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Leave a tributeAfter his latest treatments were cancelled and he was put into hospice care, my brother, Jason, and I were both able to travel to see him. This time we all knew it would be the last time. We’re lucky to have had the opportunity to say goodbye. Not everyone gets that chance.
One of my favorite moments of our last visit was when my dad’s friend came over and introduced himself to me and Danielle and the following exchange happened between him and my dad.
Dad’s friend (giving him shit): “Wow you have such a handsome son! And look at his Fiance! How did YOU manage to have all of these great looking people around?!?
Dad (giving it right back): “Then how do you explain all of my ugly friends?”
The day I learned of his passing I was scheduled to do a show. I DID NOT want to do a show. But there was more to it than the obvious reason of not wanting to put on a smiling face. The thing is - My dad taught me how to juggle. It’s been my profession ever since. I was afraid being on stage would be a constant reminder of what had just happened. It definitely was – but in a better way than I could’ve imagined. I was able to internally dedicate the show to my dad and it was perfect. I had a great crowd. I was totally at ease. I cracked a few new jokes and even threw in some new juggling tricks 100% flawlessly. It turned out to be exactly what I needed… And exactly what he would’ve wanted.
On our last day together, I asked him to tell me his favorite memory of us was when we were growing up. He said, “When you guys were first learning how to juggle.”
Mine too.
As we grew up we challenged each other always. at swimming, golfing, deep sea fishing, and especially cooking. I loved it when you had to call me for one of YiaYia's recipes! I had a blast when you lived with me Phil and the kids in Kingwood! And the time you stayed with us in Baton Rouge, you loved feeding those horses! Every time I make spanakopita and tiropita I will think of you. And I will be sure to send Pho my baklava when I make it. I'm so happy for your eternal joyfulness now, sleep well baby brother.. Have fun joking with mom and give Mom Dad and YiaYia a big wet YiaYia kiss and hug from me! XOXO
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This Is from Aunt Bonnie Hyder ( Grandma Jean's Sister
Just a note to let you know you are in our thoughts. I'm the only one left of of my family, I know what it is like to lose a brother.I lost 6 ,guess I was closest to my youngest brother ,all the other boys started their own life,but lived nearby. when my younger brother Charlie(Buvvie)died my world came to a screaming halt. not a day goes I don't think of him and I ball him out for what he did. My mother told me our Charlie was destined to die,our Uncle Charlie was killed WW11 age 25 ,married 6 mo. my Charlie was named after Uncle Charlie, my Charlie died age 25 married 6mo. Mom said my Charlie looked just like Uncle Charlie teeth,hair.
Aunt Bonnie
Uncle David
I will always remember Great times spent in Hilton Head with Uncle David, Gramma Jean, and the rest of the family. Those are some of my best childhood memories. He was always everyone's favorite, fun Uncle. I also got the opportunity to become close with him when I was around 20 years old and he was living with us. We would spend many nights just hanging out and talking about life.He was always easy to talk to, understanding and never judgemental. Always supportive. Those are moments I will truly Cherish. I have many memories with him, whether it be crabbing in Hilton Head, coloring Easter eggs with us, cooking one of his Greek dishes for us, or hanging out at mom's playing euchre. I will miss those times, but hold those memories close to my heart. I feel very grateful that I got to spend that time with him and call him "uncle" while he was here with us.