. seems every year it rain on your day I love u and I'll see u again someday and I know u will welcome me with open arms until that day shine on my brother .... and fly high please be close to mom and dad today...."
"Just wanted to stop and drop a little note to let u know u crossed my mind.. I still miss u as much as the day u left it seems to be a nightmare I want to forget but I can't I know u r around me at times and I do talk to u a lot because it gives me comfort Dj I wld do anything to have one more moment with u because I really do need my big brother I know I'm safe with u being my Angel who walks beside me and comforts me when I'm sad or scared I see u all around me and still some days I smile other days I cry... I miss u big brother good night and until we meet again I'll always hold u close to my heart......
Love always , Your baby sister"
"Good morning brother ..... Today I'm having a rough day and I find some comfort in being able to talk to u here... My life has been so hectic and I feel like I'm spiraling out of control and I can't seem to catch my footing so I guess what I came here for today is to ask for your help :( plz show me u r around and plz walk beside me so I know I'm safe.. nothing has ever been the same sense u left us.... It still hurts me just like it just happened I have very good days when I can smile at the thght of u other days I just sob uncontrollably time doesnt heal all wounds :( I love you bigbrother and all I need is a big bear hug from u and I know I'd be ok.... Fly high my sweet brother and I'll be watching for u...."
"Happy Birthday big brother... It has been raining on and off all day and the saying goes when it rains the angels are crying but I know today that isn't the case it's u trying to wash away our pain.. and the reason I say this is because today as ur smiling face flashed into my mind I looked out my window and I see a faint rainbow :) I tryed to snap a pic but that quick it was gone ik it was u letting me know u r ok and was your way to put my heart at ease... Thank u so much for that sign I will never forget u and I miss u more and more everyday.... Love you alwaysand forever..... Until we meet again my friend fly high and shine on.. spread ur wings and fly....."
"Hello my sweet brother ... I just wanted to let u know I miss u so much... I know u r around me with the signs u give.. But it still sucks that u r hone I know u don't want us to be sad but what r we to do?? Its not getting any easier for any of us:( my heart is broken just as much as I was the night u left... I LOVE YOU MY BEST BROTHER.. fly high and know we miss u soooooo much"
"Good morning bubba it is sure cold out today the sun is shining today sure miss you as i remember having snowball fights or playing tackle football even though it was cold we always played anyways.bubba i need you to help me understand why you left us as my heart is broken and there is an empty spot there that can never be filled as i dont have you it is not easy to go on with life because your gone and i promised you when i kissed you at the hopsital we would take care of mom and dad for you.....i love you and miss you bubba terribly everyday plz watch over all of us hugs and kisses sent to heaven for you from all of us makd sure you catch them all fly high my sweet brother i love you and miss you bubba xoxoxoxoxox"
"Good morning bubba the sun is shining today as i know you had something to do with that you have to be proud of berta as she is car two in penneville and ed is car two in phoenix see they are doing it for you as you loved being a firefighter so plz watch over them when they respond to a call... i love you and miss you so much bubba xoxo"
"Hey bubba just stopping by to say I love ypou and miss you terribly fly high our sweet brother XOXO"
"I love you...."
"dj i cant not seem to come to understand why you had to leave us as the hurt is not getting any easier just worst because i cant see your smiling face or hear your wise cracks.Especially if i need a bear hug who is gonna give me them i lay in bed at night thinking of all the things we did as kids and i remember playing tackle football in the middle of the road in winter time and everyone wanted DJ on there team i wonder why that was lol.I remember the fights we all used to get into who was there to break it up Dj as you always used to say knock the shit off and we always did because we were scared lol...god i love you and miss you so much it tears me up inside.We all had our ups and downs but when there was a problem we all came together and helped out..I remember being at the hospital the first time you were in december i sat at your bed side and you were complaining about the oxygen you had to wear I said you need it so use it then the last time you got out of the hopsital Jim and I came got you and when i got there you were already dressed and i said you didnt wait for anything to get dressed you said you wanted out of that place then you complained they brought you down in a wheel chair boy you didnt like that but dealt with it,......I was talking with mom awile back and she said she had a dream you were walking up my driveway asking her where she has been she said wendys lol you know where to find them and we were watching tv one day and the tv switched channels and we know it was you not wanting to watch that tv show that is ok come visit us anytime day or night bubba as we all miss you and love you dearly rest in peace my sweet brother hugs and kisss sent to heaven for you xooxoxoxoxoxoxo from all of us I love you bubba"
"My dear sweet D.j..U ALWAYS HAD A SPECEIL PLACE IN MY HEART...you are miss so much by your family n friends....I have always thought of u...R.I.P.... Love u .....love aunt marge"
"My dearest brother we can't say how much we miss u because we can't find the words:'( Everyone says that time will heal all wounds but loosing u had to have the been the worst thing I have ever had to endure in my life... When I was younger I always thought all the people I loved the most would live forever :( and in which case I wish this was the case with you... Dj I know u r watching over us everyday and doing your best to keep us out of harms way but I would give anything to have you back here to not have to feel this pain anymore or to have to wear you around my neck to keep you close... Maybe I'm being selfish because the saying is only the good go fist but I want you here in the flesh to see you smile to hear your laughter to be able to hear your voice.. (wishful thinking) So with all this said rest easy My Brother fly high and shine on I love you and miss you so much... Until we meet again please make us understand why u had to go and help us with the pain... Butterfly kisses"
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