It is difficult to put into such a small space enough words to describe a man like David Charity and what he meant to those who knew him. He was a friend to everyone; he made strangers feel like family and always saw the good, in people and in situations. He had a passion for Christ and strived to be the Godliest husband and father that he could. There was never a joke he didn’t get or a situation he couldn’t learn to laugh about. His heart was the widest and the deepest. There was no person too hopeless that he wasn’t willing to invest his time and money into him or her. He saw in people what they often couldn’t see in themselves, he saw who they could be. He always saw what things could be. He knew how to dream big and imagine the impossible. David never forgot how to have fun, never lost that spark for life. He kept up with his grandchildren and had a laugh that could fill a room. No matter how busy he was he never made you feel like he didn’t have the time. He would stop and listen, drop everything to help, and was always there. The world was a brighter place with him in it and he will be missed more than words can hope to express. The lives he has touched and the people that knew him are better for it. He would love nothing more than to know that his big heart for others would continue to live on in those he knew. We will miss you until our days on this earth are done David, but we will remember you by being the hands and feet of Christ in this world just as you always were. Until we meet again.
David had a special place in his heart for children in need and especially those in need of a family, so in lieu of flowers the family suggests donations to Bartow Family Resource Center or to his beloved nephew who, as a pastor on a limited budget, is in the process of raising money to adopt a child out of the foster care system.
Bartow Family Resources
At Bartow Family Resources, we understand the difficulties of an unplanned pregnancy and strive to be a safe haven for women who need someone to talk to about their options. We exist to serve women and their families by fostering a Christ-like view of life, which empowers them to make life affirming decisions to protect the unborn, establish healthy relationships, and create lasting life skills.
http://www.bartowrelationships.com
McDaniel Adoption
"Adoption is something that has been on our hearts for quite a while. We fostered children in FL for a year and had 19 little ones come in and out of our home. Never knowing when we were going to get a call, or when the little ones that we had were going to leave us. These children have been through terrible and unthinkable situations, and many times we only get a fraction of their story. ...And this is why we are choosing to adopt out of the foster system."
https://www.gofundme.com/McDanielAdoption
A memorial will be held on Sunday July 16th, 2017 at 3pm at 17 Cedar Creek Rd NW Cartersville GA, 30120.
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Leave a tributeThere was that time that Mac and I took a van full of drama kids (including Jenni) to Les Miz and David was to meet us at the Wendy's on Chastain by KSU. Well, he was waiting patiently (I think) in his truck. But then it was time for the Wendy's crew to close up and go home, but they were afraid because there was "This Man" sitting in his truck (for a long time) in the parking lot!! So they called the police.
As the officer approached David, he informed him that he was "packing heat". I don't know any more of the details of the "discussion" between David and the officer, but I'll guess it was QUITE interesting!
I'll await Jenni's corrections to this story if I flubbed it up.
I'm certain that you and Mac are busy worshiping our Savior with no more need for birthdays! But many down here miss you!
With deep sympathy,
Ashley Rodgers & Hanna Johnson
Jess Hightower Tomlinson
David told me about his barn kit business and I told that I put up pole barns in my youth and always enjoyed it. He mentioned that he was going to put a crew together and put up his own kits. One Sunday he asked me if I was ready to go back to work and I said of course. This was just the beginning of our great adventures together. He, Ben and I were the permanent members of the crew in the beginning Even though some days were diamonds and others were stones David was able to somehow turn those stones into the brightest diamonds you could possibly imagine. Now he is doing the same thing for our Lord Jesus.
This is so hard with all of the memories flooding back.. We could talk and listen to each other for hours about just anything.. It's so hard to say goodbye to my best friend.. It's hard to remember that it's not about me when grief grabs you by the throat..
My wife, Aisha wrote some notes for a friend who had to speak at a church about his experience in the FDNY during 9-11. The following is a excerpt from her paper that God inspired her to write one morning at 3:00am. Quote " We were created to be beacons of light in a dark world. Matthew 5:14 states" You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on a stand and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven" End quote
David was that light on the stand illuminating everyone who crossed paths with him. His light still shines brightly through all of our memories.
Until our paths cross once again.
Wayne & Cheryl Hughes
Jess Hightower Tomlinson
I am so sad that he has left us so soon, but God knows why and who am I to question that. He is in my heart forever and forever with our Lord Jesus.
For David's family
Psalm 23
The Lord is my Shepherd ----- that's a Relationship!
I shall not want ----- that's Supply!
He maketh me to lie down in green pastures ----that's Rest!
He leadeth me beside the still waters -----that's Refreshment!
He restoreth my soul ----- that's Healing!
He leadeth me in the paths of righteousness --that's Guidance!
For His name sake ----- that's Purpose!
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death--that's Testing!
I will fear no evil ----- that's Protection!
For Thou art with me ----- that's Faithfulness!
Thy Rod and Thy staff comfort me ----- that's Discipline!
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies------that's Hope!
Thou annointest my head with oil ----- that's Consecration!
My cup runneth over ----- that's Abundance!
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life----that's Blessing!
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord ----- that's Security!
Forever ----- that's Eternity!
God's love never ends. Be strong in the Lord and in the power of HIS might.
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David was absolutely dear to me here in Maine, one of my favorite cousins. I always felt close to him even when he moved to Florida. I missed him a lot. He always had a tender heart and was very kind and considerate plus lots of fun. I will see you soon Dear David! With Jesus! We can catch up on all those years....forever.