Hello,
I was lucky enough to have David as a brother-in-law. I can only second all of the thoughts and sentiments expressed in this memorial. So, I thought I would share some stories about David. There are many, but I picked two.
As background, my husband Roger (who is now in memory care) and David were Allene Hickman Gibson's two son-in-laws. They did not have much in common; Roger was tall and heavy, David not so much. David was a California guy; Roger grew up in rural Ohio. David had an MBA; Roger has a master's degree in Latin American studies. David had a successful career; Roger bounced around a lot as a computer programer. David loved golf; the last time Roger played was as a private in the Army
But they had that bond; Allene as their mother-in-law. I know that they probably had stories about her that they wouldn't even share with Beth and me. But here are two stories about these two that Beth and I always chuckle about.
Story # 1: In 1992, the Hickman side of the family was having a July 4th reunion at our cabin in southwestern Colorado. The Hickman clan is proud of having roots in the "Western Slope" of the Colorado Rockies; proud of being hunters, fly fishers, mountain bikers, back packers, etc. Roger and David did not have the creds of being from the Western Slope, flatlanders were they.
The eve of the Fourth, everyone was outside watching the men demonstrate their barbecue skills on the barbie in the front yard. Either David or Roger, I am not sure which, spotted something move on the hill above on the pasture. The spotter thought it looked like a bear. But it couldn't be a bear; David and Roger knew that the common wisdom was that there hadn't been any bear in the Dolores River valley for decades. So instead of asking a Hickman to verify the siting (being afraid that he would be embarrassed if it wasn't a bear) the spotter consulted with the other flatlander. The two concurred that it was a bear and announced it to the group. Much excitement ensued, with others confirming the siting, thank goodness. A verified bear siting and the cabin has never been the same.
Story #2. Allene was always frugal with money, but she could become absolutely tightfisted when it came to buying gifts. Our kids would roll their eyes at the regifted items they got. After one Christmas, I mentioned to Beth that Mom had really outdone herself; she had given Roger two linen handkerchiefs as his present. Beth exclaimed, "Roger got two? David only got one!" Mom had bought a box of three and had divvied them up....... I ascribe Roger's preferential treatment to the fact that he had ten years on David as a son-in-law.
David, you done good, and I miss you.
Mary